If you knew your spouse was in a motel with someone else, would you try your best to get inside the room or wait until they both walk out of the room? How would you handle the scenario and what would you say? Also to include, the other individual knows about the family as well of the spouse.
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I’d pack my bags and be gone before they came home.
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Im pretending I lost my key , asking at the desk, going and opening the door and whooping everyone
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Just make sure you empty out all the accounts before they come out.
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Empty all the accounts, pack your bags or change the locks and file for divorce
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Get evidence for you can file for divorce to show he was the one who was unfaithful. Judges like evidence. Do not say anything just get your evidence then leave. Then go stay with a trusted friend or family member. Then find a divorce lawyer then file for divorce.
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If you want honesty if it was on the first floor I’m going in through the window and smiling in my mugshot
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I’d dump his stuff on the lawn and change the locks.
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Pack his crap, take it to said motel and drop it off him. Hope it’s an extended stay.
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Act like I don’t know, plan an exit strategy and execute the strategy calmly carefully and quietly.
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Pack his shit up throw it outside go get the locks changed, if you have any accounts drain them.
What’s the point of trying to get in? At that point video them.on the way put so they can’t claim you are lying and dump them.
Get pics of them.walking out then change your locks and put his stuff on the front yard.
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What? 
why is this even a question?
You gather all their belongings, toss them out the front door, turn the sprinklers on, change the locks, change your phone number, and call the divorce lawyer.
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I trust him, so I would just knock on the door. Easy
I would b knocking on the door when they open it dump all his stuff out at them at tell him there you go have fun and let him know you ate filing for a divorce the next day
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Funny as this just happened to me but they were in another city and i didn’t know about it till later on in the month
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I would not bother confronted either of them
I would pack his ish or mines and move tf on
I would be waiting outside with a camera and a witness for evidence for court. Would say nothing. Just snap, snap, snap, flash, flash, flash. See you in court. And tell the trash bag she can keep him.
I would go to the front desk and tell them forgot the keys in the room and what room number and bam you have a key
Call a meeting ASAP with EVERYONE right outside. 
I’d like to think I would just be calm and collected…. But we all know I’m getting in that room.
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I’m flattening them tires. Pulling out all the monies. Then putting all his stuff outside.
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Happened to a friend. She had me wait in the parking lot and take their picture as they were kissing. What she did with that, well, they’re divorced now.
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I’ll die on this hill
HE IS THE PROBLEM
HE BROKE VOWS
NOT HER.
You have no clue what he said to her, but it doesn’t matter HES the problem
So make sure if you are confronting you keep your cool as far as your hands and aggression cuz , I’d want to slap her just because which is why I couldn’t go that route.
Nothing. They can have each other im getting some pictures changing the locks and moving on with out him
If you know what name the room is under, you go to the front desk and tell them you are that person and you left and forgot the hotel room key and need another one and then you tell them to call the MF ambulance as you enter the room with your key!
Ask me how I know 
Get proof of the affair and leave, as fun as it sounds to slash tires and go insane that won’t change anything it just makes you look bad in court.
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I can’t say on here what I’d do but I’m pretty sure it’d land me in booking 
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Girl pack your shit. You know its time.
Personally I would walk in and say you can have him and there’s no return and you stuff will be on the front lawn
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Pack his bags, put a note on top of the bag take them to his room put them near the door knock on it and leave
Knock on door with his clothes tell her keep him
You do nothing and get an attorney
20 year old me would of broken out windows with a bat one by one until they came out then who knows who i would of swung on first. The 50 year old version of me would have executed a revenge in silence. clean out accounts first. packed his stuff and said adios mf! NEXT!
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As a man I would just block all contact and move there stuff out … no need to get petty or violent … just move on and forget that person that’s the only course of action
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I’d drop his bag of clothes off at the hotel door with a note “further communication will be through the lawyer, bye scumbag”
First I’d get solid evidence. I’d put something in front of the door so they can’t get out. Pull the valve stems out the tires of whatever they drive there. Put stones under the wind shield wipers. Tampon in the gas tank. Then go home change the locks and pack everything up for him when he gets out and finds his way there. Wave like the queen I am as the police drags him away bc u know he’s gonna lose his shit.
Wait outside, take picture and decide how I was going to move forward.
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Nothing! He made his decision so now I’ll make mine! U can’t change him! And he apparently doesn’t want u!
Gather his stuff. Take to hotel put outside door and knock on it. When he answers tell him to fuck off and have a nice life
I’d change the locks and throw his stuff outside the house. I’d send him a text and say “your stuff is outside ready for you to take with you to your motel”
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I would’ve beat on the door like the police until they answered, I’ll be damned if they get to “enjoy” the time in there! Or go tell them I left my key and HOPE he used OUR last name, try to get in that way🤷♀️
Find out the room number call the police and say I heard a scream and the sound of a struggle. I would wait in the back ground and wave when they opened the door. Then I would high tail it to the bank empty all the accounts and buy myself a nice steak dinner and start my new life.
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Go to tge front desk and “offer to pay for room for someone” then randomly pick their room. Make sure to leave a note with your name on it. “Your welcome for the stay” . Then go home and see how long it takes them to come home
I think I would knock that door down!
Pack some of his shit up and leave it outside the motel door. Take care of the home front after . Report his atm card lost and cancel credit cards
I had that happen I went to her house and told her husband do you know where your wife is cause I do