Why do some people believe a child has to be doing something to the dog. I remember one time I walked in to my parents house with my 3 year hold his hand and their dog just ran up a bit my son’s hand for no reason. They were so sorry that he did that. They gave him away to my older brother.
Should they get rid of the dog-no.
But if they want you to go over them they needs to put the dog away
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No people should learn how to train their pets or dont allow them around people especially toddlers
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my mom had a best friend dog, he bit through my adult brothers lip, plastic surgery needed. he demanded my mom put the dog down since this was not it’s first time drawing blood. my mom had him put down…i almost miss my brother.
in all seriousness, you need to protect your son. if your parents refuse to, then u need to keep your kids away from the dog…next time could be much worse
First if you are only visiting then dog should be completely away from children. Second, if he broke the skin medical attention should be gotten quickly because of the bacteria in the dogs mouth When my grandkids came to my house to stay for a while I tested my dog by letting them touch him, take his food and even sit on his (big dog). I told my husband that if Buddy made a sound or “smiled” he would be gone. This animal should not be around children at any time.
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I wouldn’t take my child there again until the dog is gone. I lost an aggressive dog last year. She almost killed my other dog and would growl at everybody. She was classified as unadoptable, so she was euthanized. If she had bit my grandson, Id have killed her with my bare hands. I loved her soooo much and she loved me too, but I couldn’t put my grandson in that position.
If this was not the first time the dog was aggressive, that should have been your first sign of a problem. Keep your children away!
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I was so angry when I read this! I would have killed that dog at the time it occurred if it was my child. I would consider it a complete betrayal if the grandparents kept the dog. It needs to be re homed with someone that has no children.
I would cut ties or have them put the dog elsewhere for visits!
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If the grands can’t keep the child safe. It’s your job as a mother. If it means keeping the child home. Then so be it. If the dog is more important to them then their grand child. Then shame on them. Put the dog outside, in another room, put a muzzle on the dog, but do whatever it takes so that baby don’t get bit again. That is a terrible thing for a child to have to go through. You have my permission to show my post! Cause I’m pissed about now!
I know you said you teach your kids to respect animals so my question is… did the dog just come up to him and bite him? My guess is he was messing with the dog… in his face… trying to take a toy or food from him, etc. They don’t just come up to someone and bite them. There are usually warning signs given from an aggressive dog. So no… they should not do something with the dog. Im not saying your child is responsible but maybe the dog is older and not used to kids or whatnot. I think telling your kids to stay away from the dog is the best bet or ask your family to create the animals when they come over.
If he had stitches from a dog bite. The doctors reported it. Your parents will have to provide proof of it’s being up to date on shots ect. And if it’s not the first time it will be taken.
My daughter her friend and and moms dog were playing ball. Friend tossed ball dog ran and her tooth broken the skink on my daughter’s leg.we cleaned to but not good enough, had to get antibiotics. Whole bunch of questions from animal control and dog was quarantined. Now mind you this was obviously not a bite…and a total accident.
Also, keep your kid away from that animal. Next time it could be worse
Would never let the dog have that opportunity again…on both sides…the child needs to be watched and monitored and the dog needs to be put away when the child is around…sorry but I don’t understand how this happened if someone is always watching…never leave a child and dog alone ever…
Your 4yr old may be terrified. But, he is NOT innocent in this. The dog may be protecting his own space. The kid may have hurt the dog first ! Dont drop mom and dad, but ask that the dog stay in a different room when you guys visit. Common sense.
Can’t the dog be out in another room when your there. We had same problem but we tied our dog up or put in her in another room. Our dogs are our family too. I’m sure the dog is great enjoyment for the grandparents. What would you do if it was your dog and not some one in the house.?
I am a grandma great grandma and a great great grandma of 21 I would tell you to not go til they do something about that dog and adore dogs. Child first
First off I totally get your child being scared and you being upset. I would Definitely tell my parents a vet visit is necessary to rule out something wrong with the dog and then if that’s all fine a behaviorist. I would also say to them they need to start muzzle training the dog for when you bring the kids over. Of course they need to keep the dog away from your child, but dogs get out all the time so the extra precautions of a muzzle would make me feel better. I would Definitely suggest once that has all been handle then an reintroduce is necessary. Mostly for your sons sake to not be fearful of dogs for the rest of his life. Unless of course the behavior cannot be fixed.
