It might be your sister is a brat. Hang in there do the best you can and find a different babysitter.
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Your sister does not need to be left alone with a young child.
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I wouldnât let an idiot like that babysit for me⌠Ever ⌠Sister or not!!! What a moron!
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Your child isnât a bratâŚshes a baby⌠Tf? Your sister needs to be put in her place. Not much you can do to discipline an 11 month old besides tell her no lol. They cry and test boundaries and see what can get them what they want. Thatâs what they do. They donât understand their feelings. They donât Like being away from mom and dad much especially if it doesnât happen that much or with someone that doesnât usually watch them. Iâm gonna assumeyour skat sister doesnât have her own child? I wouldâve loved for someone to tell me my child waa a brat that needed discipline at that age. Not even a year old. Hell no.
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Iâd never leave my baby with your sister again. Ever
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Shes still a BABY! She is supposed to be attached! Does your sister have kids? Doesnât sound like she is the right match for your babygirl
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Your sister clearly canât handle looking after a child. There is nothing wrong with your child. She is 11 months old. Sheâs a baby.
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Donât ever let your sister childmind or be alone with your daughter again 
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Sounds to me like she isnât disciplined. Telling a child no is not gonna do anything if you give in to what she wants when she cries. Spanking isnât going to ruin your child like people try to say. Their is a big difference between spanking and abuse. But try a time out chair???
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Sounds like your sister is a brat 
11 month olds need a lot of attention and are still learning right from wrong.
If your sister can not handle a baby (because 11 months is a baby, not a child) you should have someone else watch her.
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Sheâs a baby not a brat! Ignore your sister and I wouldnât have her babysit again either!
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Iâm guessing this person doesnât have kids lol 
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It souds like she has not spent a lot of time with auntieâŚthat can be fixedâŚeverybody spend more time togather so when you need a sitter it will be great for both!
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Try joining some playgroups⌠ones where you stay and interact along side of her until she gets comfortable.
Also⌠get a new sitter!! Lol
DONT let your SISTER ever babysit again!! Period. She soesnt understand children!!!
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There is no such thing as an 11 month old brat get that baby away from her before she hurts the baby
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Get a different sitter now
If my sister said that, I would not trust her with my child. 11 months is a BABY.
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Your sister is a brat and not discipline and needs to learn to understand that kids are kids especially if they semcr your heart is not pure they will give you a hard timeâŚadvice dont leave your kid with her again! She has a fine cheek!
Your sister is an idiot because thereâs absolutely NOTHING wrong with your perfectly normal 11 month old.
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Um, your sister is off her rocker. Keep your baby away from her or at least donât let her watch your baby alone. An 11 month old is not a brat. Sheâs a baby. Donât go to work if you canât find childcare, she is not suitable.
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Donât leave your child with your sisterâŚshe will hit her!
Try redirecting, maybe more time with family or going to visit. My daughter got time outs and spankings. 
She also got plenty of attention and love. And to stay every other weekend with my sister. I found a balance. Donât feel bad just find a balance that fits your family.
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She is 11months! Must she sit in a corner and read a novel!
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Lol let her babysit my 2 year old if she wants to see a âbratâ. Sheâs a baby, just ignore her and find a new sitter.
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Get your sister away from your child sheâs going to hurt her
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Your sister is the one who is in need of a better understanding of childcare. I would choose someone else and pay them, a professional would be much better off watching your child.
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One of the danger signs. Do not ignoreâŚ
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An 11 month old cannot control their temper tantrums and they get worse the older they get and eventually they can control them⌠a baby needs a schedule or daily routine it helps with baby learning behaviors. Your sister may not understand but I would educate her that your baby is doing all normal things
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Tell your sister to worry about her own self and leave you to parent your baby how you want
I know it sounds bad,but do not hold her all the time.Put her in her crib,or playpen with some toys.She needs to learn how to self soothe.If she cries ignore it.Crying wonât hurt her.Then you can clean,shower etc.Holding a baby non stop is not good for either of you.You can also lay a blanket down and put toys around.Sit on the floor with her/him.Youâre still bonding,but also letting the child move about
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Omg of course a baby is attached to their parentsâŚId be more concerned if they werentâŚMy advice its clear your sister isnt very empathic or understanding to the emotional needs of a babyâŚIf it was me id think twice before ask her to babysitâŚHow exactly can an 11month be a bratâŚBaffles me what goes through peoples headâŚI thought you were talking about a 8/9 year old at first til i saw 11monthsâŚYour baby deserves to be with someone that can attend to their needs especially emotional onesâŚI expect she could sense your sisters irritation and that just made her more upsetâŚ
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Your sister sounds like the brat.
