Should I ask my ex to help with daycare?

He should be paying half.

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This question isn’t worth answering really because there is too much missing info.

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I would say yes he should. Honestly I think he should have to pay half.

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If he is taking advantage of the fact that your already paying and he can go drop and go do whatever, then yeah, he should pay some.

Are they his children? He helped make them, he is as responsible as you.
Be prepared for a battle, or worse him quitting his job so you can’t get money from him.

Yes, they are his kids too.

Depends does he already pay childsupport ?

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He should pay for daycare as they are his kids too

You both should split the cost

It’s not worth fighting over… choose your battles

Just ask, you may or may not like his answer

He sure should help u

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Does he already pay child support?

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Any cost should be equal wen it comes to medical and daycare . That shit is not cheap . I have 4 kids on daycare since they were all 6 months old . I pay. 500 a week. Since then. Their dad has paid not a fucking dollar I got 4.58 once and 50 . His kids are 7 and 4 . Lol hes a dead beat . If my kids get anything it’s from his family n its usually only bdays Christmas n Easter. That’s it .

He should be paying half of child care. But if you bring it up and push for him to pay would he have someone else watch your kids that you may not approve of? At least this way you have control of it. But if he’s not that type of person then 100% worth asking

Mine pays for half of my sons. I mean he’s OUR child and neither me or him can watch him after school or pick him up so he goes to daycare and we split it evenly

When I worked at a day care, both parents got billed for their days. The day care did it so parents wouldn’t fight. If one parent refused to pay their portion an cost reached a certain $$$ then children were refused on that parents day

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He should be paying half. He helped make them. So if you have to work just as he does then he needs to help you out!

Uhm girl make him pay those are his kids too! Not your responsibility to pay for a sitter on his time while he works.

He should but it comes down to what the judge has ordered bc usually, the ex isn’t going to offer up any extra. You may need to revisit terms.

Every other, so a total of 4 days per month is his share? Eh, if that’s the case I personally wouldn’t trifle over it. But if it’s an even split or even close to, I’d definitely ask for his half.

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His days his obligation :woman_shrugging:t2:

Yes he should be taking care of his son

Can’t hurt to ask for him to pay for his days.

I would ask but dont get mD if he doesnt want to. Maybe if u ask ge will help u more.

Day care should be split when. Both parents work. When I babysat. Both parents pd. When they had them

50/50. Their part of both of you.

A question for the friend of court.

I think it’s fair to ask for his help but that’s just me

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It’s fair. If he has to use the daycare on his days then he should have to pay for it.

would not hurt to ask. If he has an issue than drop it. Never hurts to ask.

Daycare should be split, they are not 1/4 your kids

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Pay for only 3 days and he wants them there the other two he can pay for them.