What does it mean when your fiancé keeps searching his ex-girlfriend on Instagram on Facebook? And then when confronted he lies right your face? He said the search was there from a year ago but she just joined the one platform a month ago.
146 Likes
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. What does it mean if your fiance keeps looking up his ex?
Doesn’t seem like he’s over her
17 Likes
You know what it means mama! Be strong and firm with your next decision!
11 Likes
What an embarrassment.
Move on babe
8 Likes
Still having feelings
1 Like
Its nothing good that’s forshure
7 Likes
May be she closed her account and deleted all her old pics and reopen her insta…. Don’t know , benefit of the doubt 
… is there a search history on insta by day ?
It means you shouldnt be calling him your fiancé.
18 Likes
Clearly he isn’t over her:( either accept it and stay. Or move on and find your person.
2 Likes
What do you mean ‘what does it mean’? Lol.
4 Likes
We ask questions that we already have answers to… you do what’s best for you in this situation
9 Likes
If you don’t trust him enough to not check his phone then it’s time you end that relationship.
7 Likes
Obviously he’s still interested in HER. 
7 Likes
He’s creeping on her because he still cares about what she’s doing …
5 Likes
He still wants to be with her
1 Like
Girl if he is willing to stalk his ex think long and hard about your future.
5 Likes
So none of you have never looked up an ex just being curious?
10 Likes
He is wondering what could have been and questioning and comparing your relationship. Are you guys having problems? If it’s right after a fight or something it may just be out of anger. Good luck 
2 Likes
It means he lying to ya…
I hope you have an amazing ring. Take it and run
2 Likes
That means he ain’t over her
2 Likes
That he isn’t over her.
Red Flag for sure! He possibly still has feelings for her
1 Like
It means you shouldn’t be getting married because of the lack of trust on your part and the fact that he still needs to be a part of hers.
He’s still into her…
That means there is some suspicious things going on… boy byeeeeeee…
Throw the whole man out! 
3 Likes
It means he isn’t done with that part of his life yet, so go slow so you don’t get hurt.
3 Likes
But how do you know when she joined ? Sounds like you’re looking up his ex too:face_with_monocle:
4 Likes
I look up an abusive ex once every 6 months or so, to ensure he is still far away from me. 
But I doubt your bf lives in fear of her… total 
3 Likes
Did he say “she just joined a month ago”? I mean how would he know that if he wasn’t searching for her?
1 Like
Dump his sorry A@#e.
It means he’s still in love with her leave now before you get hurt you deserve so much better x
He’s curious what she’s up to, and he got caught so lied
2 Likes
Red Flag. Do not marry this guy
2 Likes
Why is this even a question. Leave him. Stop thinking you need a man.
2 Likes
I am getting a Divorce for this very issue!
After being married to me for 10 years he had been seeing his ex-girlfriend the whole time!
He even put her in his old apartment in 2017 and paid for it all!!!
6 Likes
It means he isn’t over her or that misses her friendship and wants to see how she’s doing? I like to see what some of my exes are up to, it really doesn’t mean anything
1 Like
Stop getting into relationships with people you dont trust
1 Like
You don’t need confirmation from us dear, you know the answer. But if you do feel like you need to hear it, I say cut out now. Don’t wait to be married and have a family. Take care of yourself first, there is someone out there more worthy of your attention.
2 Likes
So you’re stalking her too?
5 Likes
It means hes looking at her page,and hes telling you some bull$hit inorder to do so…
Dont be a fool unload the dead weight
He’s living in the past, not over his ex or curious 
. Doesn’t matter, really. He’s lying and that lacks integrity.
1 Like
Mourning the loss of his ex still…? Lol he’s not let her go either way so…
It means you single now.
4 Likes
Are you sure it wasn’t from you searching for her on his profile? Bc it shows back up everytime you click on it in the search history
3 Likes
I would take a walk until he gets over her. And if find some better in the meantime; oh well.
It’s hard to let go no matter who you’re with now. Doesn’t mean he wants her back but if they had a long history it’s normal to be curious.
1 Like
Why are you dating someone you don’t trust
1 Like
It means he’s hung up on her! Save yourself some time and fuck off and leave.
From a man’s point of view he is still attracted to her and still wants to keep up with her he shouldn’t be especially If he is with you they are ex’s for a reason
6 Likes
Well for one, he’s lying, as you say she only joined a month ago. It could mean many things. Maybe he’s being nosy, maybe he still likes her, or maybe he’s a control freak keeping an eye on what she does.
If you’re going through his phone to see this, you are also a red flag.
I’ve looked up my ex’s before just to make sure they’re still ugly & wonder wth I was thinking. I’ve been super happily married for 10 years. I, in no way shape or form love either of my long term ex’s, I’m just nosy as sh!t.
1 Like
I’m pretty sure you knew the answer when you wrote this.
