Make a sexy calendar of yourself and only make one of them. Tell them it’s worth more than what you owe. Or say your going to blow your brains out. Either way I would screw with them hard if I was you!
Toxic parents divorce them immediately !!
Your parents have mental issues
Your parents are crazy
What the he’ll! No omg no this is just o sans cheap cheap cheap shame on them
I would consult a lawyer, things that were given as a gift I don’t believe you have an obligation to pay for later just because they’ve changed their minds or if they didn’t specify in advance. Also, they’re not entitled to repayment of anything they gave or got for you before you were 18 unless you specifically said you would pay them back. If you can’t afford it right it because it is way wrong to dump that all on you at once
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This is a joke! Right 
Your parents suck. Get your shit together… Grow up and move out.
You don’t owe them anything. They are your parents and should have never done such a thing… tell them how this made you feel … tell them you are giving them nothing and that if they want to continue to be part of your life to burn their ledger and never mention it again …
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That’s ok just let them know you will be adding there total when they are old and need a carer
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Tell them to take you to court! I guarantee you the judge will take one look at them after hearing this craziness and court order them to the loony bin! That’s completely stupid and idiotic! 
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Sue them for causing you trauma at child birth? As well as not sending you to a children’s home at 12 years of age. Where you would have had the option of free love and care from a foster family. Stop them seeing their grandchildren for fear of indebting them. Disown them!
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This is toxic
Cut them out
Parents are suppose to care for us and take care of our needs
They made those decisions as parents
It’s not like they have you a contract and you signed that everything you receive must be paid back
Toxic
Remove immediately
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Your parents evidently has a problem. Ignore them.
some people should never be parents. i think it’s time you cut them out of your life. obviously money is what they love, not you
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Tell them to take u to court and they will get laughed out of court and then cut them out of your life field good!
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Is this for real? Lol this can’t be a real post lol just ignore.
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I was not paying shit back. Let them take me to court and show the judge proof that I asked for this and that will be the last they heard from me. Do I have siblings?
Nope…do not pay. Contact a lawyer. Gifts are gifts, necessities are necessoties…what is their problem???
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Tell them to sue you , it is their responsibility to take care of you
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Anything before the age of 18 they absolutely can not do that with. Gifts they can not do that with. Unless there was a specific agreement put in place they can’t do it. I personally would tell them to go fuck themselves. That is so toxic the way they are treating you and you don’t need that negativity in your life. I recently had to cut off my mom and brother because they are both so toxic I ended up almost homeless with a newborn. Luckily I have a couple friends who helped me out.
Omg…relax. Your momsna fucking clown. Cut her out of your life and move on 
Are you serious?! I don’t think I’d pay them a penny back. Maybe not even talk to them for awhile…
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Anytime the buy your kids or you anything at all make them sign a statement saying that its a gift to you or the kids . Tell them you dont owe them anything at all . Dont let them buy you or the kids anything . If they just tell them no thank you I dont need anything from you .
You pay money back when it is a loan and both parties agree to it 
They need help, mental help, are therapy. Not sure how a parent could think you could provide for yourself at twelve years old. In our family we make sure all (even extended) family have food, clothes and necessities! No one worries where the $ came from ! ITS CALLED TAKING CARE OF YOUR OWN
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Bill them for 22 years of mental abuse. Or just type a receipt up and say you want to return everything
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I feel sick to my stomach just reading it what a shame it’s come to this as you where 12 then they are still legally responsible for you so you can’t start then as if there was nothing agreed before then it’s not legally binding so there is no problem but if your still living with them then that might cause a problem xx
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Your parents are mentally ill. You will have to inform them that you are not their retirement plan. Inform them to please refrain from buying you or your children anything in the future unless they choose to do so with no expectations of reimbursement. I would limit contact with them but maybe you’ll get lucky and they will be so mad they will limit contact with you! I’m so sorry your parents suck but i bet you’re a great mom despite their modeling!
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Are they fucking mental sorry but Jesus they have to be joking like
Yeah nah that wouldn’t fly
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Well you dont owe your parents anything before you turned 18 by law they are legally responsible for your care not providing those things would be neglect. The car was a gift as you said for your birthday and you dont pay for gifts. Other than that unless it was made clear from the beginning it was a loan in writing they have no standing.
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Tell them you ain’t paying it back and they can bring you to court if they don’t like it 
no judge would rule in their favor btw!
