She is uncomfortable, tell him, Its not ok
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Never never never ! When my husband was giving our daughter a bath when she was little, he wore a bathing suit … I’m sorry but never should a adult male be naked around his daughters no matter their age, put a stop to this asap! 
esp that she feels uncomfortable.
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ive never allowed my kids to come in the bathroom with me or their dad 
i also teach my kids to get dressed properly and not run around naked - i honestly dont care what other peoples opinions are.
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I’m curious if everyone would feel the same about a little boy seeing Mom naked?? My sons walk in on me taking a shower all the time! It doesn’t seem to phase them and we don’t make a big deal out of it.
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The fact that some of y’all think this is ok is fucking sick yeah they should know the difference between the male and female body but for you guys to think it’s ok for a grown ass man or woman to be parading around kids naked is sick idc 
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Tell him to put his damn clothes on! She’s a child
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Why the hell are you asking us?
Poor parenting at its finest.
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Once they are uncomfortable it should stop, maybe speak to her about when she has seen it/in what context as this post sounds like she’s referring to something that happened 2 years ago. If she’s walked on him having a wee, maybe speak to them both about rules around the bathroom. We have always had the if the doors closed it’s in use, if it’s open it’s safe. However my step daughter is 6 and my daughter is 2.5 and they will follow their dad/step dad to the toilet and sit on the floor and have a chat with him while he’s sat on the toilet, absolutely no boundaries 
same when we go to the swimming baths we use the family changing rooms but he always turns his back while he dries and puts his boxers on 
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Not appropriate at all. He should know better kids are kids they shouldn’t see that kind of stuff especially on there fathers. She tells her mother this what’s stopping her telling anyone else you need to tell him this is inappropriate asap!!
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Nope. Not ever okay.
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Omg what the F! My husband has NEVER been naked or urinated in front of our daughter. Even when she was little. This man is a weirdo. No little girl should see a grown man’s penis. No matter what the relationship is between the two. I work in mental health, this is where horror stories begin.
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It’s definitely inappropriate and if she’s uncomfortable, that absolutely shows it’s inappropriate.
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He needs to put some clothes on
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He has no business doing that-what makes you think he would stop it himself?
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Stop that shit immediately he not showing any respect for your daughter at all
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If your daughter is uncomfortable then that’s all you need to know. It’s not ok anymore. A child should be comfortable around their parents. Have a talk with the father so it doesn’t happen again.
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If Childrens services were ever to be notified about this (if she mentions something at school), they would for sure intervene and force him to stop or else risk losing visitation rights…just saying.
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So what do you ladies do when you need to have a shower and your sons walk in the bathroom or you run to your room quickly and the towel slips? What happens when your tit pops out of your bra while you’re asleep and your kids walk in ? What happens when you’re on the toilet and your kids are busting down the door to be in there with you or when you are out and you have no choice but to take them into the toilets with you to either go or get changed.
Yes she is becoming an age where you need to be more careful but shit happens. Stop sexualizing everything because he is a man. The double standards with women is beyond a joke.
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Why is this a question… Some of y’all were fed fuckin crayons as kids I swear. Tell that MF to out on some MF clothes around his little girl. That is inappropriate and could probably catch y’all a case. Jesus.
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Good lord there are a lot of negative Momma’s on here.
that parent group is a great place to ask this question. All about sex-positive and body-positive parenting.
I’m all for body positivity. I think that all body parts are just body parts. None are inherently “bad” or “shameful.”
That being said, my answer is this - whenever either are uncomfortable. If she or he is uncomfortable with the situation, it’s time to stop. So I would say, if she’s uncomfortable, it’s time to stop.
You are the mother, you will make the best decision for your child. Don’t listen to all these hateful, self-conscious and projecting people.
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She’s to the age now where she knows it’s uncomfortable thing to see people’s private parts. If she’s uncomfortable, he should totally respect that and keep his privates covered around her.
