I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now we have met each others families we have plans to move in together in September well recently we have been fighting like crazy over everything. To the point where we both wonder if we will work out. Anyways my son absolutely adores him & I don’t know when it’s time to call it quits. has anyone got to a point where they fight with their partner almost every day & it got better?
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It depends… what is it that’s causing you to fight?
You two have to learn how to compromise or it’ll never stop. No couple will ever be on the “same page” in the beginning, but you have to basically create a new life, with an open mind, patience, and understanding. I live by the term “agree to disagree”. Just smile and say you’re right baby. Take his views, morals, and lifestyle mix them with yours, and create something new.
To be honest I did this with my first husband right before we got married it did get better it was just all the stress of getting married moving and so much going on , Also be honest if you two love each other please try and make it work alot of people give up way to easy anymore we all bicker and fuss but is it worth it to walk away . Try everything you can before giving up like I said if your in love.
If your askin’ it’s time…
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It depends on what’s causing the fights and what attempts you’ve both made at communicating and correcting the issues.
If there is no communication and no compromise towards resolutions, then no, it’s not going to get better.
If you’re fighting every single day, and you’re not even living together, putting yourselves in the same space daily isn’t going to make it better.
Your son can absolutely adore him, but your son seeing the two of you fighting and arguing daily will do irreparable damage in the long run.
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When you fight more than you get along after only a year…Thank your lucky Stars you aren’t married because those little fights only turn bigger as time goes on.
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See a couples counselor to find out what the real issues are and how to communicate without devolving into fights. Even if you ultimately break up you’ll have the opportunity to gain emotional maturity in dealing with others.
My boyfriend ate like that some days, but at the end of the day I think the good outweighs the bad and that makes it better
Establish weather is a disagreement or a fight.
What happens during said engagements…
What caused it.
Facts over feelings.
A year and you haven’t met each others families but want to get serious enough to get a place together? Someone hiding something?
Quit before you get pregnant