If you need to ask this question, you shouldnt have kids. Like so many others that ask questions on this page… Your daughter has told you it makes her uncomfortable, you should know the answer to what you need to do without using Facebook!
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Honestly I see no issue with it until the child is uncomfortable. This goes for either gender of parent and child.
Personally my child, female, is 7.5 and climbs into the bath with me.
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She is uncomfortable so talk to him about it and let him know and ask him to stop when he has her. My partner and i wish we could keep the kids out of the bathroom or or room when we are in there
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If it makes her uncomfortable then yes. My husband walks around our house naked but if our god child (5y) is staying with us he won’t because it makes him uncomfortable for a little girl to see his junk.
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I really dont understand how anyone would be comfortable walking around their child naked that’s disgusting. (Get mad or offended idc) I dont think its appropriate at all. How are you ok with him doing so? Regardless whether or not she was comfortable with this its sick your letting your child see a penis! Smh. I really dont understand how some people have kids. Yall can get mad and offended I dont care but that to me is disgusting and poor parenting. If it was a little boy she was talking about fine, but a little girl…smh
I think if she feels uncomfortable, then it’s definitely a problem. I’d ask for the background story. Did she accidentally walk in on him? Or was it something that he did? Either way, after talking to the kiddo, I would address it with him. And if it was something inappropriate that he purposely did, I would call the cops.
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Omg ,are you kidding, I can’t believe you even asked this question, smh
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EW. That’s completely inappropriate and he should have more sense. There is nothing natural about children seeing adult genitals. Get a clue.
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Never. I think never. Mothers and daughters, ok. Fathers and sons, ok. Fathers and daughters, nope. Mothers and sons, nope.
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He should be covering and closing door to urinate.
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Listen to you child you’ll find the answer she just told you
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Hell tf no. My personal opinion says shes far to old and that should have stopped a longggg while ago… It shouldn’t be normal for her to be seeing ANYONES penis or privates at all for that matter.
Depends on the kid. I think 3 is pushing it a little but would be the cut off in my opinion. I think kids should be taught about anatomy and the birds and bees all through out their childhood but that doesn’t mean they need to see it in person.
Naw father should know better ask him if he needs a wake up call like cant see daughter til he keeps his pants on or dressed appropriately and if she not comfortable around that then by all means no u have every right to say nope
I don’t think it’s appropriate bc I wasn’t raised like that. We all saw my moms body but never my dad. Never so much as a wife beater. He can’t unexpose her to his penis and her innocence should be preserved over his comfort. Accidents happen but it sounds like he’s too free. She said she was uncomfortable or that’s what you got from her explaining the encounter ?
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I think it’s funny how you thought it was OK before but now you’re not together it’s not
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If your daughter is telling you she feels uncomfortable you need to tell him to cover up his daughter doesn’t feel comfortable around him when he is nude
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Time for him to put on some undershorts
It’s never a good time
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If she feels uncomfortable then he shouldnt be walking around naked.
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Walking around in boxer is fine but naked is inappropriate.
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If she’s uncomfortable then yes it’s inappropriate.
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It’s never a good time, I don’t think it’s okay for daughter to see her father naked or using the bathroom ever.
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my dad was a single dad, so I had to go to the men’s room with him when I was little and had to use the potty, or I had to go with him if he had to go potty. it’s only sexual if the adults make it
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My husband gets uncomfortable just walking from the bathroom in his boxers to the bed. It’s absolutely inappropriate for him to be doing that. My husband doesn’t ever go around in just boxers ever.
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Omg why you asking this question .
You should now to stop it from happening
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You should tell your daughter to tell her dad she feels uncomfortable around him when he’s naked. There’s no need for him to be walking around that way
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He should feel uncomfortable being naked around her, kinda weird he isn’t 
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Shockingly there’s allot of men and woman who in the privacy of their home are naked often in front of children, personally I think once children are brought into the picture it’s time to cover up. If she’s I comfortable then he should have enough respect for her and stay clothed when she’s with him .
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It needs to stop and stop now.
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I don’t understand why this is even a question. Tell him to put his pecker up if he wants to see his daughter!! Jesus 
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First time is an accident and it should have stopped there. All children run in our their parents its what they do. Dad needs to be responsible
Funny how women can be ok with being naked in front of their sons but it’s unacceptable for dads to do it in front of their daughters. Just an observation. In any event if your daughter is uncomfortable he needs to stop doing it. I mean my oldest son is 8. I get dressed in front of him but I’m mostly covered. If he busted into my room while I was dressing I wouldn’t be embarrassed for afraid to see me naked but I’d emphasize the importance of privacy.
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I think the fact that she’s understanding now means it time to cover up I think it’s fine when there young but once they start realizing then it’s time to cover up
Once they start understanding is when I say it’s a no go. My daughter is 2 and will see her dad naked just as well as my 1 year old son sees me naked. It’s gonna happen. It’s natural. But of your daughter is saying she is u comfortable then express that to her dad. Tell him he needs to start being more private
Because she said it made her uncomfortable, that’s a solid STOP. I’d let him know. She may feel embarrassed telling him herself.
