My mother in law and her "buddy" are LOUD when they have adult time, what can I do?

Move get your own place

Her house. Dont like it
move

Ahh you can always move out :wink::roll_eyes:

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I have the perfect solution
get ya own place. :joy::joy:

Get your own place
Put ear buds in
Also have sex :woman_shrugging: :joy: would keep you distracted from her sex life

Put a fan on your your tv up.

Buy some noise cancelling gaming headphones, get on tik tok, and start scrolling. By the time tik tok grabs your soul, their fun time will be over.

It’s her house :v:
& once a week
 wow :flushed::ok_woman::joy:

Sounds like it’s time to buy some head phones and mind your business, thankfully. :grimacing::clap:

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Get some headphones and mind your business.

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Simple
get your own place

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Omg people are so entitled

Check yourself. Then move out.

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Buy headphones & download books or music or something :woman_shrugging: it’s her house.

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. My mother in law and her "buddy" are LOUD when they have adult time, what can I do?

Find your own place!! :rofl::+1::person_shrugging:

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Do it back lol leave her a mental picture maybe she’ll get it. You don’t wanna picture your daughter that way. Her daughter doesn’t want to picture that either about her mother lbvs. My dad was telling him an my step mom’s stories one day when we was all drinking so I did it back an he’s like your My daughter thanks for the picture I said ya well your my parents how do you think I felt smh welp he never did again lmao

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MOVE OUT!!! Get your OWN PLACE.
Momma in law raised her kids, now it’s HER life and if you DON’T how she is living it GOID SEX and all then MOVE OUT simple fix.
Maybe your kinda jealous because your husband her son don’t put it down like homeboy but as I said simple fix MOVE OUT, get your own place or SHUT UP.
beggars can’t e choosers and DON’T bite the hand that feeds you, OR YOU WILL STARVE!!!

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Girl that’s her house stop being jealous she gets better sex :joy:

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It’s her home maybe it’s time to find your own place

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I can understand if it was your home, but it’s not. Just like every person has said on here, she has already raised her son. Technically, y’all aren’t suppose to be there. She is im assuming helping, so you and your fiancĂ© can get on your feet, right? You don’t have a say on what goes on in HER home. If I was her I’d feel disrespected and tell you and her son to move out. She is probably doing that so you CAN move out. I don’t blame her one bit. Even if that dude has a small pickle I’d still act like he was King Kong. Just to annoy you and get you out. Find your own spot! And call it a day. Good luck!

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Ear plugs, head phones or find your own place.

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It’s her house if you don’t like it move out .

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Are you for real?? It’s HER house. You don’t get to tell her she’s being too loud in her own house. You just don’t. That’s it. Feel free to GTFO and get your own place. How about you show some respect and 1. Keep your mouth shut unless you’re saying thank you 2. Apologize for having been mistaken by thinking you had any right to think she was being disrespectful to you. Good lord girl get your mind right and your priorities straight.

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Move out
its her house, she can have sex with who ever she wants as loud as she wants. If that’s not an option I suggest when you see him pull up you leave for a while.

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Move out!!! It’s her house!!! Grow up & get your own place geeppers

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If you are staying with her and she’s not hurting anybody, not really much you can do about it besides move out :woman_shrugging:t2:

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If you’re in her home
you’re in her space and you really don’t get an opinion.

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You called the woman putting a roof over your head desperate and disrespectful because she is loud while having sex with someone you don’t approve of. Put your adult cap on for a second If thats possible and think about that. She’s getting laid once a week and clearly enjoying it and you cant find something to do once a damn week to allow her some privacy?
Were you not desperate when you had to move in with her? Are you not being disrespectful by taking to social media to complain about her. When you Get your own home you can have all the quiet sex you want. Sons are more like their mamas than you think though and he will get bored with that and likely find a girl he can make say his name.

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Move out
 You’re are grown living with his mama, having sex with your man. Y’all always assume the only people who should
 Is you. Cause the guy lying or whatever is NOT the real issue. It’s you think you’re grown, but living like a child with your boyfriend there too​:rofl::clown_face:. If I was
mom, I’d say don’t like it, you know where the door is
 I love the part I’ve had enough! But not enough to go, just to think you’re grown enough to tell his mama how to live.

