Don’t drop the case.
Do not drop the case.
Do not drop case, he needs to get his ass a job
Never drop the case sounds like he needs big boy panties
Do not drop the case
Maybe say” let me see what your dad can do” hah!
Don’t do it for the sake of your daughter
Do not drop the case
Do not drop it. Keep going
I wouldn’t. But that’s just me.
Do not drop the case. Think of your daughter
I agree
…STAND UR GROUND
No don’t drop your case
Do not drop the case
No. So not drop the case.
Ima keep this short an sweet…DO NOT DROP IT…
Do not drop the case
no you need it for child
Nope your child comes first period
No no no .he has been lying all these years and will continue anyway
Don’t drop it. He made his bed.
Do not drop your case
Do not drop the case
Do not drop the case
Make him pay I paid all mine
Real men are fucked everyday by judges, am a statistical analysis
No,no, nope, sorry not sorry,
No do not drop the case
I would t drop it. Might be all you ever get
I wouldn’t drop it if I were you.
#notmyproblem keep that case open sis 
Keep the daughter and don’t let her ever see him again
do not drop that case
No. He owes her the money.
I would not drop the case
Do not drop the case
Let him go to jail. Never heard of the State getting stimulus checks? For what reason did they take it? I smell a rat with a big fat lie. Stand up to him!!!
Hmmm. My opinion is no.
Dont drop it hez using you
Do not drop the case
Do not drop it stick to your guns
Don’t drop the CS case
No… Don’t you dare drop it.
Thsts your daughter’s money
My children’s father paid $100. One time never took them anywhere. His family helped me. Had to introduce him to his own son when he was a teen. He is now 50 and still nothing. But we still in contact with ex family.
Are you kidding me’??? NO NO NO
You would be stupid to drop it
Think of this lady’s if your kids father goes to jail for child and comes out in a body bag all because your mad at him for some money how are going to explain that to your child cause when they get older someone is going to tell your kids exactly what happened I can see the conversation now if it wasn’t for your damn momma my son my brother my friend would still be alive if she wasn’t so greedy with money and she just because she wanted some money from your daddy and because he couldn’t pay he went to jail and the guards beat the s*** out of him and he died or the inmates beat beat the s*** out of him and he died and now your kid comes home with this what are you going to say cause that isnt what you have told your child now what are you going to do and please dont said it doesnt happened but I know it happens in the field I have seen it happen before most of the time if the man or women doesnt pay in the year they are now going to pay
You don’t get his help now so if you drop the case why would you expect anything different. Report his harassment to police. File charges against him for harassing you. He then can’t contact you or come within so many feet of you. Time to take a stand against him and fight for yourself and your daughter. Grandparents may get mad but why would they or you want a druggie around the child. That druggie is teaching her this is how you avoid responsibility. Sounds like maybe you need to grow up some too and stop enabling him.
Tell him to suck an egg.
Do not drop it. I got my ex’s stimulus also and his takes. He is so far behind that they will be suspending his drivers license as well. After that is the warrant. He married a woman with 4 kids so he always tells me he can’t afford to pay me. Umm…hello? Not my problem, they’re not his kids.
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They won’t just let you drop the case in some states. That money is meant for your child and to support them. He should pay and not be a scumbag. Do not let him make you feel his choices are your fault. He needs to get a job and grow up.
Seriously let him go to jail. Maybe he’ll get clean there. Don’t fall for his sob story. He is only wanting the money for drugs. Not your fault and he needs to face the consequences.
Do not drop the case stay with it . You deserve financial help from him for your daughter. I stayed on top of my case my ex was indegent by his choice. His idea was why do I need to pay you money so you can go party. He would work cash under the table jobs. Finally after 25 years he could work anymore and went on SSI bam they garnished his check and he had to pay 25 years of back child support. Do not give up .
Do. Not. Drop. Your. Case!!!
Maybe he needs to step up and be a man and support the child he helped create!
My x pulled this ship on me when he did t get his tax return called yelling and screaming that I “stole” his money. No asshat I got money to help support OUR child!
cut him loose hes a p.o.s. no help now n never will.he will wake up when it’s too late and. a eventually your daughter will grow up n see the truth.
Personally I think that if you have a kid you have to be prepared to take care of it on your own. I don’t believe in child support. If his parents are paying for their care then it should amount to something. Without them you would not have it. I take care of my grandkids a lot and their mom knows that if she went for support then the support from me would stop. If I was his parents I wouldn’t be helping while you had an ongoing case. If you can’t take care of them then I will take them.
You’re #1 priority is your daughter! Why would you feel bad? You should feel bad for your daughter that has a POS father that can’t or won’t support her. I was in the same situation and you have to be strong and fight for her. It doesn’t matter what he’s going through. He’s a grown ass adult! Shame on him! Stay strong!
DO NOT DROP THE CASE!!! My mom did that for my real dad so he could work and he ditched their agreement and bailed. DO NOT DROP It! He’s a grown ass man who can provide for his child in some way. The stimulus check is his concern!? What a chump!
You are a fool if you drop it. You are doing nothing but aiding and abedding his behavior. What example are you setting for your daughter.
No do not drop the case against him. He needs to get his act together and learn to be a grownup and quit living off of ius parents. They should have kicked his lazy druggy ass out a long time ago. Keep after him. If he’s got the money for drugs, he’s got the money to help you & his daughter.