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It’s the beginning of the grooming for some, she voiced an uncomfortable opinion so its fucking wrong!!! Listen to your child, you don’t need others opinions for this shit
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Way innaproiptate …no way
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It’s time to stop when she says she feels uncomfortable with it
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Omg your child shouldnt have to live around the enviorment
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My daughters daddy has NEVER been okay with her seeing him naked. I dont even like her seeing me naked
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If she’s uncomfortable it needs to stop I’d have a polite convo and explain how she feels he probably doesn’t realise how it’s making her feel.
Personally I get no privacy my kids usually are in the bathroom when I shower youngest in the shower with me as he doesn’t like being away from me but they choose to we have never sexualised it so it’s no big deal but I do have a curtain across
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I have two kids… A boy and a girl… I use to shower with my daughter… Never did I undress or shower with my son… Nor did I let my kids bathe together. It’s never too early to start teaching privacy
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Stop it ASAP,she’s being affected.
Wow most of y’all are so judgmental! It blows my mind! First of all, the body shouldn’t be a shameful thing. Secondly, if she’s uncomfortable then he should to do his best to stay covered. He’s probably not aware she’s uncomfortable. Once he knows he’ll probably stop. Whatever you do, don’t make a big deal about it. Just tell him and she’ll forget. But y’all stop acting like the body- Male or female is such a huge deal. It should be taught that being naked in front of certain people is normal and fine but that keeping yourself covered is normal and fine too. We all have a body and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. I can imagine all y’all modest women running with your kids from your naked husbands!
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Why would he want to be? Not cool!
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We are very modest in our household when it comes to that stuff…we have a lot of little ones and we make sure we are not exposing ourselves to our little ones…i mean there are unfortunate moments when my kids bust in on me using the bathroom or changing but they quickly say oops and leave the room…it is not appropriate for him to just openly whip his junk out with her present…she is 5…she should know that when someone is in the restroom to stay out…and if he is freely exposing himself he needs called out and then if he don’t change then maybe it’s more darker then you think
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My daughters have never seen their father naked it is inappropriate and I’m pretty sure he can get in trouble for that
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If you have to ask, it’s inappropriate.
If it bothered her it in not right tell her father
I cannot believe all the posts on here or why this question was ever put on Facebook. When his daughter is there he should hve at least boxers or PJ Bottoms on. She doesn’t need to see his Penis & apparently doesn’t want to .Plenty of time for her to learn about those things when she is older. Same with women & their Sons. That never happened at my house and my family are not a bunch of prudes it jst wasn’t something we did. Yr Dtr is telling you she is uncomfortable at 5 , listen to her & tell him to cover up. That’s my thoughts.
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It is never okay for a father to be naked around his daughter no matter the age of the child. I have two daughters and my husband has never walked around naked in front of them. Same goes for mothers/sons. And your daughter shouldn’t have seen his penis at any age. He needs to shut the bathroom door when he uses the toilet period. Whether your still together or not.
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When they start feeling uncomfortable is when its time to stop.
Even for a mom with their sons…when u walk into a room in ur bra for the millionth time in their life and they finally say “ugh MOM!”
Its time to stop.
They always let u know when the times come.
So yes he needs to stop NOW.
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If she is uncomfortable then he needs to be clothed, I have 3 sons and the only time my husband and i were ever naked around them was when they were infants in a bonding type of bath or shower, I understand everyone is different but I feel it is inappropriate…i was the ONLY girl and grew up without a mom, lived with my dad and brother and I’ve NEVER seen either of them naked or even in boxers they always stayed covered up and so did I
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I believe nakedness is ok until someone is uncomfortable. If your child has voiced this then things need to change.
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Well, yeah. if she says she is uncomfortable then he should make an effort to cover himself around her?
its abt her being comfortable really.
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It’s her dad, pretty sure I accidentally saw my dad pee at 13, I was mortified but no lasting damage 
people read much too much into thing these days.