Your daughter is still a baby. Sheâs going to cry and throw tantrums, especially if sheâs missing you.
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One Question has your sister got children ?Your sister is a idiot.Your child is 11 months and a baby any still learning.
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U donât discipline an 11 month old child!!! Plez get a different babysitter!! One thatâs familiar with babies n children.
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You can discipline her without hitting her. When you tell her no, mean it! When she tries her crying trick, let her cry and donât give in. Crying isnât gonna hurt her. Donât hold her everytime she wants you to. You need to get a hold on this while you still can or youâre gonna have a nightmare on your hands as she gets older. You can still love on her, just when it comes down to certain things, show her you mean it and donât give in. Sheâs just seeing what she can get away with now. Sheâll learn. Maybe reward her when she listens to you and give her some Momma loving. Lol. Good luck hun. Youâre doing a great job! 
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No one knows more about raising kids than folks that have noneâŚ
Sounds like your sis is telling you she doesnt have the patience to babysit. I would be cernced about how she treats your daughter and not have her babysit again.
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Wow. Sister sounds really young. Too young to be maturely babysitting. Time to find someone else.
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Sheâs 11 months old does your sister have kids? You donât discipline a baby. Oh my gosh you are fine. Shes a baby, do your best love your child. Your sister doesnât know what sheâs talking about. You have to play and to guide babies, they donât have the understanding yet and wonât for a very long time. Your doing great.
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WhatâŚyour sister is upset because the BABY is having a fit? Itâs not like sheâs 3-4 years old and really understands whatâs going on. Your sister sounds like a nut. If sheâs breastfed or normally with you & her dad then of course sheâs going to be attached to yâall. Donât listen to her lol
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Shes 11 months⌠my damn 6 year old still cries when she gets doesnt get her way. Thats what kids do. Tell her to mind her own business.
Um get a new baby sitter for real somerimes family isnt best option
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I donât think your babyâs the problem itâs your sister. An 11 month old can only retain so much and understand so much. And if your sister canât understand that sheâs definitely the problem. I suggest finding somebody else to watch your child cuz it sounds like she doesnât have the patience to be around young children.
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Not much you can do for her at 11 months. Just keep redirecting her. If she is getting into something she isnât supposed to or doing something she isnât supposed to. And at 11 months On this earth who the heck else is she supposed to be attached to. Here is a parenting tip: donât let your sister watch your kid anymore. Clearly she has no Patience and canât distract an 11 month old baby for 2 hours. Sad that your poor baby had to suffer when itâs very easy for a grown woman to occupy a baby for 2 hours. I would say Iâm sure you are doing fine if you daughter is attached to you and donât let your sister watch your kid anymore.
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I had 4 kidsâŚages 3,7,9, and 11 placed in our care and my husband worked mudnights 7 days a week 12 hrs a day. It was tough.I understand why you hold her.Dad needs sleep.
My sister babysit for me, ONCE, my daughter was around 9-10 months. She messaged me non stop saying my child was out of control and spoiled BC all sheâs doing is crying, as soon as I got that text I went and got my daughter and never let her watch her again⌠Later found out my sister sat her in a pack n play and left her there!
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Iâve already raised two boys that I love dearly. Now iâm raising two grandchildren, 1 is 13 the other is 2. The 2 year old has a temper and gets mad when he doesnât get his way.I teach him right from wrong, (honestly thatâs our job). Heâs a great 2 year old who gets lots of love,attention and discipline. One problem with parents these days is they donât believe in discipline.I wish you the best of luck.
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Maybe sheneeds daddy time seems hes always asleep and child has to be quiet not going to happen take child for playtime out side
Nanny cam just to be safe that sheâs not hitting your child since she canât handle a baby⌠definitely look into someone else that can be trusted to watch ur baby for now if your able to
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Youâre sister is the only brat here. 11 months old that behaviour is pretty standard, but is your sister pretty clueless about kids in general? because she sounds it.