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Get your own place. She’s grown in her home and can be as loud as she wants to.

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Move out :woman_facepalming:
That’s obviously the adult thing to do, it’s her house so she can do whatever the hell she wants. What a slap in the face, raises her son only to have him and his entitled wife move back in making unreasonable demands. She’s entitled to some good :eggplant:

Btw, he’s a FWB not a boyfriend, these type of “relationships” exist and it isn’t your place to judge her behavior in HER home.

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Omg! 1st of all you are a guest in this woman’s house, I’m pissed and embarrassed for her that You have the audacity to say anything to her in the 1st place. But to come to a public forum and ask for advice about how you can deal with her and her relationship in her home? You need to go home and ask your Mother how she would like you to handle this! I hope she slaps you in the mouth!!! You have No respect for this woman at all. It’s not your place to say anything, and I pray if she gets hurt ,you would be smart enough to NOT start with the I told you so. She deserves some happiness and enjoyment in her life. Leave her alone!!

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Yea
 move out of her home or leave when you know he’s coming over


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Awww don’t hate on mom in law! That’s probably the best 30 minutes of her entire week. Don’t ruin it for her. Go take a walk or something.

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Maybe she’s trying to make you jealous and have you think she can do things better than you. Thats tough bc its her house. Maybe she doesn’t think your good for her son and trying to piss you off. Ask her yourself if she would like you to move, if not
 do it back and LOUDER!

Next time you hear them just start cheering them on :rofl::joy: example you hear her screaming? Yell “now that’s how you get it tiger!” Or “you break it you buy it!” I’m sure it will embarrass them enough to stop being so loud :rofl::joy:

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Umm
youre in HER house. Its in no way disrespectful. Id be pissed as hell if someone i let stay in my house had the audacity to come at me with “boundaries” to follow in my own house.

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It just means it’s good lol, like you said shes an adult and can deal with a broken heart just move out and get something cheap so you can save up for something better

Is there anyway you guys can leave when they have sex? It’s her house
 you wouldn’t want her telling you the same if it was your house. Be respectful
 just ignore it.

She isn’t disrespecting you that is her home. Go for a walk so she can scream as loud as she wants. Commensence really.

Leave the house when he comes over start looking for your own place

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I get that you don’t want to hear it. But it is her house. She can do as she pleases.
Go outside or leave when he comes over. Or Move out

Ear plugs? Headphones? It’s her house, it’s up to you if you wanna do something so you can’t hear her having sex in her own home :woman_shrugging: loads of cheap options that would help, or of course you could look into moving out. But I’m sure some headphones and music would work wonders

Everyone in the comments acting like multi generational housing isnt a thing anymore. My Mom and Grandma have lived together for the last 8 years, both on the lease, found the house together, the whole bit, I’m sure they’ve had similar issues.

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Honestly at the end of the day it is her Home. Your in her space. Maybe it’s time to talk to the fiance and move out. How do you think she feels when you and the fiance are having sex.

Immediately start having sex with your husband (her son). Try to out-sex noise her. Louder and more dramatic.

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Just have really loud sex with her son one time and see if she keeps doing it.

Seeing as he only comes once a week according to you, just leave when he comes. I don’t understand why anyone would be listening :rofl:

If he comes over once a week then leave the house. :woman_facepalming: If it’s her house it’s not disrespectful you know what’s about to go down.

:face_with_monocle: Wait
 You want her to be quiet in her own home? That’s not even your Mama that’s your man’s Mama lol you have no rights here girl, move out :woman_shrugging:t3:

Make very loud, aggressive dinosaur noises in the living room while they’re having sex.

