I would give her every gift she gave back! I would tell her she’s not perfect, there was only one person on this earth that was perfect and that was Jesus, not you!
Then give self break
Stop accepting the gifts
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Omg that is the worst kind of in law in the world. I feel for you sweetie. Let you husband deal with her. Omg my ex had 2 sisters 
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Nope. Remember… only look down on somebody to admire their awesome shoes. Next time she throws a gift in your face, tell her… boo hoo. That will teach you !!!
Stop accepting the gifts and tell her you will not enable or put up with her toxic behavior anymore !!
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If just cut her off. I’m too old to deal with drama & irritation any more.
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Then say something. Let her a$$ be offended. LoL. Please believe I don’t care what in law it is, I might be polite the first time, the second time I might make a sarcastic joke, but the third time you gonna catch my whole attitude about it. LoL.
Give them back!.. cut her out of ur life… u don’t need that drama…
I remember my sis in laws were like that but my bf and his parents know that I did alot for them and kept backing me up 
but now we’re good 
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Give her gifts back to her and tell her you can take care of your own purchases for your child! Don’t go give her ammunition to keep using things like that.
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I refuse to be anywhere near her after she told me: her kids would never ride in my car bc it was too old, don’t take this the wrong way but we don’t want people like you living on our street, I caught she and her husband driving out of our farm w a trailer and an industrial light pole w ornate lamp on it that we hadn’t gotten around to putting up yet (they got same kind at the same time we did then I found out some big name people moved in next to them so they offered to get same lamp so they could have matching lamps🙄) and final straws were my son was willed a pocket watch that had been in the family from great aunt and she kept it instead, and when her parents passed away she and her sister took Everything of value (for example explaining that her dad would of wanted her 16 yo son to have the big Old boat Cadillac🤣) and left us to put junk in house a dumpster along w directions to fix/basically rebuild outside deck and do repairs inside. Nope. I’m out.
Next time she mentions a gift, ask het if she’d like it back or tell her to stop gifting you if that’s how she feels. Another option is simply remove yourself, get up and walk away where you can. Distance and leave your husband to deal with her
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Tell her to kiss your ass 
Don’t accept anything from her anymore no matter WHAT it is. I can’t stand people who keep tally marks on what they do for you. Do it out of LOVE not to throw in someone’s face.
She is miserable, don’t fall for her childish tantrums. Try your best to be around her as little as possible
There is 1 in every family
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Next time ask her if it makes her feel like a bigger better person and if she needs the acknowledgement? Don’t accept the gifts it’s just ammunition for her to be an asshole. Also ask her/ tell her her if your gracious gift giving needs a star or a chest to pin it on? On the other hand you could stand up for yourself and tell her to Stop, your tired of her belittling and using her gifts to hurl insults, and it really ie. Pisses you off? Hurts your feelings? Makes you uncomfortable? Good luck. Just remember she’s No better than you infact she seems to have an inferiority complex always wanting to be one up… Real gift givers do it out of kindness and love and never mention it because it fills fills their heart to do so… She is NOT that person.
Give her back the gifts and stop talking to her.
What’s wrong with you? Stop accepting gifts and tell her where to go next time she puts you down!!!
Walk away! Grow up,what are you 5 yrs old? Don’t take crap from her calls nor her gifts and I’d return the gifts and tell her why. The number kids is not worthy of a medal? You have yours and be happy with what you have!
Stop accepting gifts and any gift that she brings up to ‘throw in your face’ give it back to her.
As soon as she says a backhanded comment ask her to leave. Don’t tell her why, don’t make excuses just tell her to leave.
Stand your ground and set boundaries.
Dont take that from her, who whays gifts with strings atached, Think you need to take your power back an tell her in a nice assetive way , its called communacation if you allow it will keep happening … Good Luck …
Be straight up girl don’t except shit from her and tell her why??? Tell her you do you and I will do me. Simple
Regift them back. She’ll love it 
Jk. Lol
But seriously, stick up for yourself and avoid the drama. Do not let unhappy people make you unhappy!
Narcissistic and toxic… next time talk back and leave…
Do you still have the gift she gave you? If so, give it back to her. Try and do this in front of her family so you have witnesses (she seems the type who will make things up, like you threw the gift back at her and stomped off etc etc) So, calmly, smiling, politely, hand her the gift and in a nice calm voice state,
“I’m giving you this back as it obviously means a lot to you for you to constantly bring it up every time we disagree on something, so, to save any further upset, I’m giving it you back and I’d also appreciate in future if you didn’t send any gifts at all to me or my family. I’m not falling out with you but making my boundaries me and my family clear to you. Also, I’d like to clarify that it isn’t a competition on who has the most children, I will parent how I deem fit and do not require belittling from you. I will learn and make my own mistake and my own wins as I go. Thank you again for the thought of a gift, but just to make it clear, I am handing it you back and requesting you do not send any further gifts to me or my family in the future”
Then smile politely and carry on with your day… 
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Gaslighting is never a pretty look. Try and not be intimidated by her and limit your contact w her
Put her in her place !!!
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She sounds a bully and probably jealous of you.
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Give her the gift back next time she plays that card and then tell her to gfhs.
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Distance yourself from her and don’t accept any gifts. Life is to short to let someone make you feel bad.
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You don’t even need one of those, send it back.
She’s miserable, and hates seeing you happy. Don’t let her get to you, kill her with kindness love:heart:
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Why would you except the gifts! Tell her you think the gift is gaudy and not your taste. that will get her goat!
