No. He has a right to walk away. He doesn’t want the child. You either abort it or you take full responsibility for it. It’s down right wrong to force a man into parenthood when he clearly says he doesn’t want any part of it.
YOU are responsible for making sure YOU don’t get pregnant. Yes it takes two but it’s YOUR body that’s being penetrated. YOU make sure there’s a condom in use.
If you want any support from the father put his name on the certificate. Make sure it’s his before you do.
Forget he exists and move on with your life, don’t file for child support he’s not going to be there anyways lol
NO!!! FUCK HIM!!! Kudos to you to decide to remain pregnant. That shows you love this baby and he does not… go on girl and be an awesome mother to your sweet baby!!!
yes. he can help pay for that child till he is 18. but he will also have rights to see that child
Have him tested once the baby is here to establish paternity and then sue him for child support
No but you need to find out his family history. Like what runs in his family. I don’t know anything about my bio dad or his family, and I’m dealing with some medical issues and I’d like to know if they came from that side or not.
Yes put him on the birth certificate. Even if you leave him off if dad wants he can later petition the court to be added and that can cost you time and money in legal fees later on. Just put him on the birth certificate, be honest and do the right thing. Don’t make your baby a statistic of a fatherless child at birth, regardless of how much an asshole this man may be.
Even if it was a fling his name should still be in it also why have unprotected sex with someone who only wanted a fling you already made the mistake work with it the child deserves the best
Claim support. Period. Don’t be silly. He helped make it. He can help pay and decide if he wants visitation. But he owes for his spawn the same as you.
Raise that baby on your own. He’s made it quite clear how he feels.
Yes. As a single parent child growing up I wanted to know who my birth father was and having his name helped in me finding him.
Depends on your financial situation. I would say, if you are going to collect state benefits, yes, put his name on it. Then tax payers can recoup some of their tax dollars. If you are financially sound, wash your hands of him.
Obviously your not sure of your own decision either and why does it always have to be about child support? If you leave him off the birth certificate than he owes you nothing. Your deal not his. You can’t force someone to care and frankly the whole post sounds pretty selfish to ask
Nope. But you could sue for child support if you do. Sadly, that gives him rights you might prefer he not have.
My daughter has 2, once she had them , the fathers up and meft…she us doing it all alone and she is doing very well
Ummm don’t punish the baby
Because you n your root made a bad Choice
America, then use the tools to make him pay. Uk, then forget him. Your strong enough to do this.
The answer is a mixed bag.this loser of a man will be an even bigger loser if he misses out on the baby
I didn’t. He didn’t want anything to do with him and didn’t even meet him til he was 21. Then he complained his last name was different.
If u dont put him on there, then u have no right to claim support. Not only that if it was a 4 week fling u should of used protection and yes I mean both of u. 
He absolutely needs to step up and take responsibility for a child he fathered.
I wouldn’t. It would only hurt the kid in the long run. He clearly doesn’t want it
No - if he decides he wants a relationship with the baby later on, let him go through the courts and spend his money to get those rights. In my opinion, he is a POS; you and the baby are better off without him.
You do. If your child wants it roved later in life they can do that
claim child support. Believe me he won’t be coming around. His wife may however have a few questions though for him.
Uhm first off YOU can’t put him on the birth certificate he has to sign the papers himself. So the question is do you think he will come around at birth and sign himself?
It doesn’t matter if you do or not if he want rights he will be able to get rights. I’m f he’s the father and I ant to be apart of his child’s life legally you can’t stop him
Don’t be petty. The child deserves to know who his father is.
If he doesn’t support your “fling” the rest of America will
You can’t put him on the birth certificate without his consent if your not married !!! As I understand it !!
How you gon put him on child support when he’s telling you he don’t want it.??? Females be seeing they self up I swear
No one can answer this for you. You either ditch him, no rights, no contact, no money. Or you push for legal contact, but then you’ve got years of hostility and your child knowing this.
If you’re having to even ask this question, I’d say you already know the answer.
Does his gf know about you?
