I’m in a safety car seat group and you are not to wash the pads that come with the car seat due to washing out the fire retardant that’s on them!!!
Kinda confused on why you’d report them though instead of just talking?? See if you can buy them new ones bc this is not safe in anyway!!
Why not just provide new ones for your nieces? Unless you think there is additional danger in the home, be a good aunt and get them some new ones instead of causing a huge family conflict.
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Stay in your lane…if you can’t be helpful…geez some people…
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Maybe just go to Walmart and buy two new ones
Unless you think there’s more going on then bad car seats
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Instead of trying to get them in trouble, maybe help them!! That’s your family!
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As an Aunt, I’d step up and buy new ones. I always help my family with the needs of their children. It’s my #1 priority as their Aunt.
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If You really care “gift” them New ones or two from non-profit like goodwill .
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Maybe surprise them with some new ones and say you thought they’d look super cute in them (help not hinder)
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Well instead of reporting the children and getting the parents in trouble, find hand me down car seats for them and be a decent person.
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Maybe you should help buy some. Why do people always jump to reporting someone.
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Talk to your local police and fire department bc where I live they donate carseats to families that need them. The childrens hospital here also has a carseat program maybe check with the hospitals. I live in Arkansas. Hope this helps.
If your an aunt to them than “the parent” is related to you which should mean you would be helping them and not reporting them but since you have stated it the way you did i could only assume you dont like “the parents” so maybe ask your dad and see if anythings tried to be done about it
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How about you help them and get new ones instead of reporting them???
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I agree with everyone else help instead of causing more productive
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Maybe ask them if they need help buying new ones? Car seats are not cheap
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But new ones, then when you gift them explain why you’re doing so. At least they have seats.
Help and assist them… or decide to lose them over potentially harming all of those involved.
It’s your choice.
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As a auntie I’m buying them brand new ones period
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Buy them new ones if you’re sooo concerned. Tf
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Wow what happened to family value? You rather report your niece than help her out
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Maybe help her get better ones instead of reporting her…
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If you are that concerned get them new seats rather than trying to get someone introuble .
There are places that will even do car seat trade ins no questions asked.
My first thought would never be to turn a family member in over carseats. In fact, I have literally given my niece 3 carseats now for my great nephew because my $ situation was better than hers.
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Why not help them? Why report them? Do you want the children taken?
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Sad if your wanting to loss family over a car seat
I agree, why would you do that??? Talk to them! Try helping them out! Unless they are being neglected and abused why would you want to cause the family, your family that kind of distress?
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Wtf if they are family talk to them explain they aren’t safe?They may have no money to replace them so as a family get them new seats why does everyone need to report people HELP THEM INSTEAD
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Maybe help her instead of doing something that will potentially do more harm than good smh fyi says a lot about your character.
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Buy her some new ones so the kids are safe
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U should tell them they can go to the police and get free car seats or buy them new ones, some people struggle and need help
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Wow, is this real? Instead of trying to cause trouble, why not talk to your niece and see if you can help? Unless there is serious neglect or abuse, I wouldn’t report anything. Just see if she needs a bit of help.
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It breaks my heart that the world has come to this, instead of helping a family member, everyone’s oh so willing to cause a mess and report so quickly.
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This auntie is buy those babies new seats, you can buy brand new inexpensives ones at Walmart for starting around $60-80
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Instead of reporting her, get them new car seats maybe they can’t afford to buy new ones. They’re expensive
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Seriously!! How about help your family instead of reporting them! Wow!
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Omg I have a family just like this girl instead of help they love to make things worse I could never do this to my sister or any of my family family means something or at least it used too I mean u would rather report your family than help them yea hope your family reads this an stays far away from u who does that it’s sad fr but I’ve been there first hand family ain’t the same at all hurts my heart why your first thought was to report them to help wow
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Why not buy them a car seat instead of reporting it?
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This is family. Maybe they can’t afford new seats. Help them !!!
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Why not just ask if they need help buying new seats instead of reporting your family ?
