This is sad! You deserve better!! How can you call this relationship happiness?? You have little eyes watching you… please if you can find the will to do it for the safety of yourself, do it for them!
Get out call caring unlimitedthey cn house u in a safe house n help u get a place
Sleep in that single bed with your kids. 
Get yourself and those babies away from that toxic sh*t.
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hey i sleep with my kids and its very comfy lol so thts not bad and alot better than someone cutting your hair… and lets just say it might not be your hair if he’s that cruel. sorry mamma but no one can just stop snoring lol
leave, gosh please leave
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Uhm as I think everyone has agreed, get outtttttt. Snoring is normal and he is cutting your hair because of it?! Lol idk I would shave his head if it were me. That is a form of assault and it’s nasty
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Move home girl now!!!
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I would get the fuck out the house. Specially if someone threatened to cut my hair if I snore
Go back home. It will only escalate…trust me
You staying is you teaching your kids that its okay to be treated this way.
Ive been here. We make unhappy sacrafices for the short term and everything falls into place so much better and all of you would be so much happier without the trash. 
Good luck to you. You deserve better.
Next time he sneezes, threaten to shave his beard.
You’re not in a relationship with a man, that is a child.
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Stop finding excuses! Sorry not being mean, just real.
Move out, get an air mattress for the kids or a free mattress from someone. It’s only temporary…YOU have to make the move to put plans in motion.
You and the kids need to be first priority.
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Well ide sleep in bed with the kids🤷♀️
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MOVE BACK HOME!!
How is this a question?
GO!
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And you tolerate this? I feel sorry for anyone who allows one to control you this way. Get away from him and learn to be independent. Take some self defense classes and take care of yourself and your children. You are teaching them that this is acceptable. He needs a lesson taught to him. Karma will get him one day.
Id pour Nair on that assholes head! And get my babies out of that shit. Fuck him.
Tell that jerk if he cuts your hair you will cut of his teenie weenie . Why on earth are you even with someone like that ??
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Go the hell home why would this even be a question!
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Move. Whatever it takes. Get tf out.
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Sleep in a bed with your 2 kids for awhile or be bald and abused?! Hmmmmmmm
I would sooner sleep on a park bench that pit up with that. Please leave,you deserve so much more, do it now hun x
You need to go back home with your kids start living for the Lord
What is sad is that you don’t see how wrong this is and how you and your kids deserve better. This is abuse. I can only imagine what else you have put up with and allowed to go on over the past 12 years. You said it yourself, he is controlling and violent. Life is too short to be with someone who doesnt truly love and care about you. Please leave and find the help, love, and support you and your children deserve.
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I’d rather sleep in a single bed safe then sleep beside an abusive piece of shit
Leave his ass NOW! I can promise you things will only escalate. You and your childern deserve a better life. Don’t find excuses. Take control and get the fuck out!
This is abuse. Go to another city where there is a shelter available. Get away from this person, they sound like a lunatic.
Then stay there in get your hair cut? I mean I’m
Not sure what you want to hear ? Theres no houses there that you want and you don’t wanna go back home ,? Then stay and tolerate it
Not trying to sound mean at all but……
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I think that could be considered assault. Set up a camera and get it on tape and kick his ass out of you will file charges !!!
you’re showing your kids how to let men treat them
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Would of left a long time ago then. Life is too short to waste it. If you’re unhappy, leave.
Move back home. Run.
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Contact COPE they will give you the support you need x
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Wtf?! That is beyond crazy. He would wake up bald if it were me
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Umm no idc if you have to move back home to a single bed with 2 kids get a mattress put it under the bed and pull out at night time going through that I would not put up with that. That’s just crazy
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You need to leave. You can’t control snoring and he is threatening physical harm. Please leave ASAP. What if he hurts one of your kids? Move home for a few months to save money and find something you want. Please do not wait.
