Love your mom and stay or love your mom and move. Either way love and respect your Mom!
Just buy extra for your momma 
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If my mother was still here , I would definitely feed her!
I wish my mom was still here,she could have anything I have,you don’t know until they’re gone
Move into your own place and quit bitching over bread
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Wow!!! You live in your moms home!!! enough said!
Oh My Lord …I have never heard of such ,she gave you a roof over your head growing up,and I am sure she fed you!!
Keep your stuff in a cooler in your room.
You might want to move on your own if you can’t share😊or buy extra for the house.
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??? ARE you paying your %%% of rent of house payment AND WATER AND ELECTRICITY!!! HER WATER AND ELECTRICITY BILLS WILL BE HIGHER WITH MORE PEOPLE IN HER HOUSE. BE MATURE AND GRASP REALITY!!
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Oh damn she ate all the groceries but heyyyy my husband is a blessing 
Get a separate food pantry and fridge!
Keep it in your room
Put a mini fridge in your room. Lock it up.
Your own mini fridge.
Uhhhh! You’re living there rent-free aren’t you? 
Hello she’s ur mum did u pay her for taking care of u wen u were young abeg allow the woman enjoy biko
Lock up the food. Shame on mom. She should know better. Hell get a mini fridge and a bin for food
Buy a mini fridge and lock it w a lock. Lol. Seriously
Put it in your room. If not, it’s on you.
Ik that’s right…I would buy her gro if she were here to eat it!!
Find your own place…
Your mother feed you all your life!!
hid what you can in your room and only bring out what you need for your son every day
Hell no… keep it in your room and that way she can’t just take it.
put your groceries a separate place from hers
Operative words staying with mom .Are you paying rent,utilities ???
Your right Julie Wardlaw. I.hate how we learn that to late in life
Buy food for all or move
Get your own storage space for your groceries
Keep everything in you’re room
Move out or suck it up buttercup!
Someone is selfish 
Keep your food locked up!
Real simple move out! Her house her rules.
Keep in ur room and put a lock on the door
She is sharing her home with you and your kid and you won’t share your food?!?! I have no words!
So your mom fed you during your childhood and now your too greedy to feed her?? WOW
Tell the bully to act like a mom and take care of you and you son . Mothers make sacrifices for their kids your mother I don’t know what to call her I think she needs help😡
Put all the food you can in a bin in your room. Then start looking for another place to live. That’s some passive aggressive crap.
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Excuse Me?
You ARE STAYING AT YOUR MOM’S HOUSE WITH YOUR SON.
How much are you paying in rent for 2 people, utilities, and Extras?
Suck it up and buy an extra loaf of bread.
You are Blessed she took you in at all!
What’s Wrong With You?
Best advice you can do
MOVE THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR MOM HOUSE
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Either have her pay or lock it all up.
you, ate her food…your hole life. shallow.
I would buy extra of what she is eating… well if you run short see if you can get a loan from your mom until payday and well just keep repeating until you can move out
well, makes me, happy never had a daughter.
Move out!!! Your grown
Move out… problem solved!
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Sad that you can’t get past this …
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Yes get your own place
well get your own place
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It really doesn’t matter if the roles are reversed, what it comes down to is mutual respect for each other and to stay out of the groceries. When I moved in with my dad in the beginning stages of his cancer I bought my own groceries and he never touched them and it wasn’t because he wasn’t eating, it was the respect he had for me. Only rule was no beer in the fridge, that was taken to his shop where the beer fridge was.
Get your own place asap fr
Are you paying to stay with your mom if your staying for free then buy extra for her , u could be paying rent , gas , electric , how rude of you !!!its your mom !!!
Well because this page is called “My husband is a Blessing” I’ll add my 2 cents. I can see both points, when living with someone, especially a parent sharing food shouldn’t be a big deal. On the other hand it can be frustrating to try and take care of your child while being taken advantage of by your own parent. Pobody is nerfect. With that said, anyone who reads the Good Book and believes in God knows it is written that we “honor our mother and father”. That is a big deal to God. Even if our parents take advantage of their authority over us. We all sin and fall short of God’s glory. It’s all good though, keep doing the right thing, JESUS said if someone asks to borrow your coat, you should even go as far as to let them have it. Again it sounds different to do, especially to someone who is being rude or mean. He also said to bless and pray for our enemies. He also said that vengeance is His and He will repay. Let Him carry your burdens of provision for your family, frustrations with your mom and watch Him cause miracles to happen. When we follow Him, love Him and love others, amazing things start to happen! We are called to care for our children and they are called to care for us in our old age just as we care for our parents in their old age. It says more of your character to allow her to eat from your groceries. If she is doing it out of spite then you allowing it is like dumping hot coals of shame over her head. I speak peace over your heart, provision over your family and protection over the relationship between you and your mother and child/ren in JESUS Name.
I could see you complaining if it was a friend or a roommate, but WTF?? It’s your Mother!! She gave birth to you, raised you! Put a roof over you and food on the table! Shut the front door, and your pie hole too! 
my moms eating our bread wah 
wah! Whining little bitch!
does she babysit for you? Some day she won’t be around and this is such a great memory for you, you must be so proud of yourself.
