And PS- you don’t have a 21 month old. You have an almost 2 year old.
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You need to get a regular job. You need to save that money and your husbands money. I don’t put up with my husbands grown kids disrespecting me let alone anyone else. It’s your husbands job to say something to her.
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Shouldn’t of gotten married and had a family with someone who can’t afford to provide for or speak up for and defend.
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Yikes. This is a whole mess. One of you need to be working and y’all need to get out of this I’m stuck mentality. Don’t let her get to you, is it really that important that she talks to you?
I would talk to her. It could be that you offended her in some way that you don’t know about. Reaching out and talking might solve the problem.
Ask her what her problem is ?
I don’t know how much longer you&hubby will be w his family, but financial independence is a key component of marriage & adulthood.
I also don’t know if the sis-in-law would be open to an honest discussion, as to what’s bothering her, so… ?? Good luck!
Save money and get out. My husband and I used credit karma to help us out of a family situation.
best to ask her and have a conversation why she treats you like that
Have you asked her what’s up ???
Communication is the key to every relationship. Talk to her
Separate yourself.i know you cannot afford to leave so in my opinion at 26 and 20something this should be able to be resolved without this kind of behavior… in my opinion you’re both in need of letting some things go, find some peace. Sending positivity and some much needed support you’re not alone - 
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In my opinion, you should both be working and on your own, school part-time, and have the difficult conversation with your sister in law.
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You and your husband are taking advantage. I would be mad too if your family were living off my parents and no one working. You live with several other adults who can help watch your kid and that’s what you should be doing not living with them so you can stay home. Both of you need full time jobs and stop expecting others to support your family. He can work and go to school at same time. Stop making excuses.
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Been married 12 years and never once have we lived with our family. Your sil is jealous because time and money and attention isn’t on her, the baby of the family
Who gives a f’ ignore her ass back.