Get court orderd child support
Sounds like you’re bitter & after reading your whole post, I question how true the rest of this post is.
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Plus make it go through the courts where it goes to them then you
Get a court order for support. His finances are his problem.
Just petition for child support. You can’t make him spend more time with the child. If he is employed then you will get an order for support, depending on your jurisdiction will determine how heavily they do enforcement of the order.
Don’t even buy into his bs. I swear every guy does the same thing… oh I’m sooo poor. Just go through child support office then ignore him as much as possible.
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File for child support.
Take it to court and have it deducted right from his paycheck.
There are avenues to pursue child support. Based on experience, my advice is 1st and foremost…know and believe you can take care of your child(ren) by yourself with only your income. It lifts sooo much off of you. Build your life around the reality you have control over. You will be much happier.
Get the court order!
File for child support
What he does with his money isn’t your business.
If you want child support, go to court.
C’mon now!
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You cannot force someone to do what they do not want to do…do the best u can for your kids without depending on him… it’s just a matter of time till he comes to claim them… I’m in a similar situation and his life doesn’t bother me one bit… I take care of my son like he(father) neger existed and I’m happy!
Go back to court if hes working theyll garnish his wages. If hes in arrearages he pays that to.
Go to court get a order. Kids need more and you’ll burn yourself out mentally trying to do it all.
Get a lawyer n take his ass to court!
The payment should be set up to go through court, this way when he gets 3 months behind he can be arrested.
Take him to court for child support. Stop forcing the child on him. Custody is a separate case, make him fight for the child if he wants to be a father.
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Take him to court. Get that child support set up and try to get back pay for all the time he didn’t pay or help
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The only thing you can do is get an order put in place. Even then they can’t force him to pay. Though if he has a job they’ll take it out of his paycheck. If you are in state assistance at all, chances are you won’t see it anyway. Itll go to the state to pay back what they gave you. If you’re not on state assistance and he doesn’t pay, itll just rack up and result in loss of his license and possibly jail. Any time he gains work, they’ll garnish his wages. Call the division of child support in your area, they’ll take you in the right direction.
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If you receive any govt assistance, the child support enforcement office will help you for free. They set up child support and will enforce payment.
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Take him to court and get a court order 
if he’s going to be a child, treat him like one.
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Get 
it court ordered
Some states let you do it online or just go to one of the offices and theyll help you. Whatever he refuses to pay until his wages are garnished they will tack on 10%
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Go to your local services office- file for assistance, they go after him for child support ,once an order is set- your local attorney generals office can garnish his pay, then it accumulates intrest while he pays it- my ex didnt stop paying until he was 55
Start a child support order so they can deduct it from his pay. The gf is irrelevant in this, so leave that alone and focus on the kids.
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Yep…take him to court. It’s usually based off calculations so you likely don’t even need an attorney. Judges don’t like parents who don’t support their kids
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Go for maintance …he must pay …
When in court ask for the courts to allow like a thing where the courts get his boss to take it off his salary each month…so you know you definitely will get your money for your child
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Duhh file for CS doesn’t matter the $ amount u r givin it’s the point behind the fact he needs to help financially
My nieces mother is only ordered $ 25.00 per week never sees her and never pays But once a year her license is suspended till she squares up…Hold him responsible It’s his responsibility too
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Did he buy it out right or on credit that may never get paid? Or did the gf buy it or on her credit? 
I’ve known females to do that sort of thing. also do you have a court order for said child support? If you have pictures or evidence take it to child support. If he’s working they’ll get him.
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You don’t need to go to court to get child support.
You just call Child Support and start an application for Child Support.
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Just take care of the kids and come to terms you will be taking care of the kids by yourself. Child support is a joke.
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It’s time to take him to court and get an order in place…
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Take him to court and get a court order child support.
Go get on child support!!
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Unfortunately if it’s not court ordered you cant do anything lol I know in Michigan, even if the other pays you money for the child’s things, if it’s not court ordered, the courts could care less. This happened to my friend. He brought up how much money he had given his son’s mother over thr months but because it wasn’t court ordered, it was cknsid a gift. You need to file for child support if you want money for him and even then it’s not gaurenteed he’ll pay.
Get child support order going.
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Take him back to court and have the court garnish wages.
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Report him a deadbeat will always b 1.he has to pay for hs kids no matter what.he don’t pay cz you let him.if you don’t stand up for your child who?Will.it took2 to mk em.he gta pay regardless
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Take him to court- your children deserve it!!!Here in Florida, the court pulls a person’s drivers license if they don’t pay. You can go through child services and they’ll do the court stuff for you!!
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File for child support…
File for child support
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Take his ass to court and get it Ordered… its whats best for your kids 
Stop telling her to go to court. It costs thousands of dollars to go to court. I’ve been fighting my ex for 3 years. I’ve taken him to court twice with no reprieve. If he chooses to not have a job so he doesn’t have to pay then she wasted $ for nothing. If there is a court order of any type for you then follow it. Laws are different from county to county. Laws are only enforced if they can be enforced and someone wants to enforce them.
All of the above 
Take him to court…
File. Seriously…?
Take him to court!!!
Take him to court!!! Smh
Sounds like you are bitter because of the whole ring situation. Maybe instead of focusing on that, focus on bettering yourself, get a job, get a promotion or raise and move on. Don’t rely on child support to support yourself.
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He’s busy dating some girl. Take care of your child on your own, keep it moving and live your life and provide for your child.
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OMG SHE GOT A 3,000 RING and her ring was only $300 & his mommy paid for it. Oh nevermind he’s not seeing his kid either, jealous much
Apply for child support order