Should I have to choose between my friends?

So I have a friend who has been on and off with her baby father for the last say 8 years. They both go there seperate ways then my friend likes to click her fingers and have him back when she feels. They had a volatile relationship and the baby father wasnโ€™t the best he liked his drink and drugs but with them on and off obviously it messed the children up. He let the children down many of times and it was never about wanting to see the kids it was always about the mother when it came to it. So they are now fighting in court for father to have access to the children. My friend and another of our friends had a threesome months back. Now the baby father is in a relationship with the friend. (I get loyalties and all that I donโ€™t condone what has happened) but obviously I am still friends with them both. So yesterday I had family over and the friend that is now with the baby father was sat outside also with all kids paying out front. My friend and her mother live next door so when they pulled up home they mother started a row and the friends daughter was sat with the friend who is with the baby father. So she started a row in front of all the children. ( I wasnโ€™t here at the time to witness) but when I came home I went to the neighbour as had a missed call. Me and the mother had a little row as she said my loyalties should lie with her daughter as we have been friends longer blah blah. And now saying they are going to have to move if other friend is coming down the street. Now I am made to feel bad and feel like basically Iโ€™m sposed to choose who Iโ€™m friends with. If Iโ€™m friends with said friend then the mother doesnโ€™t want to be friends. (We where all close friends) We are all grown adults I am in my 30โ€™s with my own family and I feel like it is all play ground shit. Am I in the wrong as I feel shit about it right now.

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Should I have to choose between my friends?

I wouldnt be friends with such Messy people. Especially if youre married and have your own family.

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Your friend sounds toxic as hell! No father should have to fight for access to his kids. She has ISSUES!! You donโ€™t make friends choose. You didnโ€™t bump uglies and make babies with any of them so you have every right to be friends with whom you wish! If the first friend canโ€™t recognize that then they can move away or learn to deal with it. Do you REALLY want to deal with her antics and drama? SHE started all the mess anyways. She better grow up or risk losing a long time friend

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I mean yโ€™all ainโ€™t friends yโ€™all homies at best because it seems like she only deal with you when needed. However, Iโ€™d they think issuing you a threat of moving because the other friend comes over tell her that has nothing to do with you and go play with your kids

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You are so right let them get on with stuffing their lives up

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This whole post gave me an STD, trust issues & a headache.

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You need all new friends

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Why do people ask questions on here that they should be smart enough to figure out on there own

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Why have any of them as friends? And people that make ultimatums need to be willing to stick by the ultimatums. Even if it breaks their heart. Any dude that drinks and drugs and doesnโ€™t take care of his children is never okโ€ฆ and to want to be friends with someone like that speaks of your character. If it were meโ€ฆI would ditch baby daddy and girlfriend. And help my other friend realize her worth. And if she gets back with himโ€ฆfade. It isnโ€™t about loyalty at this pointโ€ฆit is about you being the company that you keep.

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That is some playground shit. Nope. If they want to stay friends: cool.
If they want to end the friendship over this: cool.
You do you

A true friend wouldnโ€™t make you choose you can be friends with who ever you want to be friends with you your definitely not wrong for feeling the way you do

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Youโ€™re the company you keep, and you all sound shady and toxic af :woozy_face:

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I think I had a siezure trying to read this. Still donโ€™t know what it says.

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You are not in high school! These people need to know you are friends with them all. Like it or not thatโ€™s the way it is. You donโ€™t need friends to dictate who u speak to and or see.

From the bit I understoodโ€ฆYeah, no. Lol. Bye to everyone. You have your family. They sound toxic

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Whaaaat?? :woman_shrugging::woman_facepalming::woman_shrugging:

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Iโ€™d wouldnโ€™t stay friends with someone who tells me who I can and canโ€™t be friends with. Like nah. Especially being their drama and issues have absolutely nothing to do with you or your life.

