My mom sent a provactive photo to my husband on accident: Advice?

Forgive her for heavens sakes and why would you broadcast it on social media! Kind of lowbrow

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I definitely think this is possible, I’ve sent texts and pics (not naked) to the wrong person plenty of times…do you think it is something she would do on purpose? You know about it so that means someone was honest about it. I’d say accident and just tuck it away in the back of your mind in case something else happens

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Michelle Columbia Smith read this and the comments. I died. Lol

I feel it’s immature to send a nude picture to anyone even her husband. That’s something teens do. In her defense though not tech savvy & I’m always sending texts to the wrong person. I receive texts meant for someone else too. If this is the first & only time then I’d believe her. But maybe have a talk with her that dad sees the real thing so she doesn’t need send him intimate pictures.

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Ive accidently send a dirty text message to my partners friend. Im luckt tje two of them have a messed up sense of humour and my partner pretended he sent it from my phone :joy::joy:

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Last week I sent a picture of my kid to my boss instead of my husband. :woman_shrugging:

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I’ve accidentally recieved them from a female relative… I would go with that it was an accident and never mention it ever lol

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Your hubby could be your new step dad :speak_no_evil::rofl:

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I did on accident before… I sent it to my cousin as he had the same name as my then boyfriend :flushed::eyes::grimacing:

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Something smells fishy in Denmark!

Your mom’s too old to be acting a fool like that lolz

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How EMBARRASSING :rofl::rofl::rofl:

I’d check phone history without telling of course. Do a little PI work to ease your mind. I don’t think you’re off for being concerned at all…

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As long as your husband deleted it right away shouldn’t be an issue but yeah I have do idea it is a little weired

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I mean unless your mom is that type of person where she would be cheating on your dad and trying to steal your husband then yeah I would say it was an accident. Ive sent texts to the wrong people many times not nudes, but some random texts and a few dirty words meant for my husband.

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It happens I’ve heard stories of grandma’s sending their grandkids pics they were not supposed to see… Not meant for their eyes lol forgive her, and for that matter even if your name is not on this… If she saw it she would suspect it’s you lol

It’s really easy to send messages to the wrong people. I do it often. I feel like more care should be taken with something like that, I always triple check it’s my husband I’m texting, but it could happen.

Talk to them, instead of broadcasting this on social media. It might be anonymous but to come here before talking to them isn’t the right decision. You’re assuming a lot and hurting all three of yourselves this way.

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Are their names close together in your contacts?

Yes? Then it very well could’ve been an accident.

No?? Wellll jate to say it, but she lyin.

Lol I’m sorry no way

How did you find out? If he told you, then you’re fine

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I think you know what type of mom you have. If she’s like that then by all means believe it was intentional. If she’s your typical blue collar mom, I’m sure you know it was more than likely an accident. I have sent texts to the wrong people before. Your man obviously told you so I think he did the right thing and on hus part you have nothing to worry about.

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Gonna be honest here… I’ve almost sent one to the wrong person. Wasn’t paying attention but I did catch it. Now I make sure I check before I do anything. So it is possible

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I accidentally posted a nude to my Snapchat story. I was texting a bitchy neighbor, screenshot all of our conversation and then tried to send it to a friend. Ended up accidentally sending it to the neighbor along with the accompanying text that said, “is it just me or is she being a c*nt?” And needless to say, that did not patch up the relationship :joy: Accidents happen, if he’s being straight forward about it and so is she, I wouldn’t worry a whole lot.

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It happens.
I sent photos to a guy of himself that I meant to send to my friend to cheer her up , with all kinds of interesting captions. :woozy_face:
Worst part was that it was his birthday and he was out with friends so they all got to laugh at my embarrassment.

I did this with snapchat before. Accidentally sent it to my uncle instead of my boyfriend. I was paying attention. I spammed his phone to ELT him know to get his wife or someone to open his snapchat as it wasn’t intended for him and to let him know what had happened.

:joy::joy: I’m sure it was an accident. I got a whole series of pictures of a guy sent to me on accident once. Did it turn him on? If not it’s not a big deal. Its really embarrassing for them just drop it.

I send text to the wrong people alllllll the time… but my nudes i triple check that name! :rofl::rofl:

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God bless your mom & dad…they are having the time of their life :slight_smile:

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It most likely was an accident.

I am gonna say
1 it’s really easy to send something To someone it was not intended for.
You should should see some of the shit I have sent.
My boss thankfully now says is that for me lol
Let it go!

What in the actual hell!? :rofl::rofl::rofl:

Accident. But a hilarious one.

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I’ve sent texts,messages to persons on so many occasions even called wrong numbers,these things do happen if it’s a habit becoming then you can see something is up

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I have sent text to the wrong person before. Accidents happen. Your poor husband is probably terrified!

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That happened to me once but my phone had been hacked I was sending them to my current boyfriend but somehow they were ending up going to my ex’s number I was freaking out although they weren’t completely nudes. This situation does not sound like that though. I would ask him about it and why your mom had it.

