Let her pick it all out. Not matching vs the emotional turmoil and stress isn’t worth it. Clean clothes is what matters. Maybe sensory but most likely a power struggle. At this age it’s important to ask their opinion
Whip her butt. It’s not abuse or against the law
Sensory issue…my daughter went through the same thing…about a year of therapy helped tremendously!
Not bein mean sounds like ur lettin ur daughter run on top of u where she is the mom not u. A friend of mine her daughter was like this till she got an old fashion ass whipped n told her the truth there’s kids out here who don’t have it made like u be greatful fir what y have n let her pick her clothes out
Take 2 outfits out. Give her the choice, put the other one up, let her get dressed.
I agree with the food. Do your research. Red and yellow die mess with ppl. Take her to the doctor have her checked every where. Get her a psychologist
Who is the parent she is a child and you are her mother, I understand let her pick what she likes ada
She’s 3 get a grip, raise kids is hard
DO NOT ARGUE with a 3 year old. She must face the consequences if she doesnt behave.
Take control now…if not … teenage years will be a killer.
Seek medical advise … behavioral specialist will be able to get her in line.
BEST OF LUCK…
I have been there!!!
We have the same Kid!!!