Your 2 year old may have been playing with it and I would look through all the toys, in the couch, etc…. Maybe even check the trash cans. Take a picture of where you find it so he can look like an ass.
Sounds like he was looking for a reason to leave
No it’s most likely because he is… and who ever he’s cheating on you with lives over there. I’m so sorry
Guilty conscience. My ex used to do this. We didnt have phones. I couldnt afford them as i was the only one that worked and he spent any spare money on some hobby of his like hotwheels and football cards. Im sure its really just in your apartment. You dont have to make the decision rn as youre about to have a baby. But i would consider leaving him anyway before it gets worse.
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HE is 100% cheating and deflecting… so his phone is lost and the ONLY logical explanation is youre F’ing the neighbor? Da fuq
If HIS iPhone is in the apartment next to yours, yet he is BLAMING you for his phone being next door. Sounds like to me he’s the one cheating and blaming it on you so he doesn’t feel guilty for it.
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… real question is. How did HIS phone get there ? Either he left it there when HE WAS THERE, or he dropped it and someone from over there picked it up. Don’t let this fool gaslight you.
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I’m sorry, but with this being a giant, run-on sentence… I can’t even stand reading it. Good luck.
maybe he drop it ourside and the neighbor pick it up and kept it
If he doesn’t understand how inaccurate location services are, he is delusional. I dont know yalls relationship, but if my bf pulled that I’d tell him simple, prove it, let’s go over their together and ask for your phone, see what happens when the neighbor calls the police on us. Then I’d just start walking over there. I bet his phone is somewhere in your place, just lost, and how long has it been lost? I’m sure the battery would die and shouldn’t be pinging anything. Could it be possible a neighbor stole it when he left it unattended? Either way, screw him and tell him to kick rocks.
He is cheating. Point blank period, and he’s using this as an excuse to leave you while you’re pregnant.
Bet he’ll start stumbling his words when you turn it back on him and tell him he’ll be paying you for the next 18 years
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He is very likely guilty himself and projecting that onto you! I’m sorry you’re dealing with that. I’d let him walk away. You can be a single mom. I did it for several years before I found a man who took us all on (myself and two daughters). It’s tough work, but you CAN do it! I worked, went to school, and raised up my babies. I only had 2.5 weeks maternity leave with my baby because I had to get back to making money. Fortunately I had family close by to help with my babies that quickly.
You got this, mama! Do not let a man break you!
He wants an out and this is his excuse. Chances are he’s the one cheating. Sorry
Men don’t generally accuse women of cheating in such idiotic ways unless they are doing something wrong. It’s a cover up.
Accuse him back.
Those gps things are never spot on.
you can do it single & be a mama to 2 . this will probably repeat in the future . save urself the stress . yu got this
Also show him your google timeliness if he wants to be like this. No you shouldn’t have to but if he is serious about it and it’s bit him just trying to leave. He may genuinely get paranoid.
He’s just looking for an excuse to leave. He is acting out that way because he doesn’t want to have responsibilities, namely op, her child and the baby on the way. If he is so sure about the location of the phone, both of you should go and ask to look for it. But I am willing to bet that he’s left it at his girlfriend’s place.
Sounds like he’s cheating and is feeling guilty so he’s pushing it on you.
You can do better. He sounds awful. Allow me to demonstrate my advice for you:
Sounds like to me he is hiding something and trying to blame you
Usually the accuser is doing whatever they are accusing you of doing.
Sounds like he’s cheating!
Dump him. You don’t need THREE children
Red flag…he is cheating
Most likely he’s cheating on you & his other woman lives in those apartments. It’s called projection. He’s projecting his actions on you. He’s done with your relationship but needs you to be the blame. LEAVE. Don’t look back. It’s going to be hard but trust me the longer you stay especially after the birth of his child the more controlling & emotionally abusive he’s going to be. Go to a relatives, friends or DA shelter. When you have your baby leave his name off the BC. If you need public assistance which you will at first tell them you & your children are in danger & can’t give them his name.
He knows you didn’t cheat. He’s using it as an excuse.
Let him leave.
That’s called projection honey.
He’s the one cheating more than likely
They tend to do this when they’re the ones cheating. He’s left his phone somewhere himself. It makes them feel less guilty if they accuse you. Trust me. I know.
Trust me you need to leave asap. I left my narcissistic ex 2 1/2 years ago. I was 3 months pregnant with our second daughter and I contracted an STD of course the moment I told him he was accusing me of cheating on him meanwhile I had a 9-10 month old baby at home, turns out he was cheating on me with his not only his ex but one of his co-workers. I know what I’m talking about. It doesn’t get better it gets worse. You need to leave.
Sounds like an excuse for deflection. I think he is cheating… sorry sweetie.
Sign of things to come.
Counseling might help.
Trust is everything.
Maybe he is cheating
I think he’s cheating and this is how he’s going to make it your fault. By making you the bad guy even though you didn’t do anything.