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Tell her that u won’t accept charity from her
Stop accepting the gifts n when she asks y u won’t accept be real n honest n say because I do not appreciate how you throw what you buy my children in my face so to avoid any problems I’d rather not accept anymore gift. Than proceed to tell her you don’t appreciate how she makes you feel. Communicate. That’s the main problem today. We do not communicate.
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She is evidently threatened by you and your family. Don’t accept anything anymore and distance yourself from such toxic behaviour !!!
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distance. I have had to walk away from my brother twice now. this last time was it for me. Im done.
I’m really sorry but if she’s that selfish about gifting to you ask her if she’d like it back then
Don’t accept any more gifts from her.
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What do you say or do that makes her mad?Can she afford the gifts she gives?Tell her youu are sorry that you can not meet up to her high standards, and you do not wanrt any more gifts, tata.
Give her the gift back and call it a day!
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To me it’s not a gift if they keep throwing it in your face and tell them it’s not a gift for you it’s for the baby so stop throwing it in your face
If I were you I would cut her off. You don’t need someone toxic in your life and until she can change her ways juts don’t do things with her or allow her around you. If you go to family events talk to other family members and completely avoid her. Don’t allow toxic people at your life table. You have a right to protect your mental health. Keep it kind but just stop doing things with her. If she invites you somewhere be nice and decline. If you visit your brother maybe ask to go out to lunch just you two or something. Don’t allow her to bully you another minute. You can do it. I know hard to avoid when it’s a family member. But you don’t have to allow someone like her in your life. Be nice say hi at gatherings but hen go do something else move across the gathering and do for you. Good luck! I know completely hard . Also maybe speak to a counselor to get some ideas on ways to cope with her too. So you know heathy boundaries and coping skills on things to say and not say and how to avoid with out drama. I know it seems unfair that you have to do that but it may help long term because you have to be in contact with her because she is part of your family. Like I said good luck I hope you find peace.
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I found that people who put others down…feel inferior to them. Next time she tries that crap ask her why she feels she needs to do that. Tell her that she is just belittling herself and if she truly feels that way, you really don’t want any more gifts from her. And that you would be glad to return what she has all ready given. But you thought the gifts were given in love for the baby not with strings attached.
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Stop accepting the gifts. Anything she gave you, give it back. Put her in her place and tell your husband to do the same. She’s probably jealous that you have more freedom than she does, so she’s trying to manipulate you into thinking you need more kids to be on her level. She’s more than likely talk about you worse if you did have more kids because you’re “copying” her
Give it back and don’t accept nothing from her in the future. Including her attitude.
You teach people how to treat you. Don’t take it from her at any costs.
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Pack all the gifts up and tell her to shove it up her butt…
Tell her you’re not mad you’re just done with her talking to you like that and you don’t wanna deal with it and you have a nice life….
Lol 
she will apologize…
The key is to say it very nicely very calmly and just be stern. Make it clear you’re not mad you just are done with it and you’re done with that toxic relationship.
Depending on the type of woman she is will depend how many days it will take for her to apologize. 
Sounds like you should calmly tell her what you said above and that you will be standing up for yourself. Gather everything she has given and be willing to give it back, If she continues limit your time around her and make it clear you don’t want her gifts since they come with some sort of expectation that you accept unkind treatment. You can stand up for yourself respectfully.
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Don’t except any more gifts. She should mind her own business. What should she care about how many kids you have?
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Stop buying into her bs. Comparison is the killer of joy. Tell her you love yourself and her bs needs to take a walk. Give her the fucking gift back. You can’t be bought or bullied. Stand proud mama♥️
Next time they say anything about an expensive gift, tell them they can take it back because you didn’t ask them to buy it nor did you ask for them to hold it over you whenever it suits them.
She is acting like the b*'×+h that she is. Stand up for YOURSELF!! Do not accept anything from her unless it’s an apology!!
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I agree with you, I would have probably already punched her in the nose, 
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Ditch her, she is toxic!
I’d let my husband know that he needs to nip it in the bud not now but right now than I’d kindly pack up everything she has given me or my child in a nice little box with a bright red bow and have said hubby return everything with the message of don’t need or want these gifts if they come attached with drama not being scary but to avoid the b.s at home I’d let him deal with it because if he’s unhappy so am I I’d let him see and feel his sisters reactions some men just don’t see the things we see he might see it than and intervene before things take a turn for the worse 
because if I took care of it I wouldn’t ever be invited to any family functions
Tell her to take her gifts and shove them up her ass
Show her the door and tell her it only swings one way (out with her on the outside of it) until she learns to be a decent human and stops treating you like dirt.
Whenever there is a family affair regift the gift tell the party it is a regift from your sister in law but you just didn’t need it. Tell them if she spent more time talking to you then she would know more about you. I guarantee she will shut up. That’s what happens when you shame them lololololol
Give them back to her
Give it back if she wants to act like a child. Cut ties
Stay away from her or tell her to go fuck herself! Why do you put up with it?
I’d stop excepting the gifts and when she asks why be honest with her and tell her your tired of it been thrown in your face
I’d start declining all and any gifts. Then I would start by blocking her. So she doesn’t contact you in any way shape or form. And move on with your life.
You need to tell her to shove it where the sun don’t shine stand up girl if she mentions gifts tell don’t waste her money u don’t need them.where is your husband ??? If he allows it dump.him…build up your self astìme…be brave…
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Tell her where to stick her present next time she gets you one. If not stop complaining about her
Tell her to stuff it
just ignore her - or quit complaining about her !