I believe being pregnant at 40 isn’t that hard. Getting pregnant at 40 is the hard part. I have been trying since I was 38, got pregnant at 39 but it was a blighted ovum. Had to do IVF and only got 3 eggs out and that resulted in only one untested embryo. At 40 only 20% of our eggs are good and the eggs reserve is extremely low.
Do it!! I had my last one a few years ago at 39 and loved every moment of it🙏
I found out i was pregnant the day after I turned 40. Easy pregnancy. Now here going on 7 years later, he is amazing. Wouldn’t trade a thing. Except maybe more energy as I am starting the change.
I’m 36 and having my 2nd. I’m 36 weeks now. As far as complications with my son I’ve had none. Hes been healthy. It’s been hard on me. I’ve been in alot of pain for months. But if you want another go for it I say. I did not want another bug it happened. But I love my boy so much regardless. Good luck.
I just had a baby at 37 and everything seemed to be similar as to when I was 30. They told me from the beginning I would just have extra appointments to watch the baby and I’d be induced at 39weeks because I was “old”.
I ended up having an emergency csection after trying to enduce over 24 hours, recovery was going fine but at 2weeks I overdid it and now my body is taking extra long to heal from the inside out 
but she’s worth it.
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Yh you enjoy it more the 2nd time round my 1st 2 are 21 24 now I have a 5 year old and a 7 month old
My mom was 41 when she had me. My parents had my brother and sister before 18. I was second honeymoon thinking in menopause baby. I grew up with my nephews and neice being closer than my siblings.my parents passed by their early 70s. I was close to my sister but lost her to cancer when I was 40.
Had my beautifull son at 44 never regret it. Hes funny careing and one of the loveliest people i know. Have your baby be happy
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I am 36 and just over coming a major bout of baby fever. Beside my husband and I not being able financially, and him saying he doesn’t want any more kids, the main thing for me (besides the financial) is that I want time with my husband and my kids that I do have. I want to be able to travel solo with my husband when my kids are grown rather than always be working around a school schedule, yes I know the perks of home school but I don’t have that discipline or patience. I have 2 girls that live at home, the youngest being 4, I feel (personally for me) that I’m at that age where I don’t want to be doing all of this from the beginning again, regardless of any baby fever lol but that’s just mean. Do what you feel works for you and your family. Each family is different 
I just had my 2nd baby at 38, planning another one before the end of the year… my firstborn is now 17… go for it, my 2nd born was a much better birth than the first!
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I’m 38 weeks pregnant and almost 39 years old. No issues. My husband is 50. Everything has gone smooth. I think the older you are when you have kids you have more patience!
My mum had me and my little sister in her late 30s/early 40s and we was conceived with one felopion tube, my mum had an eptopic pregnancy between me and my brother, not sure how quick she fell pregnant with us, but i hope this helps? X
I’m nearly 47 with a 4 year old! Pregnancy was hard, mostly constant exhaustion. Do it!
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I can’t speak to this but what I can tell you is that not everyone is going to experience pregnancy the same. I would be prepared for any type of situation because I’m in my 20s I’m healthy but pregnancy is the hardest thing I have ever done I have had 2 premature babies and my drs don’t really know why… the best advice I was given was hope and pay for the best but expect anything
I was 2 months shy of 40 when I had my babygirl. I had a great pregnancy, no issues at all. She’s 1 now and she definitely keeps me on my toes.
For me it was being more tired especially at the end. I needed more bed rest. However, I loved being pregnant and I loved having another child.
I was 40 when I had this little Angel she is my 4th child
It’s bloody hard. I had 6 kids with my ex hubby in my 20’s was so easy had all the energy in the world. 6yrs after my divorce I had 2 more kids and man it’s a struggle
I have a 19 year old daughter and wasn’t trying to have anymore persay but God had other plans for me and now I have a 16 1/2 month old son my little blessing in disguise and I will be 40 in June pregnancy and labor were definitely not as easy as it was in my 20’s! But remember everybody’s body is different! If you’re meant to have a baby nothing can stop it! Prayers and hugs! Here is my little stinker that keeps me young and on my toes! 
