Putting him in jail solves nothing.
Please Don’t Drop It …
I agree with Amanda!
Never drop the case… he could turn his life around if he wanted to… your daughter deserves better… God bless Grandma and Grandpa 
fuck him…he needs to take care of his child…bet his girlfriend wants all she can get…so who should get his money her or him
Regina Joe Carmen M Silmon what you think
Do not drop it by any means ! He’s just a low life scumbag that’s trying to get out of paying for any support to you and his child and technically child support people are not legally allowed to give him any advice on his support case unless it’s to get a fucking Job !
And especially with the stimulus check he can not get back because it went towards arrears !
I’m sorry you had a child by him but he’s no good
Keep the charges and keep the check
Continue with child support
Don’t drop soak him !
Anyhow he is not helping
Too bad for him!!!dont do it
Fuck that dont drop anything for him ur the mom regardless you can use that money not him dnt drop it
No are you fucking stupid u play u pay
OMG
Men suck but at least his parents are there to support his children with my children his parents would never support me in anyway they were all about their son. Please if the parents are there for you love them and embrace them , kick him to the curb he’s a piece of shit especially if he continues to think that his parents should pay for his children. Continue your journey you will survive splendidly,
P. S. Don’t drop the case and make sure they take your side.
Do what your heart tells you.
Dont feel sorry for him.
Hell no don’t drop it
Keep the case going forever
Don’t hold him accountable and b responsible
Do not drop it I been threw that I drop trying help him and he fuck me every time, do not drop it
Fuck him make him squirm
No. Absolutely not…
Pray on it and be at peace with whatever you decide
Do you not drop the keys you will regret it tough shit he’s got a problem tell him to get off his ass and get a job
Nope. F$%k him- pardon my language. I also have a dead beat sperm donor and I would NEVER let him off the hook that easily. I have struggled her whole life raising her. She is 10 and he has never been in the picture so I can relate fully. I stopped being bitter about all of it years ago, yet- it took two of us to make her but he left me with all of the responsibilities and finances of raising her alone. I’m glad he isnt in the picture but I would never let him off the hook either. Honestly, even if I wanted to- in my state it doesnt work like that. The only way he will ever be free of his responsibility when it comes to child support is if someone I married wanted to adopt her and take over that financial responsibility.Best of luck.
Do what your Heart tellyou
Just pray God changes everything🙏
Let him suffer he cares only for himself.shame on his parents ,let him stand on his own.
Let him go to jail and sober up
Phil says! So let me understand this. He’s old enough to have sex with you. But not to get a job. The law should state you have to fuck a hole in the ground until your old enough to get a job. That way since he doesn’t give a shit about Noone other than his dick. Tell him you’ll drop the case if he has his dick removed.
Sorry about his luck!!
DO NOT drop the child support. Your ex is actually exactly like my stepson. Being around is when it is convenient for him he has a 6 year old son and the boy spends a lot of time at our house. I buy everything for him at our house and somethings for his Moms. He complains when we have him so much because his Mom gets what little support that he pays for the child but now when she is having him more he is knit picking every thing she does. He is not there near as much as her but she is not perfect either. Letting him off is being an enabler for him like his parents. It was really hard when we starting tell him no when he asked for a place to stay or something he needed. Then finally we had enough. I told him if his son needs something I will make sure he gets it but as for him he is raised. He also has done the drug thing. I told him you get in trouble do not call us. So again DO NOT drop it. If he is not complaining about this he will find something else to bitch about. If his life is that bad then maybe he does not need to be in her life but he definitely should pay.
Do not drop the case he is an adult and you let him figure that shit out
Fuck him, thats what he gets for being a deadbeat loser. If you drop the case, you can not complain when he continues to be an ass
Don’t give it to him
No…hold him accountable…
If you drop it, still get a legal agreement stating he will pay X amount. If he doesn’t follow through then go to child support and have them take his shit!
Don’t give in, stay strong
Girl please fuck him
One answer… NO!!!
Don’t you dare do that
Don’t drop the case don’t give him the satisfaction of not taking care of his child, he does need to grow up and he needs to stop bothering you to drop the case so he can get his stimulus check. Since he is on drugs he would just use the check to buy drugs and not help take care of your child. Just ignore him and don’t drop the case, he needs to quit doing drugs and find himself a job, he is the only one stopping himself from getting a job because he is doing drugs and a lot of jobs if not all of them do drug tests so he is the one stopping himself from getting a job. He needs to clean up his act and grow the fuck up
He’s still around, on drugs, won’t pay child support? I wouldn’t be doing any favors. You have zero obligation to drop anything against him, he wants to harass you regarding HIS nonpayment maybe it’s time for a restraining order and for him to grow up. I wouldn’t blame the bank if I refused to pay my mortgage. Sounds like he’s never had to actually deal with his own shit now he’s mad.
Do not give in to him.
No he is accountable.
If U do U will regret it!!!
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Hes a deadbeat!!! Hell no .
Let him get what he deserves…let him rot
Kind of a NO-brainer
Prayers for you & your situation!
Nope. He can get his shit together
Nah. Keep it. Dropping it gets him off of everything. You keep pressing. Sorry to say this so bluntly… It sucks to have a warrant out, BUT IF HE PAID CS HE WOULDNT HAVE AN ISSUE. Dont let dead beats be dead beats. He needs to own up to his shit
There’s no damn way I’d drop the case. It’s his daughter and needs to help. Poor baby not getting stimulus check. I hope they send the check to you. I also never had any help with child support. It’s bullshit that fathers or mothers don’t help.
