What should i do about childs father ?
So my kids father and i have 3 children together and he has another child by his ex , recently just found out that he is not only sending his son money but also her daughter ( he told me )
But my issue is said mother does not need it as she explained to me as her daughter gets benefits every month. But still accepts
he has no problem giving it but has a problem giving to our children who are under the age of 6, said mother is aware of the situtation as we had spoke about how he claims he has to give to her because shell put him on child support while if our daughter wants somethings its always im broke dad just had to pay said mom i dont feel that our children should be swept under the rug , and i feel the responsible thing to do is send the money back not be greed and take from our children who could benefit from it
Not sure how to go about situtation because clearly the conversation had with ex did not register