I had my youngest at 36and she is my joy your more experienced not as stressed over little things. I loved having her at that age. I’m 50 now and she is 14 and it’s just the best ever
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I’m 39 and due in two weeks, I currently have a 19 yr old,14 yr old and a 5 yr old ! Wouldn’t want it any other way
I had my boy at 40…no complications whatsoever and a happy healthy 4 year old boy I’ve got xxx
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I was 41 when I had my miracle baby. I’m 47 and he’s going to be 6 this year. I have to say I have tons of patience but there are times I’m really tired. The pregnancy was a challenge in my case he was born at 28 weeks. He’s was a great baby. Easy to calm and he’s so so so happy
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I had my youngest child at 43, felt the tiredness but otherwise it was a good experience x
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I conceived at 37 and he was born when I was 38. He is full of energy, still. (He was born in 2010) I can’t keep up with him.
I’m 39 and just had my third. Didn’t enjoy this pregnancy as much and was told to rest a lot more. Ended up in a lot of pain and 6 weeks in still very slow on my feet, feel achy and very tired. Would’ve loved a forth child but I vowed by 40 I’d be done. Birthday is in June. Everyone is different though so if you really want to go for it then do it. Wishing you all the best 
I was in better shape and had more support from my husband at nearly 40 than I did in my 20s when he was busy trying to start his career. I think the nighttime stuff was less fun the 2nd time around, and my tummy skin didn’t bounce back the same way after my 2nd c-section, but I was better person in a better spot… plus, I knew what I was getting into. There was just less stress all around. I would get into an exercise routine, if you don’t have one, just because your 20-something body recovers faster than your 40 year old body. Otherwise, have fun and enjoy!
My grandmother had my Mom at 44. Over 65 yrs ago.
Your nexplanon is what is going to make it difficult because your obgyn should have told you that after getting it out it could possibly take a year or more for your body to get back to normal.
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I was 47 when I had my babygirl
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My mum was 39 when she had me. It took a lot of trying and it wasnt the easiest pregnancy but if its what you want and it makes you happy x
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I got pregnant with twins at 37. Was 38 when I had them. They’re 4 months now. Not any more difficult than any other time, except being twins lol I did have issue with hypertension but doctor said it’s more related to twin pregnancy than to age. Also had c section due to complications but I had c section with my 1st. My doctor says I am in fine shape to have more children as well.
I had my 1 and only at 41. pregnancy was a breeze, I worked 12 hr night shifts until 39 weeks. easy delivery and we now have a beautiful 3 year old. no one judged me, to my face, and I wouldn’t change a thing.
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Do you have grown kids if so wait for grandkids they need people to sit at the hosp Nick unit to rock & hold baby who born on drugs that would help with the need to nurture or find a preschool and volunteer I’m telling you at 40 your body may not be able to handle it and that would be awful not trying to discourage you just keeping it real
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Gift from God,you will be fine
I was 39 coming up 40 when my / our one & only, DD was born, l had a great pregnancy & dream delivery ! My late DH was 41 exactly 1 week after she was born, 3 weeks early!
I am now 67, & proud grandma to 2 gorgeous chanchildren, number 3 arriving in August!
Would not change how my life evolved, would have loved more children, but we made up for it with “adopting” various kids who crossed our path & they are all very dear & loved!
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Had my daughter at 38. I was considered high risk and they scared me the entire time that she had everything wrong under the Sun. It was suggested that I abort her. I refused and am so glad I did. My healthy, beautiful, smart and sassy 4 year old is here to prove that it was the best split decision my husband and I ever made. She is such a joy and can’t imagine life without her in it.
I had 4my son was last child 31-to 38 and I’m 70 loving him and his 4 children everyday all children are a blessing keep you young FEEL BLESSED
I had my last son at 43. No complications. Worked full-time until a week before induction day. 
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My mom had me at 38. And having older parents was hard.
They always seemed tired.
Weren’t up with the latest anything. Mostly tech… and it was hard when it came to school and such when a computer was needed.
I mean, they had their shit together and I had a great life. And I will thank them for it everyday.
But I sometimes wish they would of had me at a younger age.
I had my first son at 35 and made a joke to my dr about my old self not needing to have anymore kids and she was not amused! I’m healthy and so is my son and she said we could have a discussion about the risks if I was over 41 but that lots of women wait now to start families!