Don’t do it he deserves what he gets
He needs to be responsible
Nope don’t drop it. It’s not his stimulus check it’s your daughters . Plus it sounds like he’d piss it away on drugs. It’s not your fault he’s a deadbeat and can’t get his shit together .
ABSOLUTELY NOT. I think think you already know the reason 
10 years is looooong enough for him to get his shit together. Keep your case - he can figure his own shit out. He got himself into this mess, get yourself out
do not drop it . It is his responsibility to help support you’d and his child if he didn’t want this responsibility he should have worn a rubber fuck that. Also I mean if he goes to jail long enough it might clean him up and become a real dad
Fuck him, he has a CHILD that he should help SUPPORT.
Absolutely not…my children are all grown now but their father would give me 100 here 20 there never anything steady we had 3 boys together. Child support enforcement would not do anything because I had an injunction(25) yrs. And in that injunction judgement the judge ordered him to pay a total of $315 a mth…but he was in jail at the time they never pursued it but I finally did when the oldest was about 13-14 and asked who dropped the ball and never followed the judges orders they stated I did. I was never aware that I had to go get the paperwork on the day he was released after the judgement ,bring it to the courthouse,buy more paperwork for me to figure out how to fill it out and return it so I did it (which was approx. 5-6 yrs after his first release) did all that work and they still never did anything…when they all hit 18 he was in arrears of I believe 53,000 and some odd change. I never kept them from him unless there was a feel of danger or he was in one of his moods…they still talk to him to this day but I struggled everyday trying to raise them went many days and nights without things cause I was a single mother taking care of 3 kids with him having absolutely no responsibility financially/physically/mentally. If I would have done something sooner and not have let shit slide they may have had a better opportunity! Although they are fine, young,respectful gentlemen. Good luck and dont give up.
Well considering he’s had 10 years to get a job get off drugs and get his shit together for the child. No don’t drop it. It’s his responsibility to do it. All he wants is money given to him but he sure wouldn’t give it to you at all. So don’t fall for it. He’s got his mommy and daddy to pay his way. It’s not your fault and especially not your child’s fault. So keep it on him. Let him go to jail.
Do not drop it let him go jail
Don’t drop it. Let him suffer.
You’re a better person than my ex. God bless you
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo now use the money for her.
Stop being a whore and keep your pants up 
follow your heart----STAY FIRM
Please do not drop the case and report him for harassment
Thank goodness for his parents but they are his enablers and he is a worthless piece of shit. I would have laughed in his face the first time he asked me such an absurd question about his stimulus check. Have him give up all rights to your child and be done with his ass. If his parents want to help their grandchild then fine otherwise the sperm donor is off limits.
Fuck him you owe him nothing
Don’t drop shit he’s not doing anything to help or change so why should you drop anything? Child support doesn’t stop anyone from getting a job they just know when they get a job child support will automatically come out that check weekly so he can stop making excuses. Fuck him. Sometimes a blessing can come of this because if he’s very behind and u let child support know to file against him in court they will make his ass go to a rehab place and get a damn job which may help turn his life around
Hell no don’t drop it
His problem
Not yours
Nope, he’s a grown man it’s time for him to grow up and get his shit together. Maybe some time in jail will help him get clean. I know people in my town with statutory rape charges and they still have a job. A child support case isn’t going to keep him from gaining employment
No its his responsibility
Don’t drop them let his ass go to jail,did you bed down and make her alone no make him paid ,and don’t let him see her and make that clear to his family,HES A FUCKING DEAD BEAT LOSER ALWAYS WILL BE HES DRUGS COME FRIST
Dont drop it. Let him get arrested, he can get clean in county and they will order him to find a job. Fuck him
He owes you that. Don’t drop it
Do Not Drop It. His stimulus money should come to You.
Get a job. Own his responsibilities and stop being a pussy. Man up.
Let him go to prison. Not your problem.
Nope ! Could you drop your responsibilities! So why should he! Shit thank god she has you! That damn stimulus check is your anyway! What balls how could u even consider it. Grow the fuck up get a job support your daughter and finally do the right thing! Sorry very much a soft spot for me!
A big fat no. Do not drop the case!
He’s never gonna learn.
Fuck him his child he has to pay get off his ass and work
It’s tough! But if he’s that messed up, I don’t think I’d drop it! He needs to get his shit together!
Don’t drop it. He should support his daughter.
Drug money, tell him you will drop if he goes to rehab no less than 30 days. See how important it is to drop the case.
Tell the jerk it’s called consequences! Do not drop the case.
Hell no dont drop it. He’s not paying as it is nor does it sound like he’s trying. These are consequences to his CHOICES, not some scheme or world against him stuff. Of course he’s going to pressure you and try to guilt you while not even trying.
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Do not drop the case
Hell no. Fucking deadbeat
He won’t see a cent from that money, it’s already gone towards back child support. Don’t drop the CS case.
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Even if you drop the case he will still owe what he owes and will not get his stimulus check or his license back until he pays… Call child support and ask them… I would not drop it. It’s his responsibility and has had 10 years to get his shit together
Do not drop child support. He’s being immature and selfish
Don’t drop that shit. When he files for a tax return or anything it’ll go to you until arrears are paid. If he needs to sit in jail so be it
If you give in, you will be helping him buy drugs! You know that’s where it will go! What do his folks think about it? Maybe talking to them might help, since they are the ones that are helping you.
Yeah when she turns 18. He needs to pay for her, and grow up!
Girl, take him for all he’s worth. He made his choices and now he has to live with them. Worry about your daughter. Not him.
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