Leave him for good, he obviously doesn’t deserve you or that child.
He does what you allow him to do. He knows youll come back so hes gonna keep doing it
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Aah sweetie you should have never gotten back with him. You’ll be so much better off without him (so will your child)
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I would leave. You deserve someone who puts you first and lets other woman know that.
Keep that man sounds like you
Have a good man
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No you’re not overreacting, given the past circumstances he had no respect for you then and he certainly doesn’t have any now. He knew how it would make you feel and still did it anyway.
Shouldn’t have gone back to him dude. Now you’re having a whole kid with him? Yikes dude.
He does not respect you or the fact that you are carrying his child…please respect yourself enough to leave and never go back. You deserve way better and the other gf obviously knows about you and does not care. He has chosen twice who he wants and it’s not you or the child you are carrying.
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Never let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.
You don’t deserve that, mama!
what is he in prison cant even speak to some one you dont like i would run if i was him
Honey if you had to ask you know. Follow your gut instinct. Our bodies tell us without a doubt when something is wrong. I know we all make mistakes but never do our souls lead us wrong you just have to listen. Good luck
Once a cheater always a cheater!! Wake up!!
I stayed with my husband ‘6 affairs’ because I didn’t think I could do it my own. Found out I could with our child. It was hard but I was determined. You can too. But will you? Even if you forbid him he still will contact this other woman some way, some how.
When he chose her over you, you shouldve never taken him back & moved on with your life. A baby wont change anything, so just move on with your life, without him.
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He doesnt love you. He especially doesnt respect you. No more ultimatums, it’s time for you to show him, your not a doormat, time to leave him!
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Im sorry this happened but you deserve better! Best to break it off and find a way to Co parent for your child’s sake. I wish you luck 
No you are not overreacting I think it’s messed up what’s so important about her that he can’t quit talking to her you should ask him that and ask him who’s more important you and your son or her just a suggestion
You knew who he was. He CHOSE someone over you. You deserve better. He does not respect you. You will likely live with this behavior as long as you’re with him. I’m sorry I can’t be more helpful.
He doesn’t love you dear I’ve came to my realization here recently to … you cant force love let him go if he comes back nobody wants him …I wouldn’t take him back either… I would put my focus on the child and no raising a grown man child .
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I think you know the answer, you just need to gain the courage and follow through with it. You CAN make it on your own, and it will hurt, but you already know this isnt going to end up with happily ever after.
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Had pretty much the same thing happen to me except we already had a kid
If he’s done it once so easily, he’ll do it again🤷♀️ he’s already started
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Past behavior predicts future behavior. Leave now dont waste one more second of your life. He obviously is not ready or willing to settle down. Please don’t say but " I love him" bull shit.
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Your first mistake was taking him back… Your second mistake was getting pregnant by him and thinking he would change. Good luck!
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It is hard to accept when someone you love does not love you back the same way. It is okay to leave him. In time you will see that it was the best move for you to make for not only yourself, but your child. Mommy should not be miserable while raising a child. Love yourself and only accept the best because you deserve it.
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your not overreacting, when you took him back the decision only affected the two of you but now you have to think about how your choices will affect your child. Do you want your child learning this behavior? I hope you have family or friends that can help you through this, be strong for your baby and don’t ever let another man treat you this way, know your worth and teach your child to know theirs!
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Really what is wrong with you, are you desperate or just blind, honestly I am not understanding this question
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You’re not overreacting you set rules and he agreed. Well now he broke them, so you need to see he is not loyal and there is no trust.
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You arent over reacting but hes likely to keep messing with her if he knows he can just come back as he pleases again
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Either you accept it or you dont and live with it. Cheating is cheating. He has made it clear where his interests are. He is having cake and eating it to. Dnt let him.
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Never go back. If he did it once he’ll do it again. And a baby is not going to stop him either… Move on…
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You cannot make him a faithful man, you cannot make him loyal to you. Accept this, & move on.
Repeat this everytime you have to ask this question.
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I am in the same boat, my biggest mistake was taking him back after 5 times of him going back to the same girl, we have 3 kids together so its difficult for me but im trying to get my life together and have the stability first. But girl leave she will always be first.
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He won’t stop
If not"her" … another her…men just don’t know what faithful is
Why would you take him back and then have a baby!!! 🤦 He WILL NEVER STOP!
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Stand your ground demand respect or he will keep doing it!