Had my first at 38, 2nd at 43
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I am only 35, but my husband is 40 and we are expecting in May. We already have 6 kids but excited to welcome our 7th and last. This pregnancy has been very painful, but I have already put my body through he’ll. Just remember that everyone has different experiences for different reasons. 40 is not too old to have a baby, a lot of people are just starting families around that age these days. My parents had friends in their 50s finally conceive 5 babies all in one shot! Babies were fine, mom and dad were over the moon and never skipped a beat 
Good luck 
I had my last child at 37, I wanted more but my age stopped me. I worry about living long enough to see my kids become adults and maybe see my grandchildren. I’m more tired and have less energy for my three year old but I make it work.
Following. In the same position
i have 2 that are 15 mths apart and i was like 39 and 40 and it was rough but got through it and im 50 now. and they are 9 and 10.i also have a older daughter that had when i was 23 she is 26.
Me, personally, hope. Lol. I’m 42 and in no way am I starting over with a newborn.
However, that’s me. If you want a baby, if you’ve talked to your Doctor and you are ready for possible issue, honey, do you. 
My mom had me at 43, my oldest brother is 20+ years older. I never had sibling relationships because they were all moved out. I’m not going to lie, I used to feel resentful a tad that she had me so late because I didn’t find it fair all my other siblings would have so much more time with my parents.
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So I have a 20 year old, almost 7 year old. My dad died in 2020 and not even a month later at 40 years old I got pregnant with a beautiful baby girl. Delivered her at 41. I love my boys but she is the best thing to ever happen. I actually had a dream about my dad after having her and he asked me if I liked his present that he sent to me. Life is too short! Do what makes you happy and good luck!
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Had my youngest of 4 at 38. Worked full time throughout pregnancy, no complications.
I had my last 2 at 39 and 40. They are 13 months aparts. They are they are the light of our lives. I wouldn’t change a thing. If your healthy I say go for it.
Pregnant at 38 has been business as usual so far!
I had my first at 36 and second at 39. Pregnancy and babies were healthy . I have nothing to compare it too but I have plenty of energy !! Do what makes you happy babies are blessings
41 with an 11 week old. It was hard, lots of appointments, ultrasounds, all with the hope of good news each time. I’d do it again.
You will be fine. My mom had her last. Baby around 40. She was fine, baby was fine. Don’t worry just go for it. The Drs kept telling mom the baby would have anomalies, there would be problems, yada, yada, yada. There could be but there could be problems when you’re 25 also. Go for it, if it happens, enjoy the experience and your child!
I had my daughter at 37 and did great. As long as you love them they be fine.
I gave birth to my last son at 40
Don’t be scared. There are many 40+ year olds that are in healthier shape than young twenty+ year olds! Anything past 45 would be very iffy. But if you can try prior to 45, it will be your best possible chance! There are MANY 40+ success stories of healthy pregnancies. Find a supportive OBGYN ! There’s no reason to think it isn’t possible 
hugs momma!
Personally, not for me. My adult kids & young grandkids run me ragged already 
However, lots of women are having kids at 40.
You just have to make sure that you are ok being 60 with a 20 year old & the possibility of being in your 70s before they get married or have kids.
If you are ok with that, & feel healthy enough, then do it!
I had my first at 15 and my last at 39, 24 years separate them. My son was a total “you’ve got to be kidding me” pregnancy but I wouldn’t change anything. We were in the middle of adopting two babies when we found out we were having a baby. When my son was born we had 3 boys under 3.
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Being pregnant at 40 threw me into early menopause and I also had PPD after my daughter was born. I was mentally messed up for about 5 years after she was born.
I also had to have a c section because the Dr wanted to make sure the birth was in a controlled environment in case of an emergency situation.
My daughter is 13 years old now, and yes it’s been difficult being a mom again in my 50s. I’m not even gonna lie.
But you do you. And good luck!
As long as you are physically and mentally healthy…go for it
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I gave birth 4 days before my 37th bday. She will be 4 in June. Best decision I ever made. Go for it if it’s what you and your hubby want
I got pregnant at 39 my baby is almost 4 months old, I feel like this time around I enjoyed more the pregnancy and even the delivery it was a C section but I was not scared, is a complete diferente experience, I enjoy every day, I have a 7 and 14 yes old girls and this one is a boy.
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I had my last child at 40 Easy pregnancy no complications he’s now 14
I’m 38 and 15 weeks pregnant! I try to get to the gym and be as healthy as possible.