I would crate my dog! I am a dog lover and I treat them as a family member. They are animals and If I could not be with them at all times I would not consider leaving a small child with an animal unattended for the child’s sake and the dogs sake.
My dog does not like children so I put her away and I tell her why she is being put in another room if she ever bites one I will take measures against her because next time could be worse . I love my dog very much but I love my grandchildren more . She has never bit anyone but she will scare you. This is my feeling
They should definitely be willing to put the dog up while ur son visits. If their not then only allow him to see them at places other than their home. My mom had 2 small VERY spoiled dogs when my nephew was born. His firsts visit to our house as a newborn had him in one arm and the dogs on another. Our male growled and he found hisself right quick on the floor. Since mom didn’t normally treat them like that well that and a quick he belongs here too. We never had issues with our female around kids.
From here on, the dog must be crated when children are in the home. If that proves to be a problem then I would not take my children into their home.
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Don’t take your kid there unless animal is locked up outside. Dogs can get out of rooms if doors are opened. Dog bite cases are the number one personal injury case there is, for good reason. Be sure your kid knows not all dogs are aggressive or they will be afraid of all dogs. Good luck
Ask if the dog can be put in another room when your child is around. I have had dogs and grand children too and have taught the children to respect the animals and we did have a couple episodes. I put a half door going into kitchen or put the pet in another room
Do not let your child near the dog unless you supervise. No matter what dog it is I would be so pissed. I love dogs but would never jepordize my child with fear for the rest of his life. Just my opinion. A mom knows her heart
They would be welcome in MY HOME to visit the grand child but the dog would have to stay at grandma’s house. If they really love the child they should gladly accept this arrangement and if they do not it is their loss. Stand your ground He is your child and it is up to you to keep him safe. I love my animals but if I was in this situation I would accept this arrangemdnt
Our dog was a wonderful dog for me and my husband. He was very protective of us. When we started having grandchildren, he was not allowed to be near them. We couldn’t take that chance. He went to doggie camp whenever they came to visit!!!
I got a dog found it it newspaper the people I got it from said there child was allergic so this dog bite my great son in Head he had to get stitches so I put him asleep I couldn’t risk giving him away and he bite someone else also here in Illinois animal control comes out it there is report op a dog bite her calls them my grand son wound not come over after that
The dog needs to be put down. Once they taste human blood they become more Aggressive
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“hold the animal accountable”? Your son is your baby and that dog is theirs. Call before you go there and if they won’t put the dog away while you’re visiting,never leave your child alone with them
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Nope! My sister in laws dog bit my son. Luckily didn’t need to go to dr but we do not go to her house now. Past time we did she locked him up but asked if she could let him out and we said we’ll just leave. Now its an absolute no. Our job is to protect our kids regardless of other people’s feelings. Think of how your son must feel
Why cant they separate the dog when he comes over?? I have a dog that is NOT safe around people outside the household and she goes to the basement when company is over or the yard… it sounds like they dont have a lot of common sense or enough love for your kid.
i would not trust that dog around anyone now. As much as I love my dog my grandchildren come first and chances are he will bite again .Even if the dog is put in another room it might accidentally get out! Grandparents can visit at your home!!!
First of all I am a grandmother and if my dog bit one of my grandchildren I would be totally upset and I would make sure shots were up to date and show them and I would make sure that they take him/ her get treated. I would be responsible for the bill. Maybe the child just did something by accident and dog attacked it happens but grandma it’s your responsibility to take care of this. Is your dog worth not seeing your grandchild
Keep your children away from the dog before more severe damage is done or worse
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If grandparents want to see their grandchildren, they need to lock the dog up away from the child when you visit or they need to come to your home. Your child has every right to be fearful and his feelings count. If your mom doesn’t understand this and won’t abide by it then cutting ties is the only option at this point.
Your parents should be appalled at their dog doing that to your son. Especially since the dog sees him often!! Dogs should never be allowed to hurt children! My parents dog bit my son and just drew a little blood and I backhanded it clear off my fathers lap. He got angry and I said don’t ever put that dog before your grandson! That dog never hurt my son or anybody else again.
I’ve had this happen to my child when she was little, while taking care of my aunts old dog . I do not blame the dog , the dog had bad legs , and was blind in one eye, I also don’t blame my aunt or my child.
Accidents happen when owning animals, they’re not like humans and have wild instincts, that’s the risk people take when having a pet. This happens a lot with animals and kids, especially dogs.
Children are generally more unpredictable and often do not think before they act, responding as they feel in the moment. And dogs sense that.