You should of told her where to shove it, you are a grown woman with your own family, you can be friends with anyone you choose, if they dont like you having other friends, then they can kick rocks. Obviously the friend that you was talking to has done something to you, then why treat her bad? Its childish that an older woman would act this way.

no you should not have to choose. they made their bed. it has nothing to do with you, and if any friend tries to say who you can and cannot be friends with isnโ€™t really your friend.

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Sounds like 8th grade drama. Maybe give them all space and find a new circle of friends.

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Birds of a feather flock together. My peace of mind is too important for all that drama personally

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Seems like u should drop all of them and get some peace. Not your circus

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Iโ€™m sorry I donโ€™t understand none of what you posted. Somebody mad at somebody for some mess someone started, and youโ€™re in the middle. Separate yourself from these hood rats

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Drama! Iโ€™d stay away from all of them. Very childish.

Get rid of all of them. I wouldnโ€™t want my kids near any of them

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I wouldnโ€™t want to be friends with any of them. Itโ€™s too much drama.

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It all sounds like drama and Iโ€™d just avoid everyone. They all donโ€™t sound great to be involved with. If you wanna keep one though then keep the one that didnโ€™t give you an ultimatum. Friends donโ€™t force you to do what they want by holding their friendship over your head. Nope. Bye.

Please do.not let this โ€œfriendโ€ hold you as an emotional hostage. She is not friend worthy. Nor is she parent worthy if she is going to interrupt a get together she wasnโ€™t invited to to start an argument or fight In front of any children let alone her own.

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I would ghost them both. They are both toxic and have no sense of boundaries.

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I think I would cut ties with everybody. You have enough on your plate with your kidsโ€™ father. I would do what I have to do to handle that in the best interests of the kids, no booze-no drugs, and get myself some new friends. Move if you have to.

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What in the world is a โ€œrowโ€?

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No one can understand this mumble,jumble

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What does row mean? Idk I probably wouldnโ€™t be friends with any of them. If they are going to act like that and cause all this drama.

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Get new friends.
Baby momma needs therapy bc sheโ€™s narcissistic & any mother who keeps the father away from their kids a garbage human. If the kids are safe, she needs togrow tf up.

Who needs friends like that , they all seem to be a huge mess.
You will be better if you stay away from all the drama .

Everyone is entitled to the boundaries they set. If she wants to end a friendship over that, let her. Frankly Iโ€™d be pissed if my best friend stayed friends with someone that wronged me. Clearly yโ€™all werenโ€™t that close so probably for the best.

Just because they donโ€™t like her doesnโ€™t mean you canโ€™t like her if sheโ€™s your friend the baby momma, then they wouldnโ€™t tell you to choose. I have friends that canโ€™t stand each other but I love both dearly

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Iโ€™m not gonna be friends with no chic thatโ€™ll fuck with her friends man.

I couldnโ€™t read all that lol it was too much :joy:

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Iโ€™d move and never look back.

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๐–จ ๐–บ๐—† ๐—๐–พ๐—‹๐—’ ๐—๐–บ๐—‰๐—‰๐—’ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—๐—๐—‚๐—Œ ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—†๐—‰๐–บ๐—‡๐—’, ๐—๐—๐–พ๐—’ ๐–บ๐—‹๐–พ ๐—๐—๐–พ ๐–ป๐–พ๐—Œ๐— ๐—ˆ๐–ฟ ๐–บ๐—…๐—…. ๐—‚๐— ๐—‚๐—Œ ๐—‹๐–พ๐–บ๐—…๐—…๐—’ ๐—€๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐–ฝ ๐—๐—ˆ ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—„ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—๐—๐—‚๐—Œ ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—†๐—‰๐–บ๐—‡๐—’. ๐–จ ๐—ƒ๐—Ž๐—Œ๐— ๐—€๐—ˆ๐— ๐—†๐—’ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐—๐–ฝ๐—‹๐–บ๐—๐–บ๐—… ๐—Œ๐—Ž๐–ผ๐–ผ๐–พ๐—Œ๐—Œ๐–ฟ๐—Ž๐—…๐—…๐—’. ๐–ข๐—…๐—‚๐–ผ๐—„ ๐—ˆ๐—‡ ๐—๐—๐–พ ๐—…๐—‚๐—‡๐—„ ๐–ป๐–พ๐—…๐—ˆ๐— ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐–ฌ๐—ˆ๐—‹๐–พ ๐—‚๐—‡๐–ฟ๐—ˆ
:point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down:

I have no idea what i just read!

