Tell him to hit the road! If he can’t be true, then you don’t need him.
Once a cheater always a cheater
I think you know what you need to do. Don’t doubt yourself or or lose faith in yourself. You can and will make a better life for yourself than this. 
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Everytime you let him come back… its like he laughs and says to himself, “Whew!! Got by with it Again!”
He will never truly learn nor realize what he had until he loses it and doesn’t have it anymore.
And not until that happens, will he ever even consider changing…
Hes gotta actually really lose something and know the pain of having caused his own loss, b4 he takes it seriously.
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Judy is right. If he will do it once he will keep on.I know you love him or you wouldn’t have given him 5 chances, but enough is enough. God bless you.
I don’t agree with the saying “once a cheater always a cheater” BUT i do firmly agree with “serial cheaters never change!”
One chance was more than enough
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5 chances too many. You’ve answered your own question.
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Only you can decide if he’s worthy of another chance.
Salt away money for 6 months
Chuck him.out ,change the locks on the house
Cut one leg off each of his trousers and one arm.of each shirt ,throw away one if each of his shoes .Scratch all his vynil.records
Put laxative in his favourite drink
Move on happy in the knowledge that you had the last laugh .
Get rid of the cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater from someone that knows
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no once a cheat always a cheat
No never your worth more kick him into touch better a life on your own than with a lying cheating scumbag walker xxxyour be happier then he will never change
People treat you the way you let them. You let him cheat on you and get away with it he’ll do it again
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Run-don’t walk! A zebra doesn’t change it’s stripes!!
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Leave or tell him to do one!!
He’s already showed you 5+ times that he is incapable of being faithful to you. Let his cheating ass go. Seriously. He will NOT change.
Only you can make that decision; think long and hard!!!
You’ve already given him enough chances and he has proven to do the same thing over and over again. So why continue to give him chances knowing he will continue to cheat? Your basically asking for HIV/AIDS, STD or something at this point because you know he’s cheating and constantly taking him back each time. Divorce him and move on.
Kick him to the curb,if he was going to change,he would have already
Maybe you should start picking his girlfriends for him at least then you can pick ones you like
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Tell him bye bye asshole
I never said u were a lady
La Femmej is this what you’re talking about? You probably saw my name because I commented 
I keep hearing once a cheat always a cheat they can change if they really want to its your call he’s don’t it more once being young they think they are the energy bunny but once a certain age hits its not so body changes things happen thing is can YOU live with this person knowing he hasn’t been faithful not once but 5 times its not a question about you giving him another chance its a question is Do You want to give him a chance weather he changes or not WHAT do you want ??
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No fixing him. Cut him out of your life. He has no respect for ya.
Honey if he loved you he would go with someone else get ride of him and take everything you can.
Um no. Like I always tell my kids , pay attention to peoples actions not their words , they usually tell u what you need to know
I would kick him to the curb
Absolutely not. You’ve enabled him to cheat by giving him too many chances. Tell him to pack his shit!
No do you boo!!! Travel! Eat fine fabulous food, drink , dance ! Xi love and light
I gave my ex so so many chances and he said everytime that he would change he never did and kept cheating on me (even caught him balls deep in another woman and he still tried to deny he was cheating 
) sorry to say but I I doubt he will ever change especially if you keep giving him just one more chance. Good luck x
No no no kick him to curb
The way I see it is if he has done it more than once then its going to probably happen again. I believe in 2nd chances but anything more than that is just crazy because I wouldn’t want to keep putting myself through that. However it is ur call on what u want to do no one can really tell u what decision to make. It has to be ur decision and u have to be the one who is happy with choice u made
That’s a big FAT …NO.what are you waiting for ?..Him to bring them home to meet you ??
This is a tough one, although he has cheated “alot” is there anything left in your heart for him, do you want to kick him out and get on with your life, only you and you alone can make your choices, it’s your life and not ours, I wish you luck with whatever you choose to do🙂
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At least 5 times? Mate you should never give a dude that many chances to show you he doesn’t respect you. Move on with your life. Don’t let his family sway you he knew the potential consequences of his actions he didn’t give a shit. Several times come on… He should of got help the first couple of times now it’s just ridiculous. Leave with your self esteem still intact and find someone who loves you for you.
He won’t change, you deserve better. No question.
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5 times …no way these boots are made for walking …He won’t change !
Once a cheater always a cheater. Also, you show others how to treat you. That said, only you will know when you’re ready to stand on your own.
Honey, NO ONE CAN GIVE U THE RIGHT ANSWER… when your tired of his lying ass, his cheating way, you will be done !!! U want have to ask anyone until then, u will Keep going back!! 
… maybe he has killed ur self-esteem… ur confidence… 
You can’t change the SPOTS ON A TIGER… and you can’t change him… Good luck, 
You already gave him 4 to many🤷🏻♀️
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Kick him to the curb!!!
