Sorry, but karma has a way of coming back around.
This could happen to you!
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You do realize this isnât healthy for any of you!
Iâll be real honest here, and as nice as possible. If your current husband knows you were cheating on your ex with him he really shouldnât be surprised. How you get them is how you lose them goes for everyone.
That being said you should probably be single for a while and get some therapy. If âas close to perfect as can beâ still wonât keep you from cheating, you have serious issues.
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Polygamy? I mean probably shouldnât have started it by cheating, and then cheating againâŚ
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I hope you get caught nd they both leave your cheating ass
I honestly feel bad for your husband, because he kinda reminds me of my husband, hell be 29 this year, hes such a great man, but hes so tired because he works so much, so I make sure to take extra special care of him, I definitely dont go talking to my ex behind his back⌠your ex is your ex for a reasonâŚ
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You dont deserve either
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Divorce him. Leave both alone. Let them find someone who will TRULY love them and then only.
As for you, may you meet karma.
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If you really loved either, you wouldnât be doing this to themâ:woman_shrugging:t3:
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Cock a doodle doâŚany c_ck will do??Is that u???
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Karmas a bitch girl!! This will blow up in your face. You need to stop messing with peoples emotions. You donât love either of them this is a big game to you. I hope they both run!
Divorce your husband for his sake. Then find some therapy and a poly group.
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You donât deserve either one or anyone else
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I think you should choose you and find yourself with out a man.
Yikes. Iâd say neither and take some time to work on yourself.
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They should both leave you and you should remain on your own!
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Hey Girl,
I had to read your post a few timesâŚ
Just to get it into my head.
Firstly, why did you feel the need to cheat on your Ex ?
What was missing for you ?
Secondly, you obviously found something with your second Hubby that your Ex didnât have âŚ
Now youâve been with your second and although heâs everything but also let himself goâŚ
You are now feeling more attracted to your Ex.
This happens so much in relationshipsâŚ
Itâs called the â excitement of the Honey Moon period "
The lust, the excitement, the intimacy, but unfortunately it may fade in some Relationships unless itâs worked onâŚ
You need to decide what YOU want ok.
Because at the end of the day youâll still be searching for that feeling ALWAYS but not only hurting these men in your life but also you tooo.
Take a step back and really look at whatâs happening within yourself please.
Youâre chasing something but at the end of the day reality will hit and it wonât be nice for all involvedâŚ
Best of luck xx
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You dont find your soul mate by stepping outside your marriage! Omg! Sounds like the husband is a keeper! And you need to settle down and enjoy what you have!
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Wow u sound like a horrible person. Watch for karma , I hear sheâs a real B***h!!!
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Plot twist. The ex only came into your life to destroy your marriage just as you did the one before. Once you divorce your husband the ex is going to leave you high and dry and alone. Just as you left him before.
#karmaisabitch
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my husband will be 29 next month & he works in 100 degree heat everyday to take care of his family, so of course heâs tired & not always the funnest, BUT would that ever make me go out & cheat on great man? hell no!
sounds like you should let your husband go & let him find someone to treat him the way he truly deserves to be treated & you should find some help with your cheating habits. thereâs a lot of woman out here who would give anything for a great man, yet women like this are the ones who unfortunately usually end up with them & hurt them.
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Yourself⌠youâre going to destroy yourself. Time to grow up. Love isnât all about having a grand old time for the rest of your life. Thereâs a time where we find the perfect person and are supposed to be content and comfortable. Fun isnât an every day thing when youâre married and have responsibilities. Pick your EX because like you said your husband is too close to perfect to be dealing with this and it sounds like he deserves better.
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Heâs not boring. You just get bored. Otherwise you wouldnât have cheated on your âcrazy funâ ex with your current husband. Make better choices.
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See your therapist before anyone else
Like yikes 
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If your husband is so boring why did you cheat on your crazy fun ex? The problem is you not either of them. Just be single since you get bored in a relationships easily. Also hope your ex is in it just to break up your marriage then leaves you high and dry with no oneâŚ.cause ya know karma is a bitch and sounds like youâre late for a visit.
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I hope you lose both
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What the actual fuck? Leave them both as you deserve neither. CheatingâŚno words other than pathetic. No excuse for it.
Thinking youâve never been cheated on? Itâs not the answer. 
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Your selfish and deserve neitherâŚyou cant just fuck with peopleâs lives and emotions like that just because your âboredââŚbut then again im pretty sure karmas going to come for youâŚi sure hope she does
If youâre willing to cheat on both of them then neither of them are right for you. If youâre with the right person youâll have no desire to cheat.
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I think youâll find the answer if watch âThe Notebookâ 
**spoiler alert, she chooses the fun one who drives her crazy
I think they both deserve better honestly! 