Which then means
dogs just don’t look at kids the same as Adults.
Dogs see Adults as leaders.
But, I don’t believe this is a reason to cut ties, but to learn from it, tell them your concerns but don’t make them feel attacked or threatened because they love their dog I’m sure , but they also love you and your children.
So, Simply ask them to put the dog away when your children are around, or having them visit to your place instead. Punishment will not solve this issue, nor will cutting ties. But both sides have to be understanding and welcoming with the new boundaries set in place .
I wish you the best, and I hope your child can soon break out of the trauma/fear that dog may have caused…
It is a very scary moment, and it can really get your instincts kicking as a Momma! I know the feeling, and I hope my perspective can help you and your family!
WELL, being one with a dog that my family doesn’t care for just because of his breed, I can take the grandparents side. MY dog has NEVER biten anyone. He lets the grandkids lay on him. He lays next to them while they play. Granted I am hypervigilant and stay close by. BUT my way of thinking is when I am home alone, this dog is my family. HAS been for 13 years. He is my companion and keeps me from being so lonely. NOW IF my childrend and grandchildren were with me EVERY DAY, ALL DAY, I would have to think about whether it is worth the extra effort I spend keeping an eye on them when they are together or whether it iwould would be easier to just let him go to another home. BUT all of that being said, IF my dog were to actually bite someone, all bets are off. The dog would be kept separate from ALL people. I would stll have a hard time agreeing to getting rid of him completely BUT for everyones safety, HE would not be allowed around visitors. Luckily, he is adjusting to apartment life very well and has let EVERY person pet him that has asked. (NOW other dogs is another story. He does NOT like seeing other dogs and THAT bothers me. BUT he is 13 years old and won’t be around a WHOLE LOT longer so I am willing to take the time and energy it takes to help him have a happy last few years. eventho I do not like walking him and having to pick up his poop 3 times a day!!!)
His grandma should be the first to take action and want to keep the dog away. If not find it anothe fur ever home. Because if it was anyone not related cops would be called and we all know what happens next.
Make sure the dog is in a kennel when the kids come over. I had a dog who didn’t care for children so I didn’t let them around him.
What’d your kid do to the dog? Domestic dogs who know & spend a lot of time with the children in their family don’t just lash out like that unless they were defending themselves.
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crate the dog until he is more used to your son being around very simple. animals are like kids they understand when they need to not do something. crating the dog will teach him this child is family we love him and it will also teach the child bad behavior has consequences prayers things work out for you grand parents are rare
If the dog is there dont take your son over there. Typically if you have to take your child to the drs for being bit by an animal the drs will call animal control.
Also dog owner/peraon bit is usually supposed to call animal control to notify them depending on state.
I think you should not go to there home at all. If they are not willing to put the dog in closed room or outside then you draw a line. Let them come to your home to visit. Tht way they see your child without stress. If they won’t come they do not live your loves well being. Or you could also meet them somewhere between homes. A park, playground, etc. You are the advocate for your child, it is up to you to protect your child
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I put my kids first and if they decide to keep the dog or not even confine hi when you come over my visiting days would end. Period! It will cause stress in the family but your kids need to feel safe and also to trust their parents. I stick to my guns and won’t back off.
Maybe a compromise, ask them to lock the dog in their bedroom or outside when you are over. I probably wouldn’t get rid of my dog either but if my dog bit a child I would either keep it away from children or have it on a leash when children were around
It should have been reported when he received stitches. Automatic quarantine for the dog, I thought. The owners are usually told to put the dogs away when anyone visits. That’s what happened when my son was bitten. Since It has happened more than once , it might be a lot more serious though.
No, you are not wrong on any level. The owners of the dog/s have a responsibility when it comes to any one who goes to their home. Family, friends, workers etc. They should also pay for medical expenses.
If your parents can’t or won’t take responsibility, I clearly would not go back.
I have 2 rescue dogs. One is so laconic I feel like I need to listen for a heart beat. The 2nd is aggressive and hyper and don’t know what happened to her. She’s a happy dog, but I would ever allow her free reign when anyone visits. It’s not worth the risk. Use a Crate and put a lock on it when kids are around. Good luck.
I always keep my German Shepherds in there kennel runs when my grandchildren visit but I have now a short coated Wheaton Terrior that my son was going to put in a shelter. She bit my 4 year old grandson who needed stitches. She is 12 years old and can’t take the hassle of a young family. If I didn’t take her, she would have been put down. She is such a sweet dog but can’t deal with kids.
