My mom sent a provactive photo to my husband on accident: Advice?

This is kind of embarrassing to write, so; please keep my anonymous. My mom sent a nude photo to my husband. Straight after she sent it, she said it was an accident, and she meant to send it to my dad. I don’t know what to believe. I don’t think my husband is into my mom, but wtf? How do you accidentally send a nude photo to someone else other than your own man? What are your thoughts?

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Ohhhh noooooo baby wut is you doinnnnn? I literally don’t have advice. The pic was sent, she said accident, he saw it… maybe just ask him? Like hey dude… did that give you a wiggle in your jiggle?

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I’ve seen this happen and honestly, unless you suspect your mom for some reason, I really doubt she did it on accident. She’s probably just as horrified.

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I’ve sent a pic message to the wrong person before. My friend was in my last messages and I thought it was my husband and accidentally sent it to her instead :woman_shrugging:t4: I feel like you should ask your mom instead of the internet? Nobody can tell whether it was an accident or not except her.

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The names auto populate and it’s easy to select the wrong one. I’ve sent the wrong text to the wrong person plenty of times. They weren’t nudes, but I’ve still done it

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Sounds like the problem is with your husband and not your mother… id say if she send the text saying she didn’t mean to not even a minute later then she truly didn’t mean to… maybe need to talk to husband about how he feels and about the situation all together…

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It couldve just been an accident ive sent texts to wrong people by accident unless u vibe she really is into him

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I think it was probably an accident. Watch out for it to happen again.

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Ive send text to the wrong person, not paying attention…

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Are their names similar?

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I’ve sent the wrong texts to people especially if I’m holding several convos at the same time.

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Yeah I don’t think you accidentally send a nude to the wrong person. :flushed: Before you send a nude you’d think that someone would quadruple check to make sure it’s to the right person before sending. :woman_facepalming:t3:

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My husband was texting a guy about a car an he sent him a dick picture called him immediately and said please don’t open it lol deff wasn’t on purpose

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Welllll … I’ve accidentally sent one to my daughter before. And posted my tits on snap chat when it was supposed to have went to my husband. My phone lags and I hit the wrong thing both times. Definitely mortifying and the pic that went to my daughter wasn’t too God awful bad but still accidents really do happen.

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How old is she? I can see a woman of around 50 something screwing something up like that. Not me, because my boss ain’t gonna be happy if I send a nude pic to them but….yes, some people are totally computer stupid and can’t navigate properly. Find out what’s up

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I mean we see women say they sent pics/ text ( provocative) by accident to their
Mil
Fil
Boss
Friends
So why do you think / suspect something?
Have you never sent a wrong text or anything?

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Hey my MIL sent me one. Sooooo I’m hoping that was an accident lol.

I accidently sexted my mom when it was intended for my husband. So embarrassing.

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All I can say it WHAT THE FUCK !!! :neutral_face::thinking: I wouldn’t know either what to believe … how do they act wen they are both together in family reunions or wen y’all visit …

My friend has sent me full videos via snap on accident… sooo.

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If AND ONLY IF your husband was the last person she text, and she sends those types of pictures regularly to your dad, then yeah it probably was just a mistake. But if she’s never sent a picture like that to your dad before or your mom didn’t text your husband recently then something ain’t right. I’d ask your dad if that’s normal behavior of her first.

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It most likely was an accident. I’ve sent texts to the wrong person several times. I mean do you really not trust your mom or husband that much?

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I sent a nude to my sister once. Definitely didn’t mean to… :flushed:

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no comment, I would not begin to touch this subject

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I’m sure she is just as horrified as she can possibly be. Accidents happen all the time with texts for everyone so stop thinking bad about your mama and let it go.

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I mean my first reaction would be omg babe sorry you had to see that :flushed: not, was it really an accident :woman_shrugging:t3: your reaction seems more like you’re worried or have a reason to be worried one way or another

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Do they text often? If she was just texting him about something and it happened maybe…

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Do the share the same first letter? Or do they text often? If so i can see the mistake. If your dads name starts with an A and your husbands says an S…mmm? Donno about that.

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I’ve accidentally drunk sent nudes to an ex when my fiancé and I got together. Granted I was drunk and don’t remember sending it at all, but I did tell him that I sent it to someone else just didn’t disclose who it was. I apologized and we’ve passed it just fine. If your mom sent one to your husband and he told you about it and showed you or you saw it come thru his phone and confronted both about it and they’re both genuinely embarrassed and upset about it then leave it alone. I highly doubt your mom would do it on purpose especially if you’ve been together a while and it has never happened before

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I’m gonna be real I’ve gotten real close to sending my best friend a nude before :joy:

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I cant get over your mom sending naked pics to anybody! I’m so square🤣

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Happens all the time.