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Deduct everything they spent on you from 12-18
Deduct gifts
Add everything else
Subtract anything you’ve ever given them
Boom . Then tell them to take you to court, they won’t get a dime
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That there job to take care of you until your raise they both need some therapy. Court would have a good laugh.
Cut those toxic assholes from your life and move on.
Whoa ! Ummm, yeah no . 
Cut ties and say take me to court, not a human in the land that would agree with that shit
tell them to take u to court if they really believe they have a case… really encourage them let them make fools of themselves the judge will put them in their place… a parent has a financial responsibility for their child till 26th birthday
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Well, I’d ask for money for 16 years of therapy that they didn’t know of because of their bad parenting. And the hospital bill for giving birth because you thought they wanted grandchildren.
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I would tell them no. Then cut them out of your life. You or your kids don’t need them. And if they’re that ridiculous to try to take you to court. They’ll laugh out of the room
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They have issues! I’d ignore it, not accept any more gifts for the kids (including Birthday and holidays), and if they take you to court, I’m pretty sure it would be thrown out given the stupidity of it.
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Your don’t owe them a thing and shame in them, parents are required to provide for their children until they are adults and then it’s only a loan of you both agree to it otherwise it’s a gift. Let them try this on front of a judge and they would get laughed out of court. Don’t take anything else from them ever again though and maybe even cut contact until they get their heads straight.
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They are crazy… you owe them nothing…
Tell them you aren’t paying it. Plain and simple. That’s ridiculous. They would never win in court, because it’s a asinine request.
you don’t owe them shit
Tell them you aren’t paying and that you’ll be declining any gifts from them for yourself or your children in the future. I don’t know what your relationship is like but if they’re always dicks I’d say this is cut off worthy.
I wouldn’t pay it and I would never speak to those crazy people again. I had 7 kids and that’s including a disrespectful 13 year old troubled step daughter move in with us and never told her to pay me back for anything. I never asked to be paid back for anything. Horrible. Cut them out of your life.
I thought this was a joke. How heartbreaking and disgusting for a parent to do such a thing. They should be ashamed of themselves. This runs much deeper than money. I would not give them a dime there is a cost to raising a child!
Tell them that is your fee for allowing them in your life and if they want to remain in your life they will let it go. If not, they can take you to court for it.
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Tell them you want a refund on all the love you had for them since you were 12. How ridiculous, do they never want to see their grandkids again? I’ve never heard of such a thing.
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You don’t owe them anything. Debt is incurred when both parties enter into an agreement. The “debt” was incurred without your knowledge. Write them a business type letter stating that you are not agreeing to any “loans” going forward and that any gifts they give you or your children are “gifts” and not an agreed upon debt. That if a “loan” is made, both parties must sign a legal agreement. Make a copy and send it registered mail, signature required. Then take a deep breath and move forward. Don’t get into a battle over it as you won’t get anywhere. Not worth you expending the energy. Very sad.
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I could see anything after 18 like fixing the car, but not buying shit for the g kids.
Tell them to get bent. Cut them outa your life for good.
Tell them to get fucked?
Omg really, it’s a parent’s responsibility to take care of their children. You dont owe them anything. I think your parents need therapy BIG TIME!!!
You dont owe them nothing. They brought you into this world they are obliged to raise you. Cut contact with them they have issues …
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That is totally f’d up!!! I’d tell them to take me to court & just try & get that $!!! Parents have a responsibility to provide for their children! I wouldn’t except ANYTHING from them again, EVER!!! Me personally would never speak to them again but that’s jus me:angry:
Just forget it. You owe them nothing. They chose to have you.
Ummm that’s bullshit. Don’t pay them anything. They are psychotic for even doing that AND asking! Get away from them they sound toxic as hell.
There’s family and there are relatives. Cut off all ties with these people. Are you sure they’re your biological parents? They’re disgusting!
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Any parent who asks for payment for what they spent over the years bringing their child up is wrong in my opinion.There was a record out years ago that more or less covered this.lt was ‘No Charge’.l can’t remember who sang it.You bring your children up with love and love is what they give to you.How can you put a price on that.??? 
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Tell them you were their child and that was their responsibility, and if they don’t like they don’t have to see you and your kids anymore.
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Hmm and what about the yrs 0 to 11?.. just write them a note saying you never asked to be born… can they please " unborn" you?
its not worth falling out with them over but its unfair to charge you from so young. maybe from age 18 but only when you ask for it.
This sounds to me like a mental health issues. My condolences.
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I’d charge hem with child endangerment.
