What should you pay a babysitter?

What do you guys think is a good idea to pay a babysitter? I have three kids; one is school age. Taking to and from school would be on me, but the other two will be home. Min wage is $14.49 in my state. Would you pay x amount for the kids and x amount for hours? Not sure how to pay. Also, is there a way I can ask the courts to have the kid’s non-custodial parent help pay? I know they can pay half for the daycare, which is what’s happening, but I’d like to have them at home more than anything.

Check rates in your area. Your local DSS should have a day care division with a list of area providers. I recommend looking into subsidizing as well. The county will pay X amount directly to the provider during working hours, while the parent is responsible for the remainder of it. Meaning, if you work 7-3, but don’t pick the kids up until 5 because you stopped for groceries, they’ll only pay for the 8 hours you were actually working (plus driving time when appropriate.) Also, if the other parent is responsible for 1/2 of day care expenses, that will include private care while you are working.