Move out or be somewhere else when he comes around. Or invest in noise blocking headphones. Either way, it’s her house she can scream if she wants to :sweat_smile:

If you got kids, let them loudly imitate her, in front of her. :joy::see_no_evil:

She is doing it on purpose to get you to move out :smile:

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yeah you and him get your own place. Im sure she hears yall going at it. Its her house
dont like
then move!:woman_shrugging:

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Move out. It’s her house :joy:

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Then go get your own place!!! Maybe this is her way of saying “get out of my house”. Hahaha

Move out! It’s her house, she can be as loud as she wants :smirk:

Time to go. Lol you’re grown ass should be grateful, blowing ya moms spot up on face book. Smh

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Let the woman get it in geez lol if you don’t like it have louder sex than her :rofl::rofl: or move on :cowboy_hat_face:

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You could move out, as that is her house.

“I appreciate her”
 proceeds to call her desperate

Uh move out of her house?..

Let me start by saying you live with her. That’s all.

It’s her house, she can be as loud as she fucken wants. If it bothers you that much,get your shit and get the fuck out.

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If you live in her space, then I guess you need to find ear plugs

Move out and let granny have her fun
 period.

Get your own place then lol.

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You are a guest, mind your own business

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You live in her house and she’s an adult. She can do what she wants with whomever she wants and frankly she can be as loud as she wants. Don’t like how she behaves in HER OWN HOME, MOVE OUT!

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What are you waiting for to move out??? If it’s her place you really can’t say anything


Don’t like it, move out simple as that :woman_shrugging:

Move out :person_shrugging:, its her house

Um I think she’s trying to tell you something dear.

I understand you think this guy is stringing her along and basically is her booty call. God Bless her. You on the other hand need a book on manners. Bringing up the red flags is her son’s job. Her noise is well her business since it is HER house. If they are that loud turn up the 70’s sex movie music and mind your own business

Yes move out and let her live her life.

You want advice? Get out of her house! Move out. That is her space. Actually, how about let some freeloaders move in with you and tell you that you are being disrespectful to them. :roll_eyes::woman_facepalming:

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You are in 'her home ’ doing your thing. Move out.

Grow up and move out

It’s her house,if you don’t like it then leave.

Maybe she’s into voyeurism

Well move out if you’re uncomfortable
She needs some fun too now that her kids are grown


You feel disrespected because the person who’s house you live in is having loud s3x and that inconveniences YOU?? You and your SO should just get your own place if its that bothersome to you
its her house. And posting all of her PERSONAL business regarding this guy is just tacky IMO and is completely irrelevant to your “question”. Of course you have your side of the “story” but mama is grown and that is THEIR relationship whatever it might be. Like others have said, she did her part and raised her kids now she can enjoy her life and do whatever tf she wants if its legal, and consensual.

Leave when he is there.

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Get your own place and mind your own business

Get your own house. :v:

Have equally loud sex and see what she says about it then say “now you know how we feel?” lol idk

Get your own place? :woman_shrugging:

You ate in HER home. You guys are adults. So, if you don’t want to hear it
 move.
And God bless her. I hope she has many many more yrs of fun :grin::joy::smile::smiley::grin:

It’s her house. It may not be very considerate
 but it’s her house :woman_shrugging:

Y’all live in her house. Maybe y’all can go somewhere when her friend is over

Woahhhh. Honestly
. It’s not disrespectful that shes doing that while you’re there. It’s more disrespectful that you’re telling her how you feel about her doing her “thing” once a week. That’s pretty rude. She’s letting you live in her home
.she should be able to be free and do as she pleases whether the guy is using her as a fuck buddy
 I mean if she doesn’t care why should you? Fuck buddys exist. It’s normal. And if it bothers you so much you should leave the house as soon as he shows up. Or listen to music with some ear phones?

Wait
 are you in her house???
The woman can do what she wants.

It’s time to move out of the nest!!

Play music and let her get her back blown out, fking cockblocker. :joy::joy::joy:

You could move out so she can have sex at her full capacity. :woman_shrugging: you’re hindering HER not the other way around. Buy your family some ear plugs.

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Okay first off, people can have fuckbuddies or FWB. Whatever you wanna call it. Second, you’re in HER house. Why should she have to be quiet in her own home? Lmao. If she’s loud, theyre having a good Ole time :rofl: Leave her be or move out.

Move out. Its her house

Your living in her house. You need to respect that. Get some noise cancelling headphones. And grow up.