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If you want to involve a village when it comes to taking care of your child, you need to be able to accept constructive criticism about the behavior of your children. Otherwise keep them yourself. Most of the time people see things that we donât and because they are our children and we love them it hurts our feelings when things are said. No one has a monopoly on parenting. Also, you can most definitely âdisciplineâ an 11 month old. NO, it doesnât mean you have to hit them. there are a hundred and one ways to discipline a child without physically touching them.
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Your sister is out of line. That is completely normal behavior for a baby. You donât discipline a 11 month old who is still learning what no means.
Also her crying when mom and dad arenât around means she has a healthy attachment to you. Right now she is learning boundaries and learning to understand words. She is bound to be more fussy when you arenât around. If your sister csnât handle that and canât help establish boundaries you are trying to teach her find a sitter who can.
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Your doing nothing wrong mama⌠your baby needs and craves attention from you both âŚsounds like you work alot âŚand honestly your sister sounds like
Sheez not good with kids âŚshe is not a brat âŚyou dont need to hit or punish a child for needin affection âŚand none of her behavior is a sign of bad character she is wayyyy toooo young ⌠sheez not a brat sheez a baby âŚshe will learn that you cant pick her up every time âŚlet her cry a little and then suprise her with a new toy to occupy herself âŚyou constantly gotta redirect your littles
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Hey gf I raised. 7 babies you have to make them mind at a yr old cause they no what they can get buy with at a young age if you let them by with it at 2 they will be the same at 20 or worse
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Your sister is a bitch and likely didnât want to watch her anyway. I am a nanny for a 6 year old with adhd, he hits, screams, curses, dumps toys⌠never ever have I told his parents that he is a brat, you just simply donât do that. If you know your baby is crying to get her way, then definitely donât give in, but for right now all you can do as far as discipline is model and talk about what we do and donât do. But seriously, find a new babysitter
Your sister is the brat
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Ummm start buy never letting your sister watch her until your sister can be mature
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If she is being paid. Then holding her for 2 hrs is what it is!
But I agree, use someone else 
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She is a baby, who is not able to communicate, and is crying. You need to yell your sister to stfu as she is the aunt and not the parent.
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Your child isnt a brat, shes a baby. Your baby sitter is the brat.
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Immature as hell. If itâs such a big problem then find someone else.
Your sister sounds like an Ahole! Hope youâre able to find someone else to watch your baby.
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How old is this sister? Sounds like she needs disciplined. Not a 11 month old baby.
Keep your baby away from your sister, she will hit your baby.
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Sounds like the sister is the brat⌠I would have nanny cams put up if sheâs going to be watching her again. Donât automatically assume you need to change your parenting. Shes 11 months old, babyâs love attention& getting loves. Might be the sitter. Good luck.
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Obviously your sister isnât used to 11 month olds. Rather rude of her to call your baby a brat. Iâd find someone else before she loses patience with her. You never know what could happen, even if she doesnât mean to.
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OmgâŚyour sister is ridiculous
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Your sister sounds like a bitch. She shouldnt be watching an 11 month old baby 
Sheâs a baby. Your sister is the brat. FFS
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Your sisters the brat
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Does your sister also have kids? Thatâs typical for an 11m old. My daughter is in a tantrum throwing mood but weâve just been letting her work it out. Sheâs a year and a half and is still too little to understand why thatâs not acceptable.
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Um if you wanna work n have a life outside your child, you have to break of her of needing to be held. Bold of you to assume she should hold her the entire time lmao
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Ur sister is a brat not ur baby 
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Get a new babysitter
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Iâd have gone and picked up my baby and smacked the sister in the damned face. Talking about disciplining a baby? The Fuck is wrong with her? You are her mother. You are her ENTIRE WORLD. Of course sheâs going to freak out when sheâs away from you! Thatâs NORMAL! Anyone who thinks otherwise is fucking delusional!
I would get a different day care.
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11 month old babies are not brats! They are babies!!!
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Well stop holding the child all the time. Just cause dad needs sleep dad needs to adjust to having a baby. They cry get over it. If it wake you up sleep somewhere else get noise cancelling ear muffs let her cry she wonât die if she cries. And sheâs attached cuz you hold her all the time let her develop independence like there is no need for your child to be held all the time crawl around let her play independently. You are not your child source of entertainment 24/7. They need coping skills and to adjust to other people caring for them. socialize your child. Play groups and stuff
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Never ask your sister to babysit for you again. Point blank.