When I was about that age,adults were getting ready for church,I went and grabbed on a very old dog who was sleeping…he bit me in the face…I don’t remember what was said when it happened…I just remember grabbing him,maybe to give him kisses,who knows…he bit me on my lip…have the scars to prove it.Wasnt the dogs fault…a child left alone with a sleeping dog is not a good mix
Don’t let your child be around the dog again. Find other ways for the child to see his grandparents.
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No. Your child always comes first. If the dog has bitten in the past and continues to do so, then there are obvious issues. I myself was bit on the face when I was about that age. I needed immediate medical care and still have scars. I understand the fear of dogs because of that. There shouldn’t even be an issue of tour son seeing the dog. The dog, if allowed by authorities to stay with your mother, should be separated from your son every time you visit.
Your child might be suffering from PTSD due to this unfortunate encounter. She might develop a phobia to dogs. Watch her closely as she might need help. To reintroduce her to this animal is a very bad idea. As so many have suggested, keep the dog and this kid apart.
My opinion: firmly tell the grandparents that unless the dog is isolated away from you child while child is there, then you won’t be visiting with you child. A gate in the doorway or the dog in another room. No room for negotiation. If they want a relationship with their grandchild, they will comply or child won’t be visiting. You, as a parent are the final authority in this situation. Period.
They picking their dog over the safety of their grandchildren, I love my parents but my child come first if they can’t put they’re dog up when me and my kids come visit “well” my parents will have to come visit me if they want to see me and their grandkids
My daughters dog bit a boy she turned it in time her homeowners insurance Co to pay for medical. The dog never did this before or after, but a few months later the insurance company was going to cancel her insurance if she kept the dog. I would keep the dog and your son away from each other. If you need medical help for the injury report to the homeowners ins
If you choose to continue to go there they need to put the dog away if not, don’t go back. I’m a grand parent to 15 I would have put the dog down or given away to someone who doesn’t have kids shame on your parents for not protecting your children
Just ask to put dog away in a room when you visit, dogs are easily agitated during times of heat and not getting enough exercise…also telling your child to respect boundaries of dog, and keep a safe distance. Hope all works out, we all need those family bonds to keep our sanity in this day and age. Good luck😎
The emergency room or doctor office is supposed to report all bites. That should start the ball rolling. Her homeowners insurance should pay your deductible and out of pocket costs they may cancel her policy if she does not rehome the dog. Stand your ground about having her lock up the dog when you are there visiting
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If they are unwilling to crate the dog do not go to their house. They can come to your house or meet someplace else. Your son has already expressed his fear of the dog. The dog has proven he is aggressive toward children. They should not interact with each other. In many places a dog that bites, especially if requiring medical care, is considered aggressive by the authorities. Two aggression acts means the dog is put down.
There is such a thing called a cage… backyard, your parents can out the dog in another room… Never, I repeat never let your son out of your sight!! IF your parents want/need to see your son this might be a good solution for all!!!
His grandparents shouldn’t even want to keep the dog! If I had a dog and it bite a family member or anyone it would be gone!! Why are they choosing a animal over there flesh and blood! I would not take the child or any of your children around untill the dog was gone!
Nope. Dog would be gone. I’m a firm believe in children respecting the dog and the dog being able to walk away if needed. (We have a 110 lb german shep and if he gets upset, he gets up and walks away - we dont allow the kids to follow) BUT as much as I love my dog, if he bit my baby in the face…he would be given to a home without kids & where he could live out peacefully.
If it was worse than that, he would be put down.
I dont risk my child’s safety for an animal. 
Are you people serious? Everyone involved needs to adult up. Get a muzzle for the dog, have your child in the same room and reintroduce the two. If the dog still responds negatively, then parents need to keep it in another room or crate if the child is present. Do not go getting rid of pets like that. Grow up and coexist. I can’t tell you how many times one of us kids were bit or hurt by family/friends dogs growing up. It’s life. Animals are animals, humans can adapt before destroying or getting rid of furry family.
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Yes the child doesn’t need to be traumatized and end up terrified of dogs or even other animals. You can explain to grandparents either the dog be left outside while you visit OR the grandparents can come visit at your house and of course leave their dog at home.
Without making this situation worse than it already is… no more visits for who knows how long??? Insist that the dog be isolated while the grandson is visiting. Also, I would think it would be appropriate for the medical expenses to be covered.