Omg, i would never do this with my own mother. I just can’t, for you crying about food specially if it’s your own mother the person who took care of you and feed you when you were little that eats it. For me you are a big piece of shit. Oh and to answer your question, don’t like it than move your ass to another place and pay your own rent elsewhere that way you might stop bitching.
Lock it up and keep the receipts for everything you buy since your mom wants to be greedy and take from your cihld.
Get a life you pratt
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How stupid is it to even bring this shit up your all family so what if your mother who raised you eats your food buy more
Keep a hidden bin in your car tf! Greedy ass mom! My mom would stop eating so my children didn’t go without! (Even though we are not raised that way and we all share!) In this case it seems like your mom is selfish! Let me add thats if you’re already struggling and still pay your way! Otherwise, just buy more food items when needed.
Get your own place move out mommy s boy
You don’t need advice, you need to find your OWN place
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Who puts this stupid shit on Facebook
Elijah Foster John Castle can you believe this crap?? This ungrateful brat is living in her moms home and mad because she took a piece of BREAD! I am so thankful for my family right now! these are my adult kids. They are welcome to anything I have and it goes the other way too! My GOOODDDD PEOPLE ITS A FREAKING PIECE OF BREAD!
Without knowing both sides of the story, its hard to give an opinion. You’re mom may not feel you’re “paying your own way”. Many times when children live with parents,they often don’t realize all expenses such as insurance, upkeep, property taxes, etc… Does your mom have the resources to cover all of this and still have money for her own food.
Hopefully you will be able to sit down and have discussion with your mom. It could be that she has more expense than you realize, and just hasn’t shared the information with you, because she doesn’t want to worry you.
That being said, you may consider getting an apartment or renting a home for you and your son if you are able to pay your own way. Praying all will work out with you and your mom.
It’s ur mother l myself would never even think about going separate on things like food or anything for that matter with any off my family what’s mine is there’s it’s outs and l know they are the same I’m 37 I still walk into my mums and help myself my girls do the same at my brothers or sisters house same and they all do it at mine god l even have friends that do it and l would give anything to be able to walk into my dads house go to the stove fridge help myself they won’t be here forever and the time we do have is never enough once they are gone
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WOW!!! After my divorce, I eventually moved back in with my parents. My Dad’s Alzheimer’s disease was worsening and my mom couldn’t care for him alone. After my dad passed, I stayed with my mom. During all this time, we split all the bills and the groceries. My Mom passed away 5 years ago, with me holding her hand in OUR home. I am grateful for the 15 years we had together, I would do it again in a heartbeat. In my opinion, if you’re blessed to still have either one or both of your parents, be thankful and don’t sweat the small stuff. #beenthereyouwonthavethemforever:broken_heart:
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If you already asked her and she continues start keeping stuff in your room or purchase a small refrigerator. If it continues try to find a place you can afford on your own
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My advice is to try and deal with it now and look for your own place ASAP. When you are living
in someone else’s home, you are pretty much at their mercy. 
bread is pretty cheap.
When I moved back home, i paid rent, bought groceries and put money towards Bill’s. My parents left MY KIDS food ALONE! If it’s for her kid her mom should respect that and leave it alone. You dont take food from kids!! Period. All of y’all pickin on this girl saying her mom should be allowed to eat whatever she wants lmao leave the kids food alone!
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It’s your mother, just remember, she birthed you and fed you, I would hope your child does the same for you even if it means he would have to live with you. I wish my mother lived with me, I would pamper her and care for her for all she has done for me growing up.
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Try to sit down and talk with her about this. A lot of times, communication is the key
Ok so I have some good sensitivities my mom doesn’t and when I still lived with her so her or the other 6 people living in her house wouldn’t eat my stuff I kept dry goods in a box in the closet in my room and I put a separate bin in the fridge for the stuff that had to be refrigerated.
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My parents never touched anything I bought, I didn’t care if they did or not. They just didn’t.
It’s your own Mother. You only get one in your lifetime!!
If it’s that big of a deal move out and get your own place then you don’t have to deal with your own MOTHER eating any of your food!!🤷🤷🤷
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Ooooookay… lots of judgmental comments here wow… if it were me I would sit down with her and tell her how her eating the food makes you feel and ask why she feels it’s okay to eat it anyway. If a resolution can’t be made with open and honest communication then I would start keeping the non refrigerated food in my room. In a tote in a closet or under the bed.
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I would be irritated at that… mother or not. It IS a big deal and for everyone who saying it isn’t because she gave birth to you- that is SO wrong. My daughter is 7 and has an anytime snack drawer and I don’t even eat her food that I buy. It’s HERS. She has her snacks and I have mine. Just because you birth a child doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be boundaries BOTH ways. Especially since you’re obviously an adult. What she is doing is disrespectful in my opinion. And food is expensive on top of that… having to re-buy food over and over because someone else ate what you just bought is bullcrap. Why in the hell do people think just because you birth a child, you can disrespect them and treat them however. I’d seriously hate to have half of you as parents.
