This is none of my business, I’m going to keep scrolling 
Talk about your expectations and boundaries.
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Haha y’all gonna hate me but, he committed to you the moment he married you and implanted a child in you, therefore his life revolves around you and your child, if he is away from his family for a whole weekend and not in a spare waking moment did he wonder about your safety or sanity he is an a**hole because it is the responsibility of a partner to protect and support the other, I will always say this what had happened if their was an emergency with that persons child both parents should be contactable at all times, for him to not be involved enough of a father to call his child and say good night or just make sure they are having a good day, you and your child deserve better
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I’d be mad but the way relationships grow is you get through things and talk about them and make sure doesn’t happen again. I don’t know it’s worth giving up your family and having your child grow up without his father in the home. This sounds more like ego to me than truly a reason to get a divorce.
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OMG! Are you you actually serious, and is your EGO so big that you couldn’t let your husband have a weekend with his brother to grieve and bond… instead of being a supportive wife, when he gets home you ask for a divorce? How old are you? And why did you thinknyour temper tantrum was even warranted… I am literally shaking my head right now. This is ridiculous…
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My husband goes hunting for a week once a year in a place with no cell service, so I don’t hear from him the whole week, until he is about 1/2 way home. We’ve been married going on 31 years.
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I can see where ur coming from but I think as long as u are not suspicious of anything then you are wrong in being so mad… i again can see where ur coming from but id try to get over that and apologize to him. Men are just soso sososo different than us. He was sure to message morming and night. he wouldnt have done that if he didnt care
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U shud of texted him during the day & facetimed him to see hi toddler. Its 2 days & him & his brother are reminiscing & very emotional
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Unless there is other signs of things then you just need to realize he’s grieving and bonding with his brother. He texted you in the morning and before bed that shows you were the first and last thing he thought of during the day. I do understand you wanting to talk more but some people grieve this way. Have you ever told him you would like it if he kept more in touch if he’s gone for a while? If not you can not have expectations like that if you did not communicate them. And going straight to divorce is absolutely over the line. You should’ve talked to him before jumping like that.
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Divorce seems a bit severe to me. You should sit down and explain how it made you feel and what your expectations were and are. And listen to his response. Men don’t always think the way women do. If it became a pattern of thoughtlessness that would be an issue. I just don’t think that was a deal breaker. Also you have a child to consider.
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I mean I’d be irritated but divorce? That’s thrown around so carelessly. Really think hard about you saying that him. Over him not calling you! He still texted you and your feelings of being upset he never called are valid but to act like a child and then say you want a divorce is immature and ridiculous. How about being mature and talking to him
Beforehand so he knows your expectations and explain to him why you are hurt and then apologize and never ever throw around divorce again just bc of something like that
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Lady you need to grow up and put your big girl panties on!!! Smh
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He should take the divorce and run 
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I honestly feel like this is a joke 
that’s how ridiculous it is
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I’m having the same issue. I wouldn’t of asked for a divorce over one incident but I would definitely be asking since serious questions
I can understand you needing more contact but a divorce over this, really?? I think you need communication between the two of you now more than ever. Like I said being upset I really understand but I don’t understand the divorce comment!
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He should call you once a day when gone. When my guy has to go back home to his family farm to do stuff like bailing hay or butchering for the weekend I know he’s busy but I do get irritated if he doesn’t call me before he goes to bed on Saturday. I don’t say anything or hold it against him but I understand your hurt.
If that’s all it takes to want a divorde, she already wanted one. Just waiting on an excuse.
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But he did contact you. Did you call him & he not answering you?
He did contact you…he texted
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Going to such extremes over something like this doesn’t sound logical. I wonder what this lady would do if a major emergency would arise?
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If he left that fast after you telling him you want a divorce, he wanted a way out.
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Seems like there’s more to the story
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My hubby is lucky to get a call from me on my girls trip… and he deals with all the kids, dog, cats, and chickens etc… I barely text him as well… maybe some after everyone is in bed. If it bothers you so bad you need to communicate that… not just get mad and spout off about divorce…
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He contacted you twice a day. Make your own time. If you don’t have/want a girls weekend, then make it a family weekend…. Cuz that’s a lame excuse for getting divorced.
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…that was a LOT dramatic. I think everyday this group has more and more posts from people that make me want to bang my head on the wall. He went on a sentimental guys trip with his brother….chill the fuck out and ask how it went. You sound almost controlling and clingy. You are totally in the wrong in my opinion.
