If a loved one was constantly pressuring you to have a relationship again with a toxic family member, what would you do? The toxic family member tried to ruin my life, and my loved one insists that I get over it or try to confront them about it. I want to do neither because I am in a peaceful place, and I feel like my loved one is not respecting my boundaries at all. The loved one’s decisions are forcing me to choose between having an unencumbered relationship with them or removing some of the barriers I put up to protect my peace from the toxic family member. What should I do? The loved one refuses to see the toxic family member as too toxic for a relationship.