What best for the child and you …
Get child support he had fun making the child
My thought is to wipe him out of your life. He is obviously a loser
Wipe your hands or you will be attached to this loser all your baby’s life!!
Walk on momma. Forget that piece of trash.
Wipe your hands clean and no child support
No do not. Tell him it’s not his and move on
If he asked you to terminate your pregnancy then H*ll no.
Leave him alone. He made his choice.
Stupid ?cuz y’all do it for y’all not that baby bunch of crap
What ever you do get it in writing
Yes collect child support
Go alone less hassle and stress
I would talk to an attorney about that! A big decision to make. 
Put him on it … and make them pay
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No you do not. And you go get that support anyway if you need it! What a POS!!
Yes for medical history
You can ask a million people what they think but only you can make that decision.
Have him sign his rights over. He told you to abort. Screw him.
My opinion not claim but keep info for medical emergency down the road .
Walk away.walk away walk away
Consult legal advice
Sperm donors don’t deserve to have their names on the birth certificate! Loser
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Hell No! Put only your name and get him to pay child support, if he refuses, take him to court.
Not just no, HELL NO.
I wouldn’t personally!
Quite possibly the dumbest question asked.
Yeah,how else you ever gonna chikd support if the need arises.
You cannot put a man on the birth certificate at the time of birth without his consent. So…you can’t.
Wipe your hands clean
Wipe your hands. If he later want to get involved he can be added, but I doubt it will happen.
Seriously good riddance get rid of the ass wipe and give your child the opportunity to have someone worthwhile as that figure in their life that wants to be in that role.
Your a horrible person. 4 week fling and your doing that to the poor guy. Should abort it and wait till you fall pregnant with a man that wants one and wants you.
Fuck no. Give that kid your name and be done with it
Are you f-ing kidding me lady? And I use the term lady in a very general sence!!! O.K. so you have no morality on the subject of marriage for yourself or others but putting that aside, not only should this son of a bitch you laid down with be on the certificate for the sake of the child eventually knowing his father but this fornicating married p.o.s. should be forced to pay for this child until he or she is of age!!! Gee you wonder why kids out here are resentful and eventually left for us tax-payers most of the time. We all make mistakes but lady this creep you decided to mate with is the child’s father whether you like it or not. Maybe next time you’ll think before you sleep with someone you fool!!!
Why are you asking this on Facebook?
Suggest asking him first
Don’t put his name! Move on
It doesn’t say we’re your from .
In Australia you can’t put a name on it unless that person signs
Clam child support for sure
Please dont make a decision based on face book. Get legal advice.
Rights… and obligations!
Things may change before now and then
Isn’t it required by law?
Depends on your state laws.
Why would you if he wanted you to abort?
Stay away from that drama
Wtf is wrong with you people, 1 month and you get pregnant your both trash the fuck, where was the protection on both of your parts and who the fuck willfully have a baby with a person they don’t know shit about, this person is most definitely WHITE, cause this is shit yall do. And then wonder why your life is then filled with drama. And bullshit. Stop asking people these stupid ass questions your clearly don’t have any sense and don’t listen the fuck is wrong with this country and its mentally challenged population 
He wanted you to get an abortion he doesn’t deserve the satisfaction of a child. I’d get child support asap though.
Wipe those hands…and dog him to the ends of the earth for child support
Do what feels right to you
Tell him to f**k off!
I would at least do a free consultation with a family law attorney in your state.
Don’t give he any rights. It’ll do more harm than good.
Put your last name on the birth certificate. Enough with that patriarchy bs.
btw your last name is just as good as the fathers.
Just keep your blessing to your self.
Yes. Take to court. Do dna. Hold accountable
Nope he isn’t worthy
Just abort - much easier, less messier than raising a kid that’ll remind you of him and drain you of your energy for the next 18 years. Live kid-free!
Sounds like you were dumb from the git -go.
Forget him and he doesn’t deserve anything😡
Keep him off the birth certificate, but do a DNA test and nail him for child support anyway:man_shrugging:t3:
He has rights whether he’s on the birth certificate or not, so it doesn’t really matter.
Leave dat weak ass nigga alone