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I never seen my Dad naked , I don’t think any female child should see them without clothes!
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put clothes on him already even yesterday was not soon enough. your own kid knoas it’s not right
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If she is uncomfortable, it’s time for him to cover up.
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Sick!! No dad should be walking around naked in front of any of his children! Especially when the child become more alert so they notice everything differently. This is just some perverted activities going on.
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Why are You even asking for advice!? Your daughter has told you how she feels END OF STORY!
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It’s unusual for a 5 year old to be uncomfortable around nakedness. Adults sexualise naked bodies not kids. It’s normal as they get older to want privacy. The fact that she is uncomfortable means it’s no longer appropriate but I might try and see what made her uncomfortable. Maybe someone told her it’s “dirty” or something
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Yeah he should be covering up and he should have been for a while now it is not appropriate to run around when your father in front of your daughter like that it’s very disrespectful you need to make sure that there’s a stock put to it because it can become a problem with her psychological development later
If she didn’t actually walk in on him on accident then something is WRONG
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Somethings wrong if it wasnt an accident … I admit to bra and underwear my husband changes his shirt … my son walks in on us in the bathroom … we cover our privates … my son hasn’t seen my husbands penis on purpose he hasn’t seen me fully nude … only my chest for breast feeding… red flag if he has zero modesty
she said she’s uncomfortable with that so you should maybe tell her to share this info with him. maybe while your present to support here?
Never! With boxer shorts ok but never with nothing on. Even he should be uncomfortable naked infront of her!!!
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When they noticed that a boy n girl is different. But I would talk to Dad about this.
If she said something she is obviously uncomfortable with the situation, have to addressed it with him? If you have court order visitation I would mention something to lawyer/court if he doesn’t cover up around her
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It’s how she feels about it, she said she was uncomfortable and that’s what matters. You need to have a talk with dad, and let her know how she feels.
Make sure she knows she’s not wrong for feeling this way.
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Well she said it makes her uncomfortable so then boundaries need to be set. Me personally grew up in a household where unless there was company the bathroom door was never shut and my mom and dad both walked around in their underwear. Just depend on how you were raise and what your comfortable with. But if she not then end of story.
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If your Daughter is not comfortable…better tell the Dad…to be more careful… what matters most,is what your daughter if feeling and thinking
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There is really nothing abnormal about nudity in front of your children - lots of parents do it but due to the fact she said it made her a little uncomfortable could be for mutiple reasons and not sexual ones towards her or anything - she may have seen it in a different manner than she normally had seen it - like a bit erected - just something she wasn’t use to. And if she is in school and according where you live in K they now bring officers in class to explain things that are “not right” and to tell an adult about - so as she starts in school if not already in this could be a bit of the issue -her thinking it is a bad thing - both you and her dad need to discuss this together and then approach her together with complete understanding of her sightfulness. Sounds like you both are good parents and will be able to work it out. Good luck.
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Exactly!! What Kali said…
Only in the U.S. are we so hung up on nudity and ashamed of our bodies, and insist on no sex in media but we allow copious amounts of graphic violence in our “entertainment” and in real life.
However, that said, it is our culture, so it’s polite to cover up, lock the door, bathe in private. I would ask dad to cover up, close if not lock the bathroom door when he’s in there, and be sensitive to his daughter’s expressed feelings.
If he continues to flaunt his nakedness, consult with a lawyer to see what you can do to compel him to change his ways.
Also teach your daughter to stand up for herself: close the door, tell dad to put his clothes on, turn away, or leave the room. If he asks her to come back, have her say, “not until you put your clothes on! That’s not nice!” Practice until she has it memorized.
Honestly, I’ve never intended on letting my daughter see me naked. She’s only 6 months old, but I’m 27 and still have memories from when I was a toddler that surprise my parents. You never know what your children will remember. The most my kids will see is me in boxers.
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At five she should not be able to see her dad naked, he needs to learn to close the bathroom door and have some self respect and never be around her without pants on.
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You shouldn’t even be a parent
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Is this really facebook material? I have 3 daughters and none of them have seen me naked. You are a lousy mom and he is a pervert. You both need help. In the future ask your mom ,sister or good friend these questions because asking this kinda shit on Facebook makes you look as ignorant as you are.
He needs to cover up when is daughter is around
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In no way should she even be in the situation to see his penis. My gosh people she’s only 5. No father should ever let it get that far. This is not right at all. Me and my siblings never saw our parents naked and I would not have wanted to, that’s gross! If you can’t put on cloths around your children of any age then I don’t need kids, period!!
He needs to cover up because it makes her uncomfy but she also doesn’t need to follow him to the bathroom either.