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I know from experience the behaviour will get worse. Get yourself and your kids to safety. If that means sharing a bed or sleeping on the floor its short term
Or find your nearest woman’s shelter and they will help you move forward
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Wtf. You need to get out. Next thing he’ll do is use them to stab you. He sounds psychotic. You need to get your kids out, no matter what it is you want to do!
Girl take that single bed. I was in a very abusive & controlling relationships years ago and that was the only thing holding me back for the longest was the “not having no where to go part” but after putting up with so much I gladly took my mama’s living room with my 2 kids at the time til I got my own. You have to what’s best for you & your kids!!
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Go home and sleep on the floor and give your kids the bed. Get out of that situation
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Get out of that place with him, and sleep with your 2 kids. Way better then the abuse you’re getting from your partner
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Or press charges 
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This is so scary. You’ve stated he can be violent. If he has already taken the lengths to bring a pair of scissors to bed and assault you when you are sleeping by cutting your hair don’t you think it’s only a matter of time until it escalates to something more and you or your children get seriously hurt or killed. Please get out right away and never look back. If not for you then for your children as you have little eyes watching and this relationship is clearly not safe or healthy. There are tons of emergency housing/protective housing as well as women and children’s shelters that can help you immediately and for understandable reasons if you choose not to go to a shelter with your children please do go back home and share a twin with your children until you are able to buy an air mattress.
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May as well shave your head right now … stop being so foolish … smother him with a pillow … solved
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This behavior is not okay. What are you teaching your kids by staying?
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Do it mom’s can do anything start with nothing and provide everything for our children
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Ummmm you should leave asap 
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By staying you’re teaching your kids that behavior is acceptable. Please leave. Accept help. I’m assuming your kids are living in hell right now, just as you are. You deserve to be safe and happy and so do your kids. 
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Have you ever heard of John Wayne Bobbit? Please google and then apply with your own scissors.
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I’d be moving straight back home with my kids. Get out now while you still can. Big hugs xxx
Take your kids and leave and never look back.
Gtf out of there before he uses the scissors to kill you with. Call the police like now!!! There are safe houses they can put you and the kids in. Go now.
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You need to leave before it moves onto something worse than him cutting your hair. Good luck mama. 
Sleep in a single bed with your two kids, it’s definitely a better option before he ends up killing you and then your children will be the ones getting their hair cut and abused
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Press charges and leave
Get the heck out of there no matter what the sacrifice. You have to protect yourself and your kids. That is NOT NORMAL by any stretch of the imagination
Whether you want the house or not, even if you have to sleep in a single bed with your children…leave!
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Take the kids and go somewhere safe. If it means going back home then do it. Get a bigger bed or an extra mattress whatever. But you need to keep yourself and kids safe.
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This is a huge red flag for control and violence, RUN!
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I’ve lived in a tiny bedroom with my toddler at my Dad’s once. You can do it. It will be temporary while you get on your feet but if you have a place back at home, go for it! If not for you, do it for your kids. They are smart little sponges and will pick up on how you are mistreated. Be strong. I’d also get help if possible and try to leave when you know he won’t be home. Take what you need and don’t go back unless you have a police escort.
From someone who has recently been there, My advice is GO HOME now. I moved home under similar circumstances (no Scissors but controlling yes) and sleep in a twin bed with my almost 4 year old. That part sucks yes but girl let me tell you even under those circumstances I have never been happier. It didn’t happen over night I spent the first few months in bed crying but now everything is falling into place. We have a car my sons in daycare that he loves and we are on the road to our own house. Just go I promise you youll be ok. And if you need to talk my DMs are open
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Single bed is better than nothin…u can either go now while u can or wait til ur bald from his abuse 
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First off you don’t need to go anywhere if he is literally taking a scissor to bed and cutting your hair while you’re sleeping because you snore, that sounds like he’s got a major problem I need some serious help. It’s time you start taking action and putting forth measures to protect you and your kids and get him the hell up out of there.
Girl go sleep in that single bed with your 2 kids this is not okay, start over places will donate you beds. It only gets worse from here!
