A mate once told me not to collect red flags 
one is enough !
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He’s lying leave girl
You don’t need advice. Your gut is telling you everything you need to know. Trust that. Your Gut 100% correct 100% of the time… He is a POS… Beneath you… Move on…
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For real 
why are you still with that man ???
Just ditch him. You can’t trust him.
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She was there before the split up girl come on. You don’t just run to someone that wasn’t there before
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Uh, personal opinion, but he’s lying.
Why did you message her, it’s your husband not her’s…It’s his fault, do what you gonna do…
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Trust your gut! It knows what your heart is afraid to admit.
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You already know the truth. You’ve sent the evidence. He’s lying. You just want it to not be true. Question to ask yourself now is: what are you going to do about him being a liar and cheater? There’s no excuses for what he did and why he lied about it too, but you either accept it or be done with him. I think he’s lying because once he got a taste of what he thought he wanted he realized what he had to lose and what it could cost him, and now his ego and pride won’t let him admit he screwed up big time and could lose you if you hear the truth from him.
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I feel like you already know the answer. Leave now before you just get hurt again. Good luck
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Guys moto: deny, deny, deny
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Why are you even with him🤦🏼♀️ Why are you reaching out to this girl?! Check your man and move on!
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He was cheating and the split up was just an open excuse to continue what he was doing. Leave and stay gone.
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Be done quick! If he can’t be honest about it he’s prolly got more under his hat than yours aware of. Move on ! Seriously
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Did the two of you reconcile your split before you found out?
No trust equals no relationship. Say goodbye
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Cheatings Dudes usually cheat at the most significant times! Right before baby is born, after baby is born, 2 days before engagement or wedding, day after your mother’s funeral etc. I’m sorry tho…just don’t be dumb and stay. They only do what you allow.
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You really gotta ask? 
He is a liar, move on.
You can find better someone who will be faithful and love you 
I know you love him and have kids with him but it’s not worth it if you let it slide he will think if he does it again he will get by with it again and keep sucking you into his lies
Look Linda!!! Are you still gonna be with the man in the end??? If so …. Stop even digging into it… why even waste all the unnecessary messiness if you know in the end you are still gonna say “but I love him” …
Just keeping it 
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I call bull shit !! Been there and went through that! They just don’t change either so I say get rid of him now because you’ll eventually find out the truth in the long run and wish you had of left when you found out !!!
Wow time for some honesty
then let him go sweetheart
Honestly yes maybe he cheated and whatever …every man does shit but maybe not to hurt you his lying and she is also denying it cos you are the mother of his child and things were hectic having baby around …focus on having date night.give him time and attention cos that’s what he went there.Dont focus on that incident too much cos at the end of the day that’s temperily excitement …he knows you are his queen that he will come home too so have his back also cos that will make yourl have a better bond and he will feel easier to open up to you.
That’s what I did when my hubby made another girl pregnant…I told that girl Wer ever my hubby goes he will still come bk home to me and I’m rightfully the daughter in law of this family.my hubby said I didn’t want to hurt you cos you are the mother of my child and those girls don’t get treated or he don’t care about what goes on with them cos you the mother of my child that’s why we fight over stupid things ,I get jealous and I’m protective ,I scold you etc…cos we share a bond
In the end she walked out cos she lost the battle 
she or no other women will take my place
If you had to ‘check’ his phone…there already trust issues. For me…why bother? If I don’t trust someone, it’s done. No checking phones or anything…done
If yous split sorry but it’s none of your biss weather they did or didn’t
But I went through the same as this only it wasn’t a split up we had argued he went and spoke to his ex for 3 months and had me blocked told her we had split then both lied to me until I got the truth from her
But yeah it hurts either way
If you have taken him back then fine forget it as it’s not your issue but if he is still being dishonest cut all ties as he is still at it. X
Put him in the rear view and leave him there.
If she told you it’s because she knows he won’t. He already lied to you about it before and he’ll keep lying to keep you around. That’s not your man