Cut ties. She will never change her lack of behaviour towards you
Just because they are “family” don’t mean you have to keep them in your life
Still your mum! The only mum you will ever have.
Why do you even talk to her ?
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Pull the plug…you’re being played by a narcissistic woman…
My mother used to be my best friend… She’s so toxic, i barely speak to her and leave her on seen. My mother has pulled that card on me too and tbh, you become so numb and your heart hardens towards them, you don’t care. Distant yourself. She pulls that card on you, you tell her “yes. And as a grown woman, you understand that’s called manipulation and narcissistic.” I have put my mother in her place and she still doesn’t get she failed us as a mother. But she definitely feels the strain in our relationship. Stand your ground. Just because she’s your mom means absolutely nothing. 
Shoulda cut her the moment u moved away. U have no 0ne else to blame except yourself for this
Sometimes you must love from a distance.
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Cut her out now. The guilt u might feel will not be as powerful as the peace you’ll feel
Forgive your mother and love her but step away if she doesn’t change.
Cut her and all negativity with her
Your not the only one but That’s how Mothers are we
That’s love…I think su🤷♀️
Toxic is toxic no matter who it is.
Toxic and cut her off immediately
Your mom is an arsehole. You went and got married and didn’t tell her, since you know that she’s a toxic drama Queen. Yet you decide to tell her not just once, but twice that you’re having a baby and she goes and tells everyone the gender. I would be keeping my distance as it’s clear she just can’t help herself in meddling in your life to upset you and cause drama in your family.
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Tell her to see a psychiatrist …
Your mother is a narcissist. She’ll never change. I would cut ties if I were you. All the best 
What a sad sad world when the only advice anyone can give is to just say “throw the toxic away”
Sounds like a bunch of weak folks on this page who are quick to run from everything… I’m in the wrong place
If you feel like mom is doing this and that wth certain situations, then just cut her from those parts…not from your life like these weirdos are suggesting you do
Slap a stamp on her forehead and take her to the post OFFICE with a RETURN TO SENDER smacked on her arse
Sorry we often as often given faulty parents!
Distance her today…….
Daughters Of Abusive Mothers you should check this out…
Cut her off immediately
Please I don’t want to read this kind of stuff get help if you need it
Just write her off and get over it
She sounds a lot like my mom. I got tired of her calling me while she was drunk, and calling me every name in the book. Telling me I was ungrateful, and selfish. I took a 10 month break from her. Blocked her phone number, on fb, refused to see her. It was so nice not having her drama. I don’t approve of her bf because he’s verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive. She chose her boyfriend over me. Recently we moved back home to be closer to the rest of my family. I wrote her a letter, setting boundaries for her, and told her I never wanted to see her bf again, nor will my child ever meet him. I’ve lived here 9 months now. She’s only made effort to see us ONCE in that time, and it’s because her mom and sister were in town. I live 30 minutes away from her. I’m also not fb friends with her, but I am with her sister. My mom logs into her sisters page, to look through my profile. So pathetic that she’d rather do that than just mend things with me. My sister lives about 15 minutes from her too. She only sees her and my nieces twice a year. She still makes zero effort to change.
I say, don’t waste your time with her. If she’s not willing to put forth the effort, and you’ve set your boundaries. Cut ties. Your mental health is important. It’s not worth it. Just because she gave birth to you, does not give her any right to treat you that way. Respect is a two way street. She needs to understand that your feelings matter. You have to take care of yourself and your family.
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You know what you need to do
Classic sociopathic narcissist 
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Tell her to fuck off
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You got to cut the cancer out.
Cut ties. Just because she birthed you, doesn’t make her a good mother. And just because they’re blood, doesn’t make them family.
Then why do you keep telling her the gender,get a grip on yourself and stop people pleasing her,walk away from the toxic old bag🤔
Cut her out. Do not let your loyalty pull her back in.
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This group is fantastic and will teach you how to set boundaries.
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The Sisterhood: Daughters of Narcissistic and Abusive Mothers may be a place for you to talk
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Not every woman has maternal instincts…
Some women do not have maternal instincts…you have 2 choices…
Accept her as she is…
Or live your life 3 thousand miles apart with a phone call here and there, a visit once a year and peace everyday…
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Just because she is family doesn’t mean you have to keep her in your life. Toxic is toxic and will mess you up if you keep it in your life. Cut the ties.
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Sounds exactly like my mother 
. I finally cut all ties and I’m here to tell ya, best thing I could have done! I love her because she’s my mom but I don’t like her one bit. Very evil and toxic. I wish you all the best 
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My mom is toxic. I love her always will but I love her from a distance. We dont talk about anything person at all mostly we talk maybe once every 3 weeks. Way less drama, no toxic, wat easier and less stressful. I found loving my mom from a distance worked really well.
I think you know the answer, don’t let this toxic person destroy your family. You need to rise above for your children’s sake. Short visit twice a year and let her know why…her wicked tongue.
Throw the whole mom out. IDGAF. Just because she birthed you doesn’t mean you owe her shit. If she’s toxic she’s toxic. Don’t put you or your little family in the path of that disaster. Like dude thats going to seep into your children… flat out… people who don’t remove toxic people out of their lives or the lives of their children are bad parents. And im not sorry for saying that.
The best way to find out is go to some Alanon meeting to learn that you don’t have to have toxic people in your life.
When you can’t control what is happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what is happening. That’s where your power is. Sound familiar?
THIS one is going to have THAT baggage for the rest of her Life , because she can’t cut the cord !!! The fate of MANY …
Probably Your mom is a “perverse narcissist mom” google it… u will learn a lot…
Cut ties with mom …strange …
I would go low contact, where you talk to the bare minimum and if that isn’t enough and she is still affecting your state of mind, I’d go no contact
I say your a grown adult do what makes u happy and stop living on what happened in your childhood that can not effect you now
Stop telling her anything. Cut ties!
Quit telling her stuff you want kept secret and greatly reduce your contact with her. You have control over that. The “I’m your Mother” stuff doesn’t have to work if you control and limit contact. You should tell her your busy with your children and husband but you 'll call when you can. When she calls don’t answer and delete message, don’t listen to them. It’s your life, your children and your friends. If she cannot respect that add blocking her. You might seek counseling and or join a support group. Nice to have that support.
Loving some people from a distance is a MUST for your mental and physical health‼️
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What you said, cut the damn cord.
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Why is this freak in your life
Your Mother has a problem and you are not it. Cut your ties with no guilt. She is toxic and will bring you down everytime. Walk away.
Get rid of the bitch! I really wish I could understand why far too many people will forgive close blood relatives for the most absolutely horrid of treatment that they would never forgive even a spouse for often times! There is no reason whatsoever to allow family to treat you like crap! Divorce her and remove yourself and your children from her. You are right that she is toxic and suffers from severe narcissism. The likelihood she will ever improve or change is nonexistent.
I’m sorry- you keep giving her the information, but somehow think she’s NOT going to do it again? & again? I’m not sure the problem is your Mother ~
Stop telling her shit
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Your family are the people you can trust and have your back no matter what. Being blood does not make you family. Choose your own family and be happy with that. Leave the person who gave birth to you to her own devices since she has shown you over and over again she is just out for the attention and cannot be trusted. I wish you the best.