Don t drop otherwise he will never learn
Keep the case active and do not drop child support case.
Only a fool would drop it.
No…never feel sorry for trash. I can’t even believe you are asking this.
Just let it ride and block him from you but not her
You may never get his help, but don’t drop it
I agree don’t drop anything
do like he does ask your dad
Don’t drop it , sounds like my father. POS.
Part 2
When she signed off all rights it still took me another 2 years to finally get her into court for child support only to have the judge board me a whopping $25 a month grand total not per child $25 a month because I had finally gone to the next court and the chief judge of that court can explain my case and they forced him to give me an order for a whole $25 a month Make a long story short after raising my children for 16 years they finally got her taxes one year and my children got a whopping $431 that was it whatever you do do not drop your case whatever you do do not give in to him It doesn’t matter what he says he is an addict He’s got his problems The bottom line is ask his parents for support their grandparents they love and care about that child and they may enable him they may make excuses for him it doesn’t matter your relationship to them and their relationship to the grandchild is all that matters and if you struggle it will be worth it I struggle I worked two and three jobs to support my children but I took care of it want me to tell you what the long term outlook is
You will be so blessed because you will be a grandparent at some point I received the blessing of five beautiful granddaughters that do not know her at all but they love Grandpa Pop Pop and Papa they all have different names for me and they are just an amazing blessing so believe me struggle do what you have to do but do not give him one inch It doesn’t matter
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Don’t drop it he’s a looser
Omg boo hoo for that loser why should he not help? Do not feel sorry for him. I wouldn’t drop anything your child deserves his support. But don’t let him con you into dropping child support a real man wouldn’t ask only a POS would
He is a loser and will never be anything else. Did you see any of.the.money from the stimulus check? Or at.any other.point in time?
If you did, it was probably from his folks.
Personally, I would have a chat with.his.parents. Lay it all on the line, it shouldn’t be news to them.
He is a deadbeat sperm donor, not a father figure and certainly not a dad.
Tell the grandparents you would like to have your daughter have a link to them as family, but he has to leave your and most importantly her life completely.I
He has no concept of responsibility, cannot be depended upon for the most basic needs, and he can’t even take care of his own life.
You will offer him a deal.
He can sign over all parental rights to your child and you will drop the charges, but he will never be referred to as her father, and he will have no say in anything in her life and will not be included in any milestone in her life while she is a minor and under your roof.
If as an adult she wants to reconnect, you have no say in the matter…if he is in drugs, he may not even live that long.
If the grandparents can back you that is great.
If they can’t, then you have to.make another decision…that would be
Still have him sign off his parental rights, but understand his parents might not abuse by your wishes (he is their son even if he is a jerk), and keep the grandparents like you have them now.
OR
Have supervised visits with the grandparents at a location you would know he would not.likely attend (kind of harsh in my opinion)
OR
Don’t stop demanding should support. Too bad if he is unhappy. If he has.money for drugs, he has money for support. Let him go to jail.
I say sever parental rights because at some point in time, he may need to supply income information for student loans and he won’t be found or won’t supply it and that would cause problems for your daughter.
There may be some medical.attention she will need and you are unavailable, “dad” would have to be notified - full in your own possible outcomes for your daughter in this.
Should something happen to you, custody would go to him or he would have to sign off or such and good luck on that.
You would be better off to cut him and the stress out of your life.
It would be good to keep his parents in your life as they love your daughter and have been of help to you. Hopefully they won’t be the vindictive type - if you don’t have our son as father you don’t have us as support.
He’s a loser dead beat dad
I’m sorry for you. If you have to ask a question like this, you really need mental health help. Your husband is a loser and will always be a loser. You have a child and yourself to care for. Do not give your ex a second thought because he doesn’t care about you. I do not know you but I know your story.
Fuck that guy ( figuratively)
Let the asshole go to jail
Think of your daughter.
Are you seriously considering giving this selfish asshole a break cause you feel bad/guilty? Does he feel bad when she has to tell her friends she never sees her dad because he’s too busy doing what he wants. I knew my ex husband would not bother with anything to do with the kids-our daughters bd is the same as his and he has never called her so I took child support because I knew that was all they would get from him as a father. If he’s short on money tell him to get a second job.
Bum ass piece of shit he is 
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Alot of them out here nowdays it’s sad but atleast the parents are stepping up for her when it comes to my kids grandparents on their daddies side please
Tell him let’s see what your dad can do. Just stop answering his calls.