Honestly just drop it for 15 days then restart the case
Do not drop it. You can’t honestly be serious, can you?
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Do not drop it it is for your child!,!
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No you keep that case. You tell him no. He is as responsible as you are to take care of this child. Keep the case active
Do not drop it. You got the check is for your daughter!
Do not drop it. This deadbeat has it coming.
Don’t drop it. They keep it to pay you that money on back owed money.
Dont drop !! My ex husband escaped and disappeared for over 30 years .
He’s asking you for more money? Lmao tell him to kick rocks.
Seriously? Uhm NO, don’t do it. It’s owed to you and your daughter.
Your daughter has a right to be supported by both parents. Do not drop it.
No don’t drop it I had my granddaughter and she’s 27 years old and I want drop her mother I have a lean on her she can’t get anything
No dont drop it take that stimulus check n do something special with ur daughter dont drop it nonono
It is like asking you to not feed your children because he has needs. No no no no.
Do not drop the case. That money is owed to you and your daughter
Why? Because he can’t pay. Go sit in jail.
I think you should look in the mirror and ask yourself which one will help me sleep at night and do that
Are you crazy to even ask this question???
For me I would not drop the case he will just waste the money anyway take care of your family not him and change your number
Don’t drop it. Can you afford to do it all in your own?
You may also save his life by going forward, maybe jail get him clean!
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Praying for you! I’m curious - what do his parents have to say? Good luck!
Whatever you do do not drop it! He needs to be responsible! Just make sure his parents are OK with it
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Why would you even ask?
The money will be gone, then what?
If you do drop it you will lose all of your support you are getting from the state and fed. Insurance, ebt food stamps and all.
what you really need to do is find out how you can get that stimulus check
Do not drop, you will be sorry. He needs to grow up and take responsibility. Good luck.
Now tell the whole story. Why are you not together?
Don’t drop it. Time for “baby” to grow up and face the music. He’s a Dad now.
Due to an intimate knowledge of how the CHILD SUPPORT system works, I know that he had at least 180 days, roughly six months, to take action before his DL made it to suspension. Additionally, there are jobs that don’t require a license. I felt bad at one point for letting the support keep going because neither “donor” was paying. I have one kid in college, one heading to the military, one graduating next year, and one in the 9th grade. My current husband and I bust butt daily to provide for them! Neither one of the other parties contribute anything and I was married to one of them for 13 years. His weed habit was much more important than his children. When a tax or lottery is intercepted for the purpose of support I happily collect! Essentially, it is his choices that set things on the current course. Though I would never want to see any ill come to either of them, I have been raising these babies on my own without a single word or dollar of assistance. I am not overly concerned about them “not being able to work” or get a DL.
no,cause if he ever comes into money your child will get nothing
Do not drop child support. He needs to be responsible for his child.
No way he is responsible for his own actions ,just pray for him ,
Drop it & be thankful that his parents help
Do Not drop your Case, time for his to get his act together.
Don’t drop the case! Be strong please. He’s a good for nothing dad:-1:
Are you kidding? You already know the answer.
Don’t you dare drop that, he needs to be held accountable
Don’t drop the case. It’s his responsibly to his child. Don’t give him a. Break.
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Ask his parents, they care or they wouldnt gave helped all that they have.
Do not drop the case?
Nope don’t do it. He needs to learn to man up and help support his child
Oh hell no own up to your responsibility and this wouldn’t happen…stay strong stAnd your ground…he needs to be a man and not depend on his parents to pay for his responsibility…hello noooo 
He just wants the money for drugs.
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Don’t do it same situations. Promises mean nothing to them. Don’t take his calls. Stand your ground. He won’t help.
Talk to his parents since you have a good relationship with them. They might give you some insight
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Sorry luv… I get it.
My advice, don’t drop it.
That’s his problem, sounds like nobody is making him be a responsible man/ father. There are plenty of jobs he can get, don’t let him pull on your heart strings. He’s not worried about you or your child’s next meal, so why is it you must be the one to show empathy, where’s his?
And it’s not like she’s 16 or 17 …
Your daughter is 10… you’ve got 8 more years, hopefully he will get his act together get a job and at some point you will get CS.
Hope this helped.
Nail him! He has a responsibility to support his daughter!
