If the possessions are that important to you then sue him to regain possession or reimbursement for their replacement. But, if you are jus angry over the fact that he kept them, then just walk away and forget about them and him. Just my opinion.
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Okay. Steal it back sis
You need to check your state laws. I live in fl and if something is in my name and someone has it it’s theft and cops will escort me to get it back. And if vehicles are in only your name then report stolen
Gifts are just that gifts. Cut losses there. Either report the cars stolen or deal with the trauma of dealing with ur ex in courts and lawyer fees to go with it. As long as u have all the paperwork in ur name there should be no reason u should have issues getting it back.
You need to report it stolen both and all of your things especially if you know where they are at
report stolen anyway, technically they are🤷♀️
Stolen! Or contact a local repo company and see if they will gain possession for you!
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Be happy ur rid of him and get custody of ur son and a court order against him problem solved
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Civil suit. You can report them stolen if he isn’t on them
Or sell them to a friend and have them reported stolen
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Your a very brave lady.If you need a legal Para,I know some one.Stay strong.
If the vehicles are in your name girl then get them back! Dont let that dude take off with something of that much value. If its worth it to u (and vehicles would be to me, idc the value) then get them back!!! Dont let him keep your cars and have a free ride courtesy of you! To hell with the gifts. Let him keep them. Small things can be replaced and honestly its worth the loss just to be rid of his ass, especially if he’s abusive.
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Unfortunately…move forward and start new. I did the same leaving a marriage. Left everything except the clothes me and my son had. It wasn’t worth it to fight for things that would constantly be a reminder of the horrible relationship. Sometimes you have to let go of everything and start new to attain a greater life 
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Judge Judy… Small claims court or if you have extra keys sneak it back.
Report them stolen online if possible, then sue his ass. Otherwise the the loss. But you are liable for those vehicles if he decides to rack up tickets or gets into an accident
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Court order it back along with a custody agreement unfortunately there is stuff that will be lost but pick your battles here.
Gifts I would forget about. If you have a key to the car, go get it when he’s not home. If you have access to the house take a friend and get everything all at once.
If his name is not on the car titles, you absolutely have a right to report them stolen. But, if his name is on the title, you probably should just move on. It would probably cost more to get them back than it’s worth.
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Report it stolen you dont have posesion of the vehicles. If its in your name and he has them he stole them.
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“with his departure, he has also taken several of my possessions.”
If you can prove the items belong to you, civil court is an option.
“two of my vehicles”
“These vehicles . . . .are legally mine.”
Simply have a tow truck retrieve them, if you’re the sole owner. I’ve done it. It can be done.
“I’ve spoken with the police, and they say my only option is to sue.”
The police can’t give legal advice.
“I’m not sure I want to go through court dealings”
Then you choose to loose what you want back.
“police say it’s a civil matter”
The items he took, if you can prove it belongs to you, is a civil matter.
The vehicles on the other hand, just get those back via tow if you’re the sole owner.
“won’t even allow me to report it stolen.”
This is illegal. You are allowed to report anything you want to report, even if it’s a false report. If it’s a false report, legal actions may be taken against you but you are most definitely allowed to report it.
Go to the actual police department, instead of talking to officers at your home.
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If they’re in your name ALONE, they are stolen.
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Midnight requisition! If you have keys go get them.
Get another key made take the car in the middle of the night.
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Do you need to see one before your next app.
Your lawyer should handles this issue
Take the loss . Let him and all that baggage go with him and start new it will be worth it .
best of luck
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Been tho this myself ex took sold pretty much everything in house including my kids stuff draws clothing, everything personal,pretty much left me and 4kids nothing aswell as depts, frustrating as it is I just started over had my kids that’s main thing, some shit can never be replaced but at least ur away from him shit will get better slowly just got to remind yaself sum days, all the best to you and ya son
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Tow the cars you have to act as your own repo man
They already gave you your options.
If cars are in your name you can get police to get them back if you have paperwork. They can go with you and ask for the keys and everything. Now the rest of the stuff id just let it go. And file for child support. Start process now so it can go back to the date he left and can get arrears. Don’t let him know either, my sons dad had made sure his boss not pay full in check, but half in cash so it didn’t have to be reported. that lowered the amount of support, didn’t help me either that his landlord was his boss so he lied about that amount for rent too.
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Walk away. Leave it all and start a new life. It will not be worth the continued fight both emotionally and financially.