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My husband has never allowed our daughters to see him naked at any age. Our son yes, but not our girls.
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Um. She flat out said it made her uncomfortable. There is your answer. She is 5 YEARS old. Not 5 months. She WILL remember this and it is HIGHLY inappropriate. He needs to be asked what is more important? Being in your daughters life or being able to walk around naked? As an adult and a parent the choice is fucking obvious. Grow a pair and close the damb door you pee and at least put on some fucking boxers! Borderline abuse. And you can show my comment to him too. I don’t care. It is highly inappropriate. ESPECIALLY if it is making her uncomfortable!
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Maybe he just needs to start being more modest… When she’s around I’m sure was just natural him in bathroom or whatever bit he should get in habit of shutting the door now she’s 5 so yeah naturally more curious
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Father needs his ass kicked . This is wrong in many fucking ways and makes me sick. I’m sorry for her to walk in well he is changing is one thing or for her to walk in well he is peeing by mistake is one thing but normally people turn so u can’t see something like that . However for him to walk around naked or even pee infront of her I’m sorry that is so wrong .
Personally my mind says this is sick and wrong .
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It’s her father. It’s his daughter. If he can’t use the bathroom or be comfortable in own home when she’s around, then neither should mother. Be sure to close and lock the door, be sure to always be 100% covered up. It shouldn’t be at this age and never should be a “sexual” thing between father and daughter. If there is a chance of something “legitimately” inappropriate going on, then of course, investigate further. But if it’s simply a father being comfortable in his own home then someone needs to calm down and lay off. If daughter is uncomfortable with it then mom needs to help her talk to Dad and let HIM know what she feels, not the rest of the family thru gossip or social media. Just my personal opinion, if I thought a guy was great enough to marry or have sex with, which leads to children, I would have enough trust in him to not make things sexual, complicated, and completely repulsive.
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It’s her dad and it’s natural. Who shames bodies?? That to me is sick. She is only uncomfortable because you made her think there is something wrong with the human body.
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What a fickle situation. Kind of a double standard. I am that Mom who sits on the toilet and my kids come barging in the door, regardless, they don’t care if I’m on the toilet. My oldest son is 9 and he walks in backwards but still comes in when I am using the bathroom to ask questions that he feels that can’t wait. Geezus, these kids no know boundaries. lmfao. We are not too modest. We teach healthy, safe private area boundaries…even with my three year old.
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I think now that your daughter is more aware of what’s going on, he should cover up. Before that it was ok. But she is getting older and it’s becoming inappropriate.
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Meanwhile there are whole ass families that are nudists. But y’all be jumpin to mf conclusions, ridiculous. 
either way. The girl said she was uncomfortable, it’s time for him to atleast lock the door while using the restroom and atleast needs to have boxers on while she’s there or whatever so she’s not uncomfortable.
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WHY ARE YOU ALL ASSUMING HE WALKS AROUND NAKED?! maybe some of you ought to read before shaming a father for peeing! He USED TO USED TO USED TO walk around naked!!
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I grew up in a household where nakedness was not something to be ashamed of. My almost 2 year old son comes to the bathroom with me and uses his potty or waits for me to finish so he can flush the toilet. Seems pretty harmless to me…
If it were me in your situation, I would request her father wear at least underwear since she has expressed discomfort and explain to the daughter that if she doesn’t want to see his penis to stay out of the bathroom while he’s in there. Seems like an easy enough solution if he’s willing to comply.
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I believe nakedness is fine, until someone feels uncomfortable and then it needs to change.
Kids always watch us pee, and come in the toilet with us mums, I don’t see why there should be a problem if they see their dad pee too.
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Yeah no that’s not ok. Yes it’s ok for them ton understand they are diffrent but def not ok for a 5 year old little girl to se her daddies stuff. I get accidents but ur say this isnt he needs to be more cautious these days that can turn into a whole can of woop ass
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If she feels that uncomfortable with it you need to speak to him, with her.
