The guy I am seeing is unexperienced in the bedroom...thoughts?

how do you explain a man having a huge sex drive like he can’t live without it .liking books and movies like fifty shades of gray. but acting like he has no clue what he’s doing in the bedroom. i mean we’re not talking i’m trying to replicate some fifty shades crap over here but this dude actually makes me feel like i’m taking advantage of him. he’s older than me and yet I feel like I am the dominatrix in the bedroom. This guy literally has no game and I just don’t get it does anyone have any advice for either me or even some I can give him??