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My mom was a slut and would do slut things like this. Your mom maybe just wanted to get attention. Your husband is not interested in her. Accident maybe but how? Was she texting or calling him and the numbers close int he phone or names spelled similar. My first thought though is she needs attention and wanted to brag to a younger man she is attracted to.

I literally just sent a text to the wrong person. It happens.

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I once went to send a nude andnaccidently pisted to my PUBLIC story om fb… probably and accident

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I would not have a picture of myself that way to begin with. But I am quite modest. Don’t know your Mom so don’t know Different last name of your husband and all. Do they have the same first name? I have sent emails to people with the same first name.

In dubio pro reo… Shit happens.

:joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy: I’m sorry but this is hilarious. Laugh about it. I’m sure your mom doesn’t want your man and he doesn’t want her. It was an accident

OR! Be glad that your parents are still super into each other. Sending provacative pics is a sign they are actually doing the work to keep their marriage intact.

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I’ve accidentally texted nude photos to Facebook before… :woman_shrugging::woman_shrugging::woman_shrugging:

Hahaha… I have several group messages with my husbands family. His name shows up first on the list of names I sent a message and it was to the whole group. Luckily it wasn’t a nude. Accidents happen. First time sure second I’d question it third time I’d be worried. At least your husband told you. He could have hidden it from you then there could be a problem.

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That’s embarrassing lmao. A while back, my husband accidentally sent a snap of him zooming into my crotch to his brother in law. Thank god I had chonies on :rofl:

Lol.
It could have been an honest mistake.
I mix up texting my dad and my kids dad sometimes but nothin like that🤣

My husband accidentally sent a photo to one of my best friend! No matter how much I apologized, didn’t matter. She has not spoken to me since.

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I accidentally send text to the wrong people before, its possible.

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Had a cheap phone that would glitch and send messages meant for one person to random people in my contacts. Accidents happen. And go momma for still loving her body enough to photo it! I wish I had her confidence and hope this doesn’t bring it down any!

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Was alchohol involved…

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I accidently text the wrong person all the time. I’d take it at face value.

I’ve done it before no joke. It was probably an accident.

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Post it for the public on fb…she wo t do that again :joy::joy:

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I once took a cute pic of my little boy and partner together after they’d had a shower, bub was in a towel and my other half had a shirt on…thought the towel and bub were covering my OH well, and posted to Facey…had his brother’s wife message me to ask if I’d checked the pic before posting, as my partner’s balls were in full view :speak_no_evil::see_no_evil::woman_facepalming: Still can’t live that one down. Funny, only she and the other brother’s girlfriend were the only ones who noticed :face_with_monocle::face_with_raised_eyebrow::rofl:

My mister was meant to send me an nude photo when I was with my parents to embarrass me. He accidentally sent it to his family’s group chat including his mum, sister, brother, dad, sister in law and grandparents. I’m not even in this group. I am pretty sure that was an accident! It is possible. I accidentally sent my dad an underwear photo when I was 17 too. Trust me I wanted the ground to swallow me whole!

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It happens get over it I think you’re just a little bit too jealous of your mom

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Why are you even asking for advice??? It was AN ACCIDENT!!!

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I accidentally Sent one to my mil instead of my husband :woman_facepalming:t3:

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It can happen. I mistakenly sent a nude pic to my 13 year old daughters phone by accident…was meant for my bf :rofl:

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I’ve accidentally sent pics to my boss, to be fair my hubby’s message was right under my bosses I sent it not realizing I clicked the wrong one and was absolutely mortified :joy: at least my boss had a great sense of humor and just said ugh I think you made a mistake… lol

Accidents happen. I’ve sent text messages to my son meant for my husband. :flushed:

I believe it was an accident. I’ve done it before

Is you mum inclined to come on to younger men in relationships??
Is she genuinely embarrassed by it??

I just fell all over your husbands name on my phone list I mean. C’mon do they even have a similar name I’d be ready to go to Jerry Springer on her ass lol just me

My sister accidently send one to me instead of her husband, both our names start with D :joy::joy:

My daughter sent me a nude photo of her boyfriend posing by accident but once seen I couldn’t get it out of my head maybe I should have gone to a/e :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::joy:

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Pfft I text the wrong person all the time, it could happen. Luckily I’ve never done it with a picture. :joy:

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I accidentally sent one to my sons daycare teacher :joy:… meant to send it to my now husband! I’m used to having my husband at the top as I text him the most but this particular incident I guess I forgot I had just been talking to the daycare teacher and I just bought some new lingerie and I wanted to show hubby but sent it to her instead by accident lol

Sounds like ur gut is telling you something. You seem worried… always follow ur guy not ur heart…

It happens. I sometimes send the wrong message to someone I’m just lucky it hasn’t been private messages.

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Without knowing whether or not you have a history of your mother doing this…the question can’t be answered truthfully. If your mother has never done this before and you have a mother/daughter relationship with her then I’d say 100% accident. If your mother and husband have a good clean relationship they’re probably mortified…not saying he didn’t look at the naked picture longer then he should have, but seems like they wouldn’t have told you if there were something to hide…
I say it’s best to let it go.