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Leave….contact someone who can help you make a plan contact weave if you have to hun he sounds extremely unpredictable and not a good partner remember you are setting the example for your children if you need someone to talk msg me
I would sleep outdoors than be near him
MOVE!!! He’s a nut job and who cares if you’re inconvenienced. You and the kids will be safe!!
Move back home. This is very scary and I imagine it will just escalate from here. Get out. Sounds deranged.
Omg tell him to leave immediately
Uhhh… MOVE BACK HOME
I am so sorry. There’s nothing wrong with going home and being safe.
I’m actually petrified reading this . You need to make sure your children know what is acceptable to tolerate in a relationship aswell , you need to get out there and sleep on the floor if you have to ! X
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a group where we tell you to dump them
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Get a sleep apnea machine. The snoring stops
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Go to a Womens shelter for abused women. They have resources that can help.
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It’s time to GOOOOOO momma! And take them babies with you immediately!! Just because you snore? What makes you think he won’t shove a side of the scissors up your nose while you sleep. I’d call the police as well and get them to help you get out if this person won’t.
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Leave. One day, the scissors won’t be for cutting your hair, he’ll stab you with them and get a silly sentence where he will walk free in less than 6 months and you’re left with trauma of the event for the rest of your life and your kids have the trauma of it too. Leave while you still can.
I hope he knows that you can’t help snoring. Some people have medical conditions that causes snoring like sleep apnea. You need to leave him.
Wow girl. That’s just childish asf. Is he a man or a immature man boy? I’d leave if he’s controlling and violent. Keeping the children around that isn’t good for them or you. Leave!
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It’s not like you can control what you do in your sleep. Sorry but what an ass. You need to leave him and don’t be one of those battered women who keep going back. Your better than that. You deserve to be happy and you don’t owe him nothing. Move on. I wish you luck.
If he touched my hair I would put an entire bottle of Nair on his head while he’s sleeping. 
there’s not fucking way that’s acceptable
Move back home and sleep in a single bed with 2 kids. I did it with three toddlers. Where there’s a will, there’s a way. And I assure you, snuggling extra close to your kids is a hell of a lot better than trying to snuggle with a a$$hole like that!
Move. Period. Choose yourself & your kids. It might be hard at first, but you won’t regret removing yourself & children from a toxic relationship. This will escalate.
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you need to go! If he’s that psycho over snoring what will be next? He shouldn’t be threatening you in any way let alone touching you or your property with out consent.
Move back home. Living back home, even if that comes with its own struggles to an extent, you would be safe. He’s going to hurt you
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That’s literal assault… call the police
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That is physical abuse! You can’t control snoring! Leave immediately! He’s dangerous!
Leave. I vowed I would sleep at a women’s shelter for the rest of my life rather than ever be treated poorly again. Go. Home. And snuggle your kids in a single bed knowing you are safe❤️
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This man is sick. RUN.
Today! Get your kids and get out!
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That is insanely creepy. GET OUT!
Domestic abuse. He is touching you and you do not want/like it.
Then you go back home sleeping in a bed with 2 kids. Starting from the bottom is a solid foundation and much better than this situation. If anything do it for your children?
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Oh hell no. If you were a child CPS would be called this is very NOT OKAY. Run, don’t walk, run.
He doesn’t respect you, or see you as his significant other, please leave don’t let your kids grow up thinking thisis ok. Or call the cops if your are afraid of it escalating. It could. They will make him leave and ask about a protection order
Get Out before he decides to stab you in the middle of the night!
You’re stronger than what you think you are .
Lots of places to help you and your children, why would you put them through that ?
Leave NOW. Good grief. What a monster.
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Oh wow. I would go sleep in a single bed. What’s next?? If he can do that to you. How horrible 
Sleeping in a single bed would be better than laying dead in a casket one day.
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Leave find a shelter for abused women, sure there is one in your area or even better find a church.
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What are you doing still there?
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What the fuck did I just read 
girl leave now that’s so fucked up