If you found a guy you were living with on Plenty Of Fish, so you made a fake account to talk to them, then they found out it was you and they were furious, what reason would you give for doing it?
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Cause you a CHEETAH!
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I did the same thing and I whole a** told them it was because I found them on there. And promptly packed their things 
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Howād you find the profile?
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Why not just call them on their shit and not do as they are doing! Leaves room for you to look guilty too
This sounds like middle school.
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I wouldnāt go to those linksā¦ I would screenshot his profile, show him and leave.
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I wanted to fish too 
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Living with or dating? Makes a difference. If your just living with him let him be. If you are dating him then just drop his ass. Honestly cheating would be the response then.
Oh mate. I wouldnāt have even made a profile to catch them out. Itās like the blind leading the blind here. Yāall both immature
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I think the issue here is more why they were on there not why you spoke to them
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Not one damn reasonā¦ā¦
Obviously thereās trust issues with him
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I feel retarded I scrolled past this too fast and just saw fish drama and legit thought this was going to be about fish I forgot there was a site called plenty of fish 
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You had your own account to begin with, so why were you on there? Sounds like both of you had one foot out the door.
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If youāre checking up on your partner itās time for a new one.
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You donāt need to give a reason. Your partner is at fault. You trusted your intuition as you should! Kick them out!!!
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Meh. āIf you can do it, I can do it better 
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Those are games. Both of you are playing games. Your reason is that your just as sketchy as he is.
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I made a profile and caught him and called him out on it. If he is on there and talking he is cheating
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The only way to go with this is the truth any other explanation will dound ridiculous.
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Because he is clearly cheating and you needed to know man up tell him the truth
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The truth. You didnt trust him and wtf he doing still on POF when living with you. Kick him to the curb u deserve better!
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Living together? Assuming in a committed relationship?
Umā¦yeaā¦buh bye. 
Zero reasons other than to see if he was faithful. Hold out for a man with some integrity and the capability to commit.
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I would screenshot his profile, print a ton of copies and take them to all the boxes I packed his stuff was packed in.
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Just be honest? You found out he had an account, made a fake one to see if he would chat with you. Simple
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Its called cat fishing and well he is probably mad cuz you caught hIm red handed !
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Ummmā¦ heās mad he got caught? Boy bye 
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The only reason should be the truth, that you found out he was on there and decided to catch him yourself. Plain and simple.
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Play stupid gamesā¦win stupid prizes
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Shoot. I was seeing where u was taking it. And why he on there? He mad cause he got caught.
To all those telling her to leave she never said it was her partner just a guy sheās living like a flatmate
Lol. I did that and he didnāt know for two yearās.
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HEāS furious??! Donāt let him turn that around on you
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Heās obviously tryna turn shit on you so I would go ahead and leave ā¦ Dont even argue with the man
Guy you were living withā¦was on plenty of fishā¦ but heās mad you made a fake profileā¦
are yall together or just live together? Bc if youāre together I believe you know the answer to your question
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The truth.
And a kick in his butt on his way out
Sounds like you caught a carpā¦ throw it back!
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āOh I thought we were both being stupidā followed by āIāll see myself outā slam door
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Are you together? If yes, be honest and tell the truth.
If youāre not together why does it matter?
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If heās a room mate then who cares. If heās your boyfriend then get rid of him.
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I did itā¦ and Iām glad I did. The friggin moron really sunk his shipā¦
Living with as a roommate? Uh yeah Iād be pissed and creeped out that you did that. Your boyfriend? Make him your ex
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If he was your boyfriendā¦laugh at him as he is packing his stuff. If it wasnāt your boyfriendā¦then it was a horrible thing to do and he should be furious.
Bitch?! Are you serious???!
Be honest. Him being upset about it is typical narcissistic behavior so he can twist it around on you like youāre the bad guy.
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I caught my ex on POF and I packed my bags and left the next day. Life is too short to waste your time with an unfaithful man that makes you hurt, run girl.
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How about ābecause youāre a liar and a cheat and I wanted to prove it first hand, you nasty piece of shit.ā
If he is your bf it wouldnāt matter because he would now be an ex.
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You just need to go listen to the Pina Colada Song
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Catch and release Babe,
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Caught ya bitch. Now bounce. 
. No reason to give. See ya!
