That’s crazy. Your parents are crazy.
What kinda shit is that???
They can’t do that I’m pretty sure they would get laughed at In court
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This would be any judge if they tried to take it to court
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I thought this was a joke.
All kinds of fucked up.
Wow. Tell them no and leave it they are shocking sorry if they don’t like it you may fall out over this but that’s bonkers x
My friend’s mom tried pulling that shit on him while receiving both child support and welfare at the same time.
That’s a nightmare and manipulative as hell. That’s honestly crazy and repulsive and no wonder its causing you to feel physically ill.
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wow. You don’t owe them a penny
Omg… What did I just read… Yeah get a lawyer. Take it to court.
This is the one of the strangest things I have ever heard! Sorry I have no advice as I literally thought you were joking 
This is fucking insane! I’m sorry but they are weirdos
I would cut off contact if possible.
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Tell them to eff off. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life.
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This post disgusts me, not by you but by your parents. Not all family is blood. Remember that. You are a sweet, sweet woman sharing this 
Tell them they must be joking, it’s all part of being a good parent. Then distance them from your life until they realise what they could lose, this is way bigger then money. Pgeople are precious especially our children. I am a mother of 4 amazing kids and I find what your parents are doing is disgusting. I am also a grandmother of 9 and I love them unconditionally.
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Wow.
Cut them off and tell them if they want the money, take you to court and try their luck there.
What awful human beings
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Don’t know you, but I love you and your child
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Wow!!
Why did they have a kid in the first place?
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Don’t pay them anything. Sorry to hear your parents are expecting payment, and quite shocked they actually kept track of spending. Because you were a minor, legally they were responsible for you. You didn’t take a loan fro your parents, something that is agreed upon, so you aren’t required to pay them back - anything.
Lmao…good made up story!
They can’t force you. You never signed anything. They have no legal basis so just say no and break ties.
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I don’t even know what to say that is awful. I’d cut them off personally fuck that
I think even if you went to court for this the judge would laugh in their face. Not to be harsh or rude to your parents of course but FUCK man what kinda parents do that? What’s the point in even having children???
You don’t have to pay them back. You never signed anything and couldn’t legally do so at the age of 12. They are LEGALLY required and responsible for you until 18 years of age 
unless they emancipated you, they can’t expect money from you. Even if they tried to fight you in court, the judge could not do much for them. I’d let them know that if that’s what they think then they can kindly stop buying anything and distanced yourself until they understand you’re not giving in. It’s one thing to ask your adult child for financial support, but to expect payment like that is absurd
I would love to see this on a judge Mathis show
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Oh please take that to court the judge will laugh at them you are their responsibility as a child these pathetic humans won’t get a cent for doing their duties
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This is totally absurd they were responsible for taking total care of you until at least age 18
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They are very selfish uncaring parents
You should stop all contact with them and certainly not pay them anything
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Your kids don’t ask to be born it is your choice you need to look after them until they are 18 years old I am dumbfounded that any parent would think their children have to pay them back for their childhood I would not pay it back what kind of parents are theses morons
It was their job to buy you things when you were 12. How weird are your parents 
Your parents are dimented. Treat it as a bad joke.
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What a shame they don’t deserve to be your parents they laid down to have you and their responsibilities was to take care of you idk what their motive is but their very selfish
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Steven Tregale this can’t be true…
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Wtf What a load of bullshit
Tell them you want to sue them as you didn’t ask to be born
Your parents are off their heads! 
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If this is a true story, I’m sorry but tell ya parents to fuck off c
This would be laughed out of court if a judge would even allow it to be brought to court.
Firstly they’re obligated legally to provide for your needs until your a legal adult. Secondly a gift is a gift and you can’t expect repayment of a gift.
Legal part aside this is extremely shitty of them to do and honestly I’d cut them out of my life totally, you and your kids don’t need that kind of greed in your lives.
You don’t need to pay them shit. They have no legal rights on this whatsoever and tell to stick any further ‘Help’ up their holes xxx
How peculiar. My kids are adults but they need a coat I’m buying it, while I’m alive if I can help them I will.
Your mother is on another level, narcissistic behaviour
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This is the craziest thing I’ve ever heard! Regardless of how old my children are, I will always try my hardest to get them what they need and sometimes what they want - I wanted my children and therefore I am responsible for them until they become an adult and even then I will still help them out if they needed. A coat? It’s a necessity and it’s their job to make sure they fulfil their children’s needs! I would understand if it started at 18 and it was for things you borrowed or asked them to pay for but 12?!?! That’s insane!