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Iโ€™m going to have a panic attack ๐Ÿคฆ the girl with the baby dad shows you what NOT TO WANT IN A FRIEND. WAKE UP :heavy_heart_exclamation:. Your neighbor is right thatโ€™s not right having them over I side with her

Those poor kids to be exposed to that kind of behaviour is sickening. Iโ€™d be distancing myself from all of them if this is the way they act.

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Girl Iโ€™m sorry you need consuling :woozy_face:

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๐–จ ๐—€๐—ˆ๐— ๐—‰๐–บ๐—‚๐–ฝ ๐–บ๐—€๐–บ๐—‚๐—‡, ๐–จ ๐–ผ๐–บ๐—‡โ€™๐— ๐—„๐–พ๐–พ๐—‰ ๐—‚๐— ๐—๐—ˆ ๐—†๐—’๐—Œ๐–พ๐—…๐–ฟ ๐–จ ๐—‰๐—‹๐—ˆ๐—†๐—‚๐—Œ๐–พ๐–ฝ ๐–ฏ๐–บ๐—Ž๐—… ๐–ฌ๐–บ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐—ˆ๐— ๐—๐—ˆ ๐—๐–พ๐—…๐—… ๐–บ๐—…๐—… ๐—†๐—’ ๐—…๐—ˆ๐—๐–พ๐–ฝ ๐—ˆ๐—‡๐–พ๐—Œ ๐–บ๐–ป๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐— ๐—๐–พ ๐—‰๐—…๐–บ๐—๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—†. ๐–ณ๐—ˆ ๐—Œ๐—๐—ˆ๐— ๐–บ๐—‰๐—‰๐—‹๐–พ๐–ผ๐—‚๐–บ๐—๐—‚๐—ˆ๐—‡ ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐—๐—๐–บ๐— ๐—๐–พ ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–ฝ ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐—†๐–พ, ๐—‚๐—‡๐—๐–พ๐—Œ๐— ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—๐—‚๐—† ๐—…๐–พ๐—€๐—‚๐— ๐–บ๐—‡๐–ฝ ๐—๐—‹๐—Ž๐—Œ๐—๐—๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—๐—๐—’ :point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down:

She needs therapy for herself and children.

๐–จ ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‡๐–พ๐—Œ๐—๐—…๐—’ ๐—๐–บ๐—‡๐— ๐—๐—ˆ ๐–บ๐—‰๐—‰๐—‹๐–พ๐–ผ๐—‚๐–บ๐—๐–พ ๐–ฌ๐—‹ ๐–ฏ๐–บ๐—Ž๐—… ๐–ฌ๐–บ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐—ˆ๐— ๐—๐–บ๐—Œ ๐–ป๐—‹๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐—€๐—๐— ๐—†๐—Ž๐–ผ๐— ๐—…๐—‚๐—€๐—๐— ๐—‚๐—‡๐—๐—ˆ ๐—†๐—’ ๐—…๐—‚๐–ฟ๐–พ ๐–บ๐—‡๐–ฝ ๐–ฟ๐–บ๐—†๐—‚๐—…๐—’ ๐–บ๐–ฟ๐—๐–พ๐—‹ ๐—‚๐—‡๐—๐–พ๐—Œ๐—๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—๐—‚๐—† ๐–จ ๐–พ๐–บ๐—‹๐—‡ ๐—‚๐—‡ ๐—ƒ๐—Ž๐—Œ๐— 5 ๐–ฝ๐–บ๐—’๐—Œ ๐—ˆ๐–ฟ ๐—๐—‹๐–บ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐—‡๐—€. ๐–ณ๐—๐–บ๐—‡๐—„ ๐—’๐—ˆ๐—Ž ๐–ฌ๐—‹ ๐–ฏ๐–บ๐—Ž๐—… ๐–ฌ๐–บ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐—ˆ๐—, ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐—๐–พ๐—…๐—‰๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐—†๐–พ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—†๐—’ ๐—๐—‹๐–บ๐–ฝ๐–พ
๐—’๐—ˆ๐—Ž ๐–ผ๐–บ๐—‡ ๐–บ๐—…๐—Œ๐—ˆ ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—‡๐—๐–บ๐–ผ๐— ๐—๐—‚๐—† ๐—๐–พ๐—‹๐–พ ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐—†๐—ˆ๐—‹๐–พ ๐–ฝ๐–พ๐—๐–บ๐—‚๐—…๐—Œ
:point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down:

