So I tried to talk to my baby daddy again and I asked if how he felt about talking again since I’ve been single and he said “we will see what happens” what does that mean?
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you are his backup plan, move on and make a life for yourself and your baby
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It means now that he is aware that’s what you’re thinking and how you feel then ya’ll can work on that. He’ll text, you’ll text, chit chat etc and if you too can act and speak as a new couple would with no issues then, yes.
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Noone can give you that answer but him 
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He’s not that into you, but he is leaving you open as an option.
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It means you’ll see what happens 
From my experience of being told that same thing throughout my dating years, don’t get your hopes up and don’t force it - just go with the flow because it can go either way of either y’all getting back together or keeping distance.
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Only when it convenient for him.
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He’s just not interested. He’s basically wanting to keep you as a back up plan. Don’t let yourself be a back up plan.
You’re an option just move on. If he’s interested you’d not be confused
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Basically he is keeping his options open
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He wouldn’t make you confused if he actually wanted you he would make that effort on his own
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He’s saying “I would like to, however I need to make sure this is the right move.” It’s not a yes or a no. It’s just a hesitant reply because he’s unsure what the future may hold.
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He is your ex for a reason don’t make the same mistake twice
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It mainly means he’s not that interested. Move on, find someone new and better. Y’all broke up for a reason, all because y’all have a kid together doesn’t mean be together. Sometimes getting back with your baby daddy is the worst thing you can do and will cause more problems for y’all in the long run.
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My ex told me the SAME THING and now he’s with a chick he regrets getting with and impregnating 
karma saved my life!
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He means that you both will see if anything develops organically over time.
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forget it he will only want 1 thing and then he will be on his way again.
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That means he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. Do not be afraid to eat alone.
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Everytime I say that it means no without trying to be rude
Just focus on yourself girl 
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He’d like to work it out for the kid, but he doesn’t think you’ve changed and everything will be how it was. Sometimes people just do better separately than they do together
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He is keeping his options open, if he was interested at all he would have jumped at the chance now i are single xx
He is looking door open drawers.
Think back to your childhood . You asked mom could you have a toy or could you go to a friends house and the reply was we will see or let me think about it .
You never got the toy and you never went to the friends house .
So he is trying to let you down easy with a we will see
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It means you’re giving him to much power and control over you for someone not even in a relationship.
He doesn’t value you or look at you as a life partner. Or he’d be chasing you. And you wouldn’t need to ask
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It means you will see what happens.
His fing someone else if that don’t work he’ll see about you after …
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How do we post a question ?
It’s seems like he has someone and he wants to see what happens with that situation. Basically, you’re his plan b. 
Let’s just say if he WAS interested he would probably sound a little more enthusiastic. 
Just leave it there and see what effort he puts in but just keep doing your thing.
He wants to make you think there’s a chance so you will hook up with him.
If he was interested he would have said “ sure let’s get together and talk “ But since he didn’t say that I wouldn’t waste my time It’s not gonna end nice
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That means he doesn’t want to but doesn’t want to hurt your feelings … he wil sleep with you tho
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It means, no. If he wanted to be with you he would be clear.
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I just can’t with some of these questions.
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He is absolutely not interested in you romantically but will have sex if you allow him to .
Girl !!! Do not waste your time and move on
No thanks…politely…is he in a relationship, paying child support, has custody and visitation been established…if not get it done!
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It means he isn’t interested. A man that wants to be with you would never leave you guessing. Cut your losses and move on
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It means go on about your business unless you want to be dogged out.
Just what he says. He doesn’t want to commit to you
It means he still thinks you’re easy and thirsty and you need to stop and get some self esteem for his child can have a better example to look up to than a thirsty single mother. Smfh embarrassing
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It means don’t waste your time
Means he’s not really interested in getting back with you,he’s trying to say it nice
Dude. Lmao he left you with a kid and you are trying to go back? And then still considering it after he came back with that? Come on. Time to move on. Look for someone who will actually care for you.
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Who makes up these stupid questions seriously
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Sounds like he’ll call you if he needs something, but don’t expect anything in return.
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He keeps you as an option
It means he will consider it while he continues to look for different options.
It means he isn’t jumping back in with you. He’ll see each step of the way. Smart man.
It means yall see what happens.
Hes has no interest in you being single.
See what happens is the same as we’ll see and to me that always means NO!
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When it suits him and not before
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Run. Don’t do it. That means he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too.
Move on girl! If he REALLY wanted to be with you he would of had a different response! You deserve better
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I believe that should be asking him that question. He’s the only one that knows for certain. We can only speculate.
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Ships that sail backwards never see the sunrise.
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He has someone else already.
Why would you wanna go back. You are ex’s for a reason. He leaving you hanging is what he is doing. Maybe maybe not!