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Wow. Either you are really insecure or your mother and SO must flirt an awful lot for you to jump to that conclusion. Delete the message and move on.

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Tell your husband to give you hos phone and delete it before he eveb sees it she told you I’m sure it was an accident it’s really easy to Accidently send pics to the wrong person I’ve sent messeges to the wrong person and pictures not nudes but still it does happen it’s easy to do

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Laugh it off. Us mamas can make mistakes

Invite everyone for dinner.
Get popcorn. :joy::joy::joy::joy:

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I sent a boobie shot to my momma one time.:joy::joy: I was so embarrassed.

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I sent a super dirty message to my mom once that was supposed to go to my husband. :woman_facepalming:t2:

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My husband is Tim and my FIL is Tom, I’ve texted the wrong one before. Thankfully nothing embarrassing.

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That is why you do not do it at all

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I’ve accidentally done this! Could just be an accident

I’ve accidentally received. :joy: Snap Chat is really easy to accidentally send something to not the intended recipient.

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After I had my first baby I was so exhausted and I sent a photo of my husband to my mom while I was asleep by accident. To this day I don’t know how I did it.

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I’ve accidentally sent nudes to the wrong person before, it can happen.

Why would anyone put nudes on a computer, if could end up anywhere.

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I feel we need more info. Like do they text regularly? Does she send nudes regularly? Why would you have to worry about your mom intentionally sending nudes to your husband? Because if they dont text often then shed have had to look for him if shes in the habit of sending them to your father the she should know who shes texting and noone should ever worry their mother might do something like that on purpose without past issues

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I sent a topless shot to my daughter instead of my husband once :joy: embarrassing ,she just said I don’t wanna know though

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I’ve almost sent them to my boss in the past. Depends on how much attention you pay when you’re typing :joy:

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Happens all the time.

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Oh wow seriously it does happen. Happens more than once, yes be paranoid. But until then give your mum the benefit of the doubt. Be thankful she is still sending your dad naughty photos. Bless her. X

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My sisters boyfriend recieved a nude pic from one of his female friends. He told her it was by accident but… idk.

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Hope my mother in law never does that. Lol

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It does happen and it that easy with these smart phones. I have sent photos, private messages, to the wrong person accidentally

I’ve accidentally sent a pic to my father in law and mother in law… trust me… complete accident…

You’re jealous of your mother? She said it was an accident. Told you right away, didn’t hide it. Accidents happen…can u Imagine how your mothers feels? Delete and move on…that way you all can joke about “what mom did” at Thanksgiving!

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I definitely think you’re way over reacting. And consider yourself lucky you’ve never sent anyone anything that wasn’t meant for them

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Terrible mistake but I’ve done similar :rofl:

I accidentally sent one to my husbands boss. Shit happens.

My son has sent me messages from him that was meant for his girlfriend thankfully nothing nasty yet lol

Sounds like an accident if it was the last person she texted.

Unfortunately I’ve been betrayed in similar ways by friends and I even my step mom and my ex making plans behind my back so coming from me it would be weird. Idk about people that aren’t fucked up by betrayal.

I’ve sent a screenshot… to the person I screenshotted :woman_shrugging::see_no_evil: it’s so easy to do Haha. Especially talking to multiple people

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My husband sent an entire album of photos of me and him to his own mom by accident… it happens :rofl:. I accidentally text the wrong person a lot

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I’ve sent a pic of my private to my best friends dad that was meant for my fiance in the military :sob::rofl:

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Bullshit. My mom slept with my ex. Doubt it was an accident.

Wow if he ever actually meant to, that’s some Jerry Springer stuff right there :rofl: but yeah, imma say it was totally olby accident and your mum will never be able to look him in the face again hahahahaha

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It happens. I know someone who accidently sent their mom a text about a BJ. They meant to send it to their husband. :rofl:

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I’ve never accidentally sent anything to anyone until yesterday. Thankfully it was just a text meant for the sitter watching my son, telling her I was running a few minutes late getting home, and I accidentally sent it to a fellow Jazzercise instructor instead. But it definitely sounds like it was an accident and you’re overreacting.
My aunt has also accidentally sent a nude photo to my mom because she was showing off her new dresser, with a mirror, and forgot there was a mirror and she was naked waiting for her lotion to dry before bed lol.
So it can definitely happen…

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It’s an easy mistake to make. But only a mistake you do once, so I’d go from there. If anymore accidents happen then you have your answer.