If you feel you need to choose, choose neither of them. You donโ€™t need their drama in your life.

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I see both sides, but I personally agree with the friend. She feels betrayed because her friend is with her ex and now her other friend is ignoring that and continuing the friendship with said friend. You donโ€™t have to choose, but you already have by saying you donโ€™t want to give up this friendship even if it costs the other friendship. Both of you are entitled to feel how you want though.
My best friend completely stopped talking to a friend because she slept with my boyfriend. I never asked her to and would have been okay if she continued their friendship, but she said she didnโ€™t condone it and cut the friend off for the most part. She was there for me during that time instead. Maybe your friend just doesnโ€™t have anyone else, and she now doesnโ€™t feel like she can talk to you for fear youโ€™ll tell the other girl๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ

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Messy. I wouldnt take time with him at all. Thats a lot of abuse

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Like you said youโ€™re all grown adults in your 30s. Cut yourself off and tell them to grow up. You donโ€™t โ€˜oweโ€™ anyone shit

Sounds like stupid petty drama. Get away from it

You should use code names because that was very confusing.

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๐–ณ๐—‹๐—Ž๐—Œ๐— ๐—†๐–พ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—๐—๐—‚๐—Œ ๐—‰๐—…๐–บ๐—๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—†, ๐–จ ๐–ฝ๐—ˆ๐—‡โ€™๐— ๐—๐—๐—‚๐—‡๐—„ ๐—’๐—ˆ๐—Ž ๐—๐—‚๐—…๐—… ๐—Œ๐—๐—‚๐—…๐—… ๐—‡๐–พ๐–พ๐–ฝ ๐—๐—ˆ ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—‡๐—๐—‚๐—‡๐—Ž๐–พ ๐—…๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐—„๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—„ ๐–บ๐—€๐–บ๐—‚๐—‡, ๐—๐—‹๐—Ž๐—Œ๐— ๐—†๐–พ ๐—’๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐—‹ ๐—Œ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—’ ๐—‚๐—Œ ๐—€๐—ˆ๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐—๐—ˆ ๐–ผ๐—๐–บ๐—‡๐—€๐–พ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—ƒ๐—Ž๐—Œ๐— ๐—๐–บ๐—„๐–พ ๐—ˆ๐—‡๐–พ ๐—Œ๐—๐–พ๐—‰, ๐–บ๐—‡๐–ฝ ๐–ป๐–พ ๐—’๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐—‹ ๐—ˆ๐—๐—‡ ๐–ป๐—ˆ๐—Œ๐—Œ
100% ๐—…๐–พ๐—€๐—‚๐—โ€ฆ๐—ƒ๐—ˆ๐—‚๐—‡ ๐—๐—๐–พ ๐–ฅ๐–บ๐–ผ๐–พ๐–ป๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐—„ ๐—…๐—‚๐—‡๐—„ ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐—†๐—ˆ๐—‹๐–พ ๐—‚๐—‡๐–ฟ๐—ˆ
:point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down:

What is a row?? Are you referring to drugs??? Those poor kids!!! I am not a Karen, but Iโ€™d definitely report that to child services if I saw ppl snorting drugs outside with children present!!!

