I’m in Texas. My ex husband has to give me his 30 days summer dates by 4/1. Is he supposed to be including his typical weekends in this? Bc the way he has given it to me is literally the whole summer bc he has added his Fri 6pm to Sun 6pm time to it. It just seems a lot longer than normal with what he is requesting. 6/9-7/5 and then 7/16-8/8. Even if we do take out his weekends, Father’s Day and Fourth of July out of the equation it appears as 39 days right??
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Question why you are trying to be petty over 9 extra days first and foremost. Sounds like he’s trying to be active. I wouldn’t fight it on bit.
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His 30 days should be extra days, his regular weekend time isn’t counted into the extra 30 days normally
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Why wouldn’t you let him have his kids on Father’s day? I bet you want them with you on Mother’s day. Just because you don’t like him doesn’t mean you get to keep his kids from him. Grow up!! You’re being petty!!!
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Unless you have planned vacations during those dates? Let him be an active dad and have time with his kids. Plan a solo trip or a girls weekend while he has the kids and enjoy the time off
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You have issues !!! Please grow up and act like the adult you are supposed to be
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Grow up. Be grateful he wants to see his kids. And since they I’ll be gone it will give you time to do xtra stuff you need to do…cleaning. shopping. And you’ll have plenty of time with them before school starts.
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If it’s his time then yes he’s entitled to those days
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As a Mom whose child wishes nothing more that her dad would ha e been a dad… please don’t put up a fight about 9 extra days. Consider your self lucky you have an active dad for kids
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Dude just let him have fine with kid(s) stop being angry… the kids most like wanna see their dad… and he deserve to see his kids…
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Whether he does or not it will serve you well to play nice when you can. It will go a long way in your favor.
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His weekends are the baseline, it should be 30 days on top of his baseline days
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Unless I’m counting something wrong that is actually exactly 30 days, I did not count Fridays since he gets him Fri at 6pm regardless. Since Fathers Day is on a Sunday he would have said child/children regardless so there’s no reason to take that out of the equation but if you took Fourth of July out then it’s 29 days. If he wants to be present let him! Your kid(s) will appreciate the extra time!
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Shouldn’t matter if it’s 30 days or 60 smh let the man be a father