PLEASE DO NOT DROP THE CASE, he needs to grow up as he’s not a child. Just the simple fact that his parents help you with your daughter tells you everything about that Idiot. I’m sorry but I detest people like him who are irresponsible and always playing the victim. There are women out there who do the same. These people always blame others for the holes they’re in or find excuses for themselves.
Don’t give him a dime tit for tat he deserves nothing please think. Just don’t. My kids are 47 43 40 their dad left when my 40 yr old son was 2 I NEVER GOT ONE RED CENT FROM HIM OR HIS FAMILY. Your lucky your daughters grandparents help you out. I had my family whos helped me now they are gone. My kids grew up not even knowing their dad or his side of the family. My43 yr old son has his own business doing fantastic hes the father of 6 children the best father any child could ask for. Said he’d never be the kind of dad he never had. I’d love to see him one more time so i could slap his face and show him how his kids turned out without his worthless ass
He is, more than likely, lying to you about the stimulus check and what the state told him. You have to decide, is he a pathological liar? Don’t feel bad for him, he has responsibilities. He needs to step up!
Don’t drop the case. Your child deserves & is entitled to be supported by both parents. He’s obviously scum.
Don’t drop! What if this worthless POS won the lottery! You wouldn’t get one dime for your child and he would waste it on drugs!
He’s a drug fiend, and you still let him c the child drop the case never let him c the child and move on.
Don’t Do It that money belongs to your Daughter he’s a dead beat Dad he will just waste it on Drugs use that money for your Child Don’t give into HES stupid pleading Nope 
Do you just get to drop your responsibilities to your daughter ?
Girl.if you have to ask there is something wrong with you. NO DONT DROP THE CASE. THAT IS YOUR DAIGHTERS MONEY.
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Call child support and check out his story! ASAP!
No… take the fucker for everything you can… he laid down with you, he made the child as well as you and he’s responsible… tell him to be a man grow some balls and step up!
He’s such a loser! Make grow up and make him pay!
Let him go to jail. Well deserved for being a deadbeat
Absolutely not. What a loser he is
No way he is a real loser
Don’t be an idiot… do it for your child, he certainly hasn’t.
He is a deadbeat dad, let him go and hang on to your daughter!!!
Hell no. Hes a loser reaping what he sowed.
No way. Deadbeat Dad.
Let his sorry butt go to jail. Sounds like he’s a loser and a lost cause.
Nope!!! Too many deadbeat father’s.
You are a fool if you drop it
You Joking right? Because that MFUCKER WOULDN’T GET SHIT✊🏾
If you do your dumb! 100%
My daughter has the same brother they like making the babies but they don’t like supporting them and I’ll tell you like I told her let the bastard rotten jail
Your a dumbass if you do. This isnt your money to be dropping it’s for your child.
Nope cuz its all about him…not the kids!!..selfish bastard
Dear lady if your so strong about your feelings. Then you have the answer ask your self. How good would you be i you forgive be true to your self. God bless you all. Xxx
Dont be stupid . That’s a dead beat mf that needs to pay . You didnt get yourself pregnant. He has a responsibility to help you when it comes to your daughter. His parents shouldnt be the ones to fork out money granted it is their granddaughter and I’m sure they r glad to help but they ain’t helpin the situation by supporting his drughead dead beat ass . Sorry for bein so blunt but it pisses me off how dead beat parents gets away with not paying cs .
No fuck him all his shit is not your problem its his
Don’t drop it. He needs to step up and pay to help take care of his daughter. My ex was the same way. He would bitch at me and say I’m having him arrested. I wasn’t it was his stupidity that was. He was in jail more then working for over 6 years. Received only $44.26 that year. Then nothing for years. Then finally on a almost regular basis I was receiving child support for my kids. So maybe out of 18 years my kids received child support for 10 years but not consistent . Never received the correct amount always bare minimum and only once did they intercept his taxes. But at least the bare minimum helps care for the kids. Because both have health issues and my son autistic and has really bad food allergies so he has to eat and drink certain foods that are a little more expensive. What it comes down to is let them jail him. Let them make him grow up. Every penny helps raising those kids. He should have to help not his parents. They are probably in or close to there retirement age on a fixed income. Stick to it don’t give up. Your kids will respect you more for not letting him walk all over you when they grow up. This also will show the kids what kinda dad he truly is.
if hes a druggee don’t do it
It’s his daughter he deserves to pay…in Texas u can throw his ass in jail… u need that stimulus check for yr daughter. He needs to get up and be a man and shovel shit if that’s all he can find to help pay for his daughter. I’d throw ass in jail if he was in texas. Let his parents see her all they want .hes piece crap if he doesn’t help u. Take him to court.
If youre not with the father and have sole custody it is his obligation to pay you some kind of support. Either legally or with an agreement you both have come to. You do not owe him a damn thing and should not feel bad because he is the definition of a dead beat… No judgement or being an asshole. Youre not wrong for having the child support case. He is making excuses and according to what you said not once tried to do anything himself for the baby and always relied on his parents. Exactly what you said they’re enabling him by helping him and you would be enabling his wrong doing by dropping the case. He made the baby too not just you and its HIS responsibility to help support this child.
Is he really going to use it for something productive? Or is he gonna blow it on bullshit? Don’t feel guilty for keeping it. If you plan on giving it to anyone…Break his parents off something or put it up for your child.
take his butt to court
Do not drop it! I dropped mine with the promise from him that he would help me financially. Haven’t had help since. Not one fucking penny.
Do not drop it !!!
Don’t drop it at all. He should. I am a guy who helped with my step kids i divorced there mother not them. He needs to man the fuck up.