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That is a kids way of saying “Help stop this”. If he refuses to stop, get her the hell out of there because it WILL OR HAS escalated.
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She told you she was uncomfortable.
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Too old for a child to see. Keep your pants on!
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No that’s wrong on so many levels
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Also listen to your child for gods sake common sense needed
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I don’t believe he touched her just made this whole post creepy! Use your mom instincts and follow them!
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So im assuming she saw his penis while he was peeing because he doesnt walk around naked anymore. How about she stops going into the bathroom while hes in there?
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If the child is old enough to realize what parts are being hidden then it’s time to cover up. My experience has been around 3 years old.
If it makes her uncomfortable he def needs to start taking steps to be more private when he uses the bathroom. Do not invalidate her feelings, if shes uncomfortable, he needs to stop.
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No daughter should have an image of their father’s penis
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When she’s uncomfortable, it needs to stop. Explain to her that when doors are shut, you knock and wait for a response before entering. Talk to him, probably with her but let her know in advance so she’s not afraid to tell the truth, and explain that she understands there are differences now and she was uncomfortable. Find safeguards together so it doesn’t happen in the future…like knocking before entering or making sure he’s closing the door if he’s not.
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I can’t give you any advice. Lol
My kids are grown men now and I still walk around in my bra and panties when getting dressed. I also sometimes forget to close the bathroom door so they sometimes see me on the toilet. I, personally, don’t see an issue but then again I’m not a normal mom.
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Daddy needs to wear clothes. Listen to your daughter. Don’t send her there if it makes her uncomfortable
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If she knows what it is shes too old to see it. That was our rule for my daughter. By 3 she had to let daddy have his privacy. No goin in to the room or bathroom when hes in thwre.
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What isn’t being disclosed are the circumstances behind the visual. Was he using the bathroom? Changing? Where was he that he was exposed? There could potentially be a lesson for your daughter about privacy, and knocking. This is such a limited amount of info for someone to even begin to understand the need for this post.
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Tell him grow a brain.if your child is uncomfortable then stop.not to mention the morals as a parent to his child.other than that it sounds like grooming behaviour.just my own personal view.
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Guess it should be the same for dad and mom. Just because he’s dad, doesn’t mean he automatically needs to cover up but if she’s uncomfortable, then yes, he should. Same goes for mom. Cover up
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I mean if she is telling you she is uncomfortable then she’s uncomfortable … I guess I don’t understand why you don’t just listen to your child instead of asking a bunch of stangers on fbook?
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If she’s voiced shes uncomfortable then you need to listen to her!!! I had no problem seeing my parents naked at 5 i was just jealous daddy could pee standing up and i couldn’t.
oh get real, I’m still in shock from seeing my dad’s 60 yrs ago
Wow to most of these comments…if the little girl is saying she is uncomfortable talk to her dad and let him know…also teach her boundaries when he is in the bathroom or bedroom she needs to knock first and wait to be told she can come in. All this “she shouldnt be seeing a penis” and blah blah blah ya’ll need to grow up and teach your kids about their bodies and others bodies and how being naked or clothed is normal and their bodies are NOTHING to be ashamed about
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It depends on the family
I think that if she’s uncomfortable she should tell him. Even just her saying daddy that’s gross maybe he’ll try to be more modest.
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Nudity is normal in our house… that being said if she has expressed being uncomfortable then it’s time for change.
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Why was she in the bathroom watching? I doubt he made her go in there and watch. Just tell her to knock first or turn around if it was in a stall in a public bathroom
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Tell him not to do it again . If it happens again let the police or cps know esp if he refuses. My stepson was exposed to crap like that at that age by his mom and bf. He was doing inappropriate things with my at the time 2 yr old daughter now 6.