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Seriously either get new ones if it bothers you that much or just mind your business. Family doesn’t report family.
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Buy new ones. Target has trade in
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You sound horrible . How about buy them new one’s
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If they were my nieces I’d buy them car seats
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Wow!! Why would you even consider reporting this? Why wouldn’t you help them get New ones ? Maybe they can’t afford New ones? Family should Help Family ! Not try to cause them Problems!
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It is not up to you to buy them new ones, don’t listen to ANYONE who says it is. Those are not your kids. I’d be worried about what the home looks like if this is just the car seats! Idk if I’d call somebody but I’d make sure my sister got her kids some new car seats!
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Maybe buy her car seats Clearly she’s using what she has and doing her best with it.
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Report? Nieces!
go phucking buy them, Not Report them!!!
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I am not sure where you are located but 2-1-1 might be able to direct you or them where to find free car seats.
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Are they struggling to get by? If it was my nieces I would offer to get them a new one or go buy them a new one. I’d like my nieces and nephews to be safe .
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Maybe they are in the wash?
Use your words and talk to them karen
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Or you could help buy her new ones instead of being ignorant. Family is supposed to help eachother. I hope you never need help.
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Reach out to local hospitals, pregnancy centers or fire stations and see who can help with getting new car seats. Why report it? Help them instead
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Ignore literally all of these people saying “ family doesn’t report family”. The best advice i can give you is to call your local dcf office and see if there are any local programs to help with carseats. Also talk to your sibling and see if there’s a reason why the children’s carseats are in the shape they are. If its a case of affordability, see about helping. If they just dont care, call your local dcf office and ask for them to do a wellness check because I’ll tell you right now if family didnt report family, I never would have stopped being abused and assaulted by my birth mothers husband. My uncle reported it, my mothers brother, and he saved my life. So yeah, because what everyone here is choosing to ignore is that those babies are endangered by being in those carseats. So like i said, ask the parents why, and support the kids the best you can. Whether that means buying new carseats because their parents cant afford it or making a report because their parents just cant be bothered to get new ones all depends on the parents.
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why dont you just upgarde them yourself you can get them easily
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Why is everyone in a hurry to blow people in. Try and offer a solution/ find them useable car seats instead?! Those are your nieces.
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U can get donated car seats if they can’t afford them
Maybe help instead of tattle.
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I’d look to see how I can help my family. Take care of your nieces and help out when you can. Be better than this.
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not safe and not legal. i agree you should maybe help them by getting new or used seats to replace those ones, maybe money is tight. try market place.
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Here’s a thought, if you feel so strongly about this, why don’t you go out and buy the babies new car seats?? Instead if wanting to report her. You’re a piece of work.
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I’d be seeing WHY those are the seats she is isung before deciding what to do. If she legit can’t afford new ones that’s a very different situation VS she doesn’t want to VS can’t afford bc she’s throwing money at drugs/drinking/gambling etc.
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Hi I’m gonna be out opinionated I’m sure based on other comments… but if it were me… I’d educate them first. Or try too. Car seat safety IS NOT A CHOICE. it could mean life or death to a child in an accident. It’s not your responsibility to shell out your own money to buy them car seats. It is solely the parents job to insure they have a proper and safe car seat if they have a child riding in a vehicle. Not Finding the money and figuring out a safe alternative is a whole other problem. Car seats do not have to be expensive. They have affordable options out in the world. If they don’t respond well to the education and seem not to care your damn right I would report them in my eye that is negligent.
Seriously there are so many ways you could actually help your family instead of causing more harm. Buy them some, or ask for help on a local group… don’t do that. That’s just mean. Talk to your sibling at the least.
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If they didn’t care, they wouldn’t have carseats at all.
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They can get free car seats from wic
People always just wanna report someone smh u lucky u anit my sister why don’t u be family and try to help her
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Not legal at all
Unfortuntely you need to ask thrm to replace or you will have no choice to report as they ARE VERY UNSAFE !!
