You don’t deserve for anyone to try to hurt you. You are better than that. Leave him.
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Kick him to the curb. That’s not a real man. And those women it’s called photo shop
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He is married he isnt dead…but to use it to get to you knowing it ruined your first marriage…that’s just evil…
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Value yourself. It is hard to do when people tear you down, but only you can do it. Been in your shoes same with husband 1 and 2. I made it and have someone to value me. Hang in there.
don’t let porn tear you down porn is fake it suck those guys in cuz they no nothing about having compassion. the women on there is fake and it is scripted. That is why they are called (payed actors). Porn is the last place you should learn how to properly have sex
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If you can do it…leave this guy and don’t look back. Don’t wait 20 yrs for him to change and then realise it isn’t ever going to happen! Don’t waste the best years of your life with a loser. He is using mental abuse on you. This is not love.
It’s cruel he’s a bully you won’t change that . Leave and fix yourself. Get professional help a therapist or support group you are not alone
Your better then that leave while you can there’s no telling what else he’s doing
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Watch it with him… find out why he likes it… turn it into something that can be used in the bedroom
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Stand your ground.know your worth.You are smarter than he thinks.Get it together and if you can walk away do it proudly. Never let any man mistreat you whether it’s verbally and physical. Life is to short.Good luck.
My X started with pron than went to pron with animals I found this out just before I found child pron. He is in prison, and I will NEVER have another man in my life… be careful and watch.
Get rid of the leopards. They can’t change their spots.
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Sorry don’t put yourself down if he use it to get to you use it against him tell him you like him to do you like the men in the porn, you are stronger than you think put yourself first always use his weapon against him.
Get rid of him. He’s manipulating and hurtful. Fix you. Then look at a new relationship. But ditch the guy now!
Sometimes we need to learn about Red flags Asp it’s not gonna stop so leave or live with it for me I’m out
You shouldn’t measure yourself up to anyone, and if he’s using it as a tool to hurt you, you don’t need him for a spouse, leave him and move on, he’s destroying self esteem and worth about yourself. There are all types of men and women in porn so there’s nothing to measure up too.
Get you one bigger than his then say see what the fugg you did made me do…
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If he puts you down because I’m his mind you “measure up” to the ladies in the porn movies, remind him that he doesn’t “MEASURE UP” either!
A husband should try to build you up not tear you down.
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Cut off the cable so he can’t watch it!
First off… you should be GLAD you don’t ‘measure up’ to those in porn! They are disgusting human beings to be in one! Second… sounds like you have married someone no better then your first!. Need to reevaluate your entire relationship and think bout ending it…and wherever you met those two yahoos, don’t go anywhere simular to look for love in the furture!
How exactly does he use it to hurt u ?
leave him because its mental and emotional abuse that u dont need in your life
Well, 1st off know you are a queen!.. and they are paid to look ok … but you have a purpose. Serve your gifts to the world and be free…
A good man will love you for the heart and person you are inside. And not expect anything your not comfortable with.
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Leave and let him have the porn life is too short to put up with that crap
Grab some popcorn and sit down watch it with him. Show him you’re not bothered.
Kick em both to the curb. You are a daughter to the King. They don’t deserve you. Talk to Jesus. Read His Word. There’s where you’ll find who you really are. And then pray for them.
I would talk to your spirital adviser or marriage counselor, if there is no change is his behavior I would leave him.
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Why are you trying to measure up to them on the porn?
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Take away his penetration privileges for 2 months. He’s on oral duty only
Don’t compare yourself to anyone! No person is worth putting you down. Wish him well.
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they are not right for you…you will find one who will not use it that way…stay strong.
Porn contributed to the dimiss of my second marriage… Once he lets it in it quickly becomes an addiction… The secret keeping, and lying destroyed all trust…
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WHY DO YOU PUT UP WITH MEN LIKE THAT IF THEIR BEHAVIOUR BOTHERS YOU? You can leave if you want to. Take control of your life. You need to do some introspection and work on yourself because you keep on marrying the wrong man. Once you have a strong sense of self you won’t tolerate nonsense from people who mistreat you.
Dump him, let him find his trash and have it, someday he’ll try grappling to get you back and by then you’ll be happy in a normal relationship
Leave now. Preserve your dignity. You are so deserving of so much more
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Like others have said i would turn it around on him. Say well you dont exactly look like him or perform like him. I dont think he would be so quick to open his fat mouth. Besides porn is so fake. They are having sex but they are actors. They do retakes, they do makeup, they make sure the camera angle is right. Then in the end some are still laughable. Most people arent going to be looking like no porn star. He needs to get over himself unless he is looking like Jason Mamoa or Channing Tatum himself. My husband and i laugh because reality is nothing like a porn.