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I agree with the other ladies. I’d have a tow truck pick them up, or drive them away myself with the spare key. Whether he’s there or not. Have a strong supportive friend go with you, have all the paperwork and assume he will call the police. BUT…
Not sure what state you’re in, if you’re still legally married- then technically it’s shared property and a civil matter. If you are not married and have the paperwork, then you can report them stolen. The fact that the police won’t take a report, is a red flag for me and indicates that maybe you are still together. If you are divorced those items would be outlined in your decree.
I think you have several options. Figure out if it’s worth it.
Car is legally yours…and they will not let you report it stolen?? I am confused.
I would be calling for head of the department. File a police report for the stolen vehicle with a different officer who isnt a dipsht.
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If you have a ppo you should be able to speak with the judge when you go to court about retrieving your items.
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Car is in your name and you can’t report it stolen!??? Find a way to steal it back. I’d be losing my shit so bad he’d never recover. Sorry the police is useless. I’d have more faith in wishing on stars to make things happen. You have three options, go to court, cut your losses or take matters into your own hand. You’ve have done your due diligence in attempting to solve this civilly. Have someone watch your child bring someone to have your back and go get your stuff back. Sorry if it this is too aggressive I’m super pissed for you and I absolutely can’t stand when the people who supposed to uphold the law just don’t.
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If you are married there is nothing you can really do besides fight it in divorce court. If your not and your name alone is on the cars cops can’t refuse to get it back.
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Girl if the cars are in your name, tags, title, and ge is NOT on the insurance the police should help. If not call either the state government you reside in, or sue. Those are YOUR things, you paid for them. Don’t give an inch! Those babies deserve better, and so do you! Be strong, never forget, I got your back!
Get child support while you’re at it. Take him to the cleaners.
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If the vehicles are in your name then he has stolen them.
Ex-boyfriend or Ex-husband? That can be a huge factor depending on where you live. Some states will consider it all marital property if you have been married for a certain amount of time, whether his name is on the property or not. Unfortunately if that is the case, the only way to get your stuff back, legally, is through the courts with a divorce and a court order advising who gets what. If he is just an ex-boyfriend, I would listen to the great suggestions already given…have them towed, repossessed, take the spare key and get it back. NOT getting at least your cars and any important pictures, memories, things of sentimental value, etc. is just letting him have that power over you once again. Anything else can be replaced.
Depends on where you are. In Texas after a certain amount of time of living together you’re common law married. And I believe in those cases you need to get “divorced” have the possessions split.
And honestly fuck the child support, it isn’t worth keeping him in y’all’s life. Have him sign over rights so your child doesn’t suffer.
Do you have the keys?
Your name on everything?
I’d literally wait till he’s at work and have one or both towed to the nearest car repair.
Pay the tow truck, or figure out the insurance, jump in and drive home.
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Sorry, police escort…the car is in your name. As far as anything else…its just stuff… But great idea above. Report it stolen 
Are the cars in your name ?
Drop the insurance on it if its under your name. Then report it
Easy. Pay a reposessor to repossess them. Shit. They may do it for free
Report it stolen or go get another key made at the dealership and steal it back.
Ex husband or ex boyfriend? That makes a bit of difference
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I’m going through almost exactly the same thing. It’s literally been three months my boys and I moved out all of our memories are in his attic all our Christmas stuff, their clothes when they were little pictures but I can’t bear to go back there and go through it with him so we’ve talked about it and we are prepared to let it go it’s just not worth all that comes along with it. I’m hoping he’ll move out at some point and the landlord will call me and then when he’s gone I can get my stuff. Good luck
Girl get your cars you do know if he does something in those cars that causes harm or death to another person as the owner of the car you are liable he’s much more dangerous in your car than he is in the court room
If the title is in his name and its registered in his name my state would consider that his vehicle.
If these cars are in fact yours. That means the title is in your name, registration is in your name, insurance is in your name & you have all paperwork, documentation, etc. I’m confused as to why the police won’t let u report your “2 allegedly automobiles” as stolen vehicles? & or won’t go with you to his residence to retrieve your stolen property back? Cause that’s how it works. No police department in the continental states of America would tell someone who’s property has been stolen, that their only recourse is to sue!! Cause in small claims court you only get the maximum amount allowed in that jurisdiction? Hhmm I’m guessing that there’s a piece missing to this puzzle. Like these cars are in your Babydaddy’s name & u just wanna retaliate by saying the cars are yours
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If the vehicles are only in your name, report them stolen 
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It’s likely still your legal address after three months. The police will likely offer a 15 minute civil standby. Grab anything really important and fly
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If you have keys to the cars/house I would just go there get my stuff when he wasnt there bring family with you in case he shows up I have done that before 
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If the cars are yours and ONLY in your name then go to the dealership and have them give you new keys. Then just go and get your vehicles in the middle of the night. As for the gifts, forget them. You have your son and your life still. Take both of them and run.
