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Iniate conversation by just asking questions about her. Do something together youāve never done. Play games together, make playlists and talk about your favorite music. Sometimes itās nice to just sit in silence with the one you love doing your own thing just knowing your person is there. If itās an issue for you talk to her about it so you can both make more of an effort to communicate.
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Sounds like you are already married. Have children you will have too much to talk about then.
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Get out and do stuff together !! Me and my other half get super short with each other and tired we run every single day and very very rarely have time together but when we do get to go do stuff together itās like I oh thatās why I like you lol life is hard with kids if you donāt have any now 
things could get worse ā¦ kids change everything in a good way but you have so little time with your significant other and so many stresses and worries itās hard to relax and just enjoy each other company inside your stressful environment get out do something new do thing fun ā¦ best of luck and good for you for trying
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Since when do girlfriends have nothing to talk about??? Most of the time you cannot get them to stop talking! 
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Play 21 questions in a healthy way, get to know each other on deeper levels. Where would you travel if money didnt matter, what would you go back and tell your 13 year old selfā¦ Ect ectā¦
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Depends, do you have the same relationship goals? If not now would be the time to end it.
Experiences! Take her kayaking on the river/ocean. Go camping and make campfire food together. Use Atlas Obscura to find some really unique places near you, go on a literal adventure. Find an abandoned place and scout it for ghosts or for awesome photography. Visit old graveyards and check out the names and dates on the stones, the older the better, try to imagine who they were. Go painting together or make any kind of art together. Find a fossil hot spot and get to sifting! Youāll never stop talking about your adventures! Iāve done all these things with my hubby since we were teenagers and we are now celebrating 14 years.
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Do an arts and crafts activity together or have a picnic at a park
Why is she your GF if you donāt have nothing to talk about.? 
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Try a new restaurant or watch something new. Adding something new can help get the wheels turning.
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Just curl up and enjoy each otherās time. You donāt always have to talk about things. I enjoy just goin on road trips and listening to music. Or watchin movies. Sometimes itās those quiet moments that mean the most
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Take a small excursion, like a hike or fishing trip. Even just a drive. You will find plenty to talk about. Relationships take effort, life isnāt a Disney movie. Donāt give up just because the flame doesnāt burn like it once did.
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Go make some new memories together
Start talking to her sister?? 
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Iād suggest doing some more activities that give you more things to talk about! Go out, take a couples class, see a movie that interests you both, try a new nicer restaurant, try new hobbies together!
It can only get dull if you let it!
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My Best friend once told me She Liked that we could spend time together & not even say Anything.
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Spend less time together so you have experiences to talk about when your back together
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Nothing to talk about? Howās that possible. Break up
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Have a drink and watch TV
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The best conversation I ever had, we never said a word
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Leave a damp towel on the foot of the bed, dirty boxer right by the basket, and a plate by the sink. Yāall will have plenty to talk about when she find those things lmao
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Does she talk about anything?
Play uno! Nothing gets a convo going faster
Me and my hubby donāt have a lot in common but we have a hobby we do together. Sometimes we agree on a show to watch other times I just let him watch what he wants and enjoy being beside him and vice versa
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U can always use random writing promt scenarios to make interesting conversations or try new activities together make memories
Go do stuff like a hike or the river .
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Eat food and watch movies
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Not meant to be
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Google up what to talk to your girlfriend about.
Dony know. Havenāt dated in 21 years!
Well, we used to watch HIMYM together 
Play with her boobs.
Spend some time apart so when you get together you can both talk about your day
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Make things to talk about. Take her somewhere, do something competitive, play cardsā¦something, anything
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What is this mysterious ānothing to talk aboutā of which you speak? Weāre such motor mouths in my family, I canāt even begin to imagine.
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I listen to what the other has to say. Iāve also Google deep questions or silly questions to ask someone. Then we take turns asking the question before answering. I also make a point to listen to the other person.
Do something together. Find a hobby to share together. Watch a movie or tv show together.
Break up with her so you donāt have to ask that question
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I have her make me a sandwich.
Ask questions.
Like what is your favorite everything.
What are your goals for 5 years from now.
I talk, talk, talkā¦
Fuck her brains out then we can talk about how I just did that ā¦ lol
You just keep one another company.
Take turns talking
Talk about childhood memories
Get some darn friends
Go do something you both enjoy
Get a new girlfriend. 
Get another girlfriend.
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My boyfriend doesnāt really talkā¦ Like ever. But a friend of mine and I will find writing prompts and go off of those. We find fun ones like āyouāre the only siren in your family that doesnāt want to lure men to their deaths how do you think life will beā ect.
Sometimes we make it separate and sometimes we make it a 'continue the storyās type thing. Makes for some really fun conversations
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What made her your girlfriend in the first place .Try to find the reasons why you ask her out ,what made her interesting to you then ? Maybe you need to be more interesting too ā¦
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Me and my husband donāt always have something to talk about but we just enjoy each otherās company and eventually we start talking about things
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Stare at her until one of you talks. 
Try doing activities together and maybe the conversation will develop organically.
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Get drunk yāall will have plenty of things to talk about then
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Must be time to get married
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Look for a new girlfriend
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Get a new girlfriend!?
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Grab a deck of Cards Against Humanity and go for it!
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Shelby Hazel Williams
Get a new girlfriend that you have more in common with lol
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do something physical instead. Lol but seriously if you canāt hold a decent conversation then sheās probably not the one and you should just move on.
Sometime silence is a blessing. Thatās where actions take over.
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Sitting quietly with my lover is a supreme joy.
What is the issue. Can you not find something to talk about? Is it because you donāt want to bring up the hard topics? Have you decided youāre getting married or not? Thereās a lot to this question.
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Iāve never had that problem.
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because she wants to talk about real life not video games
Actions speak louder than words ā¦ Hard topics are bs. A persons character is what they do ,not what they say they will.
Okay, well my boyfriend and I have been together 2 years now and we have a child who is 1. Sheās a handful and that keeps us talking, however, when we donāt have her and we are relaxing, we tend to smoke up(if thatās your thing) and we play video games, even if we arenāt playing the same thing. We watch movies together. We usually get on the Xbox Store to rent a movie we both have been wanting to see or that maybe we want to rewatch(theyāre like 3$ to rent if you have that). Find a hobby you both like doing. Walking, hiking, resin, crafting, exercise.
Now, if you havenāt been together very long and youāre already running out of things to say, donāt think about it. I will randomly strike a conversation that has nothing to do with anything just because itās quiet, and so will my other half. Sometimes you donāt need something to talk about. Sometimes you just need to talk. But theyāre WAY TOO MANY things for you to have nothing to talk about. Honestly, it sounds pretty boring if YOU cannot come up with something, ANYTHING to talk about.
Jobs, future, animals, family, kids, heritage, houses, traveling, toys, locations, funny moments before you met, tragedies(if some are comfortable with speaking), games, movies, seasons.
There is so much to talk about, if you MUST talk about something.
Also remember, you should enjoy each otherās company without having to speakā¦ if you donāt quite enjoy the company of another when there isnāt anything to come to mind to speak about, then maybe you should rethink the relationship. If thatās no option, work harder and just talk about nothing. (This should also go for the girlfriend too, not just you)
relax pour a drink and put on a show u binge together cuddle
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I know this is silly but weāre in our 20sā¦ i like to go on Reddit and look through the r/askreddit community & find a cool subject. Then read the replies out loud and laugh with my bf 
Stfu and enjoy the company! 
enjoy the silence and smile.
Try some activities out of the Adventure Challenge for Couples book. My husband and I got it for some new date ideas, but it helps provoke conversation.
Have sex, duh! Ha ha