5 Likes
I mean…some people are just curious lol but it’s the lying that would get me.
7 Likes
I’ve dealt with the same thing unfortunately, the lies he tells now will eventually become more lies. Just leave. It wouldnt be the fact that he looked her up, but the fact that he lies. I dont do liars.
5 Likes
Major red flag! Don’t marry, won’t get better.
4 Likes
Leave run as fast as you can 
been their get out now !! He will never change they never do!!
2 Likes
Lol a month ago. Meh. Telll this kid bye.
1 Like
Do you really need to ask??
1 Like
He’s definitely not over her… and you should probably let his ass go !
Means DON’T GET MARRIED
5 Likes
You know the answer why bother asking!!
3 Likes
it means he’s just that into you…RUN do not marry him
As I’ve said before , if you have to ask the question you already know the answer 
the fact that he lies about it tells you all you need to know . You deserve so much better !
2 Likes
Curiosity. But I’m not him so I can’t be 100% but I still search my ex I cared about just to see how they’re doing but I’m not doing anything bad. I also search his. I’m way too curious
4 Likes
He is still digging her. You know the answer.
Narcissist- run for your life
That’s no fiancé
3 Likes
If they lie about stupid little things, they lie about everything. Dont let it get to the point where you have to question everything and break your own heart before deciding its time to let go.
4 Likes
Save yourself from hurt… went through the same thing and any inconvenience in his life with you he will keep running back to her. Safety net that he cares about
Means take the ring and stick it where the sun dont shine 
3 Likes
It means he’s a liar and he’s still interested in her 
5 Likes
Curiosity maybe? Maybe he wants to make sure her life still sucks? But the lying about it part is what would bug me.
4 Likes
I think it is his time to go!
People are naturally curious. It’s normal to be nostalgic about the past too. Doesn’t necessarily mean he wants her or something is happening BUT!! him lying about it IS a red flag. He may have lied because he thought even the truth would piss you off because he still looked his ex up regardless and he just didn’t want an issue to arise ya know men are backwards sometimes truly. But you need to have an honest conversation together about the issue and figure that all out.
I would leave, bye red flags . My husbands ex still searchers him, makes videos about him and I on til tok, jealousy). Like over 300. 4 years later. For whatever reason her new husband accepts it. I however would leave and not look back. She still has feelings and so does your man.
2 Likes
Maybe he’s not over her!
1 Like
Curiosity maybe. I have looked up my ex before and I would NEVER want him back. If he is doing it often then I would be concerned. Who am I kidding……I would be worried and feeling hurt even if it may not mean anything 
7 Likes
You ALREADY know your answer. He’s not ready to be tied down (He’s a player)
2 Likes
Thing is …what do you think it means…and are you willing to pretend to believe him and stay with him… your choice!
3 Likes
It means he’s a liar and he still cares about her. If he will lie about stuff when you literally saw proof imagine what else he lies and gets away with. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t respect you and isn’t honest with you.
1 Like
His still not over her
1 Like
Just unfollowed this page. Can’t stand it! If the guy is a jerk, walk away! Don’t ask how to change him, he won’t change! Get some sense!!!
5 Likes
Doesn’t sound like a fiancé to me
1 Like
He needs to hit the road!!!
1 Like
Ask him to block her and other related and say you will too.That’s your soon-to-be, so he should more than willing!!!
The looking isn’t the issue, it’s the lying.
1 Like
Give the ring bak and boot him out
1 Like
Lose him. Not worth the heartache
3 Likes
It means you should make him YOUR EX TOO! MAYBE that’s why he’s hers…
4 Likes
Has no one ever looked up someone for curiosity sake, it doesn’t mean he wants her back… How does he treat you? Do you have a great life together? It’s social media people are often looking up random information on a whim.
3 Likes
Maybe she she had an account before and deleted it. Maybe her previous account was hacked and she created a new one. Maybe he’s telling the truth. But, if you have a trust problem, leave. Y’all will just be miserable. Without trust, there’s nothing.
5 Likes
You’re just a distraction.
6 Likes
It means he’s still into her…run fast
3 Likes
Maybe he wants to make sure she’s miserable. I used to check my ex’s. But I’m toxic. And the ones I didn’t hate-to see if they’re doing good and healthy. I don’t wanna chat or even say hi-just legit wish them well.
But, then there could be interest. Probably shouldn’t worry about his search history and focus on y’all. If he’s cheating or you think he is-get rid of him. If not, get rid of the social media insecurities.
3 Likes
She’s still in hung up on her and want her back bad but she probably won’t get back with him.
Please do not be so naïve to believe that do your own research and search different things on those apps let me know if they disappear lol as you keep searching 
or is on top searches recently 

Unresolved attachment, run
6 Likes
Red flags everywhere. 
I’d run