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Iâm pretty sure itâs normal for babies to be a bit overly attached to mum and dad at that age, so donât stress. I would honestly not ask your sister to babysit for you again cos she clearly canât handle it
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Your daughter is still a baby, your sister is the brat
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Your sisterâs the damn brat! I donât think I would trust her to watch my baby again thatâs for sure, especially if thatâs what she thinks of her. Sheâs a baby. A baby is not a brat, especially a baby thatâs not even a year old yet. I would definitely not have her watch my child anymore.
Two hours and your sister had an issue. Does she have little ones? Ever had a little one? A pop on the butt will not hurt your daughter, it is the sound that makes them cry when disciplined. It is not abuse they are well padded. Only had to a couple of times with my son. Daughter needs to be more independent and not rely on you to hold her all the time. My son was well versed with my siblings so never had a problem there. Close bedroom door when hubby is sleeping during the day. He will learn to tune it out. Leave with someone more often so to get used to it. Just visit at first with the person with your daughter. Sounds like sister isnât close to your daughter or you maybe?
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Clingy and tantrum throwing is developmentally appropriate at that age.
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you can not discipline an 11 month old
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Your sister sounds like a brat, how old is she. She seriously sent you a text within 2 hrs? Iâd tell her to stfu
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Distraction is key, she is not even a year old, shes not being bad, shes learning, dont discipline her, just distract her with something else, and when she cries for attention, just dont give it to her, only way she will learn, need to nip it in the bud now, dont react to their behaviour, if they see you react and they get attention, they will keep doing it.
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I wouldnât have her care for your child again! 11 month old babies arenât brats! Arenât naughty! Arenât in need of discipline! Itâs barbaric! By all means tell them no etc but you canât discipline a baby! Thereâs not much understanding at this age! What a horrid horrid woman your sister is! Babies are always dependent on their parents! ITâS NATURAL INSTINCT
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If you donât let her play independent you will have to be her entertanment for years to come . Let her imagination grow on its own
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Tell her to STFU. Sheâs a baby
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Your daughter it normal, your sist6for calling a baby a bratâŚnot so normal or cool
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Wow my son is 11 months and I would be pisssed if someone called my child a brat. They are BABIES. They cry because thatâs their only way of communication. Tell her she needs to grow the fuck up and hope like hell she never has children đ¤ˇ
She is your baby!! Itâs the only way she knows to say she needs youâŚfor goodness sake donât punish her for basic needs!!!
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She probably doesnât like your sister it sounds like she no patience I wouldnât trust her with my child. Babyâs at that age do not need discipline.
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Umm 11 months. Still a baby! Infants to 2 yrs old are only expressing themselves. They canât speak actual sentences. Itâs Normal for them to throw tantrums, they are so small and feel a bunch of emotions that its hard for them to sort through, when a baby does throw a tantrum let them calm themselves down. Itâs not anyoneâs fault. And whatâs wrong with being clingy? Bfs & Gfs are clingy, so is it ok for grownups to need attention and get clingy but itâs not ok for lil babyâs and kids? Your sister needs to stop acting like your baby is spoiled. Adults get away with being worse and she is complaining about your child? Time outs are only ok for 3yr+.
Infants & kids need love, they need to be assured they are not alone & safe.
Ask your sister, if your going to think that way then why do people need to be in a relationship, you donât need to be hugged everyday, you donât need to hear âI love youâ everyday, when your in a bad mood, why canât you control yourself? If babies arenât allowed to express emotions then adults have no right to be jerks or clingy or self centered.
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Your sister has no right to tell you how to raise your BABY ! Yes , I said baby ! You donât discipline a baby other than saying no when she is into something that might hurt her etc . Babies are to be loved on , rocked and spoiled . Keep up the good work !
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The âcrying trickâ?? If your infant is upset, theyâre upset. Just because YOU or YOUR SISTER, who are GROWN by the way, wouldnât be upset at being left alone for 5 minutes doesnt mean a child wouldnt. The more shes with other family/sitters the more comfortable she will be. My LO hated staying with sitters at the age, and now she barely looks at me when we pull up to grandmas house. Tell your sister babies cry and if she cant handle that you need to find another sitter.
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Your sister is wrong knowing you have to work and calling you to complain that your child is being a brat maybe she should show her more love and attention
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You need another sitter
Your sister is an ass. Your baby is only 11 months old. Very much a baby still and doesnât need to be disciplined. Sheâs crying for a reason.