What the f. Ma’am you need to leave that man fast as hell. That’s not okay.
1 Like
Easy as heck to advise her to leave, didn’t you read the word violent! This man keeps her life in fear, she breathes it, the last thing she wants to do is piss him off and rock the boat
this is now her mental state, someone non bias and trustworthy with a safe plan needs to step up and take her hand and guide her to saftey, stand with her, by her side, she feels weak, this isn’t something she feels she can do alone, he has her mentally trapped…
Ohhh hell no!! That is abuse! This is not okay. GET OUT! It only gets worse.
Get out before it’s too late, if not for yourself do it for your kids sake. Stay with a family member or friend until you can get a place to stay
2 Likes
Hes doing WHAT
run run as fast as you can baby:sob:
4 Likes
Go sleep in a single bed with your children.
4 Likes
I’d leave this is abuse and ur kids are being abused too by seeing this
That is seriously disturbing! You and your children will be much safer sleeping in a single bed together then sleeping under the same roof as that psychopath! Dear god!
4 Likes
I would deal with a one bedroomto get my kids away from him until you can get on your feet.
3 Likes
I’d call the cops and get his ass tossed out 
one of those hair cuts could be a neck slice. No thank you. I’m in fear for my life officer, remove this pathetic fuck of a human being
L E A V E! This is a major red flag mama. Do what you gotta do and leave. Ground 1 may start off rough but you can build up on your own 
You deserve better.
4 Likes
Definitely don’t sleep in the same room with him then. Start planning an exit strategy.
3 Likes
You really want your kids seeing a controlling violent man? You’re gonna wind up losing them to the state if you don’t leave
2 Likes
Did you read this after you wrote it?
Sleep on the floor if you have to. Tf
5 Likes
What’s his next threat going to be? You have to leave
1 Like
Stop making excuses and leave. Do you want to leave in a body bag and your kids motherless???
3 Likes
Leave and take ur kids with you! Xxx
Leave him now. Major red flag!
1 Like
Go sleep on a floor if you have to. Get out, it will only get worse.
1 Like
Sleep in that single bed with your babies
1 Like
Get out of there while you can!
1 Like
Sleep on the damn couch
1 Like
I can cash app you $$20 to get a blow up mattress if need be. Get out now!!
1 Like
Go home and sleep where ever you have to. Get out.
Get an air mattress and sleep next to the kids, if that’s not doable, sleep on the floor
Go to a shelter. This is abuse.
Take that single bed and run…
That is abuse. It WILL escalate. Having your kids in that enviornment with an abuser is considered neglect. They can take your kids. I divorved a man like that. After he almost killed me.
1 Like
Move home , get your kids mattresses from someone or a charity for your kids and make it work … wtf
Sleep in a single bed with your kids or let them sleep on bed and make yourself one on floor but please get out
2 Likes
I’d rather be sleeping in a single bed safe with my kids…
1 Like
Wtf?! Get out. You know you need to. Get an air mattress stat
Take your kids and leave
1 Like
Get home sleep in the single bed xx
2 Likes
Take the single bed and run away
4 Likes
call the police oh my god!
Honestly choose the single bed I did and was sharing a single bedroom with my son and had a single mattress on the ground for a bed at the start but made sure My son had his cot and it was the best thing I ever did I’m now in a house with just me and my son and we are so happy and have our place to call home,please start slowly packing and find someone you trust to help you get you and the kids away safely it’s not going to get better its only going to get worse the single bed situation is only temporary!
7 Likes
A restraining order you’ll get the home and he will be forced to leave or go to an abuse shelter
2 Likes
Leave immediately girl. This seriously is a psychopath. If you don’t leave now, I fear one day you might get killed by him. As long as you stay and tolerate the abuse, it will continue and probably get worse.
2 Likes
I’ve been through this before. My ex husband would sleep with a gun under his pillow. And would threaten to kill me in my sleep. Along with hitting me daily. Would even make it look like I was the one who was crazy to family. And so much more. I get it… I get it that you are scared and have so many worries. My daughter watched it happen. But you can do it! Their is a way. Take the help you can get. And sleep in a twin been or on the floor so your kids have some where safe to be. If not just for yourself do it for them. From experience it’s only going to get way worse. And the last step you’ll be in a body bag. You and your kids deserve better than that. They need you. I’m a message away if you ever need someone to talk to.
4 Likes
Okay that is insane. Run!
2 Likes
WTF do you mean!? “Your only choice is to MOVE BACK WITH YOUR KIDSSSSSS!!” Wait I gotta read this again!
1 Like
How have you not gotten rid of all the scissors in your house every night?? Also, kick him out or leave yourself.
Kick his arse to the kerb…
Get out before he uses the scissors in other ways.
1 Like
Ok I reread and what I thought is correct! You should be out… PERIOD if you even have a option to share a twin bed with your two kid’s AND IT SOUNDS AS IF YOU CAN AFFORD A PLACE BUT “don’t like the HOUSES”…? WOWWW! YOU AIN’T LEAVING HIM JOT EVEN FOR YOUR KID’S SAKE because you wouldn’t care if you “like” the houses… So don’t make a post making ppl worry if leaving isn’t even TRULY a option for you! State that you are “venting” instead… Smh… Fyi, the kids are NEXT if you don’t stop the pickie B’s too… Seriously good luck!
2 Likes
The safety of you and your children should always come first. File a restraining order asap and leave. Don’t wait for the abuse to escalate.
2 Likes
You can’t control what you do in your sleep, what if he decides to slit your throat one night because it’s the loudest you’ve ever been and cutting your hair just isn’t teaching you a lesson… like that’s dead ass how his brain could sound. Like he has zero perception for boundaries or what is wrong and not wrong. He is resorting to physically touching you when you do something wrong in your sleep. You have zero control in your sleep.
