Father’s Day is coming up, and my mom had been seeing her boyfriend for about three years already. He and his ex-wife were never lucky to have kids of their own now he’s with my mom and theirs 3 of us. He treats us all amazing, my mom amazing, especially my 13-year-old little sister. Would it be inappropriate to get him a small Father’s Day gift, or would it be okay? Do you think it would offend my dad? This is the first time my mom brought a guy around us, and you can tell she really likes him. I just want to make him feel welcomed and feel like he’s still a “father” for the welcome of all 3 of us, especially my brother and me. Being older in our 20’s he doesn’t have to be there for us cause we are grown and out of the house or even involving us in a lot of things when it comes to my mom cause we have our own life’s, but he always makes sure to invite us or let us know if something is okay. But back to my question, should I get him something or it’s not appropriate?
I think it’s a great idea
get him something! you can celebrate all dad’s biological or not even a dad if they’re a dad figure in your life. at my wedding both my dad and my step dad walked me down the isle and were proud to do so.
I think it’s a nice gesture!
Yes it would be nice to give him a gift as a thankyou for his respect
I think it would warm his heart. If your dad says anything just explain.
I think it’s very kind of you to consider getting him a gift.
As for whether it will offend your father, if you feel it’s a concern, perhaps you should talk to him.
If he won’t be around during those festivities, then why does he need to know?
Think it would be a really nice gesture. Glad he is treating your mom & all of you good.
No reason to not give them both a small gift, that way since they both have some history with your family, they both are acknowledged !
Even just a card I’m sure would make his day! And it’s nothing to over the top that would upset your dad.
I’m still afraid 7 years into my dad and bonus mom’s marriage that I will offend my mom. She is totally (or at least to my face) ok with it and encourages it. I was about 25 when my dad remarried. My only sibling was 20…we each had kids of our own…my mom says she’s ok with me doing for her especially because her adult children 98% of the time don’t. Honestly see what dad thinks. It doesn’t hurt to ask him. Or do something and just see. Surely he won’t bat an eye. You’re allowed to love both of them.
Definitely do it , your father will understand if he’s mature. Unless he’s hard headed and selfish then he’ll make it a big deal but I think that’s a really nice gesture 
Get him a “bonus” dad gift. Doesn’t sound like he’s had to step up and be the father figure because there wasn’t one, but rather became a male role model just because he cares.
Yes, you should include him. He’s a bonus Dad and the end of the day, and should be treated as such…and extra blessing.
Write him a letter or note telling him that you appreciate what he’s done for your family. I’m sure he’d cherish that more than anything. You can spend time (meal, event) with your bio dad if he’s nearby or get him a card and/or gift as you would normally.
Yes, I’m sure you’re dad will be fine. You could ask him to make sure? Hopefully he’ll see from your point of view.
Why not he doesn’t have to be your biological father to be a father figure . Go for it .
If you feel like acknowledging your mom’s love with a gift, I know it will be appreciated.
It would be a nice gesture.
Girl get him a gift and get your dad a gift 
This was very beautiful to read!! Yes definitely get him a gift! Actually I think the same as you would give your father because he is also a father to you and he would feel appreciated.
Yes most definitely appropriate.
I think it would mean a lot to him.
Abso f*ckin lutely! Most dads/men aren’t as extra sensitive like us women, even so, if you’re biological father is a decent human he would be glad to have helped raise kids that grew up to consider doing something so kind. it takes nothing away from your real father what so ever. it’s such an awesome thing to do and even consider. go for it!
Something small to show you accept him.
Yes you should and we would love to know his reaction. He is going to be so happy. I’m sure it will mean a lot to him
Bonus dad’s deserve recognition and gifts, too! If you think he deserves it, then go for it! He probably expects nothing but, it would be an amazing gesture to show appreciation to him! It’s “hard” being a “bonus” parent enough (knowing boundaries, etc)…it means no disrespect towards the biological father. A “bonus dad” card, small gift, or whatever you feel comfortable with…
Would ask your dad how he would feel but yes if he’s fantastic then let him know he’s appreciated in some way he will be delighted I’m sure
Honestly it would probably make his day. My stepdad goes above and beyond for myself and my siblings even though we’re all grown and giving him grandkids 
he never expects anything from us but we always try to do something for him every Father’s Day!
Yes definitely, he sounds like he deserves to be recognized ad some spoils
I would get him something. Let your dad know it’s to show appreciation for all he does for your baby sister when dad can’t be there
I had a step dad, he’s since passed. But I could never bring myself to call him dad but he was there for me growing up. I would say talk to your mom, then your dad. Let your dad know what you want to do but let him also know that your mom’s BF will never replace him but you want to be nice and show him he’s appreciated also.
Yep.thats a nice thing to do.i doubt your father would object.
Nothing wrong with two Father’s Day gifts
Yes get him a gift. Your dad should thank god that your mom found someone that loves her and all of you and treats you great. I think you’re soon to be stepdad should get gifts for Father’s Day. He may not be blood related but he treats you guys like your his. My kids have always celebrated Father’s Day with both father and stepdad. Same goes for Mother’s Day any holiday
You could get something for both.
Yes you should get him something i bet it would make his day bless him.
Your father should be happy your mom found a man that supports you. So I’d say do it!
Why does your Dad even have to know?
Yes I would I get my Dad’s girlfriend for mother’s Day I didn’t tell my mom but if she asked I would tell her she is good to me and my kid’s I didn’t get anything big
Bonus parents deserve recognition too! I think you should to be honest, it would make his day and hes been there for your mother. I mean would your dad even know if you got him a gift.