Well I guess she. An cut herself off then. No one should demand anyone get rid of their pet.
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I’m not getting rid of my pets for anyone, I’d offer to keep them away from her kids.
Keep the cat, ditch the SIS IN LAW
Keep the cat
Loose the bossy ass sister in law
I live by the “my house my rules” Moto
If you want to pay my mortgage I will take your opinion into account
Until them F$ck off 
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Your children are your priority, health, food,happiness. She is protecting hers…you do the same. Sorry guess we will talk on the phone.
Bye sis in law!!! My little boy has a cat and he’s actually allergic to her he’s eyes get very sore in the summer months so I Hoover twice as much dust twice as much because the cat is my sons life … your home your pets don’t let anyone tell you different she’s actually very selfish even asking that!
Pets are FAMILY and I’m sure you feel this. She doesn’t have to come over it’s that simple. She’s being dramatic to say out everyone’s life. That’s too much. And if you want to help you could always bring clean clothes to change into while visiting
If she has only been there twice in 2 years getting rid of a pet isnt going to all of a sudden have her coming around more. If she didnt like your kids would you get rid of them. Obviously not. They have meds for allergies or just meet outside with her.
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Keep the cat. My entire family is very allergic to cats (except for me) and I was still able to live in their house for a few months WITH my cat. They took allergy medicine, stayed away from the places the cat roamed and I vacuumed frequently 
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Meet the. Not h st. A park. Connie
Don’t have her come over anymore
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Say adios to sister in law
Keep your cat …it is more family than they coukd ever be.
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They are wrong if they have only been there twice in 2 years I wouldn’t be concerned anyway
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She sounds narcissistic for demanding that everyone fall in line for her. I have kiddos with allergies to cats. We either don’t go to their house and ask them to come over, or we meet up somewhere to hang out. It would not be my place, family or not, to expect others to get rid of their animals.
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Meet the bitch at a park. We’re there. Frzdh. Sir. Connie
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Keep the cat (your pets)
I would never ,ever get rid of them .
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So I was diagnosed w dog n cat allergies I looked at the dr and said I grew up w cats and my dogs are 9 and 14 and not going anywhere so what are we doing … sounds like your cat may need a playmate
Maybe you should suggest her daughter gets allergy testing….however, your pets are family….and that is her choice not to be in your home ….outside visits could be considered😊
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Bye sister in law tell your brother he’s welcome to come without her
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Keep the cat. When she is done freaking out she will come back around. If not then it either wasn’t about the cat or you saved yourself 2 headaches a year sorry your going through this.
Keep the cat. Unless a doctor has explicitly told her that a reaction was caused by a cat while she was in your house, she has no reason to think it’s the cat. It could be literally anything. And even if it was the cat, they have allergy stuff specific for people allergic to pets they could get.
Keep the cat! If she really wants to see you she would invite you and your family to her house!!
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no that is asking to much. Why don’t she ask t he world to stop for her. Either put the kid on an allergy pill or leave her home. Why should your child be punished.
Keep the cat lose the sister in law👋 Family members who care for one another would never ask that
She’s only been to your house twice? Your pets are there everyday AND your kids are attached to them… keep the pets!! 
She should understand that. It’s wrong for her to even TRY to give you an ultimatum!
I’m allergic to dogs and I still have him lol it’s a pain but and I’m itchy alot but we make it work
Ain’t no way! Cats are around more than her dont get rid of them. Get rid of her
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From the parent of a child who carries an epi pen for her cat allergy, it’s my soul responsibility to make sure I keep my kid away from them. That means we don’t go to people’s houses that have them. But we instead have them over to ours. She also takes two meds daily to control allergies. Your sister in law is trash. Her loss
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I am allergic to animals and would never expect my family or friends to get rid of their pets. I take allergy medicine before I go to their homes. She might not want to do that so just go to their house and meet up somewhere else.
My son in law is allergic to our cat so he takes allergy medicine
That’s a bit extreme to cut people off. If she’s truly allergic to cats I understand not wanting to come to the house, but you could go to her house or meet somewhere to hang out. There’s so many other options besides being a bitch and cutting you off because you won’t cave to her.