That would be like hitting his dick every morning he wakes up with a hard on.
It doesn’t make sense mentally. Gtfo and run, run, run. Get a protection order or something because you leaving can send him over the edge. Abusive people have zero sense for boundaries or regard for others.
I don’t normally choose violence……BUTTTTT if that MF came near me with said scissors 
he wouldn’t have anything left “downstairs.” Get out, run!
So move bk home and sleep in a single bed with your kids, good lord woman.
5 Likes
Thats not normal atall. I would be too scared to be in the same house he sounds like a lunatic. Take yourself and your kids and stay with family if you can, until you can get on your feet
1 Like
Go home. Leave him yesterday already
It gets worse
Trust me
Move back home and sleep in a single with your 2 kids.
3 Likes
What the actual Fu#%!
Get Rid Of This Idiot You Can Do BETTER
Sleeping in a single bed is better than putting up with an abusive partner 
3 Likes
You need to leave asap and file a restraining order. Honestly it doesnt matter where you sleep as long as youre alive. Call the national dv hotline to make a safe plan to leave which they can help with and they will house you too. Abuse only escalates, the women who are killed by dv it didnt start out like that
3 Likes
Maybe I’m just dark but if someone was doing that to me I’d use those scissors to cut something else on him. You need to leave that man!
1 Like
What the… press charges on that mfer and LEAVE HIS ASS!!
Do you have sleep apnea? That could be why you are snoring.
However, this behavior is NOT okay. This is abuse. Take the bed with your kids before he does something worse.
Run !!! and get out of there before it’s too late
3 Likes
I’d rather sleep on the floor than to stay in a relationship like that. You and your kids need to get out of there. You and your kids will be a lot safer sharing a bed than in the situation you’re in now.
4 Likes
Make a bed on the floor beside your kids it’s a sacrifice that could honestly save your life
Snoring or not, you need to get out of that situation. If not for yourself, then do it for your kids.
1 Like
Move. Take the single with the kids.
1 Like
Go to that single bed with the 2 kids!
1 Like
Thats not normal. Dont put up with that. I would move back home
And keep looking for your own place from there xx
I had to move back home and slept on a foam mat with my child until I found something better… you do what you have to do to get you to the next step
I wouldn’t put up with that.
Kick his ass out girl!! That is crazy, and not OK in anyway!! 
for you
I’d stab him with them 
just get out Hun! A man like that ain’t worth suffering for. Manyoons ago my bf at the time knocked my teeth out. Never ever have I let another man touch me like that. Take care hunnie x
You could have sleep apena.go to don’t
I would call the police. That’s not safe and the way he said or is doing that is using a weapon on someone. Plus if someone touched my hair period there would be no more partner. That second it becomes someone I can’t be around ever!
Sorry I would have to move out and make do with my kids in my room. That is horrible that he thinks that that is an okay thing to do to anybody. My husband snores and I would never think to do anything to him because of it.
1 Like
Move home and make a comfy bed for the kids on the floor
Wtfff. Sleep with your kids.
Scizzors are a dangerous thing to bring to bed, besides the cutting of hair, scizzors have been known to perform “accidental” nighttime casturations
2 Likes
What tf is wrong with people forreal… this dude needs to be locked up he’s weird. And you gotta get away. That shits not normal.
Move back home with your kids.
2 Likes
Fuck that!! Get out of there fast!!!
Take those scissors n cut his nuts off
1 Like
I’d take that single bed. Period.
3 Likes
He’s abusing you, you understand that right?
5 Likes
I’d sleep with pair of scissors under my pillow and pull on him when he tries
1 Like
Get out no one who loves you treats you that way. That is flat out ABUSE. I’d sleep on a floor rather than with an ogre. I would not want my kids around that either.
What. The. Fuck. Seriously run. You can’t control snoring overnight. He’s a psycho.
I’d sleep in a single bed with my two kids. He sounds demented and you should get away from him before he does something worse.
1 Like
I’m sorry honey but you are in an abusive relationship and there isn’t anything, anyone can do about it until you are ready to leave and get out. If that means sleeping in a twin bed do it. It will be worth it and you can begin to heal and learn who you are again. Good luck
2 Likes
That scary and creepy id leave ASAP you and your kids come first you all need safety, a small bed isn’t the end of the world I promise, please leave that abusive situation! 
You aren’t too concerned if the houses aren’t good enough for you and you don’t want to move home. so where’s the problem exactly?
3 Likes
I’d rather go back home n sleep in a bed with my kids than be anywhere near a person like that or a relationship like that…wtf…honestly…know your worth…
1 Like
Cut his and move tf back home. Are you kidding? It’s worth a little discomfort
It was brave of you to open up and ask for advice like this, even anonymously. You are abused and battered. You and your helpless children do not deserve to live a life like this. Please leave immediately for all of your sake. You would be better off sleeping on the floor with both kids than staying where you are with your abuser. There are so many resources for women in your position. If you need guidance, please reach out.
1 Like
Single bed may be inconvenient but being abused and having your kids in a home where there is abuse is much worse.
That’s abuse! Plain and simple, get out of there! Move home with your kids, you don’t want someone like that around your kids for 1! He sounds like a complete asshole. I’d be terrified for what he would do next
Most towns have women shelters for mothers and kids for these situations and they get you on your feet
That’s a horrible situation. Only one person can change the whole situation and that person is you. Do your part to Be happy.
1 Like
Sounds like he should leave 
that is abuse!!
1 Like
I’d rather sleep on the floor back home and kids in the bed than deal with that crap. He seems crazy enough that those scissors won’t be just to cut your hair. Get out of there fast!!!
4 Likes