I think your parents have problems within themselfs no parent should expect you to pay all that back they should of ot had hildren our job as parents is to provide for our children i would not pay a cent tell them to take the ledger an burn it
I’d tell them to take you to court. Better yet, Judge Judy so they can be televised saying this nonsense!
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Sorry (Not sorry) but think this post a lickle joke?
Regardless…
Ask them what old folks home they would like to be in…
…Make sure they don’t go in it, pocket the cheque, leave them to rot.
Yep… no worries for any ledgers prior to 18!!! You were a minor. Period. Not to talk shit about your parents but this is craziness!!! Craziness!!! I don’t think any of this would hold up in court, so I don’t think you have anything to actually worry about. However, I can’t help but think something must’ve prompted this, this can’t be just a random convo…like, hey remember that coat when you were 13, you owe me for it etc… What started this??? We need more info
Tell her to take you to court. Running ledger LMFAO, I just spent $200 on my daughter today, I can’t imagine what her ledger looks like n she’s not even 3 yet!!!
You and mom need to go to counseling about this. Outrageous!
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Counter with a bill for pain, suffering, and trauma they’ve caused you. 
#evensteven
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Jane Fraley Jennifer Brown this is Anne Knebeg 
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Sue them for malpractice
I’d laugh at them first tell them from. 12-18 that be crossed off as it there duty of care to look after. Gifts once gave they can be crossed off as they choice to buy them and there was no agreement to pay back then ask how much money I borrowed over years and agree to pay back which in my case would be zero and there the number
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Is this person serious. I’d divorce yr family. Not pay them and let them take u to court. It wouldn’t stand up as you didnt sign anything with them to say u were borrow ing any of it. What horrible parents
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Your parents were legally responsible for you until you were an adult. If you needed a coat she had to supply it period! Generally, unless there was a specific agreement (ie, you consented to a loan as an adult for everything they’ve bought since) then family giving family money isn’t legally enforceable. Your parents need help…and not the legal kind.
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It’s lovely some people lead such shelter loves to believe this is a joke 
there are people out there like this
Presents are presents
Looking after you is a parents duty.
I’d be furious
Really furious
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I really do hope this is a joke🤔
Walk away you do not have to pay this it is not your responsibility your parents are being ignorant do not pay this
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Screw them . Legally up until you’re 18 they have to pay for things such as coats !! Anything before 16 or 18 they can’t fight for … also unless they have it in writing or it was a verbal agreement both of you are aware of then they have nothing & their actions just show how cruel they are
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Your parents are insane. U dnt owe them a,dime for anything under the age of 18 or if their was no set agreement on anything after. Let them try suing you. A,judge would laugh them out of the courtroom for being the idiots they are
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On offense but you don’t owe them anything.
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My dear friend, you don’t owe your parents anything for what they have done for you as a child and as for your children, their grandchildren, you owe them nothing. For your car if you were an adult then, you were working, and depended on your vehicle to take you back and forth, if they want to be repaid for the work done. Pay them! Just don’t give up on the love for your parents over money. For the good that you do in your life the good Lord Yahweh, Yeshua Hamashiach, Jesus Christ, will reward you bountiful lyl! Fear not, have courage and put your trust in the good Lord. All the best to you and your kids and to your parents too. Yah love Levi.
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Hell no! So much no here.
You can’t ask your child to pay for a gift you got for their birthday, no matter their age or financial situation. WTF are they smoking?
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You cant possibly afford to pay them back so stop stressing about it. They are insane. Tell them that every time you allow them to enter your house to visit your children there is a fee and they can deduct it from the amount you owe them. I dont think I have ever heard anything more ridiculous in my who life! Just laugh at them and get on with your life.
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Take them to judge Judy she will laugh them off the show
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That’s disgusting. Id honestly ride them off and never speak to them again. You didn’t choose to be born, it was literally their choice to have you so they had the responsibility of taking care of you. If they think you owe them money for all those years then they need mental help…
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Tell them SUE ME! The statute of limitations has run to collect on most all this alleged debt. Even if there is a ledger, any agreements lacked a meaningful understanding of the terms.
Your parents are crazy lol
This breaks my heart so much. No offense, but your parents sound sick in the head. I wouldn’t give them a dime before 18. 
Im so sorry you’re having to deal with this 
Kim Batistich hope you’re weren’t keeping a tally cause I ain’t paying 
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Honey, don’t worry over this. DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING! They could take you to small claims court but they would probably throw the case out.
I’m so sorry. I don’t even know what to call parents like these. It’s appalling. Not sure if you live with them, but now would be a good time to move out and cut all ties. Loving parents don’t do this.
Say your dad touched you.
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They chose to have children so they chose to pay for that child until they are grown.
Everything since you didnt ask for and are gifts.
I’d tell them where to go with their ledger.