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For your safety and mental health, let the things go it’s hard when it’s worth so much especially sentimental but some things are better just remembering about and not holding on to
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What would be the best way to go about cutting my losses… burn the titles? Write them off to him? Take them to the police station so they can have him pick them up?
Honestly material things are just that things that can and will be replaced in time but life is only once to live including your child’s. If he is an abuser cut your loss and stay away from him and let him drool over what he took bc if you choose to pursue this and take it to court he could get nastier and meaner and he could go as far as trying to take your child even if he really doesn’t want the child just to spite you and hurt you more. People like him have no feelings about anything and careless about you or how they hurt people as long as they get what they want in the long run. It’s like a game to them and they always have to win. Leave it alone and go on with your life and be happy and stay safe with your child and family whom seem to care and be there for you. Good luck in whatever choice you make I just pray that it’s the right one.
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Yes that car is technically stolen. Report it. If his name is not on that title it is considered stolen.
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If you don’t want to go through the court dealings, cut your losses and move on
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Go over and get your stuff with the police with you. Tell them you don’t feel safe going by yourself. Also have some family there with you for support. He can’t do nothing. Specially if the Vehicles are in your name.
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Go to.small claims court and if you have any
pictures of what your things looked like befor.you left bring them.with you and tell the court he should take.pics.ox what they look like now.
If vehicles r in u name alone and u r not married sheriff should escort u to recover the vehicles. U have keys right?
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Sorry but the cops already told you your only option is to go to court sadly even if you aren’t married if you lived together in some states for more than 2 years or received mail in the same address you are considered common law marriage you might also need to file for divorce in some place it’s ridiculous I know but that’s how it is now if you don’t believe search up common law marriages even if its only under your name it’s like you are married and everything of his is yours
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Don’t be slathering your Divorice all over Facebook as there is always another story so keep it where it belongs
I would at least talk to an attorney just to see if there is a different route that can be taken. But also I’d report it stolen
As horrible as it is or sounds I’d say forget him forget the property. So to rid him out of your life start fresh. Material things can cum and go. Live for your kids kid
Go find your car and take em back
After my divorce I had to take a police officer over to get my things. My son came with me and the police officer just sat outside in his car. That way an officer was there close by if I needed him.
Take him to court! Why would you allow him to have that much control over you? That’s what he wants. Get what belongs to you and show him he no longer controls you. It is insane to me that they would say you can’t report it stolen?!?! It’s your vehicle that he’s refusing to give back to you which would make it stolen. Get a lawyer and fight for your stuff. He doesn’t deserve to win that easily
If the vehicles are in your name and he won’t give them back then yes they ARE considered stolen and I’d call the cops and report them stolen. Don’t let him keep anything of yours!
Get a RN. A man shouldn’t have no problem returning the property of a lady to it’s rightful owner
Move with no forwarding address and start a new life.
I recently had a vehicle taken from me that I paid for but his name was on the title too, the easiest thing to do dear rather than deal with him is start over it will be tough but you eventually pull through, it’s not worth it for vehicles, they can be replaced you can’t!
Let him have it all it ain’t worth it God has bigger and better plans carmas a mf
Need more info on the cars. Are they solely in your name (title, registration, and insurance)? If so then you have a legal right to them but if his name is on them, even if you paid for them, there’s nothing you can do besides what the cops said. In Florida I went through something similar and even though I could prove I paid for the car because his name was on it, it was legally his. I hate to say this but maybe just cut your losses and move on. Be happy that he’s not fighting for custody because no child should have to grow up in an abusive home.
Take someone with you and take it back. I kinda went through the same thing. I left most of my stuff behind because it wasn’t worth it but the vehicles are a different story
From personal experience, take your loss, lawyers are expensive. NAIL him for child support and medical expenses, coverage and insurance. Also make sure he has dental and eye. Karma will get him! And it’s his loss. And look what you gained, freedom!
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If the police won’t help you, i will.
Ps Good luck momma!
I wish everyone would show their true color before having kids. I hate seeing kids caught up in the battles and chaos
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