The dog will no doubt bite again. Next time the injury could be even worse. It shocks me that your parents haven’t suggested maybe putting the dog in another room or away for your child. Reintroducing the dog to your child will traumatize your child not the dog. I would stay away from they’re place and let them see how it feels not to see their grandchildren, it will also let them see your not playing when it comes to the safety of your child.
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I have a dog that can’t be trusted with small children. We put him in his room before anyone comes. They should do something or you should not take your kids there anymore. If my dog did that I would not ever forgive my self.
My sister’s dog bit my son and he had to have surgery on his face. He was 1 1/2. They had the dog put down, she said they didn’t want this to happen to anyone else☹️. Luckily my son doesn’t remember and you can hardly see the stitches. It happened many years ago.
If they will not keep it in another room or kennel then don’t go to your parents home. If they want to see you and the grandkids they will have to come to your house!
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No more visits to Grandma’s house until she does something! Put dog in a closed room, away from children. If Grandma doesn’t like it, tough! The child comes first!
I had the same issue with my sisters dog. He bit both my kids. I made it very clear the only way the kids will come in is if the dog is away. Otherwise we meet elsewhere. Not fair to your kids to be made to feel that way.
If my kid was traumatized and they weren’t going to lock up the dog while my child was there then I would not put my son in a position of being uncomfortable. My child comes first. It’s easy for then to lock the dog up because clearly the dog has issues with kids. A nip I could understand but stitches being required was not playing. If they don’t want to do something so simple for your son then clearly they aren’t caring about him. Because they should care the dog traumatized the kid
The dog needs to go in his kennel, outside or in a closed off room when your son visits. You are invading his territory and it may have felt it needed to protect your parents from your son. Older dogs don’t like kids coming at them quickly or getting in their face. Don’t let him go over there to visit without you since your parents feel your son needs to be “reintroduced” to the dog.
My dog bit my grandson when he was three. Spanked the dog and put her in my room. It never happened again. But if this dog has been aggressive before maybe they should start putting the dog up when you come over.
Put dog away when baby is visiting. Or any child really. Try to reintroduce your son to dogs thru some other way. He’ll be afraid for the rest of his life if he doesn’t get reintroduced. Your mothers dog is not to be allowed near your son! Try another breed maybe a gentler puppy you, so your son is bigger and feels a little more in control of himself. Then go a little bigger each time until he has no fear. I’ve seen kids cry and run away if there is a dog being walked near them and they are terrified. Not good for your son to hold onto that fear. Good luck !
I had my brothers dog who was just the sweetest thing over with my brother and had told him I would keep him until he could make arrangements (he was moving to another state) to have him transported. Well at the time I was babysitting my toddler grandson full time in my home and he nipped at my grandson and that was it, I wasn’t risking my beautiful grandson getting hurt in anyway! He ended up driving cross country with the dog. The dog lived with us when he first moved here and I bonded with him and loved him like he was my own but my grandson comes first…
If you go to thier house 2-3 x a week, and you know the dog doesnt like children then In my opinion its your responsibility to keep your child away from the dog, thats thier home and you have prior knowledge…My 2 small dogs do not like children or adults, I know this, and I make sure anyone who is around my dogs that have children know this, and I am VERY vigilant about keeping children safe around my dogs, I WOULD NEVER give up my babies because of theyre dislike for kids and adults, too. There are ways of handling the situation without giving the dogs up
If my dog bit any of my grandchildren, the dog is gone.
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I would not take my children over their house unless the dog was in a kennel in a different room. Just putting the dog in a different room is that it could accidentally escape. If the grandparents won’t agree to accommodate the safety of their grandchildren have them come to your house.
This really surprises me. My daughter was but in the face by a friend’s dog and required stitches. When the ER doctor found out what happened, the hospital called animal control and I had to file a vicious animal report. I didn’t have a choice. The friend was given the option of rehoming the animal or having it put down.
It is your job as a parent to insure the safety and well-being if your child. If the grandparents can’t keep the dog locked up while your child is at their house then you should not go there. If they want to see you and your child they should come to your house.
I agree, kennel the dog when visiting. Keep them both safe. Respect is what you call it and it’s a win win for both.
If you value your family ties then anything is worth a shot. Put dog on leash and have your son give him treats…dog ahould remain on a leash while your son is there. It is not the dogs fault or the childs its just how it is…to expect your parents to hold the dog acxountable is wrong on your part…asking to have the dog restrained while your son is there is a good start
I would make it very clear to them that if my son comes over the dog is to be placed somewhere else if not he will not come over.