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๐—๐—ˆ๐—, ๐–จ ๐—๐—‚๐—…๐—… ๐–บ๐—…๐—๐–บ๐—’๐—Œ ๐—๐–พ๐—Œ๐—๐—‚๐–ฟ๐—’ ๐–บ๐–ป๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐— ๐—๐—๐—‚๐—Œ ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—†๐—‰๐–บ๐—‡๐—’, ๐—๐—๐–พ๐—’ ๐–บ๐—‹๐–พ ๐—Œ๐—Ž๐–ผ๐— ๐–บ ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‡๐–ฝ๐–พ๐—‹๐–ฟ๐—Ž๐—… ๐–บ๐—‡๐–ฝ ๐–บ ๐—€๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐–ฝ ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—†๐—‰๐–บ๐—‡๐—’, ๐–จ ๐—๐–พ๐–บ๐—‹๐–ฝ ๐—‰๐–พ๐—ˆ๐—‰๐—…๐–พ ๐—๐–พ๐—Œ๐—๐—‚๐–ฟ๐—’๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐–บ๐–ป๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐— ๐—๐—๐–พ๐—† ๐–บ๐—‡๐–ฝ ๐–จ ๐–ฝ๐–พ๐–ผ๐—‚๐–ฝ๐–พ๐–ฝ ๐—๐—ˆ ๐—ƒ๐—ˆ๐—‚๐—‡ ๐–บ๐—‡๐–ฝ ๐—Œ๐—‚๐—‡๐–ผ๐–พ ๐—๐—๐–พ๐—‡ ๐–จ ๐—๐–บ๐—๐–พ ๐–ป๐–พ๐–พ๐—‡ ๐—†๐–บ๐—„๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐—€๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐–ฝ ๐—‰๐—‹๐—ˆ๐–ฟ๐—‚๐— ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— ๐—๐—๐–พ๐—†. ๐–จ ๐—ƒ๐—Ž๐—Œ๐— ๐—‹๐–พ๐–ผ๐–พ๐—‚๐—๐–พ๐–ฝ ๐—†๐—’ ๐—Œ๐–พ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—‡๐–ฝ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐—๐–ฝ๐—‹๐–บ๐—๐–บ๐—… ๐–ฟ๐—‹๐—ˆ๐—† ๐—๐—๐–พ๐—† ๐—Œ๐—Ž๐–ผ๐–ผ๐–พ๐—Œ๐—Œ๐–ฟ๐—Ž๐—…๐—…๐—’ ๐—๐—‚๐—๐—๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐— ๐–บ๐—‡๐—’ ๐—‚๐—Œ๐—Œ๐—Ž๐–พ. ๐—Œ๐—ˆ ๐—’๐—ˆ๐—Ž ๐–ผ๐–บ๐—‡ ๐—Œ๐—๐–บ๐—‹๐— ๐—†๐–บ๐—„๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐—’๐—ˆ๐—Ž๐—‹ ๐—ˆ๐—๐—‡ ๐—‰๐—‹๐—ˆ๐–ฟ๐—‚๐— ๐–บ๐— ๐—๐—ˆ๐—†๐–พ.
๐—๐—๐–บ๐—โ€™๐—Œ ๐—๐—‚๐—Œ ๐—…๐—‚๐—‡๐—„ ๐—Ž๐—Œ๐–พ ๐—‚๐— ๐—๐—ˆ ๐–ผ๐—ˆ๐—‡๐—๐–บ๐–ผ๐— ๐—๐—‚๐—† ๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹ ๐—†๐—ˆ๐—‹๐–พ ๐—‚๐—‡๐–ฟ๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—†๐–บ๐—๐—‚๐—ˆ๐—‡ ๐—ˆ๐—‡ ๐–ฅ๐–บ๐–ผ๐–พ๐–ป๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐—„
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Youโ€™re not wrong. They wanna move? Fuck them :woman_shrugging:t4: Let them foot that childish, playground bill.