I’m beyond words what sort of parents do this.
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Emily Mc Carthy don’t even think about it
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Is this a joke? I seriously cant even take this seriously that’s how pathetic and ridiculous it is. You need to laugh in your parents faces and ask them, “are u being fucking serious?” And if they say yes, tell them to send you to collections then LOL. Seriously though I am so sorry that your parents did this. This is an absolute joke and I cannot fathom a parent who would do this.
What the actual fuck
This is a joke right???
Tell them to deduct it from your inheritance when they both die and go to hell!!
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Id cut your parents out money grabbing a holes they are they shouldn’t have kids if they didnt want to buy them stuff
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Tell them to feck off surely they can’t even take you to court, this is absolutely madness!
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Did you just win a settlement or the lottery? Why all of a sudden do they think you can/should pay them?? I would sever all ties with them. They’re clearly Nuts!!!
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OFFER TO MAKE PAYMENTS. Sounds like it’s more than you could ever pay off. 10 dollars a week. My mom did this to me and to my daughter when they gave her a truck at 16 years old.
When went to make PAYMENTS she would need to go shopping or out to eat sometimes .She would pay buy my daughter clothes, me stuff for home ext. Looking back it was her way of making sure I was ok. She is in heaven now and I would love to go shopping. Buy one get one free. She bought one and I picked free one for me shoes Jean lol.
I may start writing up my kids list now ready for when they turn 18
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My parent did this to me but I was in and out of the home at a very young age because my parents had 9 kids and could not take care of all of use my dad divorce my mom who left and didn’t really come back tile I was 23/24 this includes birthday cards with 20 or 5 and a phone call every 8/12 months my step mom is well evil and hated use we were to no be see or heard ever and only clean ect when I was 23 I had my first child and I was a full time student getting my RN need less to say I asked my parents if I could live in their old garage / I would pay my costs and rent and fix it up for them as a mint her in law house they agreed I put 10,000 into the house in 6 months wedding money mostly and taxes … as soon as the finishing touches were done water and power brand new everything !! Including re framing the whole place by my grandpa who did it for free and Lifting and reframing the floor for free ect they kick me and my daughter out and also said they would keep the rent after I dumped all that money into the house in an account for me so when I moved I could have a down for a house they didn’t do anything like that I pretty much would have been better off on my own they still live in the mother in law house I build and my sister had the other house all to her self who’s lived their for years while my parents expect my to always go out of my way for them !! I have not talk to them in almost a year now and it feel amazing for me to not have those kind of people in my life anymore the ones who look out for themselves everything is about what they can get 
my poor children though they only have family on my husbands side now it’s a personal choice but I think you need to really read what you wrote and think is that normal is that healthy is that Ok!!
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They’ll never collect nor should they
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I’d say anything between 12 - 16/18 (depending the age in your state you are classed as a adult) doesn’t count parents are legally obliged to pay for their children, it’s like maintenance even if they are together. As for anything that’s given at Christmas or birthday (like the truck) that’s classed as a gift and they’d have to prove otherwise it wasn’t. They wouldn’t stand a chance in court getting this money off you, it’s hard to prove between family if it was a gift or loan unless it’s in writing and you signed it to say you would pay back. They sound rather toxic! Don’t pay them back.
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Without something signed saying you agreed to pay this it really means nothing. Especially from age 12-18. They can’t MAKE you pay for things as a child in their care. You were their dependent. Stop contact with them and don’t allow them to gift you anything else, you are not a tax write off.
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Have a shite in their front garden xox
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I would ask if they paid their own parents back!
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Ahhh no! There were no contracts or disclosures!!! A parents job is to provide and care for their child. How they chose to do it should not result in a punishment for you later in life… geez I think the world has gone mad. You sure it’s not an April Fools joke 
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Until your 18 your legally their responsibility and that includes l financially does it not 🤦
That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. What sort of parents would expect money back when it was their responsibility to take care of you? I would cut them both out of my life completely.
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WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK! Your parents are fucked up bruh!
God, I hope my parents aren’t doing this shit too me. I’m still asking them for money at 25 hahaha
They are assholes. Sorry not sorry. In uk its 18 until you dont have to do anything for your child, even though we obviously do. But tbh in USA it should be 21. As soonas your legal to drink and think your an adult then thats when they should charge from. Even though it was their CHOICE to buy stuff for you. Different if you borrow money and then dont pay it back for x amount of time
Id actually embarress um n take it to a solicitor n have him send a letter your their child
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I would totally cut ties with them. That has to be the most ridiculous thing! If you had made an agreement to pay for things, fine, you pay it back, but a big HELL NO to this situation!
Tell them no, you do not have to pay back childhood expenses 