What SIL? I would never get rid of my fur babies for anyone. My house my, rules. You can always see them outside your home.
Pets are family too that live in your home just as your children.
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Forget about them. If they are truly worried about allergies they will get the kid tested before saying anything like that. Plus if they are there very often give the kids an allergy pill before you go.
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your house your rules so she won’t go to your house that doesn’t mean y’all can’t see each other at other places. in every house I ever lived in my father never stepped foot into any of them not because of pets but for health issues they were suitable for his wheelchair but we always gathered at his house or we’d go out to eat or a park or the movies , fishing or the flea markets
I have a small dog rescued her when she was 7 weeks out of a puppy mill now she going to be 17 …if anyone tells me iwant to come over and visit but you have to get rid of the dog .then they are asking the wrong person love my fur baby
Definitely keep your pet if your sister in law chooses not to come over so be it
Tell her to keep her “pet-tiness” to herself, and make sure to adopt another cat. 
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Do not get rid of your pet,too bad for them,their loss!
The cat stays …why rid of a pet…she don’t live there
Tell her that is an unreasonable expectation and you will not give away your pets for her infrequent visits!
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Keep your pets and never see SIL? Sounds like a win-win 
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To bad. Wave good bye to them, not the cat.
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My daughter had a reaction to cats as a small child not severe and grown out of it now , I wouldn’t even dare to say that to a family member or a friend !!! If they don’t like then don’t come round simples 
Keep you cat, she is part of your family. You SIL doesn’t come over often enough the justify getting rid of a family member.
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Ya I would absolutely not be getting rid of my pets. See ya later sister in law. 
Sounds like a shitty person to be around. Keep the cat, no big loss to cut put a toxic person or people out of your house and life. What’s next, she demand you only use ceetain cleaning products or detergent to keep her precious brat safe? F that…you live your life for YOUR family at your house. Your sister in law doesn’t get to rule over you like some dictator.
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You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life… she has no say in what you have in your house
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Have they heard of benedryl? I think ur allowed to take one once a week…
bummer for them.
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I would say bye to the sister in law, the pets live there, she doesn’t and if she wants to see you she can always meet you somewhere else.
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Ummm no yeah, bye to her! Keep your pet!
Get as many cats as u want. U can visit at their house from now on or u can BBQ outside
If my one of
My family members were to say that to me I would tell them not to even come.She also can kindly ask you to put your pets away not to get rid of them.
You come over once a year?
Sorry, my pets mean more to me than you!!
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Go to her house to visit or a restraunt to visit. Take a short vacation & rent a house together. Don’t get rid of your pets.
Go visit her if you must
They are in the wrong. There are plenty of allergy meds she can take and still come around. You shouldn’t have to get rid of your pet for them. They dont want a pet? Ok. But to tell you to get rid of yours is wrong.
Well let’s think for a moment…sister in law meaning through a marriage sooooo with that being said, say you get rid of the cat for her to be able to come over and then god forbid anything happen between you and your spouse then you don’t ever have to see the SIL again and you are without the cat…soooo the way ii see it is…Screw the SIL and do what makes YOUR children happy!!! I will NEVER get rid of a member of my family just to make someone else happy!!!
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She is out if line. What important thing would she give up for your child? Keep your kitty
Sounds like a win win situation to me you unfortunately have a monster in-law 
Well I guess she won’t come over anymore! Pets are family!
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Keep your kitty, lose the sister in law.
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My niece is allergic to cats my brother gives her an allergy pill before she comes. If they told me I had to get rid of my pets I would have said see ya
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Twice in 2 years. 24/7 love and care, easy. Drop her. Life will be smoother.
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Um, bye bye sis in law!
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Fuck that witch. That is the cats HOME.
sounds like an excuse to not visit. bye
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They are totally wrong asking you to get rid of your children’s pets that they love…go visit them or meet somewhere…it’s your house and you have the right to have your pets…
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That is so dramatic and selfish. I had several cousins w allergies growing up. They either took allergy medicine or we stayed at their house for sleepovers. Pets are family members, unless one of YOUR children are allergic, there is no reason to get rid of a beloved pet.