Hes the cheat hes projecting xx
Rejoice that you’re getting rid of him. Geez.
Sounds like he is accusing you of what he probably did himself. 
Maybe he’s just freaking out since the baby will be born soon. Stay calm and help look for the phone as best you can. Find my phone always has a range and isn’t always accurate. Try the chime feature if that works. Good luck.
People who accuse innocent people is usually because they are…
You should be aware a he’s probably projecting his own actions on to you
Sounds like he’s deflecting. I also wouldn’t be surprised if he’s looking for a way out before the baby comes.
What if he took it over there and hid it in a place it won’t get ruined
Leave…your 2 year old is still very young and he will forget eventually.
The newborn well, maybe it’s better to leave your partner and go away with the kids?? He sounds abusive and seems like he doesn’t want to take responsibilities with his new child. Trust me!!! It might be scary but you can take care of your children yourself!
Sounds like his excuse he made up just to bounce tbh
Just from experience… if they’re blaming you for cheating. They’re the ones cheating.
Someone who jumps to that wild of a conclusion immediately isn’t a healthy minded person. My ex, would behave that way, he was very accusatory. I never cheated on him. He did cheat on me…a lot.
It doesn’t sound like you two spent a lot of time getting to know each other, you fell in love, got married and pregnant, and here you are. The fact you have a newborn shouldn’t change anything, you should leave now. Your husband is showing you exactly what kind of person he is, there is no excuse for it, leave. This is no way to live. It’s not fair to your kids, and it’s not fair to you. There are resources if you need them. This isn’t love. Please know that it’s true. So many women have been where you are and took too long to get out. Don’t waste another day, month, or year. Your future self will thank you for getting out now. Good luck 
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What should you do? Let him leave. Trash is taking itself out.
Better off without him what a douch
Oh Honey, can you see the red flags 
here. You just might be better off as a single mom. He is very insecure and immature
I get a my ex vibe reading your post. I’m so glad I left
Your son deserves more & so do you. That guy does not think of your child as his otherwise it wouldn’t be as easy for him to just walk out without an ounce of proof you have been unfaithful. Very much sounds like he has a guilty conscious & he’s using his narcissism to make you out to be the bad one. RUN 
If a guy is looking for a reason to leave, he’ll find a reason. Let him go and file for support. He won’t be any help if he stays anyway.
He is so guilty. He is likely cheating!
You are dodging a bullet. He is gaslighting you
Life 360, shows the location it was at when the app is deleted .
Move on, it’s not worth the effort when someone accuses you of cheating, when the truth is it’s probably him…
“I think he did but I just can’t prove it… ohh”
He’s just looking for an excuse and he found it.
Sounds like he worried you’re doing the same thing he is. Maybe the couch ate it?
Sounds like he’s being shady and projecting it onto you.
Or either gps isn’t right like Rebecca said
The man know his business… he have his woman and just wants an excuse… stupes
If this doesn’t scream NARCISSIST! He’s mentally and emotionally abusing you. I bet it’s not the first time. And it definitely won’t be the last. These kind of people get off on hurting you this way. RUN 
don’t walk out of this relationship. NOW.
The fact that he can go there and advise you like this is a huge red flag and it’s better to get out of that situation before the kids get older and he gets worse.
Well the people across the street from us ask my son to come over and feed their animals. When they got back they were looking for their iPad and it kept saying it was at our house. I tore up my son’s room looking for the damn thing and it was in their car the whole time. Wish you could show him what I wrote because them locators are not always accurate. But is he going over there and left his phone??
Sounds like he was looking for a reason to leave so let him
First of all why would he jump to the conclusion that you’re cheating? Could someone not have stolen the phone? Second of all the app is never completely accurate. As lots of people have mentioned already in the comments. I feel like he’s cheating and has a guilty conscience. And he is definitely looking for a reason out. I know it hurts now but just let him go. You will be better off in the long run.
It’s always the guilty dog that barks first
Go to that neighbors house and get the phone and have that person explain how it got there. Call a police officer to come and go with you.
Sounds like he is guilty of some thing
Sounds like someone making up some sh!t to avoid being a dad. I’m sorry. It’s less about him not believing you and way more about him inventing stories and not wanting to step up to his responsibilities. That’s a crappy man
I know being a single mom is scary, but for any man to have the audacity to accuse his pregnant partner over HIS OWN missing cell phone is a literal walking red flag. Something more is going on here this screams that he’s gaslighting you. Let him leave mama. You, your child and your unborn baby deserve better.
It’s probaby buried in the couch against the wall. But sounds like red flags to me. Your 2 year old won’t even remember him. Just go now before it gets worse and your sheltering yourself to prove to him your loyal and before you know it, you have no friends… yes. I’m projecting.