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Expecting your kid to be safe at their Grandparent’s house is number 1. The dog needs to be crated or separate when you guys come over. After some time has passed and your child feels safe, introducing the dog again is not a terrible idea. A nice positive interaction for both, then dog gets put away again. This is not a quick fix and you get to set the timeline. Lastly, maybe a dog behaviorist can observe how the dog is with your child and help tweak behavior. There have been times I mistook my dog’s behavior and a trainer helped out.
My son’s dog jumped on my niece when she was 3 yrs old, the dog was up in old and later found out a neighbor teen was abusing the dog when we let him out in our backyard. But the dog didn’t bite her just push her to the ground and growl in her face. Took him to get him off and me to pull her away. Vet said he was ill and we put him down.
When dogs are around older people 24/7 they aren’t use to kids who run play and just be kids. I’m in my 70s. So let your parents know when you are coming so they can put the dog in another room or outside so everyone can be happy and enjoy your visit
My dogs are older so I put them away when small children visit they have never been aggressive but I don’t trust old dogs around kids
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This dog is not to be trusted! If he’s done it once now twice he definitely will do it again. If you want to continue the relationship with your parents they have to understand your boundaries with the dog and your child. Everyone should feel comfortable when visiting and when there is tension and the dog will sense it from your child which will also make him want to attack.
I guess you won’t be visiting. That’s really the bottom line. Their house. Their dog. I’m sorry your child got bit, but you HAVE to take your child out of the situation if your mom isn’t willing to get rid of the dog or put the dog in another room. Good luck! I hope it all works out.
If it was any other child that was bitten and it was reported to the authorities., they would have taken the dog and put it down. Maybe your mom should think about that and remove the dog when children are present
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Depending on why the dog bit the child in the first place, my two little dogs are friendly as all get out, but they just don’t like children. I think it is the shrill voices or whatever. My sisters daughter got bit on the cheek by my husband’s dog, but it was the child’s fault. The dog was sleeping on the floor and she jumped on his back, the dog reacted and two or four stitches later we were home. Some dogs just don’t like kiddos
Well I’ll say one thing about this,its the first I’ve seen grandparents not want to perfect the child,if they love the child they will get rid of the dog,if not they don’t care simply put they need to be held responsible, sue them for your child’s sake bottom line
They are holding your son hostage to dogs behavior. Dog bites and stitches are very traumatic to a 4yr old. I have a dog and if she was aggressive or bit my 4 yr old grandchild…omg. in the face disfiguring, it could have been worse. i dont know what state you are in but most ers or drs are required to report animal bites to county animal control. That would be the last strike for my dog. I dk what the child was doing or breed if the dog, if he was teasing dog , or dog is an aggressive breed, but. no. id def wait . Tell you mom under no circumstances will you bring your son, their grandson, to their house unless and until they have the dig crated or outside or otherwise restrained when you are there. That dog bit your son, no matter the circumstances dog should be reported to local animal control. face bite of a 4 ur old wont be taken lightly. your parents need to have authorites let them know that. They are chosing their dog over the saftey of their grandson.
If the dog is aggressive and this isn’t the 1st time it has bitten someone, I thought the law says after 3 times the dog has to be put down. I have a cousin who’s puppy bit her mother in-law and that is what the vet told her.
Of course you want your child to have a relationship with his grandparents but in a safe way. I would tell them your son is afraid of the dog and does not want to see the dog. I would have them visit at your house. A lot of people have mentioned about them keeping the dog locked up but even just going over there after a trauma like that to a child might make things worse because he will probably be afraid the dog might get out.
My brothers dog bit my 4 year old daughter, she had to have 64 stitches. That was the 3rd time the dog had biten a small child. The dog was put down and tested for rabies. NO dog is worth dividing family.
I would be appalled if my family thought more about their dog then my son. I would not go over to their house again. In this situation the police are called and the dog is put down. I had a similar experience. My son was two years old. He’s now 48 and he still has those scars. Also, for your son’s health are you sure that the dog is current on his rabies shot?
Your parents home owners insurance should have paid for your sons stitches. We had a german shepherd that snapped at our son once and we revoked her . When a dog is aggressive toward a child you don’t wait for a tragedy to happen. Keep the child and the dog separated no matter what.