Sounds to me like he is your back up option now that you are single again. Leave that man alone and quit playing with him
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He means he gonna wait to see if you jump into someone else’s bed before he makes that jump again. He done been down that road. Hope this helps.
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Or if you hurt him in the past- he could be interested and scared of getting hurt again … but if he was the one at fault , move on
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My ex tried to ask me to get back together with him when I was still single after separating from him and him and his gf broke up. I said that I don’t know if there was anything left to save and if he wanted to do individual and couples therapy then we could see if it’s even something we can repair or just learn how to be apart and Co parent. Because I couldn’t promise we would get back together he wouldn’t even try therapy. That was the one and only time he tried, and I don’t regret not going back. My favorite saying is “don’t make permanent decisions off of temporary feelings”, might be better off just moving on and finding happiness somewhere else
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You either bousta be a side chick or he trying to remember how crazy you actually are
“Talking” is something your interested in, DOING is what your child and you should be interested in, parenting first and possible rekindling a distant second
It probably means you are on hold if nothing better comes along or he breaks up with whoever he is with.
Girl don’t be desperate. Mark my word you will regret it. Probably wind up with another kid by him and break up AGAIN. Livin a life of hurt…. When it’s not necessary. Be stronger.
Girl you deserve better. That’s what that means.
If he has another family or has nothing else to run too you are just a option. Trying to act like he is doing good or better. A back up, hoping you would. Don’t believe him. Narcissist , gas light.
Hes saying he knows youre willing to give him a place to warm his peepee up when he feels the need but will also find other places to warm his peepee up because he doesnt care.
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Means what he says. Maybe. There’s not enough detail to give advice correctly. He gotta weigh the scales and see if it’s worth it to him again. If you’re recently single is he your rebound ? I might say no too.
Sounds like he knows your desperate and you’ll “see what happens” in a way that benefits him!
I mean, just because your single doesn’t mean you have to go back to your ex… just in case you didn’t know.
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You’re still his puppy on a string!
Move on he isn’t ready for a commitment with you.
If nothing better comes along he might get back with you.
You can’t make anyone do anything. Having a child means nothing to some people. If he says we will see then he means you will see. You just started talking again. He doesn’t know what will happen IF anything will happen. You need to prepare yourself for the possibility that you two won’t be together and he’s not even thinking of anything else.
How do we know???
ask him!!!
You aren’t together for a reason… just because you are lonely, doesn’t mean you go back to what you know isn’t going to work! A bad relationship just shows your kid that it is acceptable later in life. Stay strong and move on! The answer he gave is showing that he won’t be in it 100%. Bad move to do such a thing…
It means no, he doesn’t want to talk to you but it may be convenient to leave the door open a little for when he’s bored and lonely. Don’t do it!!
Discuss coparenting and child support. Nothing more. Move on with your life.
The only one that can truly answer that question would be the baby daddy. Sounds like you should be having this conversation with him. Anyone can ASSume what he means, no one but him really knows
You’re his back up plan and now you need to make him YOUR back up plan. He is breadcrumbing you, do not fall for it.
Did you go to him first? If you did his response that he made means nothing. It was just something to say.
Makes u sound desperate move on don’t be a back up for anyone
It means he’s not interested and he might use you for sex. Don’t do it girl!!! Let the past be the past and move on!
He really isn’t into you anymore
It means move on and get your own life together without him or he’ll breadcrumb you as a maybe option if he wants sex only from you.
This mean you got to be a joke unless you all going talk about your child 
Just remember it’s ok to be single and co parent. Just don’t let him have control over your life and your decisions basically I don’t think you should wait around to see if he wants to be with you or not don’t waste your life sitting around waiting. I was single and co parent for a few years before I found my husband that I’m with now. And now I co parent and I’m happily married to new man and we have our own baby together and another one on the way and he excepts my 2 other kids from my past relationship.
That means you are just available Coochie he don’t want u baby
A river only runs one way and you don’t go out on the curb and talk to the garbage on the curb after you have thrown it out and tell it how much you miss it do you??? Just saying
He means - file for child support if you haven’t already and leave his ass on the curb where it belongs.
He’ll use you for sex if he has no other options at the moment.
Means don’t waste your damn time and keep moving forward stop settling
It means going back to an ex is like trying to shove a piece of crap back into your butt
There’s a reason he’s your ex. He was only meant to be the father of your child not your partner. If you guys are civil right now then let this man be seriously because if you guys get back together and it ends badly do you know who is the most affected? Your child and that’s not their fault. Just focus on yourself and stop trying to use your child’s father as your backup plan when you’re single. It’s not healthy for him not healthy for you and not healthy for the child caught in the middle. Try and be single for a year and then see if you still feel the same and if not then you dodged more heartache