Been there done that. Get rid of him. My ex was talking to about 20 different women. Heās always in a relationship with at least 4. The rest are just sexual partners. Karma will get him. My ex now has trouble getting an erection. Karma really is a bitch
I wanted to spend more quality time together?!?
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Apparently my comment got deleted 
You stated a guy you live with. Not your significant other. If yāall arenāt in a committed relationship then you should mind your own and not go fishing to find out what heās doing on his own time. If yāall in a committed relationship then simply confront him about being on POF instead of being immature and baiting/cat fishing him.
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Is it you bf or just a roommate? If itās just a roommate you are weird af.
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Youāre stooping to his level!
Been there done it 
a couple gals told me my so called Beau was seen on 2 diff dating apps!
Itās a huge sign to move on. They dnt respect you so why waste your time šŖ±
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I mean how did you know he was on plenty of fish to start with?? That should end the situation all togetherā¦
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If its your man drop him, if its your roommate move out. 
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What is plenty of fish?
Thats called manipulation instead of the real issue him being on their its now about youā¦another 2 weeks you be punished for this see what Iām saying.
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This relationship sounds exhausting
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It honestly depends on if you are his girlfriend. If
But werenāt both of yāall wrong for both being on pof???
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That man is a narcissist and you need to leave
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Unmmmmmm your my fckn man why tf were you ON there in the first mfckn place?! You donāt need a reason honeyyyyyyyyy!!!? Wtf?! #IAMBLEW
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Tell them the real reason why?? Lol
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If you had to do it in the first place, your with the wrong person.
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Who freaking cares your reason. He was in the wrong bottom line and you caught his sneaky ass.
Why would u go out ur way to car fish him? U should of known better
well- I mean you donāt owe anyone an explanation. Nor would I advise you to dig any deeper of a hole by trying to explain yourself away. it is what it is at this point- time & space is probably necessary. Talk when emotions cool down 
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Why are you feeling the need to defend yourself? He is in the wrong! It is time to move on!
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Why was he mad if he was on there first, time to move on, obviously a cheater
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???none. Heās the one that should be explaining lol
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Dear Lort! I think you know what you should do.
A reason?? and heās mad??!! More like Mad he got busted
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Yup I agree with all of the above posters! Most men or people in general that are or doing wrong usually get pissed when they get caught! This is typical for cheaters and narcissistic men
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So you both donāt trust each other. Thatās not good at all
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You donāt need a reason, heās scum
What a terrible day to be literate
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My friend saw you and I knew youd be a liar about itā¦ got my proof.
Are you living with him or in a relationship with him? Cos if itās a relationship tell him the truth of your just living with him then tell him cos your bat shot crazy
Iād tell him that he started it.
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In the end you donāt need a reason. Helloooooooā¦.heās gaslighting you and your losing focus on who he is, and what heās done.
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Now yāall both creeps. Couldāve just called him out like a normal person.
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hereās the deal, if you feel the need to do this then HE is NOT the one.
Why lie about why you did it? I mean, seriously, he was the one caught. BUT, I think we both know what YOU need to do. Move on, leave this man behind. Two wrongs donāt make it right.
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Yāall both need to run away in opposite directions lol
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- From past experience, when you catch someone cheating, they try to turn the tables on you to throw it off of them.
- Why were you on there? Did you not trust him? Or were you looking?
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Heās pissed cause he got caught playing his own game. Tough cookies! Heās a cheater!
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You donāt need to give a reason. The real question is why does he have a POF account to begin with?
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Neither one is ready for a commitment.
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You setting up a fake account doesnāt even compare with the fact that he had a real account talking to and/ or meeting, doing whoever. he mad because he knows heās caught and tying to place blame elsewhere. Yup true narcissist behavior. These individuals hate being calling out.
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Because fuck u thats why lol
I would tell him you where on there looking for someone with a bigger penis because his is too small & then tell him to leave.
Are yāall roommates or dating lmaoo
I truly believe this is a dumb question because thereās no way you donāt know what you should do but I still want to add one thing. Idk how old you are but Iām 44 and the best advice I can give someone younger than meā¦or really anyoneā¦is the time you lose dealing with these types of situations is the MOST important thing. Itās obviously not going to work. And the months and/or years you waste attempting to figure it out is something you can never get back. You always think that person is the one and youāre not gonna find someone else. But you will find someone else who is better for you. You cannot get back that time tho. Life moves fast.
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You both Chesterās and donāt deserve a good man or woman
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