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Run as fast as you can
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If he’s had ten years and cheated five times, I really don’t think he can change. Just saying.
No once a cheater always a cheater.
Girl stop doing this to yourself. You know damn right he keeps doing it because you keep forgiving him. One of these days he’s going to give you an STD:microbe: a really bad one:mask:, and your going to wish you had left the first time he cheated.
No never once a cheater always a cheater
Hell no. Free yourself from him. Unless you like STD’s and lies
my opinion is, tell him to leave, he has done this many times to you already, he just ran out of chances!!! He is a man whore, why would you want to keep that!!!
Nope. Ditch him. Live for YOU !
Only you can make this choice as you live with it. You don’t have to do anything anyone else wants you to do. Lists pros and cons of staying and pros and cons of leaving and compare your priorities. Do you think you can ever trust him? Have you actually seen any changes in him?
I would certainly find it hard to believe him again and it sounds like you have given him many chances already
Been there…let him go…you deserve so much more
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What does your heart say?
5 times … that’s how many times he picked hurting you… no choice needed I’d be out
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Oh honey, sweetie, you need to run! As far away as you can. You deserve so much more…
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A leopard does not change his spots! Stop been a format!
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Leopards don’t change their spots.
Walk away hun, he’s done it that many times, he’s going to do it again.
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Why don’t y’all just become swingers?
Girl tell that boy bye
he told you who he is the first time he cheated! get the best attorney available
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If you take him back – only two times is all i wouldn’t give him another try. … go your way and make him go his way … keep the house for your self …
You have given him way more chances than he deserves! I’m not sure I would have given my husband any chances after just once!
Kick him to the curb, he’ll NEVER change! Once a cheater always a cheater!!
Once a cheater always a cheater! You are lucky he didn’t bring home a sexually transmitted disease!!! After 5 times I would go get checked out to be safe!!! And even if you spend the rest of your life alone it’s better that living with a dirty man whore!
A leopard cannot change this spots. so leave him.
Depends on how much you value yourself … Once would have been one to many for me …Guess I’m just not the forgiving kind 
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If it’s happened multiple times, it won’t stop. Each time you take him back he’s under the impression that you always will take him back and that his behavior is allowed. Leave.
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Kick him out the door. He isnever going to change. You will eventually get your life together and perhaps find a man worthy of you
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HELL NO!!! Kick him to the curb!! You deserve better 
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Think about it. Good and bad.
Sorry. He’s had tons of “chances” already. Bye.
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Nope, he’s done!HET OUT!!!
Once is enough. You gave him a second chance already. Find a guy who will be true to you.
Honey a snake will shed his skin but he’s still a snake 
No one has a right to manipulate you into a lifelong
situation…Slam the door shut & lock it & throw away
the key. No person who really cares does not cheat. Ever.
There is no excuse. Goodbye like yesterday.
My grandmother told me once that if he does it and it only happens once you can forgive if it happens again pack the kids and go she also said always be prepared for that,
Say goodbye now before its too late!
If he has cheated that many times he’s not gonna change. He’s just thinks you will keep letting him get away with it
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You deserve better. How can he love you so much but continue to cheat over and over again. After that many times he’ll never change.
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No. You already tried to make it work before and he didn’t change
Run
He will not change
It should have been done and over with the 2nd time. Fooled you once shame on him, Fooled you twice shame on you.
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You don’t know if that’s all he cheated, bet it was more Kick him to the curb now
Sounds like someone you should let go
It’s better to lose a lover than love a loser! I’m all for 2nd chances, but not 6th!
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Actions speak louder than words.
I wouldn’t waste anymore time on him
Once a cheater always a cheater, get that spousal support and dip set. Take a vacation somewhere warm and nice and take time for yourself
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A mistake is something that you’ve learned from not to repeat, to constantly cheat is a choice! Choose you instead!!!
Yes, exactly as mu daughter told you. It is up to you to decide but there is a but. If you think about yourself first, Second you and third also you. You will stop this behavior only you. So., one real truth he won’t change if he has done it many times.
Nope. Run sweetie. Run far and fast. Your self worth is so important. I understand people like to give second chances (although in this case there wouldn’t be). But 6 chances at least… no no no
Kick him to the curb
If you truly love him, give him another chance.
He’s poly… talk about it with him… if you’re not, then for both of you it needs to be cut loose
Split up. Six times Is how many times he’s been caught. It may not reflect how many times he’s done it…
If you still love him in the future and he truly does change, you can always date in the future when he’s proven he’s monogamous.
However, do you really want to sleep with all his other lovers? That’s how STDs get spread.
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He will never change. Clearly he has done it before and is doing it again.
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Out period no explanation needed kick rocks buster
Run just run hes not going to change