What time are your kiddos bedtime on a school night? Age and grade please!
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9:30 is lights out for all my kids. But my 13 yo gets up at 530, 11 yo gets up like 645 and my 8 yo gets up around 745
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I’ve been lucky with all my girls being good sleepers since they were babies. My two middle schoolers are usually asleep by 8pm- because they have to be up at 5:30am. They have been caught staying up late a few times and I’m a firm believer in natural consequences. My 2nd grader is also a good sleeper and puts herself to sleep around 9pm on the off chance she doesn’t put herself to sleep 9:45 is like the latest she’s allowed to stay up.
Anywhere between 9:30 and 10:30 is bedtime depending on my work schedule. She’s 5.
3rd, 2nd and kindergarten. Lay down at 8. Lights off at 9:30. They get up at 7am.
Grade 1 (6) and Grade 6 (11), around 8:30pm
I have an 8th and 9th grader. I strongly believe it depends on the child. My 9th grader gets up so easily so he goes to bed usually about 10 and he gets up about 6:30. St school by 7:30. My 8th grader on the other hand not so easy. She is put to bed by 8:30. We start waking her up at 5:30 but she’s not a morning person so she actually wakes up at 6.
I have a 7th grader (bedtime is 9) and a 3rd grader(bedtime is 830) .
16 years old, junior, 10pm bedtime.
14 years old, freshman, 10pm bedtime.
10 years old, 5th grade, 8:30pm bedtime.
4 years old, pre-k, 8pm bedtime.
We all get up at 5:50am to get on the bus by 6:45am.
All 3 of my boys (11, 7 and 5) are in their rooms by 9. Younger 2 are generally asleep before 930.
11yo is usually asleep by 10.
12 and 15 year old, both bedtime is at 9pm. My 15 year old needs to be up at 530 am to get ready for school so bedtime is firm.
6-13 and everyone has a 9:00 bed time. The older ones can watch their phones for a bit but 10 at the latest is lights out.
My 5 year old (pre k) goes to bed at 7:45-8 and my 8 year old (2nd grade) goes to bed at 8:30. Both get up at 6:30 or before
Ages 8, almost 5, 3, and 4 month old. The two older ones are in bed around 8-8:30 and get up around 6:30. The younger two are in bed between 9 and 10pm and get up around 7:30am.
My daughter is 3 years old and she’s in preschool so she is fed, bathed, snacked, teeth brushed, and asleep by 8:00p.m. she also has to wake up at 6:00 a.m. to be at school by 7:50a.m.
14 year old between 9pm-1030 (grade 9) depending on activities
11 year old 9pm
10 & 9 year olds 800-900 depending on what’s going on that evening. Wake up time for the oldest is 610am and 7am for the other two
7 year old 2nd grader goes go bed at 8:30pm but is laying down unwinding at 8:00pm
9 and 11 years old, grade 4th and 6th. Both 8:30- 9:00.
9 yr olds at 830
13/16 yr olds 930
My 1 year old is in bed at 8pm, she wakes up at 9am.
My 4 year old is in bed at 9pm. She wakes up at 9am.
And my 13 year old (7th grade) goes to her bedroom at 9:30pm and can watch TV until 10:30pm. She gets up at 8am.
Grade 3 and jk 8 30 .
Grade 9 and 7 . 9 30
13 YO Grade 8 10 pm
15 YO Grade 10 10:30 pm
Both of my kids (5-K & 8-2nd) have a bed time of 8pm on school nights
10 & 11 & their bedtime has been 8:30 since ages 4 & 5…every day of the year 
& our 18 month old is in bed around 8
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Grade 1st, 5th and 7th all 9pm bedtime, but have to wake up 8:30, 8:00 and 6:45am
8b and 10g. 8 or 830. 12 year old 9 or 930. Also depends on what is happening that night. 3 year old I’d like it to be 730.
Am I the only one that doesn’t tell my 16 year old when to go to bed?
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9:00 7 years old. Up at 8am
2nd and 5th graders bed time is at 8:30 if not they are too cranky in the morning or they fall asleep during school!
Kids must go to bed early while very young
Between 9 and 10 pm. My son isn10. This seems to be his sweet spot. When we tried earlier bedtimes, he’d be up at 4am.
12 yr old… no later than 9.
11 year old 8:30 9 year old 8pm and 6 year old 7:30. But we are up through the night as they don’t sleep and then up at 6am
Our 3 in school are 5,6 and 9 and everyone starts getting ready for bed at 8
8 for my my 4 yr old preschooler and 6 year old 1st grader. 830/845for my 10 yr old 5th grader. We get up early for my job but works for my kids.
8pm for my 7 year old and 9pm for my 12 year old.
3 and 4 yr olds prek by 830pm
13 yr old 8th grade usually asleep by 10
15 yr old 10th grade usually by 9
9 and 10, they are in bed by 830pm
My almost two & 6 year old 8. My 10 year old 930ish
My girls are 9 and 10 and they go to bed between 9-9:30
My 18 yr old (still goes to school) puts herself to bed every night by 8:30-9pm. My 17 yr old, I don’t know and my 12 yr old in 6th grade is suppose to be in bed watching tv by 9:30pm every night. His tv auto shuts off at 10:45. He’s asleep all different hours because he has insomnia.
4 year old is in preschool bed time 7pm
8 year old , year 2 bed time 7.30pm
9 year old , year 3 bedtime 8pm
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13 and 9pm alot of the time she’s even asleep before that
we do shut down at 8 (electronics away, teeth brushed, water, etc) 830 bed time for three kids 7, 8, 9
My children wake up around 6am so they get ready for bed at 7pm but don’t go to sleep til 8/8:30pm.
14,12 and 5. All in bed at 8:30 pm. All 3 get up for school at 5:45 am.
My 4 year old goes to bed around 11 pm and wakes up at about 9 am for afternoon half day preschool
When my kids were in elementary school , they went to bed at 830, highschool they put them selves to bed with understanding , that they were getting up to go to school, and if their grades were dropping, there would be
4, 8 & 15. 4yr old is in bed at 9:00 and 9 yr old 9:30 (but he likes to try n stay up all night and make our lives hell in the morning trying to get him up) and 15 yr old is usually in bed sleeping between 9-10
7th grader & 10th grader -11:30pm. They’ve never given me any issues in the mornings so I let them sleep at whatever time they want, as long as it’s no later than 11:30.
My 11th grader is normally out by 10pm latest. He’s always been an early sleeper.
My 1st grader - the latest is 11:30. He only sleeps that late when he takes a nap after school. If he doesn’t, he’s normally asleep by 8:30.
we get up at 5am and kids 12 and 13 and bed around 9
My kids are 3 and 5, they sleep 9 to 9 since they were 6 months old. We co-slept and homeschool though.
Shes 10,i try to have her in bed by 830ish,by 9 i want sleep mode🤞
When he falls asleep, bc it’s usually after mine. And 2 nights a week we dont get home from hockey practice until midnight