๐—œ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฎ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ. ๐—”๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ถ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐˜€๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜†. ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„
:point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down:
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Why watch a soap opera when you have all that in your backyard. :joy::joy:. Yโ€™all need God in your life and lots of therapy for everyone! God bless.
Walk away from all that. You deserve better friends and family. They donโ€™t know the meaning of loyalty,honor or pride.

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I feel like I was just transported back to HS :joy:. Your friend needs to grow up

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Omg what is with almost all the comments being spam on this postโ€ฆ

Cut all ties with both. Too much drama and that kid is gonna grow up the same

A lot of Drama, but no one would tell me who I could or couldnโ€™t talk to or have at my house.

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Iโ€™m a little confused with what I just read.

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Those poor children :broken_heart: IT is pathetic that innocent kids are exposed to these things !!!

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What is with all of the spam on this page itโ€™s really starting to get bad. It also very annoying when you are trying to read the comments. I have been blocking but they seem to be getting more and more.

Can you just ignore everyone? It is too damn messy to be involved in all that if your friend still goes back to get bd then there is no point to any of the picking sides drama. And your friend invited the other friend to a threesome. That is all just a clown show at this point. Leave that circus.

You all donโ€™t act like adults. Drama is all this is. You want to be happy - get rid of drama and any/all toxic โ€œfriendsโ€ I feel sorry for all your guyโ€™s kids- you are suppose to be setting example , provide a healthy and safe environment

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Whatโ€™s a โ€œrowโ€, an argument?
You should have told her โ€œwhat they eat donโ€™t make you shit!โ€ :woman_shrugging:t4:

Very confusing story

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Not your circus, not your monkeys. Donโ€™t let yourself get dragged into their shitshow they call a life.

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Definitely childish. She shouldnโ€™t have been starting stuff in front of children. Kids donโ€™t need to see that crap. If she wanted that man she shouldโ€™ve stayed with him instead of playing with him like a yo yo. Those kids have to deal with a deadbeat father and the mother that acts like a teenager in school. Sad situation. I wouldnโ€™t take sides. Let them be ignorant. But I would explain to her she had better not be acting foolish in front of your kids again.

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Choose your own friends. The ones who want to be friends with you will stay friends with you. The ones who donโ€™t wonโ€™t. Donโ€™t worry about it. Let everyone go their merry way and you do the same. It will all work out!!

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Nobody can tell you who to be friends with. So youโ€™re friends with all involved. So what. If they are on a time out then obviously donโ€™t invite all. Hang out accordingly

I wouldnt want to be friends with a female that takes her friends boyfriend or with a female that makes you choose between her and another female when itโ€™s clearly non of your business. This is clearly petty just stay away from them both

Iโ€™m very confused with this story,
Please just protect the kids and stay Neutral

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Thatโ€™s all stupid afโ€ฆ Tell them you are neutral and not choosing sides between friends bc of things that have nothing to do with you. If they donโ€™t like it, then thatโ€™s on them, and what they do is their choice.

Letโ€™s make this simple โ€ฆ. Anyone who makes you chose between friends โ€ฆ. Get rid of that one โ€ฆ. No one has the right to tell anyone else who can be friends with who

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Sounds like the one just wants to have him at her becken call when she wants him and is jealous heโ€™s in a relationship.

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Iโ€™m not going to say youโ€™re wrong but I see where your friend is coming from because If I was in this situation I would have to cut you off. I would never be friends with someone who is friends with my enemies. I believe in 100% loyalty. I canโ€™t be cool with people who is 2 faced,play both sides and want to be friendly to everybody expecially the people who done me wrongโ€ฆI value my friendships and is loyal and if I dont get that same loyalty than I see no friendship and will dismiss myself โ€ฆif youโ€™re going to be in my enemies face I canโ€™t fck with you. Thatโ€™s why I only rock with family because they will never chill with my enemies and you canโ€™t trust everyone. Iโ€™m cautious about who I call my friends, I been stab in my back before Iโ€™ve learned from experience on who not to trust and what fake friends do,

Got so lost in this storyโ€ฆmy head hurts

What the hell does โ€œ rowโ€ mean??

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