Yes he will get visitation rights. And no court or judge will stop either of you from moving on with your life with someone else.
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Clothes can be purchased
So can a sleep space
But over a broke car… that’s petty and low.
First of all tell the girlfriend to butt out it’s not her place. And tell your ex to grow some balls and take care of his kid.
He does not accept financial responsibility for her. I would not worry.
No one knows your situation better than you. I honestly cannot stand these men who are granted ANY type of privilege to the children that they half ass take care of out of spite towards the woman. I hope you get what you want. I wish it was a way to guarantee it as of the moment, but its not. It sounds like he does not deserve any type of rights. I hate to say it, but play as dirty as he does. I’m in a similar boat, and my kid(s) dad is a monster and only out to hurt me. So I’m returning the favor. Fuck being nice, fuck doing nothing, get his ass back. And beat the bitch up too (if you want 
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Write it all down, including receipts and totals of the money he has given you and get a lawyer and make sure that other women has no say by using the court and get the app that records.
It all depends on the state. I recommend talking to an attorney first thing to find out options. Where I live he could get joint custody and you’d have to split days. TALK TO A LAWYER SOON!
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Hit the court before he has a chance…show good cause and demand supervised visitation. You will get it…no car. Nor house no place for her to sleep. Yeah you’ll get it
Get sole custody you are not married. You have been the main parent. Keep track of visit, what he pays every thing. Get an attorney ASAP before he does. 
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Find a good Family Court Lawyer…
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You need an attorney. There might be legal aid where you are at.
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Go to legal aid for help
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If you were never married then he doesnt have automatic rights and he cant get custody unless you are a really bad parent. If you are doing every thing right dont worry about it. Get your attorney and take him to court first about custody. If you make the first move you will have the upper hand. I guarentee if he has to pay child support through the courts his gf wont like it .
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You know, having children is hard when parents are not together. But it took both of you to creat this sweet bundle. Be the strong women you are and be brave. You have to depend on yourself to do what’s best for you and your child. Don’t drag him in, let him come to you. If he truly wants to be involved, he will. His girl friend must be very threatened that she needs to put her two cents in. Love comes from the heart. If he isn’t the man that truely loves, then move on without. Be the parents your child will grow to appreciate and love forever, as you will as well. Good luck mom!