Btw ppl knowingly exposing yourself to your kids and they tell others guess who will be on your doorstep… the cops and cps. Explain that shit to them and then get ready to make a change or be a POS parent and threaten your kid not to talk
Personally never. You’re not supposed to see a grown man penis urinating as a little girl…ever. Walking in by accident is one thing but dad just whippin it out in front of his daughter is wrong.
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That’s not right! You ex has no boundaries with his child and that will lead to disaster. If your kid is uncomfortable it’s your place to step in and stop that sheit! That is not normal in my household and would never happen.
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If she’s old enough to remember AND to say it makes her uncomfortable HE needs to keep himself covered. Weirdo!
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I mean if she’s voicing to you that it makes her feel uncomfortable I feel like the only intelligent thing to do would be to tell the father that she feels uncomfortable and to stop being naked in front of her. There’s really no other way to say it. If she’s uncomfortable then he should also be uncomfortable.
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It isn’t. Family bathing is practiced all over the world. Coupling sex, shame, and secrecy with nudity only helps to breed environments for pedophiles to operate. There is nothing dirty, gross, or inappropriate about the human body regardless of the sex.
She is only uncomfortable because she doesn’t understand what it is and why it is different from her. Teach her body positivity. It isn’t dirty, it is natural. Get an age appropriate book on the anatomy of boys and girls and show her that it is normal to be different.
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If she’s uncomfortable then he needs to be aware and make sure he always has shorts or pants on 🤷
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This is where you explain to her about privacy and not walking in the bathroom when someone is in there. Also bring it to his attention that this is how your child feels. He may not realize that it made her uncomfortable. He also may not of thought it was a big deal since she walked in on him peeing. My 2yr old recently started learning how to open the bathroom door and the 1st time she opened it my husband was in there and he hollered for me to get her out. Since then he locks the door when he goes. I think all 3 should sit down and have a discussion about it.
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Wow I didn’t know so many people run around naked in their homes around each other. We always close the bathroom door you never barged in on someone to brush your teeth while they were peeing and we always work clothes when ice girls became young teenagers we were told we needed to wear a robe if we had on little baby doll pajamas.
Do u really need to ask on Facebook? LISTEN to ur child
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If she’s uncomfortable he needs to start closing the door or something. She clearly already has a healthy relationship with holiday functions and doesn’t want to see it anymore, so he needs to respect her boundaries.
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If it was an accidental one time situation where she walked in and didn’t knock then she needs to learn boundaries and Dad needs to remember to lock the door. If it’s happened more than once due to his lack of caring or feeling he is doing anything wrong by NOT trying to be modest around the house well…where I come from we call those charges indecency with a minor. Sorry, not sorry.
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I’m still waiting for the day that my nine year old daughter won’t use a knife to unlock the door and talk to me in the shower I think that it’s a little strange for dad to be walking around the house nude (at least wear boxers) but if he’s in the shower, toilet, or bedroom encourage her to knock if she doesn’t want to see him naked. Also, if there was one reason I don’t mind my nine year old talking to me in the shower it’s because there are so many unrealistic body images portrayed in magazines, commercials etc and it’s important for them to know what an ordinary, unedited person looks like (until the age that they get embarrassed)
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I remember when my daughter saw her father’s penis for the first time she was 1 and barged in on him when he was in the shower. She looked at me wide eyed, pointing, “dada?” Then she walked out. She doesn’t barge in on people in the shower anymore. Just on the toilet
That is something a father just does not do. He is wrong. If he can not have respect for his daughter than she should not be allowed to go over to his house
Red flag, there is no reason for him to walk around nude! He needs to were underwear always!
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Why are you posting this on the internet, you should be talking to him about it .
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It’s normal. Just sit with her and tell her about how men and women have different parts. Don’t shame the body, let her know that sometimes family may see each other naked.
And let him know how she feels and he can take more effort to stay covered around her.
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My daughter is 2 and her father will not allow her in the bathroom with him ever, not even when he’s showering. If she gets in the bathroom some how he yells for me to rush her out. It’s not ok for a girl to see her father’s privates.
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