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Tell them you didn’t give permission for them to give birth to you and you are taking them to court over it. That’s how ridiculous it is. Regardless of anything else they are financially responsible for you in til 18
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They’ll never get it. So don’t sweat it
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Ask to look at it - then burn it. Ll:rofl:
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Uh, tell them to go fuck themselves lmao
Ok. Then tell them you want the child tax credit back from their taxes for all those years that you weren’t their dependent, but they claimed you anyway. I’m horrified you’re even entertaining this! They won’t win if they try to sue you. Cut those toxic, money hungry asshats out your life and move on. Fuck them.
Tell her to go take ya ass to court and see who wins that fight not ya moms
Tell them to take you to court and see how far their tab goes. Dicks
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Cut them off immediately. They don’t deserve you or your kids.
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Fuck that. Parents or not…cut out the toxicity. That’s not debt…that’s called parenting. They should have learned that long ago. Wow. How hurtful and downright mean.
Judge Judy would laugh at this one!!!
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I would be cutting them off and returning what I could and tell them to never contact me or my children again. And if court is what they want you will happily see there dumbasses there
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I would go to court just to hear what the judge tells them!!
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If you had asked for the money, like to fix your car, then yes, pay it back. But anything of necessity, like coats, shoes, clothing etc, you don’t pay back. Gifted items, like your kids clothing don’t pay back, since you didn’t ask them to do it.
Or you can be really petty and pay them $5 a month on your “debt”.
Wtf…? They’re your parents. They had an obligation to pay for everything until you turned 18… After that (legally speaking) unless they told you that you were to pay them back for the things they buy they have no right to that money. It’s considered a gift. They aren’t entitled to your money.
Maybe they’re broke and need some money and don’t want to ask you for help? If it was my parents I’d say “are you that hard up on money that you’re willing to risk our relationship to get it?”
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Oh hell no! They are financially responsible of their children until they turn 18! I wouldn’t pay them a dime.
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mean spirited and what I would call nasty unbeleivable and ignorant!
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Tell them they shoulda kept their legs shut If they couldn’t afford a kid. What a joke for parents…
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Don’t pay them I’m sorry but u might have to disown them
Wow I’m so shocked to read this story. Firstly you didn’t ask to be born, they wanted to have children, secondly you don’t owe them anything as they were supposed to provide all things necessary things as a child. Thirdly any gifts given to you were not for you to pay back as they decided they wanted to give it to you even though they didn’t have too.
I’m actually shocked that they had the nerve to even start a journal for this not to mention even think of asking you to pay it back.
I honestly would cut them off and keep my kids away from them as they will do the same thing to your kids too. Any money you ever borrowed pay them off by $1 a month.
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You don’t have to disown ur parents or take them to court 
. It’s obvious there’s something wrong with them. I’d give them $1 a week payment plan. I’d also schedule some kind of family counseling.
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Wtf… Parents are responsible for their children till they are 18. There is no contract you signed. You don’t gotta pay them anything. This is one of the craziest things I’ve ever heard.
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I’m sorry you have such shitty parents. They sound awful.
You are kidding right???
I am so sorry that these are the " parents " you were given. Let them pay the court fees and watch them get laughed at.
This is seriously crazy and the thing that TV court shows are made of lol. I would definitely speak to them and explain that anything before 18 was their responsibility, that you never asked them for the money/gifts, and that you never agreed to pay them back and it is unfair to spring this on you. If they insist I would do the “payment plan” idea others have suggested and give them like a $1 a week or $5 a month all while continuing to explain how ridiculous this is.
Tell them to take you to court
Tell them to take you to court.
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I’m sorry…I would laugh in their faces And then probably not speak to them again because they’re crazy!
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No!! It was their responsibility to provide for you until you were an adult!! They sound awful!!
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…they WERE gifts. This is a joke right?.. tell them to take u to court for the money lol If they’re actually being serious, you have some pretty fucked up parents though.
Are they on drugs or something to explain this level of crazy? It’s our job as parents to provide for our children.
Elise Rioux sound like someone 
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I would tell them in the most respectful way possible to fuck off. You were a kid. You absolutely should not have to pay them back and if they took you to court for it, they’d lose. Unless it is specified now that you’re an adult that it’s a loan not a gift, you don’t owe them crap.
Sis…your parents are broken. You dont even need to worry about paying them…just figure out how toxic they are to you and whether or not you want to keep them in your life.
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What…they cant force that so I would ignore it