The mini fridge idea is great. I do agree that you should probably move out, however. If she isn’t respecting your boundaries about something as simple as food it’s probably best to get out before it escalates and becomes something else.
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“She’s your mom!” Ugh so what?! This woman probably works hard for her money and is trying to save so she can get her own place. She can’t save if she’s buying groceries for her mother too. Unless providing groceries for the entire house was part of the agreement of staying there, the mother has no business helping herself to food that isn’t hers!
My mom isn’t as financially set as me and my husband are but when she’s over she doesn’t just help herself. When my kids and I go stay for a visit and bring food, even though I buy for her too, she still doesn’t help herself. It’s called respect!
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I had this happen when we lived at my in-laws and they kept drinking last of milk bread the essentials in a toddlers diet to the point come Monday she had to starve as they ate everything the deal was we buy our own food and pay them rent at first I brushed it off but as soon as they made it so my daughter couldn’t eat I lost and now I’m glad I’m out of there my daughter never goes hungry now
Having only 1 mom is not exactly true, I’ve had 2!
Not all mothers act like mothers! I was adopted as a 6th grader, I always stayed in contact with my bio mother. As an adult my hubby and I sold our property and moved in with bio mom. It was the worse decision of my life, and even though I would make meals enough for her, she would eat my husband’s and sons lunch items!
When you live in rural America, it is a big deal.
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Have you actually witnessed your mother eating the stuff? If not you might consider how grandma’s are always sneaking the babies snacks here and there. She may be feeding some of it to your child as well.
If she is making you specifically pay for you and the child’s own food instead of just saying hey put this set amount towards food for the house…then yeah she shouldn’t be eating it.
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It’s only bread…all these comments.if she don’t want her momto eat food then move out on her own.she should be glad that her mom is alive.shes selfish and y’all know it…all of you going to hell.what I wouldn’t do to have my mom.she could eat everything in the house if she wanted.food is meant to be eaten.dam.
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I think in a home all expenses should be shared especially if u are already starting your family. There shouldn’t be “this is mine”. But both should buy. I would never keep my kids from eating anything I buy. Same as them.
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Sounds like your relationship with your mom is strained somehow? Maybe she assumes that it’s her house, so she can do what she wants? Either way, it’s rude.
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I got my son a mini fridge and little cupboard that I put his food in.
depends…are u paying rent down the middle? or is she paying most of it? if u both are paying everything down the middle…Bill’s, insurance, rent. etc…that’s another story…lock it away or get a fridge for ur room…need more context
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Get a mini fridge for your room and keep your dry foods in there as well? Super annoying, as groceries are expensive. I’d understand if she wasn’t charging you rent or bills, but if you’re paying your way plus supplying your own groceries, that’s expensive
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Can you put the food somewhere where she cant get to it. Maybe get a lock for your bedroom. I had the same problem with my mother in law when we moved in. But I have 3 kids to buy food for and she would constantly eat it and would even take it and pack her bag to go give to my boyfriends nieces (who have PLENTY of food) I took some of those plastic drawer organizers and started keeping it in our room, it was the only way to ensure my kids would get to eat it. It’s not being selfish wanting to make sure that your child gets to eat the food YOU bought him.
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Get a safe and mini fridge and keep it locked in your room. Don’t put it out for other’s to access if you don’t want to share. Also don’t touch the food/drinks she buys. It goes both ways.
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When I lived with people. I’d put my favorite food in my closet. Like cereal etc. No one touched it then. I’d keep it out of the pantry
I live in a house full of people. I bought a minifridge. What we dont want the family to get into, we keep in our room. Just end the fight that way. Get a decent mini-fridge come tax season if you can afford it. Or at least keep non-refridgerated food in your room.
Buy extra food it is your mom home and she did let you move in with her your mom won’t be around one of these days so let her have it. It is your mom you only have one of them
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I dont think its right that she does that if it’s an agreement for you to pay for the food for you and your child. My daughter lives with me and she pays for her food, dont care if I am her mother or not common decency is to ask before taken which I do. Since you tried talking to her and it didnt work, I suggest keeping the dry food in your room
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I don’t think it’s fair to compare a child who has no way to purchase things on their own to two GROWN ASS WOMEN living together. Regardless of the relationship.
It’s your mom you only get one that is true. But you don’t have to put up with someone not respecting your boundaries.
Adults should act like adults.
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Girl… that’s your mom. Lived with mine and it’s hard. She always going to see you as her child. Get your own place or hide the food in your car or wherever.
You keep hoping they grow up and get to move on with there own I’ve been waiting for them to grow up maybe it’s me that needs to grow up
Um, maybe invest in a fridge lock? They make them to protect kids. Might not be the original spirit of the product, but I’d say it applies.
You aren’t a freeloader. You don’t owe her anything. Your child is your priority. If your mom can’t accept that then that’s her problem.
Hmmmm why don’t you come up with a plan to include mom in meals? Like pay so much rent but agree to buy all food? In my culture food has to be shared. Hope this helps
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Lil more info needed here Does she buy any groceries?
Do u eat what she buys and cooks
Maybe the 2 of u just need to shop together and split the bill