Would you be ok if your son ended up exactly like him? I mean, your there for him to raise him. Are you ok with your son growing up treating women like your bf treats you?
He isnât worthy enough to be a dad to a son that is yours. Do better for your son and yourself.
so instead of moving somewhere, where you & your son are away from this ass, you rather stay with him & deal with all of this shit & abusive, Sounds about right to me with your choices
Do you want your son growing up and acting like him? Because if you stay with this man thatâs exactly how your son is going to act and your sons gonna start treating you the same way your boyfriend treat you, why because youâre putting up with it and your sons watching you put up with it, and heâs going to think that itâs OK to treat women like that⌠you need to seriously get out now because it will be 100 times harder to get out later⌠
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Pack your stuff and go and donât look back
my advise is if u have a chance to get out than do so for ur son n urself
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Get out NOW before itâs to late. Sounds just like my husband of 13 years with just a few differences I didnât have and small children with special needs. But leave especially if you have someone willing to help you. If itâs out of state the better. Do it while he is gone even if itâs with the clothes on your back and what you can fit in a diaper bag. Go to nearest neighbor if you donât have your own vehicle and call your friend ahead of time and have them meet you at a specific destination and up up and away you go and Donât look back, best thing you can do for you and your child, donât call him change your number and start a better life for yourself and baby.
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You feel like itâs your fault because it is. You let this guy mistreat you and your son. Get out of state with your son with your friends help. Be more of a mother than a woman. Take care of your son and if and when a man comes into your life, take your time getting to know him before you move in together. God bless and be safe!
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Take the offer and get the eff out of there
Iâm not normally a big advocate for the whole âleave himâ brigade but your son is young, you have a whole life ahead of you. Donât let his childhood memories be full of this manâs b.s. you donât want him treating his partners like this in the future. So please, abandon ship now, before you fall pregnant with this man and feel even more trapped.
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You said it: You tried everything to make this relationship work. He is doing nothing to make it work. Only one of you wants a relationship, and one is not enough.
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Best thing I ever did was left everything and jumped on a bus and didnât look back.
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Not many women have the chance youâve got. If you can get out then do so. With a quickness. Or you might not get out at all. Take your son and go asap.
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Leave. A. Donât stay with someone who continuously cheats on you. B. If he doesnât respect you or your parenting choices, it will never work. C.If youâre afraid to leave because he threatened you, that is an entirely new set of reasons you should leave! Your son will be even more unhappy if donât leave now. The guy doesnât even drive, why does a grown man not drive? Move on, do better.
Your son and you deserve better
And you are staying why? No, no, no. Get out now. Why would you put yourself and you child threw this. He is just a friggin man there are at least a few thousand other men out there that will treat you right.this is not a relationship itâs a friggin control trip on his part and he is treating you like a peice of trashy property. Run grl run. The faster the better. Even if you need to find some big boys to help or the police. Just get away fast. And get a restraining order to keep him away from you.
Get you and your son out!!! No questions. This is so toxic that even i feel in danger just reading it. That simple
Run, run, run, and do not look back. You and your child deserve a good life. You do not deserve what is happening to you. You donât owe him anything. Please get out now. I am praying for you and your baby.
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What you allow will continue. Your sons deserves more, do better, know your worth.
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Itâs time for you to leave. If you have a way out, take it now.
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You have not one good thing to say about this man! Why are you with him?
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Get out. Move out of state. Change your number. Block him everywhere. Start over.
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You need a run now while you can before the controlling narcissist teachers your son the same pattern thatâs a site where you can break right now you keep accepting it your childâs going to think thatâs what heâs supposed to do when he grows up and thatâs where heâs going to teach his teacher wife and girlfriends so you want to teach your son A Life Lesson get him away from that situation break that cycle
Take the kid and run! Donât tell him where your going. Donât post it on fb. Just go quietly
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you are in a toxic relationship . get out of this situation asap . it will only get worse , go now . before its too late
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U should left first time he called u names⌠Men will do what u allow them to doâŚwhy do u ladies keep taking this shit off men
Go go go youâll do better for him not being with that guy trust me
Iâm not sure I would trust someone so hurtful with my special needs child. Put all your energy into you and your child and make a way for yourself without him.
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Run as fast as you can and start over. Imagine what you would be feeling if something horrible happened to you or your son if you stayed? What will your son learn by staying in such a bad situation? Itâs never too late to start over and better yourself.
You are the parent to your son. If you stay you are showing your son that is how you treat your girlfriend. To much disrespect all around not a healthy respectful relationship. GET OUT NOW.
dont carry on being stupid everything you have said screams get out
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If you have an opportunity to get out, do it. Alot of women donât get that opportunity. Your son is 3⌠he isnât going to mad that you gave him a better life
Move out of state get a restraining order and leave. You have no ties to him whatâs so ever you have your son do not let him be a dad to him.
You feel like itâs all your fault because thatâs how a narcissist makes you feel.
The best thing you can do, especially since he isnât actually the father of your child, is to take your friend up on their offer and leave the state. Cut all ties and all communication with him. Donât let him or anyone who knows him, know what your new address is. Get a new phone number, block him on all social media platforms.
Make him your past and move on to a happier, healthier future for you and your son!
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And he will probably start crap with our baby when he gets older. Wise up. Get out and donât look back!
I can never understand a woman that puts up with all this shit, and then asks " what should I do"? Get the hell out of there while you can!!!
Really??? Is this a joke? Just the hatred of this man coming from your mouth should tell you gtfo!
just wow.
i canât believe people put up with this shit and then dont do anything for their kids bc âthey love themâ
get real.
get your life together
and move on.
stop asking fb what you should do and make moves that actually help you and not get advice off here
GROW UP
Girl leave if you donât like what heâs doing, YOU SOUND LIKE A VOLUNTEER VICTIM
You know what to do your just scared of the unknown. You have options, take them and have belief in yourself .
You know you can and will do better for yourself and your son.
Get out ! You know you need to .
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In 3 years he wonât remember him at all. Longer you wait the more time it gives him to remember.
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your son lives in an abusive household . time to move and let the cards fall where they may
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Leave with the friend. Do NOT tell the BF where you go, just go.
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RUN why are you staying with him you got a child that should be thought of first .
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You feel itâs your fault because the classic narcissistic abuse. Thatâs what they do best. One day youâll realize youâve had enough and youâll leave (hopefully)
First off,how old are you
Leave with no forwarding address and if he finds you or makes threats call the cops amd get a restraining order. It is the safest for you and your son. You will be so much happier away from him and his terrible family.
Take the opportunity and run 
If he isnât the dadâŚgo to social services or abused persons outreach center and get out. They will help you start over. You got this.
Leave and also grow up ALOT !
GET OUT NOW. ABUSIVE. Leave with your friend. DO NOT tell your âboyfriendâ âroommateâ where you are going. Its not of his fucking business. It is not. YOUR son is not his. YOUR son should come FIRST. Leave that worthless non driving man child in the dust. Go with your friend. Hopefully its a female. And leave his sorry ass in the dust. Even if it is not a female. Leave him in the dust move to this new state and start your new life. Do not waste this opportunity.
Your son will understand. Donât worry. Just tell him you are protecting him. You need to get away from that. You deserve better and so does your son. God bless.
Go to a shelter for women