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You don’t need to measure up to trash and filth.
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I would divorce his butt real quick…
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I just remind mine that he is neither rich enough or hung enough to ever get a woman like that. 
He laughs, cause he knows it’s true.
Your man can’t sexually perform if he doesn’t see porn. I read somewhere porn junkies have a serious addiction problem. Their brains chemicals isn’t normal.
You deserve the best, not someone like that. Love yourself, seek counseling if you have to but don’t allow your husband to hurt you that way.
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Watch it with him 
he cant touch them or have them so I wouldnt worry so much about it. It can only bother you if you allow it to.
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Leave he doesn’t love you if he did he wouldn’t be doing this
Pull up your big girl panties and divorce him. He doesn’t love you if he does this.
Tell him counseling to start and porn goes or you go he can’t have both
Omg, I’m not saying Christian men don’t look at open but id be looking for a different type of man
Leave him…he’s not worth it.
Leave him your better than that!
Leave live by yourself.you don’t need a man. To bring you up.you don’t need no man like that.
Leave and don’t look back!
Go to a lawyer tomorrow and get a divorce.
Maybe it it time for you to leave and let him live with his porn
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Watch with him , say if yours was like his:eyes: you would ride till you can’t ride no more. 
Ultimatum and or counseling
Say Bye Bye he Does NOT have any Respect for you:cold_sweat:
Kick his sorry butt out!
Get therapy and leave these losers behind.
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why are u there hes destroyed your self worth
Have great sex with him! Dress sexy! Your in control! Knock his socks off!
Kick him to the curb.
What a dick head! You are much better than this
Kick him to the curb…
Get Away FromThe Clown
Leave, period the man is sick
Leave him and his manipulation. You are worth so much more
Find a stranger make a porno and then make him watch it
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Makes me wonder if you had sex before marriage. Sounds like there is a lot of sex issues going on. Maybe learn to love someone, and then marry that person. Ya, I know. That’s laughable. 
Get rid of him. Know your worth. Stay single until you find someone who is worthy of you. PS…I’m sure your husband is no porn star, just a dink.
Don’t bang him for 3 weeks every time he does it, and tell him thats why.
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Porn is fake. The sex is fake. The orgasms are fake. Their bodies are fake…
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Why is it that only one person in all the comments actually calls pornography for what it is? Porn is evil born from the pits of hell! The enemy comes to steal kill and destroy. Steal the truth. Kill your sense of right and wrong and absolutely destroy your relationship with your significant other. Don’t fall for the lie. The enemy lies!! Porn is from the devil himself. Sex is a selfless act. Your spouses needs before your very own. Then you will see the beauty of true love and then porn will never be able to compete when two become one!!
I consider watching porn cheating right along with strip clubs and anything else that has to do with similar things. There is no reason for them to do any of it when they have a girl waiting for them at home.
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Don’t put yourself down because of some immature jerk. You are better then he is. Start looking at your good qualities I’m sure they are many. That just tells me he is insecure
If he uses it to hurt you. Dump his mean ass. You deserve a man who values you and would never play on your fears.
Make a porn video and share it with us. I’ll let you know how you did
Watch porn with him…might spice up ur sex life 
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LEAVE TODAY !!! He’s a narcissistic asshole and not likely to change.
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Tell him “that bitch can cook your dinner then” take your shit and walk out the door
Remember porn is fake
Who writes this shit??
Next time you have set just say very sincerely… that was ok but man I wish ur cock was as big as the guys in those porns then sigh and say but its ok honey I know u can’t help it and I still love you😉
Oh fuck him. Fuck him and burn everything he loves. He knows exactly what he is doing. What a cunt
You deserve much more
Learn to use porn to your advantage. Fovwhat Christina Weltman suggested
Make your own porn,some one who has a huge penis…invite hubby to “watch porn” with you and point out his short comings
Get someone better …he is trash!
We don’t tear down the ones we truly love
That’s verbal and emotional abuse. Not healthy at all. When you love someone and are in a happy relationship you dont try and hurt your spouse.
If it’s a non negotiable for you just leave. However weigh for yourself all the good that comes with this one bad. Lots of men watch porn and dont want to budge on it. So if your current guy watches porn and likes to make comments about it but hes also a great cook, does the dishes, has a good job and helps pay bills, appreciates you, etc. Then think about it because it’s likely you end up with someone else who watches porn but who doesnt do any of these other things. Talk to him tell him to stop mentioning the girls he sees in porn because its edited/fake so you will never measure up. I also agree with the others get some help yourself for your self esteem.
If someone intentionally hurts you, they don’t love you.
If you need to live up to porn, you need counseling. Your husband is an ass…