Really? If you can’t trust your man to be away and not call for a few days, you already have problems, then wash your dirty laundry in public? Wonder how he would feel about that? Think about the Military wives? Grow up
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This is not grounds for divorce
He texted that more than nothing, be realistic he did contact you.
You females want to bring up a break up/getting a divorce over the most petty ass stupid bullshit all the time and you still expect it to sting when y’all say it. Lmao y’all childish as hell and think we gon take it as a threat. I’d have left too. Clearly you needed some more time to yourself.
“Thank god he says …I’m out “
My guy has a “guys” only trip once a year and I’m happy to get a text. They are men blowing off steam. Divorce seems like you are looking for a reason to bail. 
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Sorry but to go to such an extreme is pretty petty. Shit what if they where having an emotional time like seriously. If you make every little thing about you then don’t be surprised when nothing is about you anymore
Just an excuse to get out of being married
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Well he dodged that bullet didn’t he, you a damn psycho
How do you even think you are in the right??
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“Dealing with” your dog and toddler?? Um ok… Its called parenting and being a responsible pet owner. Shouldnt make it sound like an obligation.
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Wow, you sound psychotic with a large side over of trust issues. Did he do anything to lose your trust other than have fun on a weekend with this brother. You’ve never gone somewhere for two or three days and not let him know everything you were doing? Seriously… you need to talk to someone… else… please don’t contact me.
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… a text once in the morning and once at nite isn’t considered contact???
This seems very needy and childish. And YOU say you want a divorce?
You COULD have gotten a sitter and went for a girls nite. Or, went to a movie. Or just stayed at home and enjoyed your toddler on your terms. Or, taken your toddler to the park or something.
Sounds like you need to find yourself… you don’t need him to validate you… for 2 short days… or do you?
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I get this. Whoever goes out of town usually calls to check in. Make sure the toddler is ok. Make sure you’re ok. I think you could’ve just worded it differently. But I would say red flag on your husband that it wasn’t a natural instinct to call every day and make sure you and baby are safe and everything is ok.
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No, you being a total controlling bitch. A divorce would be the best thing that ever happened to him
Shit my ex-husband used to work outta town for months at a time. I was LUCKY if I got even one text.
Wow at least he messaged you! He was away at a place that meant something to him n his brother. Give him a break lol.
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You knew where he was so what’s the issue ? Did you offer to be there for your husband ? You sound quite selfish. Did your husband recently lose his parents ? If so he’s still grieving.
Ooooh you knew what you were getting yourself into by posting this
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Get over it….There is a lot more going on here.
He’s grieving his parents with his brother in a sentimental place and you expect his world to revolve around you still. Girl, pack your bags and run along cause he deserves better than you anyway.
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Surprised he didnt leave sooner
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You are totally irrational. He should be able to go on a vacation or visit other family members without having to worried if he should call u every 5 minutes. He called in morning and at night…you should have been happy about that.
When people get married…they shouldn’t be criticized for yearning to spend quality time with family who were there before you.
You should be happy they went on this trip. You should encourage this bonding. The bond between siblings is a different bond than between and husband and wife. Life is too short… nobody lives forever. There may come a time when one of them are forced to live without the other. The sibling or siblings left behind will cherish the memories they had. And will tell their children and grandchildren stories about it for generations. As a wife I would not want to be the one who got in the middle of that.
What if one sibling doesn’t have long left to live?
Did you even make your husband feel as if you truly cared about how their trip and how it went? You sound selfish.
If you need more… you do.
But you should also take time to see his needs as well.
That’s how marriage works
What would he do if it was you who went away and didn’t call?? You must have felt very left out/excluded. Usually hard times or sadness is shared between couples?. I wonder why you didnt go? Did he suggest he didn’t want you there? from the hurt in your words that must be the case. To me it sounds like he had time out of your relationship. My motto is … “if it’s okay for you …its ok for me…”
You sound a bit insensitive and entitled
Sounds like never calling your nagging ass would be the best decision this bloke makes.
Lauren Gudmann this page is wild
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Did u call him? He was grieving and just maybe needed u to do more communicating 
If you did go to grieve then you are being very selfish.
This 1 thing didn’t lead to you saying “I want a divorce” there is more to it
Geeze your husband text you in the morning and at night before bed what is the issue?
He was spending some quality time with his brother at a place that was sentimental to them both.
Im sure they could’ve used the quality time together, without feeling he was being nagged.
In order for a relationship to work you need to have trust, it sounds like you don’t have trust in your marriage.
A divorce is extreme.
Not to mention it seems he missed you since he was trying to give you lovins when he got home.
Smh