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I hope neither wants you now⌠
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You should stay single .
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Exes only come to destroy your current marriage
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You say your current husband is boring. But are you sure you are not confusing boring with loving, settled and reliable? I think you need time by yourself to make up your mind. Shame on you though for cheating. I hope no kids are involved.
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I think you should step away from both and find out who you are and what attracts you to men happiness is in you not a man
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Leave them both and work on yourself. This is a mess. Honestly, I have no sympathy for you. Time to grow up⌠Marriage isnât always about happily ever afters, itâs about working together to keep the relationship going. Marriage is hard work but itâs rewarding.
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Well you DONT DESERVE ANYONE AT THIS POINT!!
Donât cry when it happens to you!
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You vowed to your husband.
Treat him well
And if you canât do that you should stay alone and away from everyone⌠You litterally have made a shit showâŚ
Maybe your current husband has âlet himself goâ because he loves you and feels secure in your marriage. It happens, maybe have a polite chat with him, or suggest going out and ask him to wear a favourite outfit you know wonât fit him and then suggest getting back in to shape together. 
Or if you really canât stand that heâs not as appealing to the eye anymore just leave.
Just remember as much as people are slagging you off in the comments, you arenât the only person in this situation, its common as hell.
Good luck xx
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Did you know our actions at home create the ugliness you think you see.
When we look for flaws, thatâs all we find. Humility will teach you that your husband sees flaws in you but is smart to love you for those, regardless how cool you think you are in comparison.
Your ex is an ex for a good reason. Being with your husband has given you the courage to look and feel amazing which your ex didnât bring out in you and yet is now reaping your husbandâs benefits from taking good care of you.
Youâre taking advantage of the amazing ways your husband has been instilling in you by his care for you, yet instead of lifting him up too, you dismiss him creating an undeniable hurt that only God could forgive you completely for.
Youâre allowing your ex to get the best of you when instead your husband should.
The subtleties are not lost on your husband. Which is why heâs supposedly letting himself go.
You should leave your ex. Get some real therapy for why youâre doing this in a marriage, and then be honest with your own flaws so your husband can feel the same energy youâre giving your opportunist ex, that your husband should have been getting all along.
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Youâre going to end up alone, becauseâŚ. Karma.
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You donât really deserve either one. You should just stay single since you only care about having fun.
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They both donât deserve you
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Iâm sure your current husband will not want to be with you anyways after finding out you cheated. Pretty crappy to mess with these menâs emotions.
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Choose yourself n let both go. Figure out why you keep cheating first.
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They both deserve better. Youâre a loser.
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PATHETICâŚnow what if it was ur husband cheating??? I bet ud be fuming mad, n oh poor me whatâs wrong with me, how could he do this to me⌠SERIOUSLY ur being selfish!!!
No ignorance meant but Damn lady wrap ur head around it⌠ur the only one that deserves to be hurt⌠guess that old saying works for you!
Once a CHEATER always a CHEATER.
None leave them both be to find a loyal partner and be happy
You donât deserve either one of them. They deserve better.
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Sounds like u need to be single for awhile.
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Iâm sure youâll cheat on whoever you choose anyways.
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You are playing with their feelings you should be ashamed and end up alone the rest of your life.
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Ummmm u need to step away and not date anyone and he ur ex for a reason
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You are a vile woman, and a repeat cheater. Maybe stay single so you can do your dirt without destroying lives.
Yuck
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I think you should choose therapy
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Seems like youâre a repeat offender with the cheating. If you donât want to be in a relationship with ONE other person, donât. Donât be married or in a supposed relationship. The fact that youâve cheated on both of them shows your lack of commitment to either of them or your relationships in general. With any luck, they wonât both leave you for being so selfish. You donât deserve your current husband, you should honestly let him go so he can find someone that deserves a good man. (Although, karma for him for you cheating with him on your ex, obviously this love triangle is a mess. Karma for you being in a sticky situation. And honestly I hope karma for your ex for being with you knowing youâre married.)
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Why not have both? 
the more the merrier 
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so you cheated on both with the other, you should end things with your ex and divorce your husband as well since you cant be faithful.
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Oh wow you have some serious issues that require much therapy. Your actions reflect the person you are inside and I have to sayâŚI hope you donât have kids because youâre literally the worst example of what a human should be. Good luck in your endeavours - pretty sure you need Jesus.
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Yuck you need therapy to figure out what the hell is wrong with you.
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Be honest to both and let them go find someone loyalâŚsorry cheating is not okayâŚ
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I think maybe you should give up your husband to someone who will appreciate him and I also think you should just be alone.