Turned 43 2 weeks after i had my last one! This pregnancy was easier than the one in my 20s maybe because we take care of ourselves better now than we did then!!
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Had my daughter at 40…gestational diabetes was the only thing for me, taking shots 3 times a day but normal birth and she is 10 now and completely healthy…totally worth it
I don’t know any different. I had my first at 37 and second at 40. Both were great pregnancies.
I had my daughter (who is now 21) at 37. The pregnancy was no different than my other 2 except a few more test and office visits.
Good luck and God bless.
Sending prayers for a speedy recovery 
I had an unplanned pregnancy at 37 and gave birth a couple weeks before my 38th birthday. It was hard but he is such a blessing to our family. Pregnancy was overall easy, I just don’t have the energy for him like I had for the first three kiddos. But he really is such an awesome addition to our family.
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I gave birth at 40 to my last child. Honestly it was my easier pregnancy but I was in a better place than my other two when I had him. There’s always a possibility of things going wrong no matter your age. If this is something you want to do just have a really good support system. Also there will be people who they judge you for your age. They really don’t matter in the grand scheme of things. Good luck
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My brother and his wife had a baby at 42 almost 43. It happens and they couldn’t be happier. Honestly I would have another even though I am almost 37 and hubby is 42 now but I almost died with my two so can’t have anymore for safety reasons
I’m not 40 but me and at least 2 other women I know all miscarried after having nexplanon removed. So that’s something to consider. We did eventually have healthy pregnancies afterward but not immediately.
I had my son at 40, 8 days after my sister had her last baby at 39. Our babies are 17 now. No regrets!
I had my last child at 40. Pregnancy was uncomplicated and he’s very healthy. Only thing is he’s 5 now and I don’t have the energy at 45 to keep up with him like I did my others lol but other than that I wouldn’t change it.
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I have had one at 38 and another at 42. Both beautiful healthy boys. Very little complications. Hard to keep up with them now 10 and 6. But would NOT change a thing
Had my first child at 26…my second at 41…needless to say…it was a really big surprise… But a blessed one…
Had my youngest at 43. There was a scare about him being a Down syndrome , had lots of ultrasounds done. He turned out just fine
I had my first at 38 and 2nd at 40
Had my baby at 39 healthy baby girl
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Lots of respect given ,as a gma and mom … you are all nuts !lol
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My mom had my sister at 41
We had a surprise when I was 41… best thing that ever happened! I feel like I am a much better parent now and she brings us all so much joy! Best of luck on whatever you decide!
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Had my first at 38 and second 4 days after 40. Absolutely no issues at all and we are living our best life!
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I had twins at 38. Don’t sweat it!
You can do it mama, they have clinics for moms who are older and looking to get pregnant. This women just made a video of having another baby when she was in her late 40s. I think if you believe you can do it, you can manifest that energy and make you a baby girlfriend! Rooting for you and your hubby! I hope you get your sweet baby:heart:
xoxo mama
Follow your heart 
Good luck and God bless you in whatever you decide
I had my last child at 38, completely healthy and normal pregnancy. Better than my first pregnancy at 34. The advancements and medicine are amazing. What’s the hurt and trying, right? Just relax and have fun. 
my mom had my brother at 39.
I was 40 when she was born. I was financially more stable by far and way more patient! It’s so fun being an older parent!!!
I’m 37 our son will be 2 in July, it is different from raising kids younger 
he’s nothing like my other 4 , oldest being 21, I was so set in my ways , he’s really smart, has the energy of 5 toddlers other than that I don’t see a problem
I am 27 with a 6 year old sister. My mom was 40 when she had her. She was healthy, and i’m pretty sure she is also the smartest of the 7 of us:sweat_smile:
Had my two daughters at 37 and 40. No problems, no generation gap. They are the light of my life and we are not only mother and daughters, but best friends.
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I was 38 when I had my son.
My mom conceived at 40 on accident. It just depends on the person
I had my last baby at 38. Healthy baby boy. There are risks but he is so worth it.
Just do all the recommended health checks, also accept it may take a while for you to get pregnant. Just go for it you’ll be fine.
I had my kids at 35&37 and they’re ok I give it a 6/10 stars… too much energy for them not enough for me