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She’s been to your house one 2x in 2 years and the cat lives there you are the cat’s family too. So if she doesn’t wanna visit so be it you can’t be getting rid of what she doesn’t like it is YOUR home.
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Bye, she can’t tell you what you can have in your home. You can always meet at her house or a park/restaurant but I wouldn’t let anyone tell me what or who can be in my home
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See ya later! It’s your house, your pet, your rules. They don’t want to visit so be it.
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She’s definitely in the wrong. Saying she’ll cut off any family members that don’t get rid of their pets is controlling and toxic. She can invite your family over to her house if she actually cares about having a relationship with y’all. She doesn’t live in your house or pay your bills, she doesn’t get to tell you that you can’t have pets. Keep the cat… & get more cats
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As someone with allergies I must say that it would be unadvisable for them to come to your home as long as you have a cat and it would be best if you go to see them that you ensure you are not bringing any cat dander with you. That being said she shouldn’t ask you to get rid of your cat any more than you should ask her to get rid of her child.
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My son has severe allergies including cat . I would never tell anyone he knows that they need to get rid of a pet because of his allergy. That’s completely wrong , and very very drastic. Sounds like she’s a big bully .
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Guess they don’t need to come over!
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Tell her to take some Benedryl and simmer down. Or just stop having them over.
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Oh well, tell her to stay the hell home then. That’s your house. You can go visit her at her home.
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My rule in life: if someone threatens to cut you off for whatever reason, let them. If you are that easily disposable to them, they aren’t worth it. Life is too short for people with conditions. Don’t sacrifice or fight to keep people in your life who would never do the same for you.
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Animals become our “babies”
Let them babies keep their kitty im allergic to dog and cat dander guess what my husband mom and my kids have two dogs and two cats my husbands dog sleeps in the bed every night with us i take allergy meds dogs get weekly baths
I have a 3 year old highly allergic to dog dander. My fiancé’s mother has 2 dogs inside her home. She comes and visits him in our home at her discretion because she knows what the dander does to my son. Sounds like the sister n law needs to relax and compromise. Keep your cat.
Keep the pets! Dont make your kids miserable and the animals go to a shelter cause your sister in law is being unreasonable. Your immediate family is most important and your kids will always resent you if you get get rid of your pets. If she doesnt want to come over than fine! Meet somewhere else
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Head to the nearest pet store and buy more pets!
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tell her to go stuff it.
How often do they visit obviously not enough to get consider getting rid of the cat
Tell her to rake a pill before she comes over…allergy that is.
They can kick rocks that’s your home they want to see you they can make plans at their house for you to come over
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That’s a BS move on their part. They should do allergy testing and then get allergy shots if it’s a concern. Don’t get rid of your pets.
Keep your pet. You’re there for their lifetime not yours
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Keep the cat. Get rid of sil
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Keep the pets. If she chooses not to come around because of it then oh well.
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Sounds like your sister-in-law needs to get a grip.
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Um. Really? I feel sorry for the niece, but your in law is way out of line.
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I would be like guess we’ll see you on Zoom lol
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Your SIL is a hag in my opinion for even suggesting that you get rid of your fur babies!
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Girl let them babies keep their cat. She can buy allergy meds for her child. If it’s that serious maybe she should see an allergist so they can get the right meds for her.
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Tell her well it’s been nice knowing you…
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Are u serious right now? The cat stays. Its ur house. she cant tell u what 2 do in ur house. Shes crazy if she thinks the whole family is going 2 get rid of yalls pets because of an allergy. Theres a thing called benadryl and in serious cases if need be epinephrine. If she doesnt like it she doesnt have 2 come around and u guys can always go visit them. There are less drastic measures and I’m sure shes just overreacting I doubt shesgoing 2 cut everyone out who doesnt decide 2 loose their pets. If she does she wasnt worth trying 2 keep around anyway.
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