Honestly I need more backstory on your mom and who she is as a person and how yalls relationship is before making an assumption.

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Accidents when it comes to sending people messages does happen ive done it and it was certainly embarrassing on my behalf the guy however found it hilarious and luckily didnt accept the offer. It is and sounds like it was an actual accident

I’ve sent things to the wrong individuals before …I would believe her unless you have reason not too?

Oh my God… I read all this garbage and I can’t believe all of this, this world is going to Hell. God watch after US. :pray:

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Accidents happen… I’d give the benefit of doubt unless you have other reasons to be suspicious?

As Freud said “There are no accidents.”

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A friend once sent a provacitive photo to me that she was trying to send her dude… Our names were right next to each other in her contact list… My husband sent a racy message to his boss that was meant for me for the same reason lmao.

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It happens :rofl::rofl: sent stuff to my daughters cheer coach few years ago! I was so embarrassed she was really cool about it

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My Zumba instructor accidentally sent me nudes before. It happens

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Like 10 years ago I accidentally sent a picture of my boobs to Facebook… my whole family and my ex’s family all seen my boobs it was very embarrassing… my phone glitched and sent the picture to Facebook instead of to the guy that i was seeing…

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I text the wrong person just about anytime I try to write sm1 who isn’t my wife. I also reply to her if I’m trying to reply to sm1 else. My phone confuses me cuz it lags but also I just don’t pay attn /I’m burnt out :woman_shrugging::grimacing::joy:

Doesn’t seem to hard to believe it was an accident and totally laughable unless there is way more to the back story of the mother not being said. I’d say if not we’ve all most likely sent text to the wrong person at some point or another. I bet she’s horrified I know I would be!

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Are there signs that you should be worried about your mom trying to seduce your husband? Or the other way around? If not then you should be able to accept that it was an accident.

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Lies she want your man​:woman_facepalming:t2::woman_facepalming:t2::woman_facepalming:t2:

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I have no advice. I’m shy about my little tiny body, so I don’t take nude pic’s. Not even for my husband. If he wants to see me naked he can in person.

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I accidently sexted my mom. It was super awkward. My mom is a prude so… It happens.
But if you are feeling some kind of way, theres usually a reason.
I mean if my mom did the same thing I wouldn’t even think it was on purpose. So my advice. Stay on it.

it’s not that hatd to miss click

I accidentally sent one to my boss once.

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Shit happens. I’d let it go. A friend of my husbands took a video of his wife riding him and sent it TO HER DAD luckily it was dark and not clear what was going on but still accidents happen

dude :joy::joy: Ive done this :roll_eyes: Went to send one to my hsuband and sent it to my bestfriend instead :joy: I wouldnt come around her for 2 weeks :woman_facepalming:t3:

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My husband accidentally posted a nude picture of my, along with about 15 other non-nude pics, in a post on FB telling me Happy Anniversary… accidents DO happen :woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy:

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Hey it can happen!:rofl: A lady on one of these mom groups was trying to send a sexy picture to her husband but instead sent it to her child’s school PTA group.

I accidentally text something to someone not knowing until I sent it.:woman_shrugging::woman_facepalming:

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I can happen I guess… There’s a good reason not to take that kind of pictures. But years ago my mom & my ex slept together - an affair… It almost killed me. I never got over it just went on with life. We were separated but still… We did get back together for 10 yrs. They acted like it never happened. They’re both passed now so I’m going leave it along. Only you know them better than anybody. If you have the slightest feeling that somethings wrong it probably is. Good luck. Watch you back.:sweat:

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You know your mum better than all of us. Is it in her nature?
For you to know of the photo, I take it your husband was also honest enough to tell you… he could have deleted it and you wouldn’t have know.

It’s hard to say without actually knowing these people. I would however keep an I on them both for awhile. Trust your gut.

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I have accidentally sent messages to someone else when a message pops up on the top and I thought I was responding to them and it was the other

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Do you think your mom has the hots for your man…if not it was probably an accident.

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Now your husband knows what you will look like at her age!!

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Ask your dad if mom sends these kind of photos to him, if she never had , then you got your answer!

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Ummmmmm? I say No excuse at all,Period!

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Accidents do happen and my mother has put a nude on her story on fb before by accident thank god she had a bra on

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