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I have totally accidentally sent a topless photo to my best friend instead of my husband. I was carrying on two conversations at once. Was trying to be sexy with him. Discussing plans with her. He wanted a fun picture. I took it and sent it in the wrong conversation. Things do happen. I’m just thankful I sent it to her and not my mom, another friend or one of my employees. At least she understood and laughed it off.

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Did he tell you right away? Or did you find out on your own? If he told you, it was a mistake and she’s probably mortified. I don’t think anyone is that brave to “accidentally” send a pic to their son-in-law

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Accidents happen all the time. If it’s never happened before then I wouldn’t worry about it unless it happened again. Maybe this was the first time she’s ever tried sending your dad a nude and was nervous and hit the wrong person. If they had kept it from you and not told you then that’s a different story.

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It does happen lol my husband sent his mom a rather explicit text that was meant for me lol :joy: seems like your concern means you are already having some trust issues because i would laugh if my mom accidentally sent my husband one lol. Imagine how embarrassed she probably is

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Hmm I find it interesting that you’re questioning it at all. There’s obviously something deep down you don’t trust with either your mom or your husband. So I would personally do some soul searching on what makes you question it. Accidents like this happen and it’s awkward but to me the question is why are you having such a hard time trusting that it was just an accident?

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Had this happen by a friend of the family. His wife’s name starts with an M. Mine starts with a D. There’s no way he “accidentally” hit the D on the keyboard instead of M. Find out how ur dad’s name is saved and ur hubby’s. Can u understand how there could be a mistake? If u can’t, then u got ur answer.

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I accidentally sent one to my boss before. That was so embarrassing because I still had to go to work and see him. I told him to delete it immediately. It happens.

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My godson has sent messages to me that weren’t meant for me in any way. Accidents happen , however I do t know everything about him, your mom or the relationships between everyone.

I have had times when a text message intended for me…or sent by me…went to the wrong person. Somehow, the sender ends up in the wrong window, and the message goes to the wrong person. A person sending something nude or provocative ought to be extra careful before hitting ‘send’.

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Well in my situation it would be pretty easy for my mom to send a nude pic to my Hubby. My husband’s name and her fiance’s name are the same. Here’s hoping people are paying attention.

Advice??? Let it go. Sounds like it was a mistake.

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Does she text your husband regularly? I only ask this because if she doesn’t then his number or texts to and from him shouldn’t have been close to the top of recent texts so in order to text him she would have to look for their most recent messages or type in his number.
I accidentally text the wrong person often but it’s always people I text daily ie. My mom and my husband. Never nudes though.

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I never sent a nude selfie . But I did send a ‘sexy’ goodnight to my niece . Thinking it was my hubby ! And I sent one to my sister-in-law !! It’s called NOT PAYING ATTENTION :roll_eyes:

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Uh, texting the wrong person literally happens all. the. time. It’s easy to do. Get over yourself lady. It’s not like it’s happening every day. It was once and probably an honest, mortifying mistake on her part.

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I mean does your husband and your dad have the same first letter in their name one reason why it could’ve happened second one would be she thought your dad was the last person she was texting and simply forgot. I mean your mom is married to your dad and that your husband that would mean they are both unhappy. No I feel it’s an accident

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It happens. My husband and I both have sent really mushy and provocative messages to our youngest daughter on accident!

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Be careful not to overthink this one. If she said it was an accident and this is the first time it’s happened, move on. If it starts to happen more often, obviously it’s time to start asking more questions.

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Look at the actions of your mother. Is she always trying to get attention wether it be positive or negative? Does she engage in immature behavior? Is she usually trust worthy? Or is she a coupon clipping mini van driving mom? If its the latter, than it was probably an accident.

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I always double and triple check anything naughty I send out to my husband . For this reason. Sounds like it was a accident. I would move on .

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Believe her because she is your Mom. Once is accident, twice…red flag. If it was an accident, she should be embarrassed. I don’t care what her body looks like. I would be embarrassed to send nude photos to anyone besides my SO

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It can happen easier than you think. If you’re so worried about it, talk to your mom. Either way, Thanksgivings are gonna b very awkward from now on!

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I accidentally send texts meant for my mom to my daughter or texts to my husband to my mom I event accidentally sent a dirty text to my ex instead of my husband. It has happened before and will happen again.

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So do you dad and man have names starting with the same letter? Or is she messaging them both and fucked up? But why would she be messaging him at all… Just questions I would have.

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Lmao… tell her she needs to increase the screen size text so it doesn’t happen again. Until then… use that gym membership. :thinking::kissing_heart::rofl::rofl::rofl:

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The internet is full of texting mistakes. It is so easy, I have sent wrongs texts many times.

This would sure be a question maybe with your husband mom and dad all together.

Unless their names are similar, or she messages him often, I have absolutely no idea how there could be a mixup… this is odd to me.

I had this stupid text app take over over my texting on my phone took me forever to figure out how to get rid of it and I accidentally sent many wrong texts on it because it always sent everything to last person who texted no matter who I chose to send it too

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She was just showing him where you get it from :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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Someone from church got sent something meant for my bf. Yeah… Haven’t been to church in a while. Family gatherings should be fun…

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Why this obscession of sending nude photos over the phones and internet. Once out in the airways

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