Nobody deserves to be put second. You need to find someone that will love only you!
No your not overreacting…let him go since he won’t let her go
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You should’ve never got back together with him
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After 35 years of marriage and all his cheating lying never there when he was needed by me and our kids I left him found My Jack Lambert a knight in shining armor we have never had a fight loud voice or anything. He loves me for me.i never been happier. So if your guy is still doing his crap it won’t never end you and your baby will always be hurt by him. There is a real man out there waiting on you
My opinion is you knew what he was yet you chose to go back with him and you got pregnant in top of that. What do you want people to say other than you asked for it?! I mean, you caught him before and he chose her over you. When it didn’t work out he came back to his 2nd choice. What makes you think he would not do it again? You are stuck with him got life now because you got knocked up by him. I’m not trying to be mean but I mean this is a DUH situation here. What do you WANT people to say?
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Time to say BYE FELICIA! You don’t deserve to be treated like that. No woman does. You’re alot stronger than you realize. Remember once a cheater always a cheater
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Not crazy!!! But lesson learned
Don’t get married thinking it will fix things it won’t
Leave n dont look back they never change trust me…
No your not overreacting, its cheating.
Kick him to the curb your worth more then that and that baby is too
Time to move on. He’s not gonna change.
Can someone tell me what s/o means? 
Unless he’s in diapers you won’t change him
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You are not an
Option he is a loser wise up know your Worth woman ! You should always be number 1 ! If he can’t than someone else will !
No, you’re not overreacting, but you probably should have known better than to start a family with someone that would choose another person over you. Now that child will suffer for it. Grab your baby belly and go. You should have stayed gone the first time.
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You are not overreacting. I’m so sorry this happened to you. It happened to me too. We stayed together but I think about it every day, and it’s been 3 years. I don’t think I’ll ever really trust him again. I wish I had something more positive to say, but it’s like a ghost that’s just always there.
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Baby know your worth.
Was it JUST talking? Not CHEATING? Because if it was just TALKING, then I would just ignore it! But that’s me! I mean, I’ve been married to the same man for 37 1/2 years, we broke up in 2002, he went back to Tx. with our middle daughter, I stayed here with our youngest, about 6 months later, I decided to go back to Tx. too, he was living with another woman(our daughter was there also) I MOVED INTO HER HOUSE, got him back(they never did ‘it’ because he has ED) and we are still together, for now, wears getting legally separated, but that’s more because he hates Trump than anything else…my point is, unless he actually CHEATED with sex, I’d just let it go! I would NEVER stop my man from having female friends, I would just tell all of THEM that if I ever caught them trying something MORE than friendship, I would BEAT THEM DOWN!!
You known the answer already…KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!
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id tell him youll be a very good single mom and kick the trash to the curb.
If you don’t see a red flag now it’s gonna cost you later
He obviously wants her or why else would she keep appearing? He keeps reaching out to her
No, you’re not overreacting at all. He’s having problems committing to you and only you. I went through it with my ex-husband for 8 1/2 years!! He would always come running back when him and his latest fling broke up and I loved him and we had 2 daughters so I always took him back constantly worrying be about him cheating again, talking to other girls and Wondering when he was gonna Leave again!! You need to ask yourself if you want that life or do you want more than that for you and your son!! Good luck with whatever you deserve
Don’t settle for being put 2nd, demand respect for yourself and your child.If you stay with him,He has to know you won’t put up with worrying wether he’s being faithful or not the whole time your pregnant.
Now its time to think of yourself and the baby and make sure your in a healthy environment.
Men usually will try to see how far they can push you,how much you’ll put up with. Don’t put yourself through that.Fool me once,shame on you.Fool me twice,shame on me.
Get rid of him ur better off
He did it once what made you think he wouldn’t do it again!! Then you have a kid with the idiot!!
Why tf would you take back the asshole that left you for someone else?! Girl… get your shit together. Get up, leave his stupid sorry ass, and stop taking him back.
Wait he chose her and you got back together with him. I’m sorry but you’re a dumbass. I don’t feel sorry for you and you get what you get for not learning from that. Some women like being a doormat and you my dear are a doormat.
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You’ve got nobody to blame but yourself and you’ll get no pity from me. The universe helped you dodge a bullet the first time round and like a moron you ran back. Now you’re attached to him forever.
This is what you get when a mans dick means more to a woman than her own self respect.
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