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I would say to keep very close tabs on her I would have talk with let him know this not right I’f he continues do something like getting Dss involved but put a stop to it now if you dont then it is your fault if any thing happen
It’s not proper or normal .this is my opinion
She’s uncomfortable. Don’t let it happen. You are your kids safe person. She’s told you something important.
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I dont think that any man should change in front of any little girl . My husband allways will ask my daughters to leave the room if they are in my room and he comes out of shower or needs to changed I think it makes them uncomfortable to see a man’s penis it’s not like getting changed in front of a little brother .I have a 8 year old girl and 12 year old girl they dont need to see daddy naked . It makes me uncomfortable I could only imagine it does to them to .my boys I am ok with them changing together they have same body parts and is not as uncomfortable to them.
If she is uncomfortable.STOP!!!
If she’s uncomfortable - stop it.
He need to respect her and put his penis up
Umm never that is just disgusting ur baby should not be around any naked people
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Shes said shed uncomfy so that should be honored
Wer a very open house i have 3 sons who see me and each other naked daily whether im changing. bathing etc but they r ok with it. If they ever said anything to me id obviously deal with it.
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Inappropriate in every way. A 3 year old girl. You got to be kidding. I think dhr should be called and remove the the girl from this house
I personally don’t think he ever needs to be naked in front of his daughter he needs some self respect
He needs to stop. Its inappropriate. Do not let it continue. She has spoken up about it to you. If you do nothing, you may lose that open trust.
She’s five, is she uncomfortable because one parent is very modest? Maybe the three of you should sit and talk. See why she’s uncomfortable. As you said, her father is just u inhibited so I wouldn’t think he’s trying to make issues. So he’ll probably be open to talk about it in an open way.
Imagine what she may be saying at school to a teacher about seeing daddy naked. Js.
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So I read it properly. If she’s uncomfortable he needs to stop it.
Wrong as it could be
If shes uncomfortable, its inappropriate.
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I don’t think little girls should see their dads naked or even boys seeing their mothers naked. It’s not appropriate. I would definitely put a stop to that.
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For god sakes she’s 5 yrs old that should have been stopped along time ago.
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If she’s old enough now that she’s uncomfortable it should stop.
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If she is uncomfortable then it isn’t appropriate. There is nothing wrong with nudity.
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He needs to cover the fuck up. When shes uncomfortable, the nakedness should stop immediately. That’s gross.
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no it isn’t healthy. he isn’t teaching her to pee. she should never see her dads privates 
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How did you go from her seeing his penis to touching her?
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If you make it out to be an issue it will always be an issue. Why not just normalize it as genitals are normal. Would you have this issue with a child seeing a mothers breat while she’s breastfeeding? Not saying I walk around naked all the time but my kids walk into the bathroom while I’m showering sometimes and they don’t give a damn. It’s a human body hunny
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Tf no stop it by any means necessary it is inappropriate
No wonder Americans have so many body image problems…
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If she’s uncomfortable it shouldn’t be happening. I get not being modest but no excuse if he’s making his child uncomfortable, girl or boy.
I’m not getting how she sees it. Does he pee with the door open or does she barge in like most kids. If hes leaving the door open then he needs to shut it … if she’s just barging in like my kids do she needs to be taught Not to…
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My daughter is a little over 1. Her father didn’t care until she started to realized what was going on. So now he makes sure to shut the door and not be naked around her. I think 5 is a little too old. That is my opinion. She shouldn’t really know what that stuff is until she’s a bit older.
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Have a talk with him!!! If she’s uncomfortable something needs to change!!
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I think theres notjing wrong with it at all EXCEPT that she is uncomfortable. Because she is uncomfortable with it he should be considerate of his daughters feelings and cover up and learn to lock the bathroom door so that she isnt seeing it. We live a comfortable lifestyle and my kids and i are much more comfortable nude. I stopped fighting with them to keep clothes on and i usually just keep a tshirt and underwear on but sometimes im shirtless too. As long as nobody in my house hold is uncomfortable ill continue to wear as much or as little as i please.
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She definitely shouldn’t be watching him pee…at any age, why would you want to see someone pee? Under no circumstances, should she see her dad’s penis (at any age), but how is she seeing it? I mean, is he walking around naked? Is she watching him pee? All of that is inappropriate (in general)…If she walked in on him changing on accident or something, that’s different but no…she shouldn’t see it period!
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Absolutely inappropriate. And honestly, your ex shouldn’t be so comfortable to be naked in front of his daughter.
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When I go to the bathroom with my 5 year old son (typically if we are at a store) he knows to turn and face the opposite direction. That being said I do think its inappropriate if she’s actually watching.
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Teach your daughter to be able to voice her concerns to those who are making her uncomfortable
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If she is getting uncomfortable I would try to tell him to stop because your guys little girl is realizing and letting you know now
I really do not believe this question…
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