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Your SO is the one cheating 
You’re more worried about the fact you’re gonna be a single mom when really you should me more worried that your partner is an actual manipulative POS using this as an excuse to leave you and likely covering up his own infidelity in the process. He’ll never change it will happen again and again and you will always be to blame no matter what you do say or how you act. You will always be the one wrong and at fault.
This is super duper fishy. We just had to use find my iPhone and it showed my phone farther away when in reality it was right by us. He is either doing something sneaky himself or an insecure idiot who doesn’t understand his iPhone (less likely)
Reflexing he has or is cheating
Melting down about fatherhood and then something falls from the sky that he can weaponize then conveniently use it for his off-ramp
Ur better off as single mother. If he’s saying ur cheating he is using that to make himself feel better. He cheating on u. Just making up bs to have a reason to leave. U n ur babies deserve better it’s hard at first but u can do it.
He’s a childish jerk.Hes using as an excuse 
he doesn’t want the responsibility of a family, time to play the victim and leave
He dosnt sound like a keeper in my opinion. Ladies men are whiny 
open your eyes! Big babies most of them are. He’s gonna leave u on an assumption it’s just that easy . No communication no trust … let him go he sounds like a headache!
He doesn’t actually think you’re cheating, he was just looking for a way out. I can almost guarantee that phone is still in your apartment somewhere. Those things are never accurate on exactly where it’s located
He’s projecting!! Often guilty consciences behave this way!! Don’t let it bother you as difficult as it sounds. Tell him I’m not allowing your sh!t attitude and guilty conscience effect me. This is how cheaters act! I didn’t cheat can you say the same cuz u sound awfully suspicious?! Let’s take a lie detector test BOTH of us. Watch him calm his a$$ right down then throw him away w the trash
Go next door and ask them did he give you guys on old phone? Could be a trap to leave. Not being weird. It’s happened to people I know.
We had a find your phone direct us to a pond 5 miles away . It was sitting in the OR Down the hall. (Work in surgery) Your SO might be an A**.
The location isn’t accurate. If he wants to threaten you with leaving, let him. Being a single mom is hard but it’s also rewarding. It’s best to end the relationship now than deal with the same crap 5 years from now.
My phone location shows as across the street from my house in the middle of an undeveloped marsh. They aren’t exact locations
Nothing you do or say is going to change his mind. Tell him to go find his phone if he thinks its that close
You need to get yourself and your children away from this person. If its your home…you have him removed. If its his …you go to a woman’s aid with your children. It sounds to me as if hes the one cheating. Hes left his phone at his girlfriends house and now he’s trying to blame you …or why would he not have followed the signal and got his phone back already
He’s sick. Literally, like in the head.
First off that app really doesn’t pinpoint EXACTLY where something is. It gives you the general location within so many yards or feet of where the item is. And I’ve always been told if they start accusing you of cheating it’s usually because they are the ones cheating.
Your 2 yr old won’t remember…do what’s best and run from toxic shit now before the baby is old enough to remember
He’s a POS…kick him to the curb…
Sounds like he may be cheating and blamimg you.
He is cheating. Leave him. You will not benefit from being with him.
Um in my experience he was first to lay blame as a cheater… he the one cheating… stop and think about it.
Honestly it sounds like he just wants a reason. It’s going to hurt and suck but you can’t make someone stay when they’re that determined to leave. I would tell him to stop making up bullshit excuses because it’s HIS phone, how do we know HE wasn’t the one cheating? And if he just wants to leave the grow tf up and say it like an adult.
Being a single mom is really fucking hard. But having someone like that in the home is even harder and you and those babies don’t deserve that. The moment that baby is born file for child support. Put down your last name, not his. I’m so sorry he’s doing this to you rn but you got this 
If it’s his phone, considering most of us keep our phones with us all the time, how in the world could you have taken it anywhere? Tell him that. Also, if someone was cheating why would they take their partners phone and give it to the person they’re cheating with? But, he’s already threatened you when you’re about to give birth…. and yet he is doing this… it’s a big . And why would any mom to be not want the daddy to have their phone when they know they’ll need to call him to say it’s time to go to the hospital.
He’s cheating on you, and gaslighting you to deflect blame. He probably left it at his girlfriends house.
Ditch him. He’s a schmuck.
See an attorney to get court assigned child support.
Sounds like he’s projecting. I’d say get the f*** away from him. Run while he’s giving you the choice.
Sounds like he’s the problem and looking for an excuse out.
Sounds like your boyfriend is a lil punk donkey female dog…
Your spouse is cheating on you. Accusing you gives him an out and makes you look like the bad guy. He’s a piece of work.
Get onto your own two feet and stand strong. Eff him if he really believes some BS story that HE conjured up. Comes off as projecting honestly (which means HE has something he seems to be guilty of and is blaming you to hide his). Just seems wild to come up with that story and run with it. Willingly leaving your partner over THAT? Especially when they’re pregnant?
Girl, you’re better off. The two year old will forget about him, just be their rock.
Can you go closer to family or anything?