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Cheating is about ego and power. Itâs time to examine why you need all that attention.
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Those poor men having you in their lives. The only thing you deserve is a yeast infection. Might help you stop putting it about for abit but probably not.
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I think you need counselingâŚ
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A ex is a ex for a reason maybe he is just trying to get even with you for cheating on him and then when you leave your husband he will leave you I guess the saying is true once a cheater always a cheater.
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Iâm just here for the nasty comments lol 
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If you loved your husband you wouldnât have cheated at all
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Ah so you are one of those. And by those I mean someone who will always cheat and have a reason for cheating, but God forbid it happen to you right? They both need to leave you. You need to be single and get some therapy or something
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You need to be single, because you obviously donât care to be faithful. If you canât be with just one man then be poly, just not with either of these guys. Actually they obviously arenât any better than you since they were both willing affair partners. Maybe the 3 of yâall deserve each other.
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Why did you leave your ex husband?
In my opinion an ex is an ex for a reason.
Also if your current husband is almost perfect why would you leave.
I was once told by someone:
No one is your 100% match you may find 80% ⌠80% is awesome! So you want 100% you go look for someone and now you find someone with the 20% you were missing before⌠but guess what they donât have the other 80%!
You say your ex is crazy & fun is that because he knows your safe (youâre married) and itâs more fun to see if you get caught?!
How old are you, you seem very immature with all of this cheating.
I personally think you are playing with fire! You have a husband that you said yourself is pretty much perfect! You have an ex that is a douche (who sleeps with a married woman?!)
if you leave your current husband this will hurt him so much (make sure you tell him youâve been cheating on him) I personally think if you leave your current husband to go back to your ex, your ex will change and be not as much fun and whoâs to say he even wants a committed relationship?!
I personally think you do not deserve the man you are married to? I hope you end up all alone and miserable. It may teach you a lesson or two.
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Cant turn a ho into a Housewife
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The soap opera continues
You just need to be single
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Leave both of them, they both deserve better than you yanking them around.
Then figure out why you are the way you are
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Your seriously asking strangers to direct your life. Praying for you.
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You are the definition of âonce a cheater always a cheaterâ. I donât believe you deserve anyoneâs help figure your shit out, youâre a grown woman, you donât act like it butâŚâŚ
Stop this nonsense.
So basically youâre one of the billy goats in that story where theyâre trying to get the greener grass on the other side of the bridge. Youâre NEVER going to be happy and you canât have everything. If you arenât over the moon in love with your husband and could even fathom cheating then I say you need a divorce or a conversation about an open relationship needs to happen. This whole post is disgusting. So many good men and women never find happiness and yet here you are, undeserving af. Smh
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I hope your ex gives you a disease 
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Your husband deserves better
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Wow. All I can say is that itâs way too early for this shit
sounds like you need to be alone and leave these two people live their livesâŚbc your a shit person that cheats and sleeps around. 
Maybe stop being a hoe
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You need help! Woman like you destroy good men. Just walk away and leave them both! Be single till you know what you want and sort your head out!
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Trust me, youâre not destroying anybody. Youâre doing your husband a favor. Leave him so that he can find an actual good woman and stop wasting time with you. Itâd be really cool if your ex was just trying to get you to leave your husband for him, so that he could leave you after, for cheating on him in the past. Thatâd be some great karma.
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You do not deserve either. Sorry that is the way I feel.
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I canât stand cheaters. Low lifeâs. Youâre so wrong for what you are doing!! Shame on you.
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Why donât you also get with their brothers and best friends? Maybe even a couple cousins, or wait⌠oooh! Iâve got it! Both of their bosses! Ya⌠thatâs it. Screw their lives up to the max. What do you care? Youâre just a narcissist anywaysâŚ
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Youâre just gonna cheat again. This made me sick to read
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Let them both go. They both deserve better.
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OMG!! How can you toy with people like that? Get counseling! Both of them sound like real prizes, if they would support you cheating on the other one! What the hell is wrong with people? Have we no morals anymore? I bet you are under the age of 40â just a guess.
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Is this a bad joke??? It has to be!
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How about cone clean that you a nasty person that obviously doesnât care who you hurt to get what YOU want. I feel sorry for anyone that knows you personally.
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You know this is wrong??
You dont deserve either
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Well put Haley Danielle Morgan
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You should stop playing with these dudes and figure out why you feel the need to ho it up!
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Leave your husband. He deserves better. Yeah it will break his heart but inbox me his details⌠I would gladly help him mend his wounds⌠as you say he is near to perfectâŚI could do with some of that⌠& there is so many things we can do in regards with him being boringđ
Go take your ex back just for the fun of itâŚin time, you&your fun wil be alone without your exâŚagainđ
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