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Back in my day we didn’t have cushions in out car seats or labels ppl these days would die if they lived like we did smh
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Why would your first thought be to report them, instead of helping them out?
That’s family. You don’t do things like that to family unless the situation is abuse and this doesn’t sound like abuse to me.
Maybe they are struggling financially and are embarrassed to ask for help.
I’m going to tell you right now that if you were my sister, And you reported me for something like that without finding out the situation or offering to help, and my kids got taken or CPS involved, there would be problems.
I would also cut you off and never speak to you again.
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Maybe look into the matter further. They could be struggling right now. Prices are up on everything. Back in the day they didn’t even have car seats. And kids lived just fine.
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There’s a lot worse things kids are going through than having crappy car seats… why don’t you be a good aunt and instead of reporting the parents maybe go buy them new ones or used instead of calling CPS! Shameful!
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Family really ain’t shit! Go get them babies decent seats or keep it moving!
Ask why they are that way, see what you can do to help find something better or help in any way, if there is refusal then I’d notify the correct department to obtain additional help for the children
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Does anyone ever think that maybe she can’t afford to buy the family TWO new car seats?
I know I couldn’t, why are y’all being so judgmental?
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How about you buy them new car seats? Find a cheap one used? How about going to the fire department and asking for new carseats? If your so concerned FIX the problem. Why try to get your niece into trouble just for being broke or poor? Call around to local fire department. They will help. Maybe even call local second hand stores? Get your nice better car seats without ruining your family and without stressing out your niece.
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Don’t report go but her car seats. It’s your sister
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Why don’t you see if they need help?
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If you are worried, buy new ones. Else, MYOB.
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So interesting how reporting is first go instead of the helping out.
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Why don’t u help get them some call u sheriff office they might help or u could contact your wic they have a program
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Buy a good quality clean in date used one and give to them
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Can they afford to buy new ones? I know it’s a priority but so is a roof over their head. If not can you afford to buy them new ones if not have them get in touch with the local health department and they may give them new ones. Help find resources before trying to report them unless this isn’t the only thing.
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Help them, don’t hurt them
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Instead of “reporting”, how about talking to them??
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How about you try and help buy them some new ones before you go reporting people that’s not right to me that you even say report those are your nieces just have a talk with your dad or there parents .
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I think if you’re that concerned about it, find a way to help them out
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Far out! Some aunty you are
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Why don’t you ask if they need help getting car seats ? Or help them by looking into programs. I know some cities do car seat checks and even give car seats out. Call target and see if you can get a date for the car seat exchange and if they qualify . If you cared about your nieces you wouldn’t try to get them taken away by getting their parents in trouble . You are a pos for even thinking of that .
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Ain’t none of your damm business Karen!!
Why don’t you help buy them one? You calling on your own sister/brother is gonna have them in court and they’d have to pay court costs and obv they can’t afford it! If the car seat is the only safety issue, then try and offer them help. People need kindness. Compassion. I’m sure there are times in your life that you didn’t have the best of things and someone helped you out!
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Wow I want a sister like you…
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Help get them new. Instead of making some call. Smh
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Please mind your own business. Don’t get your family into trouble
It sounds like by having anything they’re trying. Maybe offer them the help it sounds like they need and buy them new, or at least decently used, ones.
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While I don’t agree with “don’t report them- they’re family” Not everyone has a good relationship with their family and honestly, blood can mean so little to others. however, in this case- I would tall to the mom and ask if I could help her financially to get newer car seat. if she’s a good mom regardless of the car seats- don’t report them.
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Wow. Sometimes it’s your own family🙄Try to help them. There are even places that will donate brand new car seats.
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You really need to reevaluate your life if instead of helping your own sister, the first thing on your mind is to report her. Go to therapy, my friend.
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I’d just buy them new seats. No need to make the situation worse as long as they are otherwise cared for.
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Instead of reporting them talk to them about it. Offer to help them buy new ones! Or send me their info and I’ll send them new ones!
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Help them get new car seats , don’t report them. That’s family and that’s what you do !!
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