I don’t think u have a choice once it starts the state takes over.
HA ! Youd be playing right into his hands. He just wants that check. Will he give it to you for his child ??? NO I’m sure not.
This is HIS OBLIGATION to HIS child. Do not drop it. If he goes to jail…MAYBE that would be a wakeup call for him.
Do not drop you won’t get no money anyway. If his family still wants to help that will be great
He should have been paying all along keep it up stay strong
Why put someone in jail especially with covid going on men are dying in there, your child is obviously taken care of at this point if you put him in jail it’s over bitterness and if he gets sick and dies in there you’re gonna feel some type of way
He needs to take responsibility for his actions and support his child
ABSOLUTELY NOT! You’re so right, you would be enabling him just like his parents.
Hell no .tell him to get a job… he made the child he should support her
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Don’t drop it. He needs a life lesson of responsibility.
Don’t give in the expense for your daughter is just beginning there are good jobs out there
If you drop you support case all he os going to do is spend that money on DRUGS you are enabling him… You could be saving his life depending on his drug of choice… DO NOT DROP YOUR CHILD SUPPORT CASE… DONT DO IT…
YOU SOUND LIKE A GOOD MOM CONTINUE DOING WHAT IS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD…
I HAVE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES… STAND YOUR GROUND MOMMA
The stimulus should have went to his child…
If you drop it you will be enabling him to continue in a down word spirial.
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This is a decision only you can make. Pray for guidance.
Stand your ground! Please keep that money your daughter and you both deserve it! SO KEEP IT AND DO SOMETHING FUN!
I would not drop it!! Let him grow up!!! About time he become responsible!!!
Stay strong,make him responsible for just selfish acts.
Never make it stop trying to make him be responsible for his child!
What a low life he is!!! If he can’t support his child, he doesn’t deserve it!
He needs to grow up…best of luck to you…
Do not drop it. He is a joke for requesting that!!!
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Ha No! You can request a mediation and that will lower it and give him a break. Do NOT drop it!
Hell no, let him suffer, he needs go step up and he won’t as long as there are no repercussions.
Do not drop the case, she deserves his support
No! Your daughter deserves better! He didn’t care until he was going to jail. Forget him
Don’t drop it, let him learn…but at same time…Pray within your own heart…trust your heart and make a choice…
No !!! Do not drop the case.
Worry about your daughter and yourself. He won’t change.
Experience here too. 
No dont drop the case. That’s his child. He hasn’t even helped. To bad
Hell no dont drop it b.c. a man lb weds to stand up b.c. and support his kids I was 20 when I became disabled drew BBC 250 a month and gave my ex wife 75 because I didn’t think the 90 a month was b.c enough
He’s never goin got learn if people keep enabling him
Do NOT drop the case he needs to be responsible.
No, don’t give in to him. He helped making her. He needs to help pay for her needs and her wants.
Thats why females need to be careful with whom you sleep with. Not all guys are great daddys they just wanted your free milk
Playing the poor me. Block his calls. Family had to do that. They always play the victim
HOW IS HE paying child support without a job don’t do it
DO NOT DROP IT! He needs to grow up. Tell him to take his butt to rehab!
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Don’t drop it. He has to own up to his responsibility.
Dont dropit, you will definately be enabling him. There are way too many people like this.
Do what your heart tells you,he needs help and dropping it doesn’t help him at all, been in your shoes, you decide
Dont drop it. Its owed to you. It will follow him the rest of his life.
GUESS WHAT IF HE DOESN’T PAY HE GOES TO A PLANTATION INSTITUTION and who foots that bill and you still dont get nothing. If
So drop it do it bec that will help him nd it might change his mind it might be a lesson for him
Dont drop it he doesent deserve it. You probably get none of it anyways.i suggest just dont answer his calls.
Don’t drop the case! Going to jail could save his life!
Do not drop your case. I do not believe child support told him to tell you to drop your case.
Don’t drop the case, he needs to be responsible for his daughter.
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Take care of your responsibility, stop thinking about yourself
This is a piece of the issues thats about to get rewritten. We quickly say f the government but still want to follow it. BUNCH OF CHRISTIAN HYPOCRISY
His child, he needs to pay child support
Do not drop it! He needs to learn responsibly as a man!